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My first thought, having been immersed in continuous thought about dating and attraction stuff for years now, was, "Now THERE'S a guy who just blatantly admitted that he's had next to ZERO success with women in his entire life."

What tipped me off on that, you ask?

The simple fact that his statement was 100% "clouded by beauty-vision", that's what.

ANY man who has ever found the confidence to attract truly beautiful women finds out almost immediately that it takes MUCH, MUCH more than a pretty face to be happy with a woman long-term.

I've even heard pretty women themselves talk as if they've bought into the whole notion that all they need to be is good looking in order to make sure some guy will sweep them off of their feet and put up with them, er..."love them" forever.

Now, all of that said I'm not naïve. I get it. I realize we as guys really can be mesmerized by ONE woman's looks in particular.

It can happen to the best of us, and it really catches us off guard when it does.

I mean, you just see that one woman who "does it for you" in a way that no other woman has for at least six months and you're off to the races.

Not so fast, Lightning McQueen.

Before you jump into a "relationship" and even THINK about dropping your life savings at Jared (as if you should EVER think about that), here are the first four of a full dozen areas of further consideration for you.

Shockingly few guys ever think about ANY of these when "clouded by beauty-vision".

But you'd better start if you want to avoid divorce lawyers and build a truly satisfying shared history with a great woman instead:


1) HOW SHE HANDLES HER ATTRACTIVENESS

Let's take care of the obvious one first.

OK, granted she's a hottie. But what's her ATTITUDE toward her physical beauty?

As it turns out, what SHE thinks about it and how SHE acts upon it is quite probably even more important than how YOU do.

For example, is SHE "clouded by beauty-vision" herself? In other words, does SHE think that being physically attractive is all she needs to get by in life? As such, is that all she obsesses about?

If so, you're dealing with a woman who's going to disappoint you in just about every way OTHER than how she looks.

And even then, after you've put up with enough shallowness THAT may even wear off.

Remember the old saying: "For every beautiful woman out there is a guy who's sick of putting up with her."

Choose the wrong woman instead of one with more depth and that saying could come true for YOU.

As you may have heard before, the most amazing type of woman is the one who genuinely doesn't realize how truly beautiful she is.

Find one of those, be the one who informs her and you'll be a happy man.


2) INTEGRITY

So yes...her CHARACTER matters. This is sort of related to the first point above, but is more holistic in focus.

Instead of simply being obsessed over her looks, a beautiful woman who lacks character may use it in selfish or even manipulative ways.

For example, if she is used to being kowtowed to by men she may go from simply relying on her physical beauty to becoming what I call a "Double Standard Chick".

Case in point: If you get clobbered over the head for even LOOKING at another woman, she shouldn't manipulate you into believing all of her adoring "guy friends" who get frisky with her before your very eyes are "no big deal".

At that point, what began as simple shallowness has turned to the "dark side".

And that's only one possible scenario related to what I'm getting at here.

She may be beautiful, but if she lies, cheats, steals or even fails to do whatever it is she said she was going to do then she's a BAD CHOICE.

Worse, what if she turns out to be a completely different person than who she made herself out to be...or changes course on you in the future?

The ruin that THAT could bring to your life goes without saying.


3) STRENGTH

Years ago someone older gave me some very wise counsel. "Marry a strong woman", he said.

How right he was.

Obviously, we're not talking about hooking up with some chick who can bench press 400 pounds here.

But indeed you want to make sure you select a woman who's not a total weakling, even at the physical level.

You want her to have energy to go on those cool adventures with you, right? And you'd greatly prefer if she weren't sick all the time, no doubt.

And even on a day-to-day basis you want some evidence that she's going to be able to work with you to get things done around the house.

At the emotional level, you don't want to have to feel like her babysitter instead of her lover.

Considering the longer term, you want a PARTNER in handling inevitable challenges that will arise rather than having her reaction to it make matters worse.

This is just 3 of 12 of the things you need to choose the right woman for marriage. To read the complete list Click Here!

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For most of us red-blooded guys, making a smoking hot woman our girlfriend would most certainly classify as "success".

And no kidding, for the most part it ROCKS when that happens.

However, with success comes responsibility, even when it comes to dating and relationships.

A very real part of that responsibility includes knowing how to handle the simple fact that the vast majority of other guys on this planet will NOT be as fortunate as you are (at least not yet).

Actually, the hard truth is that most will NEVER find real success with women (let alone the sexual success I talked about above).

As it turns out, some of the very same reasons for that will also present themselves in the form of majorly awkward social situations for you. Go figure.

Most guys aren't really ready for how other, more frustrated guys will react the first time they find a truly amazing girlfriend, so they get blindsided.

But as a man who's already got the upper hand in the form of that beautiful woman by your side who other men desire, you'd do well to know how to handle such scenarios with grace and class.

Here, then, are my five best tips for you when dealing with other guys. And make no mistake about it, you can fully expect any or ALL of the following situations to rear their ugly heads at some point or another:


1) Keep It All On The "Down-Low"

One thing I can assure you of without any reservation is that when you get yourself a truly hot, sexy, amazing girlfriend other dudes WILL notice.

You need not do anything at all to help bring it to their attention.

So don't. You'll only look like a douche if you resort to bragging about her.

Besides, if you keep it cool you're MUCH more likely to portray yourself as a guy who considers himself "in the same league" as she is, which is always a good idea.

Bragging only makes it look like you see "landing her" as some sort of major coup.


2) But On The Other Hand, Don't Make Excuses Or Minimize Her Either

If you make it a point to encourage and validate your girl when other guys are around--especially your friends--you'll make her feel safer and more comfortable around you.

Never mind the fact she'll probably even LIKE you more.

When all of that's the case, other guys will be able to sense the mutual respect between you.

Then, as if by magic, the incidence of silly, immature comments will tend to decrease dramatically.

It's as if other guys sense that if they make some snide remark about either you or her that SHE'LL be the one who chimes in to shut them down.

Knowing how much guys fear rejection and embarrassment at the hands of anyone female, you can see how that social dynamic would work to your advantage.

Yet, for some reason many of us have been taught that beautiful women need to be "knocked off their pedestal", so we make fun of them or neglect them sometimes--even in front of our friends, and even when we're in a relationship with them.

Believe me when I tell you that's a piss-poor strategy. She's HUMAN, and treating her like that will only create resentment on her part.

And if any dude who's jealous of you senses that resentment in her, he's going to play upon that like a cheap fiddle. That will NOT work to your advantage.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/articles/2360-5-ways-to-manage-jealous-guys-when-you-have-a-hot-girlfriend


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The Drunk spirit there in the hall.

It's such an old, trite ploy that it makes us laugh to even think about it. I'm referring, of course, to the idea of getting a woman drunk so that "getting some" is easier.

Granted, some women are going to be "easier" when they're under the influence of a few adult beverages.

But going about things like that is for rookies. Seriously.

Show me a guy who tries to get his dates plastered, and I'll show you a guy who lacks confidence that he can attract them naturally.

Indeed, when you're a "Big Four" man, making women Hot for you is relatively effortless. And what's more, you're just not so in a hurry to force the issue--literally or figuratively.

So, do some women "loosen up" when you add alcohol? I'm not going to deny it. That can be true.

But then again, they can also become belligerent and throw up all over you.

Chances are, even if sex happens, it's not going to be the lurid, sheet-ripping kind that you were hoping for. She might fall asleep and start snoring in the middle of it.

No matter what, if you're goal is to get a women drunk on dates, you're not "keeping it real". You're not getting to know the real her.

Now, that said I'm no Pollyanna. I realize that some women are going to get drunk in your presence. Sometimes it's futile to try and stop them.

And even if your stated goals for time spent with her were different in focus, you're still going to have to be on point. You'll have to know how to handle the situation like a man.

That's what this newsletter is for. So let's get on with it.

First of all, you've got to be observant. Keep an inventory of how much she's consuming.

Some women can throw down an amazing number of drinks before it affects them, but those women are the exception rather than the norm (and you should think long and hard about a relationship with a woman like that).

