soccerlite:


What's the essence of attending a faith based private university, if such evil incident could happen

you cannot change whoever doesn't want to be changed even if you're born inside the church and in any case many of these privileged kids are narcissistic because they have parents that enable their toxic behaviour

IamtheTruth1:


I have never been a fan of jungle justice.. Even the students in a private uni already have the mindset of touts...

Even if you catch someone stealing.. take him to the right authority. I have seen situations like these when they want to conduct a search and you find the missing item in the space of another innocent ..person...

it's lie
He did not steal.they just used stealing as an excuse to cover up the REAL REASON THEY BEAT HIM TO DEATH. I dont believe that stealing narrative. It doesn't even add up

MrBrownJay1:
the greedy pursuit of money is the downfall of many.... being broke is not so bad that you would put your life on the line like that. BE WISE!

lol na saidaboj mouth them dey follow.

Oyinbos say slow and steady wins the race.

Go to school,no,learn hand Skill,no.except to be doing Waka Waka about with their tiny little legs and big eye lashes looking for the next sugar daddy that Will give them free money

The world has become cruel and pervasively evil for that level of naievity and stupidity.how do you think a man you met online will just give you free money just like that even if he can afford it.how long will it take this myopic girls to Know the money they're flashing on them is just a bait.any man that promises to give you 50 million for sleeping with him is obviously a kidnapper or Human trafficker or someone involved in large scale criminal ant deadly activity.no man no matter how rich he is will just be throwing money about to little girls for sex that's everywhere.

Now this one's have learnt in a hard way and paid with their lives.shebi very dark Man was saying it The other day .they made him look like he was the enemy or the bad guy.this is not even about greed.it has nothing to do with greed but when you always think you're wiser than everyone,na the result be that and I Know girls will not learn.anyway I've stopped pitying them for a long time

Finally very dark Man has been justified.shebi the people telling you the truth are your enemies

KnowledgePower7:
Heheehehe

Portable reminds me of my life story
My dad preach that going to University was the greatest thing ever.

Thank God I dropped out and hustled instead
11 years later I thank God for that decision
Back then my dad will say I'm useless
Because I refuse to get degree
Now that I have made money, he is the one boasting with my name at home.

In this hard time I'm the one feeding my family and siblings that have masters and PhD

This life is truly funny...

this your lamba is over used.try another One

Laple0541:
In as much this Muric could be political or pointless sometimes, the point he is raising here is valid to a large extent.

Labour unions ought to have gone on strikes under this government times without numbers, but they never did. Subsidy was removed, price of goods skyrocketed, taxes on the high, yet no strike or whatsoever.

Now, less than 2 weeks to Eid celebration, with already high prices of goods and services, this strike will further increase the hardship on the Muslims, and it’s totally ill-timed.

religion and religious activities is a PERSONAL ISSUE not a NATIONAL ISSUE.common sense, patriotism and corporate responsibility ought to supercede his parochial religious sentiments and it's not as if he will give the poor Muslims amongst them money o.his statements are inciteful and can trigger violence especially Among the poor illiterate Muslims who don't reason logically and are quick to violence at the slightest issue.

Nigeria has a lot to deal with at the moment.nevertheless I respect him as a professor but when he opens his mouth he just annoys me.i don't know whether he's doing it deliberately or he's just narcissistic because this selfish and domineering behavior with a touch of covert and overt aggression is looking like narcissistic traits to me

Jayhome24:
I can bet it she will be a christain woman na my own religion sabi God pass God Himself.

Go and check statistic on issue like this you will realise majority of women who have done this evil act are 95% from christaiin home even if they see their man with his sister they will still mistake her for his side chicken and attack without reasoning...

See how her stupidity make her a widow and still goes to jail, now who lost? She lost everything.

both parties lost.who don die don die,who go prison still has hope of coming out through annual government pardon.it is the kids that are ultimately the victims especially if they are still kids

nyanasonnet:
Is better for she to leave the marriage than committed murder na

I'm not supporting her dastardly act but na una go say adultery is not enough reason for a woman to leave her marriage but you see all this women that you keep cheating on and they keep keeping quiet, don't think they have Forgiven and forgotten as men erroneously assume.they are patient snakes waiting to strike.

