InvertedHammer: / If Nigerian ladies want money...and you don't have money...why not face your front? Or are these ladies extracting the money at gunpoint?
It is a sign of weakness for a man to 1). Succumb to manipulation 2) bitch and whine about being manipulated. Why is it that it is only money that many of you can offer in a relationship? You tie your self worth to money only and expect ladies not to notice.
The problem is internal. Find out what makes you an easy target for manipulation by the female gender. Once you figure it out, you will be alright. Thereafter you can unchain yourself from the victim mentality. A man who cannot say NO is the cause of his problems.
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The Oracle has finally spoken. Bro, u na real InvertedHammer.
This is the absolute truth. Men are the problem. Of course, u wont tie ur self-worth to money and expect ladies not to notice. These ladies are smarter than most guys. Behind the scenes, they run the show but thanks to recent awareness; many have become enlightened and aware.
When guys don fall mugu, dem go come online dey hate ladies. Why ? U presented yourself to be exploited na. Some even go into a bidding contest with their fellow guys. Seriously ? Who's losing?
Thanks for this matured comment InvertedHammer. You're deep. U be man not all these feminine men (simps) crying upandan.
After all the rants, the so-called men will still send half of their salary to sleep with a girl they've been chasing since July.
apache22b: Tinubu is the Grand-Patron of politics in Nigeria.
Now we have shown the useless Obidient's urchins what politics is all about, Peter Obi thinks Nigerians are like his useless gullible Obidient's urchins that takes what ever nonsensical statistics he dishes out from his smelling mouth.
I pity anyone who will cast his vote for a pathological liar like Peter Obi and his useless Obidient's urchins when we have the Great Bola Ahmed Tinubu on the same ballot.
My fellow Nigerians and youths
Please let's all massively and vote our Messiah [b]Bola Ahmed Tinubu [/b]and watch how he'll transform Nigeria and make our lives and generation better again .
Smile, I can say it's almost only possible if you're posted to a PPA that pays well aside from the 33k you're going to be earning from federal government, or you try working it to one(first secret)....
Second is the environment and if your PPA is going to provide you with good accommodation....
Most of all, I'll say it all depends on your personality, who you are, what you intend to achieve and how you set your goals......
I'll tell you a short story.....
I'm also a corper, presently serving in Ogun state, I'll be passing out next month ending by God grace, so far so good I have been able to save up around 800k.....
How did I achieve that?
I was posted to a private farm, which pays well, 35k stipend outside my 33k from federal government,
*Note* I guess the reason why they agreed to the pay such amount, was because I had experience in the field (poultry farming) i graduated as an agricultural student in University of ilorin, with practical knowledge in the field while in school, so that boosted my confidence during my interview with them....
I was provided with free accommodation....
Fast forward to few months working with the company, they were impressed with my presence at the farm, It was a local environment, I had good rapon with the bosses, so I took to the advantage to ask them if they could please permit me to run a POS business as a side hustle in the farm, God so good it was granted....
Fast forward to last month, I was promoted as the manager of the farm, though still contemplating if I want to stay after my service year or not.....
Mr Lekan, pls email me on nwaekejojo@gmail.com. I want to find out some information about Ogun state from you since you're serving der. I'll be waiting, thanks...
Shebbs: I Don Laugh Taya. Truth Is I Have Bald Head, I'm Not Even Fine, I Love Wearing Shorts, I Love Natives, I Have The Letters "A" "U" And "E" On My Names But I'm A Good Person.
According to Siofra, you are a confirmed wicked man because you have all the qualities she listed. LOL.
Well done Mr Darius, I appreciate your effort in educating the masses . I have subscribed to your channel on YouTube and intend to do my best in sharing your videos however please try to be consistent oh and keep doing what you do. I love education and educators as well. I believe intelligence and smartness are attractive. I'm not too good in english language but I hope to get better under your tutelage . Thank you...
How the people who take our virginity, and the circumstances surrounding the event forever shape our sexuality.
THE IMPRINTED WOMAN. Ever heard a woman complain that she seems to be attracting only Players and Bad Boys? Or that she seems to attract only married men? Or that she seems to be approached by only a certain type of men? And that no matter how hard she tries to break the pattern, she always finds herself dating the same type of dudes over and over?
That's because of something called the Sexual Imprint.
The type of men a woman keeps falling for, more often than not, is the same type like the man who was her first. The kind of men she has a weakness for, 99% of the times, is the same kind like the man who took her virginity.
Human sexuality is PREDICTABLE that way: Our preferences are forever set by our First. Our first time, both the INDIVIDUAL and the CIRCUMSTANCES set a pattern than we follow for the rest of our life.
THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING A WOMAN'S SEXUAL IMPRINT. Ever heard of educated and professional women, married to successful respectable men, but who keep cheating with lowlife thugs who are goodfornothing losers? Ever seen those sophisticated polished females with everything going for them, familywise and careerwise, who, for some strange reason keep getting entangled with jailbirds and criminals to the complete embarrassment of their spouses and families? Why do thugs and other scum of Society have such a pull on these ladies? --------------->Because these are the same type and kind of men these ladies gave their virginity to back in their reckless impressionable teenage years. The lowlives IMPRINTED on these women. And the imprint bears its unfailing fruits throughout these ladies' lives.
Women get forever attached to the guy who takes their virginity. If the guy leaves, they gravitate to the guy's type and kind. For the remainder of their lives. A woman deflowered by a Player forever has a weakness for Players. Even if she marries a gentleman, Players will easily make her cheat. To see the type of man a woman gave her virginity to, look at the men she CHEATS with. That's her imprint. Not who she marries. Who she marries is not even her first choice, or second, or third. Who she marries is who she chooses to impress Society and to survive . Not who pushes her buttons and sexually satisfies her. That will be her imprint. Because her imprint determined her sexuality ages back. So after marriage, if a woman cheats, the men she cheats with will follow closely the Player archetype. That's the power of sexual imprinting.
The consensus on the Manosphere is that the imprint doesn't necessarily happen with her first man, but her first 3 men. The type of men a woman's first 3 men are, will be the type of men who'll appeal to her sexually. Even if she doesn't marry that type. But she'll masturbate to it and, more often than not, mentally picture it to orgasm while fvcking her husband, provided he does not fit her imprint, as the majority of husbands don't.
TYPE VS CLASS. Every woman has her type and her class.
A woman's "class" is her choice of men relative to her social standing or career level. It can be men on her level or men at the higher level that her hypergamous nature aspires to. Class has more to do with resources than anything else. Class is more to impress society and to survive.
While a woman's "type" is the sexual side of the equation. The men who catch her attention and make her vagina tingle. The men she masturbates to and cheats with. That's her type. She may not marry it. And society might not approve if it. The type is her imprint. And it has nothing to do with looks. A woman can say, "That guy is gorgeous, but he ain't my type!".
WHEN YOU MATCH A WOMAN'S IMPRINT. Ever met a girl and she told you, "You remind me of someone..." Or ever had a girl show you a picture of her Ex and you noticed striking similarities between you and him? (Maybe you're both extremely tall. Or fat). That means she has a TYPE. And you are it.
That type a woman develops directly from sexual imprinting: The first man she had sex with.
Imprinting makes women have a type that they gravitate to time and again. The closer you match your GF's Exes or men she cheats with; the safer you are because you match her imprint. If your girl's Exes are thugs, and you're a church boy, just know she's in uncharted territory with you. She's trying to break the pattern. And more often than not, it won't end well with you. Even if you marry her, thugs will always have something in her.
A WOMAN'S HISTORY IS HER FUTURE. Who a woman has messed up with can not be discounted. Her past is her future. The men she starts out with are the men her destiny is tied up with. Literally.
Women are receivers. Men are givers. That's why semen goes from men to women and not the other way round. That's why resources go from men to women. That's why love goes from men to women. Life begins with men, women continue it. Men are the Source. Women are empty vessels.
Literally and figuratively.
A woman's pussy is an empty hole that you fill with your Dick. A woman's womb is an empty space that you fill with your baby. Just like her bank account is an empty space you must fill with your money. And her head is an empty space you must fill with knowledge and wisdom.
Women take everything from men. Even character traits and behaviors. A woman who loves a man starts acting and speaking like him. And even looking like him. Because she is taking in his nature. She is receiving from him.
The more natures a woman takes in, from different men, the more her system becomes corrupted. Men hate virgins for the simple reason that they're clingy and become too attached. But it's a good thing. The very thing a woman loses the more men she sleeps with.
Men love sluts and wh么r茅s but lament how sluts and wh么r茅s easily cheat and have a hard time bonding with them emotionally. These men are looking for the living among the dead. What they're looking for can only be found among virgins. Not among wh么r茅s with their numb pussies that have clocked tripple digit dick and to whom 2 rounds of sex no longer counts as sex but pre-intimacy. Definitely no love from numb hearts that have seen so much heartbreak they've hardened to steel. For the more men a woman has dated it means the more breakups she has endured and the more she has learned to harden her heart to make the next breakup less painful. At the end you've a woman who hardly sheds a tear after a man leaves her because she didn't allow herself to really fall in love to begin with. Which is where the majority of modern women are. With the exception of virgins.
THE VALUE OF THE VIRGIN. Between a non-virgin and virgin it is the virgin who will fulfill your fantasies better.
A virgin's sexuality has not been set.
Like the Earth at the beginning of Genesis, a virgin's sexuality is "without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep." (Genesis 1:2).
While a non-virgin is a clay pot or a vase that has already been shaped and can't change anymore because it's set; a virgin is a lump of clay unshaped, unmoulded and ready to be made into ANYTHING a man desires. The type of sex a virgin will lose her virginity to, will define her sexuality for life. A virgin who loses her virginity in a 3sum will find 3sums her weakness. If she loses her virginity to clean sex her sex life will be clean. If she loses her virginity to freaky sh卯t her sex life will be freaky and shitty. And to make her cross the floor to the other side will be a challenge. She can pretend but secretly she'll search out for the sex that she lost her virginity to. That's how educated and professional women who are sophisticated and polished keep crossing paths with Players, thugs and Bad Boys, because it's these men that these women gave their virginity to as naive careless teens, and bearing that particular imprint, it's only sex with these type of men that will satisfy them. All other sex is duty sex AKA chore sex.
Virgins are pure. Sexually, as well as spiritually.
Spiritual purity here does not mean holy in the Christian sense, but innocence. Virgins are innocent and receptive of new light. That's why long ago God commanded the Israelites to kill all men and non-virgin women after conquering an enemy nation (Numbers 31:17-18). But spare the Virgins. Because 1) virgins were going to bond with the Israelite men who would take their virginity, forever tying the destiny of these heathen virgins with that of the Israelites. And 2) Because virgins are lumps of clay still unmoulded which can be easily shaped into anything. Even outside of sex. It's easier to convert a virgin to your faith, culture and way of life than it is to convert a wh么r茅. Because first of all a virgin still respects men and is willing to submit and learn; while wh么r茅s believe "no man can tell me sh卯t" and "respect is earned" because so many men have let them down. That's the lesson God wanted ancient Israel to learn. The lesson modern men need to learn: Wh么r茅s will convert you. You can't save a wh么r茅. Just ask King Solomon.
Back in the days of our ancestors where tribal wars were the order of the day, young men had to prove themselves as brave warriors in battle to be given a wife, who was a virgin. This way all the women of the tribe carried the imprint of the warrior and never felt any desire whatsoever for weak and cowardly men effectively shutting these men out of sex and procreation to encourage all men to be warriors for the survival of the tribe.
