A Friend of mine's surname is Thunderbush

I know a koekermoer, kopke, breytenbach, buy, delport, lupton, a  chansa

Wait you should come to South Africa some of the people's names I cannot pronounce "Ngxabane,you find ngwalabane,, the best one I know is Mashishi  (and it means pubic her) no literaly.

Eish come to South Africa people, but Nigerians also have funny Surnames hey Omotayo-ojo, that is long and very funny to me

My last name is a mixture of SA and Niger, it is a double barrel name, compound name as you Nigerians say

It is Dibakwane-Odusanya and apparently it is the longest surname from my work place and you must know my company is around the world.

Very funny hey

Well it is quite simple, to me.

First of all my husband and I knew each other from church and then we became Friends by mistake really and then from friends we became lovers and from lovers, we got married.

I feel that if you know who you are in life and know what you want a in life and trust your judgement and God you will never go wrong, there is really no need to pretend,

If you know who you are your presence and manner will always speak for itself no way you will be considered cheap if you know, that you love someone and you want to be with that person and you know that he is for real.

Unless you still are not sure of your judgement and trust in the Lord, simple really. I never said throw your self at the first man you see, but becareful, but do not play games, because games might play you some day.

Why do Nigerian Woman always pretend.

I have noticed that Nigerian women love to pretend when it comes to love.
A man would show their interest and the woman will spend years chasing the poor guy away, even though she is dying inside.
Then they will say SA woman are easy, we are not easy we just know what we want.

and what SA women want she gets,

Just a thought