A Normal woman will cry, insult, throw tantrums etc but the moment you're cheating on her and she keeps quiet just know that day she has stopped loving you and you are sleeping with an enemy

I always find it amusing how men always think they are wise meanwhile any woman no matter how little knows a thousand and one ways to kill a man without applying physical violence

Mcmichaelin1:
wetin bet9ja do me na him dey go for front
I avoid betting pls
But I will still play today sha
Make una no vex

lol no vex say wetin happen? No be una dey make baba ijebu and his family become millionaires

If baba ijebu and his children no go work for the next 5 years,money will be steadily entering his account on a daily basis.that man has a PhD in breadcrumbing and mind games by allowing a few people cash out to attract more gullible customers

He just allows few people win as a bait to lure others to work and bring their money to them

Racoon:
So true! This is universally accepted truth about this musical group. They rocked the world with their R and B hits.

that was the last sane generation when entertainers were truly entertainers and not nudist or soft porn artists.those guys and musicians in my generation were not as crude, vulgar and overly sexualized as we have today

Go and watch 80s and 90s music videos and compare it with new age music you will see how debased women have become

Of course the older generation sang about sex but they were not as classless and raunchy as the new generation musicians.

If no be say NBC dey do the little they can do, Nigerian. New generation entertainers Will be having sex in front of the cameras saying they are shooting music videos and gen z girls no kuku get self respect before they'll jump on the offer The way they don't see any problem with musicians sexualizing them by dancing naked on tv.

In any case d'banj kuku did it.in one of his Live performance,he called out a female fan where he was performing only with towel on his waist and the girl came to stage and made her lie on the floor while he was on top of her grinding her on the floor with her 2 legs wide apart.at that moment I knew before this generation of men can find a decent woman (not like they deserve any though because of the way they sexualize girls) a camel will have to pass through the eye of a needle and back before they see a decent woman for marriage

Thundafireseun:

Thats why she laboured in vain…

And still labouring in vain

Aisha I love your courage but you're beginning to do too much.its ok if you don't like the leaders (understandably so) but it's not ok not to love your country.patriotism is love for your country 1st before anything.standing up for the national anthem is not giving respect to any leader,it signifies honour for your country.ok let's look at it this way.lets say you have a child that always annoys or upsets you,do you kill the child because he does things that make you feel disappointed? No you love the child unconditionally because he's your own and that's how I want us to see Nigeria

We might see things that are disappointing but Nigeria is our own we have to fix it and love it regardless

hakeemhakeem:
Simple don't follow any claimed men of God like zombies go to church served God and go home.

exactly

ChangedMan1999:



Descent women won't say things that will give Nedu views and traffic.


We are in a negative world.

so why are they now complaining that saidaboj is saying shitty things? If you invite a dog why are you surprised it's barking

Smh

Make nedu sef dey invite decent women

I don't know when my generation will have sense.e reach my age bracket turn,them turn marriage to battlefield,gender wars and an institution for prostitution,orgy, debauchery emotional abuse and violence.if you know that you guys cannot live peacefully then divorce quietly.why all thy messiness and disgracing yourselves in public.

It's always the loquacious that are getting married.theyll by acting film ay be deceiving themselves before marriage and on the wedding day.after wedding is when they'll realize that they're not compatible and cannot live under the same roof

Ladies if you see anybody pressuring, guilt tripping you or using style to insult you by pressuring you into marriage when you are not yet sure of the man's character or he's exhibiting some narcissistic traits abeg press hand for that person eye give am insult because na only you go live for that marriage with him.na you go be the major beneficiary or victim of that man's decision.remember say na character you dey marry o not fine face or big pen*s because if e red for that marriage prick no go hungry you again.infact sex go be like rape to you so think twice o.look left,look right,look him family whether sociopaths no dey among.look him parents well, that will give you an idea about him before them turn you to aja digboligi or single mom

Some men are prowling around looking for as many single women to destroy.be wise

I love naija shimadun but how many traders he wan catch.besides wetin be the sales boy own to Know or recognize fake and original.shebi him own na to attend to customers and sell wetin him employer put him there for.its the owner of the buisness he should face and this is not even a New thing in nigeria.go to alaba ay see how they pirate CDs etc.however this is not to say I'm supporting evil but how about other states? Does he want to fight those ones too?

judatech:
If women give their men money...will they die?

they'll be disappointed,upset and irritated because they know how men misbehave when they have money.infact giving the man money is the fastest way to empower the man to date another girl.

Some men will be using girlfriend a as ATM to be funding girlfriend b so girls have decided to keep their money to themselves

Nigerians sef.we too do.you see tons of universities for Nigeria,you no go.ok agreed that public universities are a mess.what of private universities.

Whatever is making you go through the hurdles of studying and funding yourself in a university abroad then it means that you can actually afford to go to a private university in Nigeria which meets international standards.because come to think of it.after spending thousands of dollars abroad,do you think oyinbo will give you Job when there's massive unemployment in UK.even if they give you Job abroad,na tax them go use finish you.plus they'll be deducting the loans they gave you till e complete.