I hear there are indigenous tribes somewhere out there that have their virgins deflowered only by the bravest warriors for the same reason of establishing that Warrior Imprint in their women.
OUR PARENTS ARE OUR FIRST SEXUAL IMPRINT. Sexual Imprinting is a broad and complex phenomenon that begins well before our first sexual encounter. With our parents. It is our parents who lay the groundwork of all our sexual preferences. It is also this part of sexual imprinting (as opposed to the first sexual encounter part) that the scientific world and mainstream media endorses and promotes: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprinting(psychology)
For obvious reasons Society doesn't talk a lot about how our losing our virginity also imprints us. That would open a can of worms especially concerning women. Who are the most affected by the phenomenon because by nature they're receivers.
HOW PARENTS SEXUALLY IMPRINT ON THEIR CHILDREN. A young man searches for a woman like his mother. As a little boy he takes his opinion of what a woman should be like, from his momma. Not to say the boy is sexually attracted to his mother, but he gets the visual cues of what a male finds attractive from the female who raises him. If he's a white boy but raised by a black woman, chances are he'll be into Interracial dating. That's a mother sexually imprinting on his son.
There's more.
If the boy's mother was a heavy smoker, chances are the boy will have a fetish and an attraction for women who smoke. If his mother was older when he was born, the boy will find older women attractive; the opposite being true also. Furthermore, the facial dimensions of his lovers if measured will more or less be the same as his mother's facial dimensions.
All these apply to the boy child as well as the girl child.
So, Your desire to date a woman like your mother, girls have that desire too: To date a man like their father. Consciously or subconsciously. In every man she loves, a girl is always looking for her father - whether a man as good as her Father or a man better than her Father. Even if she never had a father. That idea of what a perfect father must be like, will be the standard with which she'll measure all men she dates. Her Father is ALWAYS her point of reference. Daddy issues or not. Present father or absent father. And all it takes is for a guy to look like her father, or act like him or even dress like him or use the same perfume like him, for the girl to be attracted. Or repelled. It works both ways. A guy who looks too much like her father can either freak her out or draw her closer. Again, that's imprinting. It begins with our parents, both for humans and for animals.
IMPRINTING IN ANIMALS. When a duck hatches from it's egg, the first and nearest living thing it sees within a certain time-frame it follows thinking that's the mother. If a dog is the first thing a baby duck sees, then the baby duck will follow that dog up and down. When mating time comes, guess what? The duck will seek to mate with dogs. It's a proven science:
Sonnobax15: Any guyman wey insist on say him woman must chop belleful first before marriage,I no go too blame am.... Because the rate at which young ladies of nowadays take dey voluntarily dey offer their wombs to Yahoo boys for fetish reasons reach for any guyman wey get sense to draw that kind rain
Morray: I am Igbo but Nnamdi Kanu never for once passed as a genuine freedom fighter to me. Exploited the igbos to enrich himself and his family. I have got no sympathy to waste. He should face the full wrath of the law for the unrest he has brought to the south eastern region. Also the FG should go after bandits and some other separatist groups for this clamp down to be considered a fare one in the face of ethnic tensions
Please, I honestly would like you to enlighten me on what you meant when you said that Nnamdi Kanu exploited the Igbos to enrich his family. Thank you.
Deep Quote Ability to monetize a knowledge is a Superpower!
@JoeCool3150 what's good.?
@Seniorwriter
Your quote is just in line with what I wanted to talk to u about. I am good at writing but I dont know how to or have the means of monetizing it. I am hoping you can help me out.
oz4real83: I am already at work at this time of the day unlike u who may still be on the bed or looking for an innocent person to hack his bank account. Idiotic. Shit.
Ahmed0336, I dont think you will recover from this in a hurry. Oz4real was just being sarcastic but you refused to think b4 replying him. Now, see what you've done to yourself. Sorry...Just chill and let it go. Next time you'll be smarter.
[quote author=EndRape2 post=102830335]Which is better, or which will you advice sister to pick,
1. Living alone at old age with peace of mind 2. Living with an abusive useless man, that careless about her emotions, beat her, molest her, cheat on her, even sleep with their maid, different girls, stingy to her needs etc. Even have other wives , careless about the children.
You will advice her to pick number 2, right, because you think staying alone at old age is bad.
My brother go and get sense. When you married dat abusive man, was it by force? You happily said "I do". So, if eventually you discover dat he is an abusive man then you seek 4 divorce and quietly live your life or take d lessons and move on but den again it means that the lady had an issue with her choice of man. Now instead of admitting the mistake, women now generalise that all men are bad and ladies are getting married every weekend? I feel that most girls who have such view point have a story behind it, so please tell us about it.
Akwa-ibom people are very hospitable......I stay in a family house and I have been privileged to be hosted by Akwa-ibomites on several occasions, alongside other family house corp members.
Just get ready for their afan soup and other delicacies
And for my post camp experience, alot has happened...... and I wish to talk about them so badly
But then, I have too many responsibilities
....... from PPA, to handling my personal side hustle and then running family house as an exco
Man, it's not been easy
Anyway, let's be hopeful......once, I'm a bit free, I'll start updating this thread
That being said, were you posted to Akwa-ibom?
Yes, I agree with u about their delicacies and Akwa ibomites are very good cooks (the men inclusive). Its a good thing too to hear that they are hospitable people. Please, what about electricity and water? And please try to update the thread lets get to know how ur coping with ur PPA and ur family house (I dont know what you mean by "family house" oh. Come and explain oh). I believe it should be stressful but you'll scale through. I believe u. I would like to serve in Akwa ibom state. I graduated recently but av not mobilised for now. So am trying to know what it looks like there. Thanks a lot.
Esyy: ****** OTHER COMPETITIONS AND CARNIVAL For the remaining competitions, I didn't take interest so well in them but I was there to witness them all
For SAED competition - Corpers showcased what they've learnt and the best amongst them were awarded personal gifts not platoon gifts.
For Drama competition - each platoon was asked to present a storyline that depicts unity in Nigeria. Our platoon came third!
For Song competition - each platoon was instructed to sing the NYSC anthem and permitted to freestyle to their taste.
For Miss Bold and Beautiful - Each platoon brought forth a representative, a lady who is fat ( thick) and beautiful. They're usually asked to dance and attempt some questions. Our platoon won!
For Mr Macho - Guys were picked from each platoon to flex their muscles. Omo, come and see abs and body muscles everywhere! I wonder why we're not exporting that to other countries sef ..... By the way, our platoon came second!
For Miss NYSC - usually slim people are best fit for this. They were asked to dance ( twerk if possible), catwalk and answer current affairs questions. I wasn't even expecting our platoon to win but they did.
For Adam and Eve - A guy and a girl who knew themselves very well were asked to represent their platoons. Questions were asked relating to how much each one knew their partner. It's a kind of couple's something
For match past competition: a set of army captains will come supervise each platoon. Every platoon will have their own commander ( a corper) who will be giving out orders.....from "left will" to " close and open order" to "slow and quick match"! This is one of the toughest competition on camp. Our platoon came third!
CARNIVAL - Every platoon was instructed to present a cultural dance. It can be that of Igbo, akwa-ibom, delta, cross river, Yoruba, hausa .....any tribe at all
.......every corper wore their customized ( with platoon name boldly written) white top and blue jeans trouser
It's one of the colorful days on camp....some persons also wore masks too but it was never compulsory
Platoons danced round, showcasing their attires and cultural dance. Our platoon came second! For all these competitions, the judges usually call positions from the last platoon ( the losing team)
The appropriate statement for such announcement goes like this - "from the rear, 7th position goes to...... platoon 3"
Lol, not to mock anyone but platoon 3 was always called from the rear till everyone started calling them - " the rear platoon"
On the same day of carnival, first allawee was paid in cash .....33k
Most people took theirs to pos ( to transfer to their accounts) while the others took theirs to mami, most importantly was that there was a transfer of money!
