u guys are not funny at all how can u be mocking her, its not fair, is it because u dont know anybody with the problem?u r just being wicked nd heartless making fun of something tht God created, God created her like tht, she didnt make herself she only found herself in that condition so we shuld be considerate cos u dont now wat the future holds in stock for u, she probably has a lot of reason y she didnt open up to the guy, cos she loves him nd was scared of losing him, if u were in her shoes what wuld u av done? jumb to tell him immediately u started dating?maybe she didnt want him to fall in love with her tht was y she told him she was bornagain but men wuldnt listen now he has seen it all instead of keeping his mouth shut he brought her out to be mouthwashed by pple who dont av human pity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

girl dont ever think he is regreting not marrying u for thts a big lie he was with u for 2yrs nd was with her too for the same duration he saw the better of u two nd picked his best which u r not, maybe u r not as hot as the other girl(wife) or maybe u r not good in bed but think u r, he prefares the other girl to u so stop deceiving urself, nd let them be, allow the winner to enjoy her husband nd look some where else

i pray it doesnt happen to who i know talkless of me!!!!! if i am the woman there is no two ways abt it tht ends the marriage, but in case where the woman in the house cant produce children then its acceptable but still the man has to tell her abt it.

its not true, most men would not stay with a woman tht cheats, am sure this case is an xception or maybe there is more to it than we know, we can not jugde from the outside its possible the boy is lagging in some areas for instance sex wise maybe he cant perform so he ,s allowing his girl get the fun outside while she does him a favour by covering for him,

Una get time ooo, is she a baby? if she no know what to say she can as well keep quiet , cos u cannot prepare a list of things to say to ur boyfriend from home cos they come naturally so i dont see this as a good topic to discuss on proto.

Nameless do u really need advice ?even b4 u gave ur life to christ when u were in the world would u av gone out with a married man?, ok lets assume u wuld ,deep down woudnt ur conscience prick u? lets face fact what u r doing is committing a great sin allowing the so called pastor to do as he like on u, cos u want it and am sure u must av tempted him so who r u deceivin? me? no, u r only deceivin urself, there is no two ways abt it u had better stop it unless u want the wrath of God almighty on u!! its disgusting!!!

jerseygurl:

sleep over yes,,but stay wit him, no way, he could get tired of me,

thts all ur fault maybe u r not romantic enough or nag too much

i didnt cry untill i got home, u know y? cos it was then i realised i culd not go back to my parents anymore nd i had to drop a name i av loved all this years to answer a new one i dont even know the meaning, baby girl if
u cry nd spoil ur makeup dont worry just apply a new one!!!!!!!!!!

as for i lived with my boyfriend for three years while in school nd today we are happily married, it can be fun if u find the right person and u both trully love urselves, during this three years i was abe to know if i culd live with him forever and evry passing day was a honey moon for me, i didnt av the chance to notice other guys cos he was there for me, showering me with love and affection!! but i also had friends who did the same thing but lived to regret cos the guys were cheats, they didnt really love the girls just using them to arrange themselves, eating free food nd avin free sex, so i would say b4 any girl decides to live with a guy find out first if he trully loves u and let him be the one to suggest to u to come live with him not u imposing ur self on him.

the truth is that most of our young ladies this days are not tolerant they want things to always go thier way if u were well brought up by ur parents then u would know how to treat ur in laws, give them respect cos they deserve it . even in ur own home ur parents can sometimes be difficult but u still tolerate them so y cant u tolerate ur inlaws if they were ur parents or brothers nd sisiters would u throw them out? nd dont forget that one day u too will be an in law to someone so watever u sow now u must definitely reap, my advise is do unto others as u would want them to do to u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lets face fact ladies, am a married woman nd i love my hubby i only pray such a thing does not happen to me or any one i know, men will always be men, they cheat nd lie all the time nd we know it .only 2% of them are faithfull so if such a thing shuld happen u take heart nd give him his dues by burying him the way he be buried if not for any reason for the sake of the children cos when they r grown up they will not forgive u if u do the wrong thing. and God will not hold anything against u, and u see that ur life will be smooth and free from sorrows!! MEN wat can we do we need them in our lives.

she shouldnt be jealous its the love tht the man has for her tht he has extended to her kids she should be happy alot of women r praying for such love nd attention nd u av a hubby who cares for ur kids nd u r complaning tht woman's brain shuld be checked!

its just so pathetic tht u girls r feeling so bad abt it the man has a right to his own opinion, u dont av to insult him to proove tht niger girls are not wat he thinks they r , instead u r prooving him right!

and if i may ask wat do u mean by a decent girl? one who pretends? u can only not marry an ex prostitute if u know that she was one wat if u dont know abt her past, like the story of the wedding where all the men claimed they slept with the bride, she went out with them not sell her body to them, they broke her heart nd she had to move ahead and thk God she is finanlly married, are u guys saying u would marry only Virgins, cos if u dont marry a vigin then she might be an ex prostitute food for thought.

when u just got married it be fun for say a few months, then things starts happenning that can make u regret marrying but all those things pass away with time and when u compare ur life now that u are married to when u were single u find out that ur life is better now than it were then to me marriage is not boring as long as u av kids to show for it nd more especially when there is love in the relationship, the truth is that most of us espect too much from our partners we want it to remain the way it was when we were dating but it cant be so, the earlier we realise that the better for us.

Bsc Economics,second class lower,graduated from Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma