J111333:
Both of you are struggling to get stable jobs and you expect the lady to be lovely and happy, com'on bro.
It's obvious the girl is frustrated by both your financial conditions and women aren't designed to handle certain pressures.
Try and get a job or acquire a skill to make ends meet. Love and poverty never mix just like oil and water.

Are your saying all would still be attributed to money. So if the money starts coming we will be cool

I can not totally rule out that she has made positive impacts in my life we enjoy each others company. Jus that she acts weird when we fall out

drmikeadams:


Please continue with d bus taking u to gombe,meanwhile ur heading to lagos dont tell driver to revise oo,,continue going to gombe

Come clean I don't get

jospepper:
She told you point blank that you are not her spec, does that not mean anything to you? Haba bro.

But she claims that she still loves me, that she is just telling me. That she fell in love and she knew what she needed was in me not in physic

I have been dating this lady for a while now for years, long story short we are at the point we are both struggling to gain a stable job. But money is not the problem we don't have financial issue though we've had to be broke once in a while.

The main gist we quarrel everyday these days we get to disagree on so many things, nobody is accepting to be at fault and most of all she act irritated once we have these issues, she avoids my call. I don't know if I am too possessive but she seriously do not respect me. She always point out that I am not her spec she just fell in love with me, she doesn't see me manly.

I want something permanent with this lady should I end this now or it is just premature mind set.

Please nairalanders your opinion I need to decide