Generally speaking, women will tend to fib a little with regard to how much alcohol they can take before it hits them like a ton of bricks.

That can only mean that when you see the slightest sign that she's getting "tipsy", it's time to subtly remove the booze from the equation.

If you're home, that's easy--unless she filches another belt of the stuff when you're not paying attention.

If you're at a bar or restaurant, clue the waitstaff in that it's time for her to stop. A great strategy is to let them play "bad cop" on your behalf. Reassure them that you're the one who'll be leaving the tip, if that helps.

If you're at her place, you may have to be a bit more direct in suggesting she quit drinking.

In addition to the simple fact that you care about her well-being, another reason you're putting the kibosh on the slosh at the "tipsy" stage is because most women are still pretty fun and giggly at that point.

If she keeps drinking, though, bad things are likely to happen. She could barf everywhere and/or completely pass out--which can be dangerous.

Assuming you still have a "tipsy" chick on your hands, you've actually got a great opportunity to observe more than just her alcohol intake.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/articles/2061-what-to-do-when-she-s-drunk-and-it-s-not-what-you-think


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In case you haven't figured it out yet, the most desirable women don't tend to last too long on online dating sites.

Believe me, it's not because they get frustrated and quit.

It's because one of the ~5% of guys who know what they're doing (which I absolutely can help you join the ranks of) snaps them up and takes them "off the market" really, really fast.

No kidding...that's the way it usually goes. If you've tried online dating yourself, you've seen women's profiles vaporize before your very eyes--sometimes within a mere couple of days from when they first appear in your search results.

My wife, for example, was on Match.com all of 23 days, and about fourteen of those were spent trying to coordinate our schedules so we could actually meet.

And when we finally did, she ended up calling several other guys afterward to cancel 2nd dates, all of whom she had actually really liked.

Clearly, I got there just in time.

So how exactly do you make sure you're right where you need to be when the sharpest women in your city sign up for the site you're on?

And more importantly, how do you get their attention when they must be getting absolutely inundated with messages?

Well for starters, rise above the clueless masses by actually running a search that sorts "newest profiles first". That's a no-brainer, yet you'd be shocked at few guys actually have the wherewithal to do that.

Next, as I've drummed into your mind again and again, write a UNIQUE subject line (or first line, in the case of Match.com) for every woman.

In other words, something more creative that "hello" or "you look beautiful".

Keep your messages BRIEF and free of any indication that you've already pre-approved her as your dream woman.

Try issuing a call to action, perhaps by asking her a specific question about something in her profile. In other words, make it easy for her to answer you.

Sign your real first name to the message and send it when she's been online within 24 hours at most--but preferably when she's online in real time, if you can find the patience.

That's how you rise above the also-rans and get a sharp "newbie" chick's attention.

But why stop there? Here is an extra-secret GOLDEN tip that is sure to rocket you to the top of her "wish list".

Read the full story here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/blogs/how-to-attract-men-and-women/1949-how-to-meet-the-hottest-women-online-before-some-other-guy-does

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this first and second line is a bomb.


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You are trying to be funny here, sheby! Just say you were attracted to the breast. Nor forget say na person wife be that.



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I'm in total control of my mind.



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Use the money to purchase a plot land in her name.



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God save us from Karashikas.



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That's the caring side of a woman. Afterall, women cook food for the home, they are trying to prove they will make a good house wife.



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The thing dey wonder me too o



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Self servicing is a kind of mental problem if you don't know.. only abnormal people engage in it



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It's not new school, but a sign that you cherish her.



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Just give her a little space, and then call her. If she still continues to ignore u, then forget about her, she doesn't love u.



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Another sex starved pervert on the loose..



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You nor lie my guy!


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You sound wiser than i thought. Congrats


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I know the lady


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Ask the one that went to the club to come down to ur place after clubbing, trust me she won't come.


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Na wa oo... Na Bleep dey hungry this girl.


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I got no beard but my girlfriend loves me...


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I think I was 19 years old. I wasn't a spoil brat!


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so you need to stop seeing her? get her a mask.

you need to stop having sex? try castration


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