Faiththatworks:
Isn't it too early for some people to start complaining and critising everything
Anyone who reads comments in this platform would think that Nigeria is collapsing
It seems there are some people who have decided to be bitter at every news in this country
When you repeatedly go online and start abusing everyone because no one sees you,you eventually become a sad,depressing and angry person.
Those that keep lying to themselves that they can separate their online personality which is always abusive and the lifes they live at home or at work are deceiving themselves
If they are not careful they will start suffering symptoms of being bipolar
Coming to the issue at hand,I daresay the government should go one step further and release what each state and local government has collected in the past six months
From the figures above,it is clear that the states and local government have collected more money combined than the Federal government but the question we should ask is what are they doing with all this money

Until our people learn to leave shouting Tinubu this Tinubu that and start asking serious questions from our State governors and Local Government Chairmen and women,I am sorry we are just going round in circles
A state like Delta state should be the Dubai of the south south with all the billions collected but the people there will leave their Governor and start shouting Tinubu
Na wah,our people have seriously brainwashed into thinking that all their problem is Tinubu while those local criminals are busy looting them blind
Tufiakwa!!!!!!

You are talking nonsense. What Nigeria needs is a leader that can call for accountability to the administration in his time. Nigeria present President is not considering accountability and he doesn't care about how money is spent because he is also unaccountable. If he is, he will watch out for the people serving with or under him. If the leader have issue, the government parastatals will have issues also. This govt is bleeped up and there is nothing they can do about it. Unless Tinubu and the party get out of there and another should be elected by constitution... They are not fit to move Nigeria forward.

Odewaleadesoye:


DAILY POST

The only way peace will not follow because love has left u guys. Love is not a feeling but a person. If you decide to love someone, make it a decision not an emotion. Do u think, u are in relationship with a perfect guy or perfect lady. Whether friendships, relationships, marriage, whoever you are with as ur man or woman, such person is a human being and no human being is perfect including yourself... Take it that way.

Fiscus105:
Ladies and Gents can you accept/ endure this, going into marriage?

If you finally settled down with him or her will u be happy in the marriage till end?

Will you be completely faithful with him/her till end?

Age is just a number only when true love sets in. Love is powerful enough to set the mind right concerning age difference.

victorclean:


Don't he has his body count as well?. Marriage is for future and past should be thrashed totally for peace

But some people have not left their past. So those need to be revealed out for transparency and clarity. If it spitted out, I will have the mindset that I am going for an imperfect lady who her past have been rough. Then I will reveal mine to her and let her know that marriage is for two imperfect people coming together.

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

What is your relationship with him before your dad demise? If it's a lovely way, you can use that method to talk to him. But still don't forget that you attach it with Prayer. Don't take him to anywhere but sit with him and have a deep talk. Those deep discussions will help by bringing out what happen and troubles him. Stubbornness can be good sometimes but let evil tormentors not take advantage over that. Maybe there is something that troubled him and he changed. One cannot just change like that. Try Prayer to God and finally sit with him and have deep discussions. Don't apply seniority on this. Also get prepared to be annoyed by his attitude to u. But get over it and be cool with it. Follow him up and pray with and for him always if truly you want him to change.

Don't forget, expect annoyed words or attitudes but be calm and patient as far as you love him and want him to stop stealing and other evil ways. Dnt be harsh and don't be authoritative on this please.

I am a first born and a first son in the family. I know wat this is by experience... Thank you. God will gladly help.

FreeStuffsNG:
Hmmmm. Motivational speaker.
Sir, election has held and true winner declared.

The 3rd can not be 1st , it's not possible, it's not by motivational speaking or fabricated agulu results. Nigerians have chosen your President as Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu , GCFR.

3rd becoming the 1st cannot be possible. But let me remind you that With God, all things are POssible. It cannot be by motivational speaking or any fabricated agulu abi, but let me shock you, it will be by God through Christ Jesus...

