Rickywowoz:


I agree with your points...Most men (not just black men) that are new to America worship white women but the ass licking wears away with time especially after you sample a couple of white puna. Nigerian women are well educated and earn good money (I respect them for that). But no matter how much they earn, the average naija girl still expect the man to spend & pay 90% of the bill in every relationship.

Also are we gonna pretend that naija girls don't kiss ass when it comes to white boys? You guys demand heaven and earth from naija boys but all a caucasian boy need to do is say hello and y'all spread your leg for them. Marriage between white men and black women has the lowest divorce rate because black women abandon all their standards and requirements for any basic white boy. They cook, clean, work, pay bill and do as the white man demands. So keep the same energy for both gender

This is getting interesting...


You see, white boys (not the racist ones) actually respect black women, I am not even talking about relationship wise yet, I am talking about generally, the white guys are not brought up to see their sisters or other women as any less than they are, if anything they are brought up to respect and support women. When they meet Nigerians, they bring that same energy into the room, and even if she is always on her guard, she will loose her guard quite easily because most people actually shouting for equality in and from Nigeria do so because of level of disrespect Nigerian men have for women.


Before we make this a debate on white vs black, I should quickly point out what point am trying to pass.

Even when a Nigerian woman, pays her own bill and doesn't beg for money from Nigerian men, they will want to bring her low to the level Nigerian culture set for women, under a man's feet. But when they meet white women they can't keep the energy


Secondly, white boy/black girl relationship or marriage is winning because the white boys do not have the same values and disrespectful upbringing. They adore women, respect them and love them.



All I'm saying and from what op has said is for Nigerians to learn humility and respect toward women. That is the reason for the happy marriages between black women and white boys



Cheers!

Rickywowoz:


I believe Nigerian men respect white women because white women believe in equality in every aspect of it. You can't expect a guy to respect you when you asking him to pay for wig, weaves, uber etc. while the white woman is pitching in 50% for rent and other bills. Nigerian men have no issues with respect or humility, they respect women that take responsibility.

Very wrong! The egoistic behaviour is rooted in most Nigerian men upbringing and even when they meet women who know their worth and don't stoop to begging and_shit, they still can't stop and on here we are particularly talking about women who work and earn enough to care for themeslve in America, and men who still want to enslave and form stupid alpha. But when they meet a white woman they start to feel like inferior piece of shit, kiss her_ass and licking the floor she walks. Ofcourse this is not everyman, but vast majority who are used to mummy being disrespected and disregarded

pDudd:


Gotta love Nairaland.

Thanks for reading

There you were thinking it will be ladies who will come for you

Nigerian men only want to hear, they are superior to female any other thing you say will be offensive

I'm so glad this was a thread from a male. By the way well said, alot of guys cannot cope with the female abroad because they won't be humble enough to give them same respect that they give to the white women. Ofcourse that goes without saying there are power drunk black ladies too. But most Nigerian men cannot get off their high horses.

I found your write up really refreshing to read. Thank you!

Yenny4real:
His arrogance and ego is about to cause him an unredeemable fall. pride they say come before a fall.

He thinks he is a lion but he is merely a stubborn goat

No in this life will I have a son that beats a woman, talk more of doing it in my presence Or doing it for my sake.

oyewale0001:
It is well




It only in Nigeria covid-19 patient run from isolation centre. Naija how far.

We should consider giving them some orientation after the results are out. It will put them at easy. Not everyone understands has internet or understand that it is not a death sentence

amaniro:



Chris Oyakiliome is particularly embarrassing Nigeria right now. First him and and a dumb Nigerian senator Dino Melaye preached against the installation of 5G network in Nigeria. Now, reps have suspended it. Now it's this? Are you kidding? Religion is a curse to Africa right now

It's the root of all our problems...


Look at Overpopulation, even though before religion our forefathers had so many kids, they would hunt and farm to make resources available. So we can't say they were overpopulated because they had the resources needed and reality was different back then.
But now, we are definitely overpopulated because the resources to human ratio doesn't match, but the law makers won't make laws to reduce the number of child birth as most people believe it's blessings from God.

Infact even corruption is as a result of the same religious problem. Look at election time, all the pastors and imam's influencing your vote, telling you to vote for your brother. If we leave religion out of elections and vote the right candidate (atleast try to ) we have solved half or 2/3 of our problems gone, leaders who can make the right calculation on how to move forward without being religious or biased will come in.


