Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia To Sell Oil, Gas At ‘Any Price Point’ To "Friendly Countries" by JesuEruOluwa: 5:53am On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Career / Re: What Is A Well-paying Job In Nigeria? by JesuEruOluwa: 12:30pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Mention The Worst Company To Work For In Nigeria, & Give Reasons. by JesuEruOluwa: 7:53pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Lagos city polytechnic. The worst place to work in Nigeria, from owing of salary to bad working conditions |
Celebrities / Re: Jim Iyke: My Fight With Uche Maduagwu Was Orchestrated (Video) by JesuEruOluwa: 2:40pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by JesuEruOluwa: 9:45pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
GurlFriend: I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.
My Experience
I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'
My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.
That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.
So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.
I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.
He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?
Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.
I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.
After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.
Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?
That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.
Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.
What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.
I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.
When you will not let them rest. More people would still fall victim until people are not victimised for remaining single. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by JesuEruOluwa: 9:37pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
GurlFriend: If you are gay, why do you want to ruin an innocent woman's life? It is the same foolish you that will snoop on the man, gossip and torment him that he's single. Even after you guess he's gay, you will keep telling him to get married or throw subtle shade. This is just the beginning. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Sexually Molested By A Fellow Guy? by JesuEruOluwa: 1:30am On Dec 30, 2019 |
MicroSweet: Lived together in a University hostel with a bunkmate for a whole session but never noticed that dude was gay, not until I returned from a holiday and saw him being mobbed and beaten to a pulp. Dude was bleeding: he was caught in the act of homosexualism.
And I began to reminisce on how I once caught him applying a medication on his bruised penile cap. I also recalled that he has always been visited by only male students. I was naive and uninformed, and so couldn't connect the dots.
He was top in his class, a first-class material and a force to reckon with in his field of academics. Unfortunately, the shame of that discovery drove him out of the school before graduation. Eyah |
Health / Re: Urgent: Do I Have HIV Or HSV? by JesuEruOluwa: 5:52am On Dec 20, 2018 |
stiles009: Every minute of delay before you test for hsv is dangerous. If your assumption is right and you're indeed hsv positive, then you will commence treatment and save your family and friends unnecessary hassle. But if otherwise, you mind will be at rest and you can resume your normal life with less worry and more caution.
My point is, go test yourself and ascertain whats really wrong.
To those saints castigating up there, remember: "let he who is without sin cast the first stone". Thanks a lot. I'll get tested today by God's grace. |
Health / Re: Urgent: Do I Have HIV Or HSV? by JesuEruOluwa: 11:20pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
xendra: there's always a price for every recklessness and this is yours. I hope it's nothing serious and you learn, I guess you felt she was too white/clean to be infected uh! You know how "white girls are the best" it's the baby I really feel sorry for. poor baby Thanks a lot. I have learnt my lessons and still learning. I just pray it won't be the hard way. I'm scared for the baby as well. I pray I don't have HSV so i won't have to go through the stress of convincing my sister to conduct hsv test for her daughter. |
Health / Re: Urgent: Do I Have HIV Or HSV? by JesuEruOluwa: 10:56pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
OkunrinOloro: Hopefully, the answer is Yes. You do have AIDS. You'll die a lonely and painful death and no one will mourn for you. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) you wish... as scared as I am. I'm not bothered about your comment. I know you are a devil. But Guess what I am God's servant even though I'm a sinner. 2 Likes |
Health / Urgent: Do I Have HIV Or HSV? by JesuEruOluwa: 10:46pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
I'm very scared right now. Pls permit my bad grammar and forgive me for the length of my rant.
I met this white gal on Facebook and we just clicked. After a week, we finally met and we had MouthAction which was our first date ( about 7 weeks ago).After then I became very sick. Although I bit her lips while kissing and I guess I swallowed some blood during the encounter. After this I became sacred In a matter of days I became extremely ill. At first I had symptoms of HIV all over, swollen lymph, dry cough, sore throat, headaches, fever and oral sore, extreme fatigue etc. I had HIV test 28 days after and on the 35th day with both coming out Negative
Again, about a weeks ago, a friend (an infection specialist) called to greet me, so while on the phone, I wasn't too concentrated because of I was attending to a witlow on my foot toe. She asked me what I was doing, I told her and the next thing she said was was.. hope u don't have HIV? My heart skipped. I just waved the question aside. That day I went for another HIV test for the (third time in 6wks) which also came negative again.
Today, I googled some stuffs and I saw Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) as being related to witlow. I decided to see a doctor and explain the symptoms, he prescribed an anti viral drug which I have started using. I also conducted another HIV test (Negative). Although I'm thinking of going for an HSV test too.
The main issue now I read this night that the HSV virus can be caught orally, I could remember that my sister's 1.5 year old daughter I bit some fruits for her last week.. she has became sick and she's yet to recover and this morning I also shared unwashed utencil with my sister (the mother) when she came visiting. I'm just scared I haven't infected her with the virus lest her husband start having thought of her infidelity and if I had infected her daughter too.
What do I do please, I'm confused?
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Career / Re: Your Actions On Social Media Affect Your Employers by JesuEruOluwa: 10:07am On Nov 10, 2018 |
[s] Mynd44: People here saying a company has no business going through your social media accounts before employing them or their social media life is private and their employers have no business with it are naive.
And I find it hilarious
When trouble happens, the headlines won't say something like "Mike Ignatius says men should not cook at home" or "Niyi Ajayi thinks women are not equal to men" nah.
The headline will read shit like "Treeline Bank staff say women are not equal to men"
Then the opening line will be "A staff of Treeline bank with handle @ Mike Ignatius has come out to say that women are lesser than men……."