I have made it clear that people like you should not generalise the word Nigerians on claiming Tinubu as our president. I am a Nigerian and including others... Majorities of Nigerians can not have Tinubu Bola Ahmed as Our President. And I am saying it again, Tinubu Bola Ahmed is not the constitutional President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Even though that question is the only question that will make me graduate if I choose BAT, I will always be glad to have a spill over or carryover... thank you unconstitutional Nigerian.

muykem:
I am very disappointed in Peter Obi lawyers. They didn't come up with any figures to show Peter Obi won the election.
We voted manually, votes counted manually, results announced in the poling units manually, results were entered into form EC8A manually, each agents collect their results copies manually.
I don't know why is it difficult to prove our case.

I don't think you followed the PEPT processes of HE Peter Gregory Obi. If you do, you will not believe all that is in that rubbish judgement book. We proved the results of states which are mentioned that during legal processes. Don't believe what the five man justice read out on 6th September.

Psady:
Be careful with your utterance,don't be use as a scapegoat.

Which utterances I cannot be careful with my utterances because I speak the truth. Nigerians Army are to be loyal to their country(citizen) because it is from the the country citizen that govt came out.
Anything that want to happen, let it happen. 16 Sept should come and Remove APC president from that seat. He is not qualified. Soldiers are not to be loyal to the president but preferably the constitution.
Don't tell me to be careful with my words/utterances.

ogododo:


https://punchng.com/el-rufai-raises-the-alarm-over-insecurity-ahead-may-29/

He can give orders to Banks in Kaduna to continue issuing old notes but he cannot give orders to state military and police commissioners to do their work. This Man is a fool by nature...

uncleck:
If I'm in your shoes, this is what I will do:

I'll call my wife into my room the very day I come back from travel. After hot totori with her, I'll tell her as follows: Your sister has been a very good family member and has helped us in more ways than one. But at this juncture I want to tell you that I'm developing erotic feelings for her. I don't want anything that will break the peace we enjoy in this family. Please tell her to get an apartment ASAP. She can always come over and stay with you whenever I travel. If you don't feel comfortable telling her or doesn't know how to tell her, call her in right now let me tell her myself.

If she chooses the later option and brings her in, I'll say to her: Baby girl, I so much appreciate your presence in this family, but the problem is brewing. I'm having erotic feelings for you, I don't want them to materialize. Please get an apartment ASAP. You can always come back and keep your sister company when I travel. I'll support you wherever necessary. I know you're of age so you perfectly understand me. And please let this be our little secret.

I prefer that he discuss the issue with his wife after some thorough and emotional sex. And also discuss how him and his wife will stay in one room from henceforth. With this few of mine, that feelings will go and leave u alone.

Let him learn d habit of discussing his feelings and dream related to his wife. Man no be firewood. No matter how disciplined u are, this feelings will come. When it comes, build a strong wall by these few ideas of mine. Good bye.
Don't forget, I also a man. I know did feeling.

post=114237303:
“I will not worship at Catholic Church again until Fr. Mbaka is called back and Adoration Ministry is reopened” – Nigerian man says.

A Nigerian Man, Akanchawa Orba has said he will not worship at Catholic church until Rev. Fr. Mbaka’s Adoration Ministry is reopened, Reports.

"I will not worship at Catholic Church again until Rev fr mbaka is called back and adoration ministry is reopened" he wrote on Facebook, As Sighted By on Tuesday, June 28.

The Catholic Priest had announced the shutdown of the Adoration Ministry following the order given to him by the Catholic Bishop of Enugu Diocese, Calistus Onaga to embark on a one-month retreat.

Recall that the cleric described Peter Obi, the presidential candidate of the Labour Party, as being too stingy and unfit to be the next President of Nigeria.

Following the public outburst, Onaga sanctioned Mbaka and directed the shutdown of his ministry until the due canonical process initiated by the Diocese is concluded.

See Photo And His Reaction On Facebook As Obtained By Below:

Oga, if you like,don't go to church again. That's your wahala. Mbaka is not God and he is not even Jesus Christ. He is not the one that have the key to heaven so why you dey carry am for ur human like 911 tipper.

He was not existing when Jesus Christ brought the church to existence. No one should leave the temple of God because of a mere mortal man.

Mbaka is a priest and Man of God which for years, I loved him and I still do. I love his OBIdient to the Bishop and the Adoration was shut down for just 30days. He is a good man and a man sent by God. But what shock me was how his followers are taking him as if he is the Jesus Christ in the Word of God or God, The Father in Heaven. The Heavenly Father is greater than Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ is greater than Father Mbaka and Fr Mbaka is greater than me or you...

If Fr Mbaka's followers are mishaving in bad ways, then they have not caught Jesus Christ in their lives which Mbaka was sent to preach and tell to them about.

I don't think Jesus Christ can approves this according to The Word of God.

I come in peace...

LeoDeKing:

Can Tinubu supporters do that in the east without getting attacked by ipob pigs? That's the question, stop disturbing my mention if you can't provide answers.

So are you trying to telling me that those atiku and tinubu have not tried going there to be sure that the biafrans attack them?

My friend, your atiku and tinubu are afraid of going there not because of biafrans but because of their evil conscience that are disturbing them.

Let them go there and try to do campaign and see weda they will be attacked or accepted.

At least, there is no harm in trying...

But OBIdient Master, Peter Obi, was not afraid of going to the north for campaign because of his clean conscience. Labour party are no longer doing tribalism or religion as it seems before.


They have prove themselves thru OBIdient to be united party.


Pls hear me well...

Your CONSCIENCE is your POLICE DOG.

Even tinubu is afraid of lagosians that is why he ordered for clarity of road to pass through for his show off. He even accompany himself with over 30 cars convoy.

Oga/Madam, check am well. Even network personnel follow them to jam networks for tinubu.

I am OBIdient

Uchugba:

See this one saying Rubbish.......go and sit down jor

Weda u be oga or madam, listen very well.

If there is no sense of LOVE,there is hatred or anger.

Do you think I was standing wen I typed this?

Think well God pikin.

If u know dat God love u, then u are required to love odas. Don't allow hatred or anger exist. It destroys or damages. I am man ooo. If u want him to grow up, teach/train him as your younger brother as he is to u.

Let Love Lead...

The way your parent render help to u to grow up and u become responsible, then do it to him. He needs you now more than ever.

Please be cool with him and reason with him. Talk, ask, mingle and help him.

I believe it will yield a good and best result in his life. So dat if you look at him in the future, u will love the brother you want.

I never meant to insult you but use your words wisely.

because I cool, doesn't mean I can't insult u heavily.

abbey621:


Are you done? You've just typed rubbish all in the name of contribution. Whether you are male or female, nobody owes you a damn thing in this life. A 24 year old is a full grown adult, nobody owes him a damn thing, the father loved him enough to send him to higher institution, he could have learned a trade or an agbero yet the poor man chose to spend his hard earned money to give this ungrateful bastard a chance at a good future.

Man of the house? Who dash monkey Versace? Man of the house is not by mouth but by example, some females are more useful than males, some females are more of learship material than some males, your genitals does not give you any inherent right, so stop that nonsense talk, person wey dem suppose carry go army cantonment for proper baptism, you dey yarn encouragement.....Spits!

If there is any insult I give to ur post, leave it follow me, But if there is insult in urs, I stand under God's Grace to command them back to you in Jesus name...Amen.

How can u feel wen u see ur blood be beaten up in any army cantonment because of his inappropriate life?

Are u normal at all?

Ur own blood fa. Habaa... Your broda needs ur help as a sister so as to change from that improper behaviour and you are here to neglect him. Ask yourself. Is dat leadership?

A man cannot be a husband without a wife and a woman cannot be a wife without her husband.

A person cannot be a man of the house without your help as a woman/sister of the house. He is there and connected to you because time is coming wen he needs you. Now it's the time and you are giving up?

He's not my blood but please and please let him not be lost.

A man cannot be a broda without his siblings and u cannot be referred as a sister without him or odas calling you sister.

Somehow somehow, you guyz are connected by blood for a reason. Don't tell me that God made a mistake for making you his senior blood sister.

He needs everyone in the family as far as this life is concern.

You have called him your younger brother, then be a senior sister to him in this life.

If u think am lying, ask those dat are the only child in the family. Who can call them brother or sister in that family?

I don't mean to insult you but don't try to bring out the spirit/beast in me or anyone. Be caring and loving to him in terms of your words and deeds as ur blood.
It's very important.

bizbrainko:
Peter Obi's Anambra is a killing field and he wants to govern Nigeria. Charity begins from home

Shut up. Is Peter Obi the governor of Anambra state?

Omihanifa:
The girl don use am, he's no longer himself as long as he's in that marriage, he will continue to worship her and be her slave

The other day, he was busy massaging her legs at iyabo ojo's mother funeral

Early last year that was how he was also washing the girl's pant just to prove a point that there's no big deal in men washing theirs wives pant.

Every time he's always the one doing the stupid things why can't the girl too be licking his hairy armpits just to prove that she loves him

Weak nigga

But is it ur doings? Na man and his wife be dat ooo. No come vex for wetin dey post for social media. E no concern u and ur kingdred. Enjoy ur own husband or wife. If na public or private una settle to do am for joy and happiness, do am honourably.

SayAsSeen:
Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.

My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.


Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.

I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

It is not right.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Yes, I agree with him that u guys dont regard him. You dont love him as I think. I have been on this stage and i really know wat I need. No one in this world who doesnt need help even u or your brother. Have that mindset. I guess your brother has temper. Your father no do well at all. Y will ur father shift his attention to his daughters? Parents nowadays are fond of not giving equal love to all their chidren. Be close to all or be close to none. He feels cheated by his way of thinking. My spirit is telling me that u dont love him.
The way he spoke to ur sister is because of anger. Your brother dont have problem with you my dear. He has problem with his parents(father). Wat he needs is attention and contributions to the family if he is asked. Joining yahoo yahoo is because of lack of love from parent. Let him be given his right as the man of the house. Concern him with wat is his. If your sister is sending money, she should send his own to him. He is qualified ro recieve money. No matter what, if his take is 50k, let his abroad sister send 50k to him direct. To every only son, there is a unique right for them in the family. Give it to him. If he derail his own share, his eyes will open and reason with u.

Your brother really needs you guyz including ur parent attention and help. Know him and encourage him. See reason to what he say.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Bro, leave her and find anoda. Church na church. Simple...

Humphrizy:
Majority of people using cooking gas don't know that their gas cylinder has an expiry date. They don't know when the gas cylinders will expire and when it does, it can results to leakage that can lead to explosion. There have been many cases of gas cylinder explosions and when this happens, lives are lost and properties worth millions are also lost in the fire that follows. So many lives have been lost and this is a call to concern.


According to a State Coordinator, Standard Organisation of Nigeria [SON], “If a cylinder of 12kg explodes, it is capable of bringing down a two storey building. Cooking gas cylinders must not exceed five (5) years.” According to the SON Director, most people using gas cylinders hardly remember when it was bought. Once you discover that your gas cylinder has expired, stop using it in order to avoid explosion.


This is the process to verify the expiry date of the LPG cylinder
The expiry date of cooking gas cylinder can be found on one of the metal strips that connect the body of the cylinder to top ring (handle). It is printed or pasted on the inner side of the strip. Alphabets from A to D is painted on it along with a number. The process of decoding the expiry date is very simple. The alphabet A, B, C, D represents the month it will expire while the number beside it indicates the year the gas cylinder will expire.


A year is divided into four quarters which are:
A – January to March
B – April to June
C – July to September
D – October to December
The letters represent the month of expiry while the number indicates the year of expiry.
For example, if a cylinder has ‘B 20′ printed on the metal strip. The letter B represents month June, and 20 indicates the year 2020. So a cylinder having B 20 mentioned on it means it will expire in June 2020.

After the expiry date, a gas cylinder has a grace period of 3 - 4 months because the cylinder cannot be extracted immediately out of the circulation. There have been several reports on how distributors tamper with the expiry date because they are written with paint. When next you buy or receive a gas cylinder, make sure you check the expiry date and stay safe.

Where can I find it on my 5kg gas cylinder?

sapphiere:
A Nigerian film actor, fashion designer and a former BBNaija housemate Ifu Ennada has revealed why she has been ruthless to men and has promised to amend her ways.
She took to her insta-story to explain why she has been ruthless to men.

She wrote:

God have finish his work on your life for a very long time... so my dear, before God will bless you with a good man again, you will have to go for confession to God, priest and those good men you mess up. You have bite more than what you can chew.

That story no straight at all. Investigate more police and efcc. The story no clear.

TheRareGem1:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/11/fg-open-to-new-creative-ideas-in-growing-nigerias-economy-osinbajo/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

The new creative and innovative idea that I have conceive that will take us out of this second recession in one presidential administration is for the present government of Nigeria be handled over to the rightful pilot of this nation. Today is the future of the yesterday youths.

IamD18:
Bride price is bride price regardless of how much you spent. The fact remains that you paid something.

You people should allow Igbos with their traditions. Face yours.

You don't expect Igbos to behave like a particular tribe that accepts 2 cups of red oil and Cameroon pepper of 230 Naira as bride price.

You don't expect Igbos to behave like some tribes where the man will have to take 100+ strokes of cane as bride price.

There are levels to qualities and standard in everything. Igbo women are standard, that's why people leave their tribes where you can marry with just pepper and oil, come down to Igbo land to spend more than half of a million for bride price.

Adaeze and Achalugo nwanyi oma is different from Nwanyi ofe mmanu! The quality is the difference and the difference is the quality.

Which igbo quality Igbo girls are too expensive and as a matter of fact, woman na woman weda igbo or hausa or yoruba or any tribe. Igbo girls, continue deceiving urselves... I am much impressed dat it never crosses 50k. Time is coming wen igbo girls will beg for a husband and they willnot see. Remember dat the girls in nigeria are more dan boiz. Be careful and dont get deceived.

iwaeda:


https://punchng.com/endsars-listen-to-youths-make-changes-can-tells-fg

Buhari don deaf and e dey blind now.

mamapidgin:


pls tell me which prophecy should we believe in the one from Pastor Adeboye that said Coronavirus is Sent By God to Humble Mankind and Direct people to His way, or this one from Apostle Johnson who claimed that Coronavirus is a manmade virus to achieve the new world order i never knew that the Apostle is a republican party member telling Americans to vote for Donald trump because he's the only one that can fight the creators of this Virus.... My brother don't allow religion to blind you use your head...

you mean use your head not your heart? My dear, dont neglect to use heart, thats where God can take total dominion not ur head.

Roon9:
How come we have so many Apostles in Nigeria
Apostleship is a revered position that marks the end of Gods fivefold ministerial cadre; As such one can only become an apostle after first being A Teacher, A pastor, Evangelist, Prophet and lastly an Apostle.

Sadly, today you find young men with curly hair parading as Apostles. God have mercy on Nigerians

Are you God? To them, it might be a blessing. So y troubling yourself? That Grace that God gave him is not the same with other's own. His own type of grace is for God to catapult him apostle. And God fulfilment came to pass. Another person will decide to go through those stages and God will tell him to go thruogh. So its all about grace and God's will. So leave God and him