DaySpringer:
I have seen your post and your problem is complex and most of it is internal... Yet you are trying to find a solution externally.

Seems you weren't shown a lot of love early in life and till now you still seek that person that will come and make you their center of attention and make you feel that love that you think you are lacking..
Even if you get a girlfriend, she has to always show you a lot of attention if not you will doubt her love. This also means that you will be very clingy. You know the irony of all this? The same need for attention and clinginess you will display will make ruin that relationship.

This neediness also shows in your behaviours sub-consciously and girls pick up on it which accounts for the reason for most of your rejection.

Did i forget to add Low Self-Esteem?



Here you're not even talking like a man who knows his worth as a man, so the rejection you receive from girls means that you won't get married? That means you will fall for the first girl that seems to really want to marry you because she is the first girl that didn't reject you or rather one of the very rare ones who didn't.

OP
There are many principles and coded knowledge that apply and are true in this our world of dating and in the world of relationships at large.


Like i mentioned early you found a girl that seemed like she was the one for you and instantly you fell for her.. and then asked her out, you weren't sure she was fully attracted to you, you let your neediness shine through and you wanted to possess her instead of being patient and waiting till she was totally hooked to you.


Again your neediness and need for attention shininig through, almost every guy has gone through this with a girl before and the mark of maturity is when the guy is able to take things coolly, acknowledging that almost every girl does this; infact the mark of a well collected player is being able to spin it and make the girl feel like she missed out on something exciting, list all the things she missed and make her want to make it up to you next time she sees you. Other guys would use this opportunity to make the girl more into them but you're here whining like a baby.
Look at your victim mentality, "Being treated by ladies"


The girl called you and apologised to you and you're still here, whining, Some girls don't even bother. She deemed you important enough to apologize to you and yet your low self esteem didn't let you see that. You still had the victim and crybaby mentality. No girl's actions is supposed to determine, your worth, the fact that the girl did not do the necessary things in order to make sure she could see you, means she is uncoordinated, the problem is with her not you.



And Right here is the greatest expression of Low self esteem. Bro, those things might attract a girl but those things won't keep a girl, Infact those things are not the most important things to have when it comes to getting girls, I am sure you have heard of Ugly guys getting and banging the hottest babes, that's your proof there.

There are guys with what you have that don't need to talk much to get a girl.




Do you know that all relationships have their own problems?

Do you know that not all relationships that look happy on the outside actually are?

Do you know that almost all relationships eventually end?

If you cannot be happy with yourself when you're single, how can you be happy with a girl in a relationship? you will burden her with all your emotional needs (leading to you becoming insecure and clingy) and no human is meant to carry the emotional burdens of another, eventually they will break or leave and guess what? You'll be right back where you started.


So Bro what is the solution for you?
1. You need to learn to Love yourself.

2. Do research on Low Self-esteem and all it's manifestations and work on getting rid of it.
Self-Esteem does not come from what is on the outside or what you have but what is on the inside and that's why it is called "SELF-esteem"

3. Find things to do that make you happy, have hobbies. Learn to be able to enjoy yourself by yourself or with your guys and that will naturally draw girls to you.

4. Learn something, boosting your skills boosts your confidence and if you already have an amazing range of skills write them down and be proud of them and work to improve them.

Now get yourself out of that Self Pity shit, Girls are too flaky and unreliable for you to base your happiness on having them!

Cheers mate.

Guy!!! You are the real most valuable person
What a powerful sense of analysis u have there!
Am short of words... you do this for free?? You need to be a consultant abeg!
Cheers man!

A embittered fan writes:
“I never knew or comprehend that Mr 2face Innocent Idibia had this spirit of Wickedness in him.

We have been encouraging him even he was nothing till now that he felt that he has arrived.

2Face, We all bought every CD you have ever played, paid for all the shows you performed, devout our time to listen to all your songs, even when the songs may not meet out expectations, as an encouragement we continued to listen to them.

Yet you didn’t show us appreciation. 2Face, Let me ask you a question. How many Arabs has bought your CDs or listen to your any of your songs?Annie Macaulay’s Parents are not Arabs as to say your choose Arab-land because of proximity to her Parents.

With your spirit of wickedness, you carry your wedding to Dubai so that Nigerian fans will not eat rice or cake or drink your mineral or even our local beer. You know for sure that most of your fans can’t afford the ticket to Dubai.

You denied your fans who bought and paid for your CDs and Shows the generational opportunity to see a glimpse of your wedding, because your are sure that WE fans are not important, Nigeria is not good enough to host a Celebrity Wedding.

Tomorrow your friends and colleagues in the entertainment Industry who are Naturally Copy-cats will join the trend of wasting our Foreign Exchange in countries that see Nigerians as no body.

Well, let me tell you, get ready to sell your next album in Dubai, perform all your new shows in Arab, with new found Arab fans, as For me, I will not buy or patronize your Music ever, again.

Also Read This: MUST READ – 2Face and Annie Idibia’s Wedding Vows

Though it is certain that you are so wicked to us, but we will only forgive you on two condition:-

1] Apologise to Nigerian for refusing to create History in Our Land.
2] You Must take up a Campaign to your copy-cat friends and Colleagues in the entertainment industry to learn how to Appreciate, patronize Nigeria and Thinking Nigeria, First.
Written by Amina Umar
http://www.mercyjohnson.com/2face-a-wicked-man-only-god-will-judge-you-on-what-you-did-to-us-amina-umar/

dis is a lie jorr
the op has edited d whole stuff 2 dis very baad extent
cos i dont biliv dat someone can hav such a guud command of vocabulary and yet wit such poor control of grammar
i'll only biliv dis wen d op provide the original link
shikena

Mine was entreprenuer
Pls someone shud check weda I got it dis time

freecocoa: As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

Pls continue wif part 2 ☀̤̣̈̇f W̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇t̶̲̥̅̊ happened afTer ♌ãã!!. I was following ♈ōϋя story wif interest.

flash11:
i dont know about height but i sure wont date anyone whose english is this bad! Gracious me!

I hate some peoples behaviours on N/L simply because they are here just 2 castigate anyone who makes d slightest mistake in english
For GOd sake why don't u jus respond 2 D̶̲̥̅̊ issue rather than the person's command of english? Is english his native language? Haven't u yourself ever made a simple mistake in english?
Abeg free d guy jor and face d topic

Abujafood: Me become another Lady's spare tire! Hell No!

Here's what I'll do the moment I find out she's seeing someone else, she becomes a total stranger to me. I'll delete all her details and anything that reminds me of her, then move on with my life by finding a replacement ASAP. Who knows I might find someone 10 times better than her. If she mistakenly calls my line to find out why I've become so cold, I'll tell her I'm not a substitute, find someone else who might be willing!

W̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇t̶̲̥̅̊ about if u meeta girl 4 D̶̲̥̅̊ first time And she tells u she has someone and u truly want her?
U jus hav 2 'hang around' pending wen...

binger: My question is: why take her to court? Do you want the court to force her to marry you? Or to shut her up from mentioning 'no car,no marriage'?am jst puzzled!

no to refund all the money he has spent so far for the weddong preparation

Why do you bath in hOt/cold water
Any health implication affecting your choice of water?

Yesterday there where moments ☀̤̣̈̇f brilliance in the el-classico encounter between barca and Madrid from ronaldo's backheel control and then goal to messi's curling freekick. Which ☀̤̣̈̇f these two moments do γ̲̣̣̥☺U̶̲̥̅̊ think was better?

Lolo
Omalicha

*Ileke-IdI:


It happens. It has happened many times, esp in my state.

The thing about Nigerian Fulani Herdsmen is that they don't respect the citizens of the state that hosts them. Any simple disagreement causes chaos, and most times can be fatal. But ofcourse, they aren't always the one to start the problem.

i gues U̶̲̥̅̊ expect us t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ know ♈ōϋя state from D̶̲̥̅̊ way γ̲̣̣̥☺U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ writing r talking r W̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇t̶̲̥̅̊?

I dey trip die ƒσя dat her last sexy pic

[quote author=9ja voice]HAUSA/FULANI'S ARE NEARING THEIR END.


THE WORST THEY WILL DO NOW IS TO REVENGE, IF THEY DO THAT THERE END WILL COME.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH HAUSA/FULANI'S?
WHY CAN'T THEY CO-EXIST WITH OTHER'S?
THEY FOUGHT AND KILL IN MIDDLE BELT,
FOGUTH AND MASSACRE YORUBA'S IN SOUTHWEST,
FOUGHT AND KILL IN NIGER DELTA,
NOW FIGHTING BUT WAS KILLED IN SOUTHEAST.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE TWO ANIMALISTIC PEOPLE.[/quote) i like dat

@all, A̶̲̥̅♏ very grateful ƒσя ♈ōϋя candid opinions. I appreciate

unclebros:

60 page document for stealing 1,200 ??

We go need encyclopaedia for Lawan and the rest

Hahahahahahaha

Bros abeg ₪o kill me

Dear Nlanders,
Ƒσя those of us in this family that that know more about these cars, I need your sincere and expert knowledge and experience in helping me decide between buying a Nissan murano or infiniti fx35. Especially regarding maintenance, durability, luxury and spare parts availability
Your objective comments and recommendations are quite appreciated
Thanks.

Please fellow nairalanders, can someone get me dis music arrow (hello hello arrow) by Blackky. I'll be very grateful if someone can help especially d video.
Thanks.   

d video is still on http://www.naijapals.com/modules/naijapals/nigeria/topic,42174.0-.html

@reptile am with u all the way,

i swear all of dem (the slut and mr lecturer) Bleep-up big time.
d man na idiot though am not in supot of wat he did. he wud hav goten a descent place 2 do dis mannnnnnnnnn DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
and the foolish girl, her approach to the whole ting was as dumby as her backside. this is  DEFINITELY very much like 2 cost her her degree ( if not attempts on her life) she shud have learnt from the LASU girl wat it takes 2 proof sexual harassment by a lecturer.

to HEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL WITH GHANA AND EVERYTHING IN THAT COUNTRY
BUNCH OF UNGRATEFUL IDIOTS
NOW IT IS TIME TO BITE THE FINGER THAT FED THEM ALLLLLLLLLLLL THESE YEARSSSSSSSS
TO FUCKING HELL WITH THEM

this guy is a great grand father
pls look carefully at the 1st pic, u will see that dis guy was even sleeping as the training was going on,

they also did that (mentioning Nigeria in a sarcastically disparaging way) in "tears of the sun" and also in the season series "Lost"

J
pls help me with this plsssssssssssss

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hello nairalanders!!!!!! there is this my friend, fair in complexion, who was a smoker but 'repented' from that. but this has left him with black lips which makes him a bit 'unattractive'. his babe is always reluctant to kiss him because of this. he really wants his lips to be fair or red to make it 'kissable' u know what i mean. what can he do pls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!