Then the brand managers have to start running around to do damage control so their brand doesn't get dragged because of one staff
Wait until you see a picture of yourself on the biggest Nigerian blogs with shit captions like "Treeline bank staff drinks himself to stupor, is this due to the stress of working in a Nigerian bank?"
Then the bank has to spend millions on the brand
Of course, it is your private life. But are your employers/potential employers willing to expose themselves like that?
I don't think so.
Reminds me of when that bank staff threw a calculator at a junior. That bank suffered……
Wait until you see a picture of yourself on the biggest Nigerian blogs with shit captions like "Treeline bank staff drinks himself to stupor, is this due to the stress of working in a Nigerian bank?"
Then the bank has to spend millions on the brand
A lot of people are weird.
Go through their media and in one, there is a picture of them with the name of their company everywhere, branded cloths and all and in the next, they are tweeting porn.
Cool if you work for Pornhub but certainly not an auditing firm
In summary, your "job" with your company does not end at 5:45 when you close, it continues because you are an ambassador and as much as you deserve some chill in your life, you should also try hard not to hurt your company by your actions.
Every positive action leads back to then but people will see the negative more. That is what makes the news and the headlines will be screaming their name in block letters.
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Politics / Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala And Mia Amor Mottley, The Prime Minister Of Barbados (Photo) by JesuEruOluwa: 1:30pm On Sep 19, 2018 |
Let's join hands to fry some yams
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Politics / Re: Buhari & Murderous Gang Woefully Failed To Demonize Shiites by JesuEruOluwa: 8:00am On Sep 17, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Nigerian Students Demand Arrest Of Kemi Adeosun Over NYSC Certificate Forgery by JesuEruOluwa: 7:57am On Sep 17, 2018 |
They should go an face thier studies. 31 Likes 4 Shares |
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Celebrities / Re: Bimbo Oshin Joins Nose Ring Gang (pics) by JesuEruOluwa: 4:48pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Twitter Community Amazed By Bukola Saraki’s Interaction With Young Professionals by JesuEruOluwa: 11:03am On Sep 16, 2018 |
Total Bullshit
Who Saraki Epp? 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Literature / Re: Why More Men Die By Suicide – Chimamanda Adichie by JesuEruOluwa: 7:44am On Sep 16, 2018 |
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Career / Re: What Is The Highest Monthly Salary Of Someone You Know In Nigeria? by JesuEruOluwa: 7:43am On Sep 16, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Meet Akintola Williams The Accountant: Biography, Dapper At 99 by JesuEruOluwa: 12:21am On Sep 16, 2018 |
Righteousness89: Papa will be nodding his head at What Pmb has turned the Nation too..
Papa will be nodding his Head at Pa Sagay and pa igbokwe who said madam Kemi who committed forgery should be retained becos she is doing Magic...
Papa Happy Birthday Sir...
I Thank GOD for keeping you for us this Long and I pray that you make Peace with him so that Once you Close your Eyes here, You will be with JESUS in HEAVEN..
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Foreign Affairs / Re: No Saudi Arabia Mosques In Europe Until Poland Can Build Cathedrals In Saudi by JesuEruOluwa: 10:32pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
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Crime / Re: Man banished for stealing joystick in Kogi. by JesuEruOluwa: 8:35pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
SarakiBukola: Once upon a time....
I witnessed where a dick-snatcher who returned an albino diick to a black guy at Ojuelegba bustop ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) |
Celebrities / Re: Opemipo Bamgbopa: Bank Alerts Turn Me On by JesuEruOluwa: 6:24pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
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Religion / Re: I Hear The Voice Of The Trumpet About To Sound by JesuEruOluwa: 8:55am On Aug 26, 2018 |
Are you sure its not Sensorineural Hearing Loss you have?
Even if Jesus is coming, he's not coming for you!
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Religion / Re: MKO Tibetan: Funke Felix-Adejumo Is Playing With Sudden Death Over Dollar Seeds by JesuEruOluwa: 8:49am On Aug 26, 2018 |
Very gullible set of people!
They will sow seed and yet sow fornication and adultery in their record plantation, same sunday evening after church.
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Religion / Re: Reasons Financial Prosperity Doesn't Answer To Prayers Directly by JesuEruOluwa: 8:48am On Aug 26, 2018 |
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Religion / Re: Using Actors And Actresses For Church Publicity. Right Or Wrong? by JesuEruOluwa: 8:38am On Aug 26, 2018 |
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Religion / Re: Using Actors And Actresses For Church Publicity. Right Or Wrong? by JesuEruOluwa: 8:34am On Aug 26, 2018 |
Comedy in church encourages lying!
Well what do I know?
That won't stop pastors from sleeping with church members
Won't stop the pop and Catholic Bishops from being gay
Won't stop Choirmaster from sleeping with choristers!
Useless Religion with no bearing and direction!!! 10 Likes |
Politics / Re: Dr Saraki And Other Dignitaries Awaiting Arrival Of Emir Of Ilorin At The Dubar by JesuEruOluwa: 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Osinbajo Caused Gridlock In Bariga As He Trekked To Pay Homage by JesuEruOluwa: 12:52pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Miyetti Allah Disowns Member Over 'Saraki Resign Or Be Forced Out' by JesuEruOluwa: 12:47pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
uboma: This is not enough.
Garus Gololo should be arrested and persecuted for the inflammatory speech against the office of the Senate President.
Only this will deter a repeat in the future. Not in Nigeria except Garus is a Southerner 25 Likes 1 Share
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