But this won't happen anytime soon so we are all in_shit for a pretty long time

I can only imagine what his wife has been going through.

ManOfSteel2:
I can't help but rubbish the idea of dumping these so-called "almajiris" to their state of origin...

200 Gombe beggars will be deported to Kano which happened to be their origin, 170 will be chased out from Kano back to Gombe their origin.

168 will be expelled from Bauchi to Katsina, making Katsina get provoked to send away 350 in their care back to Jigawa.....

And the circle continues......

ManOfSteel will rather use those funds wasted to buy another hummer bus and give out on "hire-purchase"

When US citizens were spitting and attacking Chinese on the street, we all cried for humanity

When the Chinese threw black people out of their homes, we wept for our brothers.


Now the almajiri are treated the same way and this is all the governors can come up with... Worst of it all people are supporting the move. Very disappointing

CodeTemplar:
They will most likely spread the virus by dispersing especially from places with asymptomatic carriers. Bad move.

Am sure they lumped them all together both the sick ones and healthy ones just to get them out of the state.

phelonrays:

@The bolded, FFK is their proprietor

Imagine him calling out Gate without even tagging their account Those guy's are officially on tweeter
Imagine such a high level of stupidity a suppose learned personality like FFK could propagate....

Cowardice in full display ...

Just look at him Using religion as a base for displaying stupidity

We keep having minds like this in politics and we would remain a third world countries till the end of the world.

Farki:


This is what brainwashing looks like

The worst Dummy always belief they are extremely smart . Those one you should never waste precious time on

phelonrays:


Gates and His foundation has been Saving Lives [especially here in Africa] since the '90s.....

What's his misdoing that all this Hypocrite's cum Public activist wont let him be••••


They have upgrade from 5G, it's now the generous man whom most of his sacrifice is to see new born breath and live a Polio free Live...

FFK is beginning to sound delusional

Luckily they are good people and that won't stop them from continuing doing good. Stupid ingrates. It's quite peculiar to human, some will always to be ungrateful when you help. But must humanitarian never do it for the appreciation anyway.

Tiarababy:

My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital

Hi... Please check your PM

Xisnin:

They are not random doctors, that is why NMA did not raise the issue.

They are not even here to compete with our home-based doctors but as policy
advisers in area of preparedness and containment as they have seen it all and conquered with
regards to this virus.

I see, we should be greatful for their help It's no shame to ask for help from a country that has successfully contained theirs. The only shame here is that we have to keep running to other countries for help over and over... it is very shameful.

Xisnin:

The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.
Alvin Toffler

Yes. They are illiterates.

They had no rational reason for opposing the visit.
They even threatened a strike for selfish reasons.

You are absolutely right. There is no harm in getting more help from people whom have already beaten it in their country

Only problem I will have is if the doctors are not experts but just random Chinese doctors. Then the NMA will be right because it will make no sense to bring random doctors who are not experts to oversee your own doctors whom some are highly qualified.

That will just be demeaning.

Yankee101:
1. Are you visiting, if yes, why visit in the middle of crisis?

2. If you live there why dont you have a house,

3. No one wants any risks to their country via reinfection in this season

Do you then say it's best we eject all foreigners from our countries. If they don't want anyone in their country they should stop inbound flight. This is just insensitive.

I remember seeing a video of some American spit on Chinese because they felt the Chinese brought in the virus to their country. It was very sad to watch, it looks like people look for excuses to bring out the worse in them. Its pretty much the same here, they had to target black people in their homes and hotel send them outside bin the rain and call it fighting virus?

It's just plain cruelty... Very bad of the Chinese to do.

Wasn't she the same woman involved in a scandal of pimping and trafficking prostitute to some foreign countries?

Openbusiness:
You people should continue screenshoting oh, so the government can see it and increase taxes on mobile networks, and then they will increase data costs and hang the govt bills back to your neck. Smh!

I think we already pay too much compared to developed countries.

They have way better speed, almost unlimited data cap and super cheap at that

scientiar:
I don't usually come on here. Na just to laugh I need nairaland for. Checkout my usage.

Hahahhaha Dude, your IG usage is the combination of my mobile and system usage .... What!!!!

Which connection provider do you use?

System usage is worse

One month of registration and about 1500 posts. Wow! That's some energy Blu03

Femsyn:
To buttress the OP's views...

I read this story and i laughed... i laughed hard because marriage is complex and is often more that what meets the eye.

Do you know the couple's story? They alone, know why they act in the manner they do. Look! how a woman or wife react in marriage is borne more of the input of the husband. What you see is what you get.

Let me ask you a question? Do you think the woman would've reacted the same way, if the man is often of the habit of squandering family cash on irrelevant things, stays away from the house with girlfriends, ignores the wife, does not carry the wife along in major decisions and does not take care of the home?

Young men, don't read hastily. The man the OP depicted up there is a responsible man. Most women align with their husbands easily, when the man is doing the needful.

The man has done enough for the reward you saw for few moments. Men, that reward doesn't come automatically. You work for it!!!

My response is not for the OP, because s/he has done justice with the points given thereafter. My response is for men who might read hastily, and assume the wife's behaviour is follow-come.

Finally someone with understanding of how a relationship should work. Your wife is very lucky to have you.

It is like a relationship of two siblings who goes to school together, The elder one keeping the money till break time everyday and the younger one doesn't mind because the elder one does take good care of the money and when she needs it, she gets it. On days when mummy forgets and split the money amongst them, the younger one will even voluntarily go ahead and hand over the money to the elder one because it's in safe hands. He has proven worthy of her trust (This narration could be in reverse, careful younger one keeps the money and careless elder one gets it every break. (All is about understanding) ... Also, both siblings could decide it's best if they both kept their money individually.

If the reverse was the case of the story, most people will jump in to say he is a weak man, forgetting that understanding, communication and dedication for the marriage to work is what really keeps a marriage. Not bullying, cheating and exercising unnecessary control freaky behaviour.

The bolded is everything!

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pocohantas:



The perfect definition actually. Cheating husband, no funds... very submissive/supportive wife.

Happy birthday to her. We need more women like her in the society.

I thought I was a sadist to read inbetween those sweet lines

Happy birthday to her

pocohantas:


OP flew to available vaginas. Why did you conveniently ignore that and not admonish your fellow men to be faithful to their GOOD WIVES?

That way women can celebrate their men like this, for standing by them when they cheated and were financially down.

Please take a back seat with your selective advice.

I'm reading the post and seeing behind the sweet words too

Sapphire86:
After struggling to read that, all I can say is the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree!

Just when we thought, knew and accepted Madam Kemi was 'kolo', we didn't know the son was getting ready to unleash 'kolo 2.0'

Girl!

I was really struggling to make sense of the write up also thinking this exact saying "Apple never falls far from its tree" ...

It's interesting to see I wasn't alone

The woman is really dramatic and I see it runs in the gene. Interesting!

NevetsIbot:


I suspected he probably was being hunted in Ogun state and had to lie low in another state.. I'd tell his mother as a last resort.

I'm going to talk to him soon as I get home again and let him know of his bullshit then if he makes it rough... We'll make it rough

Back when I was in school, a boy let his friend who was a cultist in another school visit and they were both set on fire in their sleep.

People said he was the cultist and his friend a victim, others said his friend was and he, the victim.

Better send him out. Just tell him to leave, don't let him distract or cause you harm

iphi:
see am

Awww I came back to check

And saw your post about resignation if things get serious.

Me, I think there is nothing wrong if she boss you around at work, most guy already boss their wife's around at home. Hehe. 50/50 it will be fun

See me all excited for you.

iphi:
ah, I win o... She agree lunch date with me she was honest enough to tell me she has a date already planned for the evening

Ok you win

Have a nice lunch. Keep us posted

iphi:
she just said lol

Predicted just right. It's Exactly what I would reply too

Atleast you tried

iphi:
haba, it has not gotten to this, like I sent before 'jokingly', this is not the first time I'm joking with her just that inside me I want to date her

Personally I think work relationship is a bad idea.

But you have being on this joking Level with her so shoot your shot. Tell her jokingly you will be her plan B or C or Z Infact. Since you know she won't be mad.

Mostly likely she will laugh it off because she won't want to mix work and personal life.

But she may just say ok and you will be surprised. So try your luck