a lot of girls also believe now that, any man that does not sex with them; may be considered not man enough. The fact remains here that sex before marriage is harram i.e. Forbidding. In islam, a lady is not permitted to go the guy's house and stay until after marriage.

in nigeria there is a serious emphasy on religion and tribe towards marriage.  going by the sharia of islam, a man can marry a woman from the christians if  only she will renegade before the marriage. In any case; couple should be of the same believe so that there will hv the view complying.