I feel ur pain, but the truth is you were wrong in snooping,calling and embarrassing people/contacts on his phone. The truth is sometimes in marriage silence is golden,it works wonders,it makes ur partner wonder what you are up to. Take ur time and cry all you want because you need to heal properly so as not to turn out a depressed and bitter woman, then get a job even if it is one that the pay isn't much cos going out daily and meeting people will help you heal. Take care of your kids and don't even think of leaving them behind for your husband and his new wife. May God strengthen and heal you.

Really funny thread. The jokes made my evening.