Later in the evening, every platoon held their last party on camp, right inside mami Sunday - we all returned to church for last service on camp before vacating on Monday!
Monday - Everyone gathered at the parade ground, did our last parade, collected our PPA letters and joined family house buses to our different locations!
The most emotional day of being in camp!
Lights out!
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In conclusion I'll like to point out some important things to do while in camp. These things will save you headaches later on in the future!
1. Pay attention to all lectures related to allawee, whether state or FG. Save contacts of people working in account office incase anything goes wrong with your account! They share those contacts during lectures.
2. Join good fellowships, if you're very committed they might influence your posting to a good place. I'm a beneficiary of that!
3. Mingle more and get as much contacts as possible, you don't know when you'll be needing someone's help!
4. Attend SAED classes that have the potential of helping you make money on the side, you'll need it later more than FG money
5. Treat people well , that's the first rule of building relationships and networks
6. Take God serious or get ready to walk alone
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Ps: I might share my post-camp experience too, but not so sure if I'll have the time.
Esyy, I want to thank u for ur story. But I would like u to help me find out about their hospitality and receptiveness. And I would also like to hear ur post-camp experience oh please.
I lost my android phone last month so I cant access my gmail with d phone am using but am active on fb dats y I sent u my username on fb. I'll be waiting. Abeg no vex. Thank U.
If you are were naturally ask which state are into agbero and cultism etc. Will you honestly think if Akwa Ibom first? Home of cultism in Nigeria are: 1. Rivers state 2. Delta State 3. Cross's river 4. Edo state 5. Imo state 6. Bayelsa 7. Abia 8. Lagos 9. Ogun 10. Lagos 11. Akwa Ibom.
Note : Akwa Ibom as no deck or play headquarter of any deck unlike the ones listed above it e.g Rivers state that are capital if Vikings etc
Cult way in Akwa Ibom is minimal that's why the states is peaceful ok
Really, Akwa ibom does not strike me as a violent state like Edo, Rivers etc sha and dats y am cross-checking with u. Thanks though. Pls, is der a way 2 msg me privately here?
Most Akwa ibomites are violent naturally, true? I heard most of the youths are deep into cultism. Worse is Cross river as I was told. Are they correct?
Remember say for here jungle justice still the active oo. We go kill them all.
But attacking Akwa ibom state would be difficult cos d state is surrounded by the Eastern states, making it sum how untouchable by herdsmen except through Cameroon.
True. They would be thinking...."how do we destroy all these?". OP, please be careful cos fulani herdsmen might just decide to come and graze in the beautiful vegetation and d rest will be history....lol
First set of machine installation is ongoing as we try to complete the building.
Now we have to wait for the machine concrete base to harden then we can cement the entire floor.
We have a request for the electronics engineers in the house.
We want to run a 3- phase motor with single phase 220 volt AC supply. Can you build an inverter that can achieve that?
My first contact in China can only build it up to 22KW output, I want a 50 KW output.
As a guide, think of rectifying the AC current into DC current. Smoothen the rectified DC voltage with suitable capacitors, then invert the DC voltage into 3 phase AC voltages, with 120 degree phase angles between each phase.
If the value of the capacitors requires is too large, consider using supercapacitors.
Hit me up if you are up to the project, I should be able to do it but I don't have the time. I am willing to sponsor the project if you can convince me that you know what to do.
You might be wondering why we want to run 3 phase motor with single phase AC supply, well in Nigeria it is common to have one or two phases without power, if we rely on having 3 phase supply all the time then there will be many occasions when we can not work because all three phases does not have power supply. We want to be able to run our operations with single phase if that is what is available
If this village has a steady power supply, then why are you spending precious funds on this na? U can focus on pressing issues first for now. What's d name of d village in Delta State Sir?
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