Again if you come back to Nigeria,do you think that you will be given a higher pedestal in the labor Market because you came with a u.k certificate?

What shall it profit you to spend millions of naira on foreign education and come back to Nigeria and come dey drag 70k salary with other graduates that finished from nigeria.apart from that you're even contributing to the economy by schooling in nigeria.abeg make we dey think of the long term consequences of schooling abroad before we jump into this foreign education bandwagon

Besides if you calculate all the money you spent on foreign education and you used it to set up a buisness with the right security structure in place, within the next 4 years (equivalent to the years of schooling) you
willl be financially stable.this is not to say I'm downgrading the place of education.no.far from it, I'm saying it's economically unwise to school abroad because when you come back to Nigeria,you will come and join the que (if you understand what I mean)

On another episode of e be things in Nigeria

PrinceofSarcasm:


My brother you just highlighted a very unpopular opinion people discuss in hushed tones. A colleauge and i still looked at this issues from the same perspective of population control the other day and it made so much sense. I feel there is a white paper passed across the corridirs of power showing the bemefit of the constant killings in the North and population reduction. This may be the real reason why it appears as if the killings in the North never end and the government does nothing

because the way government is doing their body language e be like say them dey fear the terrorists or Lost control of them

Seems like everything is a joke or politics to this politicians abi is this terrorist attack a form of population control in the north?

Is aunty folasade tinu above arrest?

I thought what is good for the goose is good for the gander

Wait o.so them never conclude on this Evans Case since all this years despite all the media sensationalism surrounding his dastardly acts.now he is even looking Like a saint compared to all the kidnapping and killing going on around.

I Sha hope he doesn't have boys working for him this one that the media went suspiciously silent on his matter.

Nigeria my country

xtivin2:

your type will eventually fall in love with one clownn like that. Adviser

every evil pronouncement,go back to your sender in Jesus name, amen.

I am not here to attack anyone nor engage in back and forth.i just want to add my own little impact to make my own environment a better place.

I know a lot of people are gradually normalizing promiscuity amongst married men and self deceit but there's nothing that can justify depravity and lack of reverence for God.moreover it's always fun and games when married men are destroying as many ignorant girls as possible till it's time for your sister to start choosing a good man or till it's time for you to look for a good woman

superCleanworks:


Seven bulky paragraphs for YOUR FRIEND.

You are curious and confused on behalf of YOUR FRIEND.

you must be a friend in deed.

SMH

Believe whatever you want.na you Sabi

Kobojunkie:
So long as the girl in question is not underage, I see no reason why you should get yourself involved. If she is underaged, then what you can do is report the man to the authorities. Otherwise, these are mostly people ENGAGED IN THE GAME that is relationship.

As I said earlier, if you are truly touched then you are best focusing your attention on teaching the boys why it is in their best interest to focus all of their energy on their chosen spouse rather than looking outside for ways to fill the hole inside of them.

lol wow.did you call relationship "GAME"? So depravity, deception and wickedness don reach this level? This àre really interesting times to be alive.

And Yes you said something like "I see no reason you should get yourself involved as long as they are adults" of course I would not have been involved if it didn't happen to my own friend (even though I warned her initially) I find deception annoying.yes she's not underaged but using deception to get into the pants of young girls is wrong on all levels.you think it's about just channelling the tutoring to the boys? Why do you think we have young girls suffering post traumatic stress disorder, promiscuity,drug abuse,anger issues, increase in abortion,STDs and baby mama culture.have you seen the number of young girls getting pregnant with men who ghosted them? They don't even know where he lives or can even Trace him to anybody or anywhere. This is not about it's the man's fault,it's the woman's fault.we are gradually having damaged girls who are already destroyed by married men even before their own Mr right gets to meet them.

Have you even gone to social media pages to see men ready to settle down and then you hear them complain that they can't find marriageable girls.theyll say they can't marry this particular lady because she has so many body counts or they found out she had an abortion or she has a baby with a man she can't even explain or she dated a married man.dont just look at the surface.look beyond that.

Which decent man will hear that the girl he wants to marry has dated a married man before and will ever take her seriously? Men that are naturally territorial.they won't even care about the circumstances surrounding her dating a married man,it will automatically become a turn off even if it happened through deceit

Kobojunkie:
Has every one of your past relationships, even before marriage, been of tender loving kind?

