@stunna> from my perspective, i can relatively call u a "white man in black skin", cuz u've clearly naturalised with the whites or better put, "western way of life" cuz blacks too are included in this category. But u are afraid of the very short-comings of their own ways, how ironic! I suggest u marry what ur used too so u dont have to deal with surprise packages or blame a 9ja girl for askin u cut off ur dreads, cuz to her it may not be her way of life "yet" n will probably never be if she deems it a immature or uncultured manner of look.
Therefore i have to agree with Wislet where she said, "start BEING the kind of person u would like to meet"!!!

All u need do is keep urself calm n patient with the consulate officer, n act sure with proof that u'll return to whatever country ur leaving from once ur through with whatever biz u goin for. Hope ur docs are in order! Good luck.

@redcliff> i dont quite agree with chamber tho u can try. , U have to get it certified by ministry of education at abj, thats wats usually done for proper certification that wont leave any doubt for the genuity of ur docs to any school. Wat school is it?

@wip5- i would like to school at nc but would like to knw if i can cross over to the south too during breaks?