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Romance / Re: What Is Wrong With Marrying A Jehovah's Witness? by Joizgud(f): 1:06pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
1stCitizen:
Thanks TOPDOG for the shallow comment above which goes a million miles to show how deep, the mind bending tactics of your sect has erased all form of reality from the feeble minds of you lot. You bunch live in a world where there is no love ,NOT EVEN FOR YOURSELVES. and you claim to follow Christ. I gave you a live example of my early experience with your cult and how the life of a helpless woman was extinguished simply because you have been brainwashed.
You talk about insecurity and low self esteem. Very interesting. Let me borrow a quote from a link posted earlier which I hope your beclouded mind will take time to read. please note the bolded." The cult(Jehovah Witness) uses mind control tools to keep members in line such as: milieu control, loaded language, demand for purity, confession, mystical manipulation, doctrine over person, sacred science, dispensing of existence, control of environment, closed logic, and most of all fear"
FEAR!!![/b]Now lets take that word and examine low self esteem. There is a general consensus amongst psychologists that PEOPLE WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM ARE RULED BY FEAR SO THEY TRY TO LIVE IN CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENTS. The second word is [b]CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENT.PEOPLE CHOOSE TO SEGREGATE THEMSELVES AND LIVE IN CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENTS DUE TO INSECURITY. Thanks for spewing out your greatest characteristics and tools. Your leaders and even parents start to sow these seeds of FEAR in you at a tender age to ensure you cannot rise above[b] their closed logic[/b] These are 1. No patriotism (I dare you to counter this) 2. No after School Activities or association with non-witnesses 3. No Holidays or the fun of childhood.4. the idea that every non-witness is evil. The result? [b]LOW SELF ESTEEM AND INSECURITY [/b]Please tell me if this is how to raise mentally healthy children who would tomorrow become adults like you.
Mind you, I have posted facts and links of how deeply destructive your ways are to the physical well being of an individual, to family life and society in general and have no apology for it. I have associated with many of you over the last 30 years and in some cases even intimately and done extensive research on your literature at a point when I was ALMOST in the OP's shoes and I know WHAT YOU STAND FOR.
I may seem biased toward you(NO APOLOGIES AGAIN) and may take a comparative stance in terms of you and Boko Haram. Yes I DO for one reason. ONE SECT DESTROYS PEOPLE WITH VIOLENCE AND THE OTHER WITH FEAR AND CONTROL. u got me really smiling dude.....stop being bitter at yourself huh?Your hatred s only gonna get at you and make u feel worse cuz its not a new phenomenon to Witnesses. |
Romance / Re: What Is Wrong With Marrying A Jehovah's Witness? by Joizgud(f): 12:28pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
9japrof: please am one of Jehovah's Witnesses and would like to make our beliefs clear in this issue of marriage.
Rightly as you guys have answered we Jehovah's Witnesses don't marry people who are not members of our organization and there are clear cut reasons why we do so, so please relax and follow me gently as i unfold them:
According to instructions that can be found in the Bible at 1st Corinthians 7:31, it made it clear that we should marry only in the lord ,yeah some may ask "Marry in the lord" Does it not include other members of other religions or denominations that constitute Christianity I can emphatically say NO, In so many places in the bible the expression "in the lord" signifies sharing the same beliefs, principles , attitudes,way of life. It is obvious that no other religion on earth share the same ideologies with the witnesses and at that cannot be said to be in the same lord with them
Please do not be too fast to conclude that we are a sect or that we segregate so much that we don't have marriage dealings with members of other denominations or religions.During the time of the Ancient Israel, they were barred by God to have marriage alliances with people of other nations , Why? this was to keep their worship of him sacred or undiluted and not for segregation reasons, because outside marriage, Isrealites still traded businesses with Other nations. At your time read Deuteronomy 7: 3 , 4
In marriage a lot of things are considered, but i think that one of the things that must be considered most is, COMPATIBILITY, With a witness that holds fast to the teachings found in the bible, it would be very difficult been compatible with such witness devoid of serious problems in marraige
LISTEN TO MY ADVICE
(a) there are many celebrations that are accepted in many churches today(e.g Christmas, Birthdays, Halloween etc)which do not have biblical backing which the witness may strongly desist from attending those functions with you thereby creating creating cracks in the unity of your marriage.
(b)On my own self i would not encourage you Poster to be a witness, because it is obvious that you are becoming a witness just for a selfish motive(marrying the girl). try to see evidences and proofs why been a witness is worth it and not because you are in "a one month love"
(c) Even if the girl agrees to marry you against the wishes of her parents , do not blame the parents of the girl for not attending the marriage functions or blessing the marriage, because they wanted the best for their child and marriage and would not condone seeing her get married to somebody they know would not provide the best for their children
Please no matter how offended/bad you feel about this post, that is the truth, in my short life's span i have seen many marriages like this break down, at least 60-70 percent of them do break down,and those that do not ,sometimes happiness may not be there .
Please feel free to ask your questions and relplies, i am so busy , but i will promise answering them . NYC writeup bro,am also a witness and so proud to be one. |
Romance / Re: 10 Unique Facts About Kissing by Joizgud(f): 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
vislabraye: No. 2 says that kissing can transmit different types of bacteria. No. 6 says saliva contain anti biotics. Then the anti biotics will destroy the bacteria nah ![](/faces/huh.png) lol...the equation don balance 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by Joizgud(f): 6:34pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
nice piece@op |
Romance / Re: Guys Only! Who Will You Opt For Between These Ladies (photo) by Joizgud(f): 6:25pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
pweedyuz: this one is strong
as in.....seriously strong |