2. Why not put that energy instead to tutoring and mentoring young boys to stop them from philandering after marriage?

of course,if I have the opportunity I will but why I'm particular about young girls is because those ones easily fall prey to the wicked lies they use in getting them to bed.for example,I found out that he told his New girlfriend that he's divorced and she is just another prey like any other young girl and many of the times their lies to get young girls are always

1.i don't love my wife any more
2.my wife doesn't give me sex anymore
3.i'm planning to divorce my wife soon
4.my wife nags too much.she doesn't give me peace
5.my wife use to do juju/jazz so I want to leave her
6.my wife is dirty
7.my wife is cheating on me

Etc like that.i hope you understand my point?

Kobojunkie:
The man was just in it for the sex, it seems. I mean relationships can be like that and this even applies as far as those who date non-married people — males and females alike — experience from time to time. Sometimes you find that babe who is willing to go to the ends of the earth for you and other times, you find the one you are with would not even lift a finger if you were in need. it happens!

wow.intresting.i get it.so if he was in it for casual sex how come he wasn't considerate of her own needs.How come he was stingy with her and not stingy with his new girlfriend (only God knows if that one is even saying the truth) I'm asking because I want to tutor and mentor young girls who fall prey into the hands of indecent married men. I feel a young girl should not be scarred by married men.

Kobojunkie:
Side-chicks get levels naw!

I don't understand what you mean.can you explain

Ok so I have this friend who I warned about dating married men and it even caused a huge disagreement between us that it affected our friendship.i told her for goodness sake you work and earn a 100k plus salary so why are you dating this man, leave the man alone.she responded with what is my buisness,am I his wife or am I related to his wife.i told her I don't care or give a f** about his wife.just leave married men alone and she refused so I had to stop friendship with her so we won't be seen as birds of a feather

Anyway fast-forward 6 months later she was served breakfast and had the audacity to come to my house to seek comfort and someone who will make her feel better but at first I told her to get lost that her private life is none of my buisness and she should go and fix herself and then I slammed the door on her.on a second thought I said let me just open the door and hear her story instead of just condemning her.so to the story

So I asked her with a more empathetic tone why were you even dating a married man, don't you love yourself or is it that you want to be a second wife and she said she didn't plan on staying with him long but she didn't know when she fell in love with him (I tried to hide my disgust because I was really getting irritated) that she just wanted a companion because she was bored so she said the guy will come around and nack and each time she is broke and asks for money,he will be posting her with I will send it and eventually not send it and when she confronts him it's always no vex my phone had issues,no vex,I just paid my son's school fees.just basically posting her.Then on her birthday on march 22nd he couldn't even call to wish her a happy birthday and when she saw him the following week she asked why he didn't wish her a happy birthday,he said she didn't tell her (then I interrupted her and said with all of this is the writing not clear enough that he doesn't give a shiit about you) then she said she was thinking he will change.when he now asked her to send her account details he sent 12thousand.i shook my head in irritation

After then she said he ghosted her for another 3 weeks and when he came around he was demanding for s#x that they should meet up in a hotel then she saw it as an opportunity to go for closure.(i cut in again) and said this Guy ghosted you and came to chat you up again and you still gave him attention,he didn't give you any money he had always promised yet he still came to your house to drive you to the hotel? Meanwhile he didn't give you anything but he's ready to pay for the hotel? Wetin do your brain? At this point I was loosing my patience then she kept saying she went for closure.ok I asked what happened when you got there, she said she went to have her bath and after dressing up the guy was telling her to come to the bed.she then said she called out the guy on all the fake promises etc he made to her and he didn't fulfill any of them and at some point she said she had to walk out because she could read his body language as unbothered and indifferent.so immediately she walked out of the room he kept shouting her name to come back for them to talk that she refused.

At that point i was feeling like I should slap her and beat her up but I controlled myself and told her why can't you respect yourself.why did you have to allow a man to reduce you to this level.anyway I just shook my head and left her in the sitting room for her to rest because I found her experience annoying and avoidable because you dey do side chick to a supposed local government politician and you no still gain anything.marry he no marry you, money you no get so what's your gain

So subsequently after that day when she came to pour her heart to me and I advised her to seek healing,learn from your mistakes and move on.

The following day I was going to my own place of work,I saw this Same man again already going out with another girl in our street.i was shocked.initially I wasn't even interested in Knowing who the man is because I felt 1, neither of them is my buisness,2 na wetin she chop belleful am but this Time I was really curious like why is this man targeting young girls and preying on them so I decided to do my findings.i started making friends with the younger sister of the girl he's preying on in order to get information from that one so one day I poked her to get information from her.I said who is the owner of the car parked in front of your house,I like the car I so she said it's her elder sister's new man friend and she said he spends on her very well and helps in paying for the bills in the house.i said ok and left her.at that point I just concluded that that man is a complete predator but my confusion is why was he stingy on his old girlfriend and now spending on his new found girlfriend? I'm just curious and confused