[Is Anambra a northern state?quote author=BIGGESThead6 post=95805423]

IGBO only have 4 States in this Country. Imo, Ebonyi, Enugu and Abia. [/quote]

The only thing that is not a lie about Lai Mohammed is his name which we all know is a lie.

Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.

I feel you should have a pillow talk with her that could turn really bad but please have that talk and clear the air . Don't let guilt make you start hating your wife[color=#770077][/color]

IMHO I'll ask you to go for the corolla

Kathleens:

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

[color=#770077][/color]Stop your hunt for satisfaction on social media and talk to your husband about your fantasies. You'll be surprised that he has been fantasizing about the same thing too. Have a pillow talk with him and am sure the result will be another baby or cloud 9 for you. Thank me later

Who the cap fits,let him wear it.

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

You're just in your heat period and alone that's why you fi d her pretty and all. However, I won't rule out what love can do but in this case I feel you want to take advantage of the lady because she's available for you.

Pearl1996:
Nairaland famiy I need help.

Somethings been eating me up. I had sex with my boyfriend some weeks later i started falling so sick I will try to point out all I can remember
*Came down with what I felt was fever was burning hot so hot you just need to come close to feel the heat

*at night I sweat. Not just the usual sweat but one I have to change my clothes two times a nigbt(this happened for like a week)

* I started feeling so cold especially in the morning. Doctor said it was pneumonia + a cough that lasted for three weeks plus.

*and the rashes I ve never have in my whole life spreaded all over my arms and back as well as my breast region.

* I also had serious muscle ache. Serious that my mom had to help me massage it. My neck did hurt too it felt like someone hit me with a blank on my neck

* nodes on my neck, groin, as well as ear.
* I started having blurred vision and sores on my lips like fever blisters

* and then injuries in my mouth, weird ones
* I have oral trush at least thats what I thought them to be. White tongue I have had this before but this onr is different. With slimy white things in my mouth every time

*I also experienced dehydration and dry mouth.
* also had a delayed flow

The symptoms are so much I can't even mention it all. Most of these lasted for about a month +. I still have cold till this day. I shiver most times and its my major fear. And the rashes are still there.

This Is the major problem. The nurse who was handling me said it might be an STD maybe HIV I took plethora of test including HIV after 3 months all came back negative, I was told to wait 6montgs to check for HIv again it was still negativr. During this month I have seen so many doctors, private and government all they do is givr me drugs but I still experience the pneumonia cold( no cough) and occasional mouth sores as well as the rash. My boyfriend now my ex took HIV too it was negative.
Please doctors in the house what can this be. I have read so many threads here on naira land of people who had same experience but some later turned + they might be lying though.

I heard after 6 months and test is still negative then its not it. My question now is. What is wrong with me. I have spent so much on drugs and test. And no doctor is able to say what my problem is. Its making me crazy as I am even scared to shower because of the cold and I can't let people see my body due to rash.

I need help.

Free your mind my dear. You need to start healing psychologically first before the physical healing process starts. Stay faithful to your drugs and make sure you engage in exercise. It is well with you

SultanYoung:
Start importation business I bet you won't regret it am welling to tech you if its OK with you

Please how do I get to you,I'm interested in the importation business boss. Here's my WhatsApp number 08022022632

GistAlert:
Last night, housemate Mercy emerged winner of Big Brother Naija 2019 TV reality show.

With this, she became the first female to win the BBNaija competition-beating fellow housemates Mike, Frodd, Omashola and Seyi to win the coveted grand prize worth N60 million (N30million in cash and a N25million brand new Innoson SUV).

After 99 days of excitement, intrigues, suspense and nail-biting drama, Big Brother Naija Pepper Dem season came to a rousing end at the final live eviction show on Sunday night.

Reacting to the finale, media personality, Daddy Freeze had this to say:



https://www.instagram.com/p/B3T_rokBKMm/?hl=en

Gist from Gistmore
http://gistmore.com/daddy-freeze-questions-bbnaija-after-mercy-wins-the-n60million-grand-prize

Once more I want to agree with Freeze. You've spoken well Sir.

izibili44:
WE DON HEAR.

This is an insensitive response. Shows which side of the fence you're on

What happen to hotel rooms? Some guys can do somehow when agro hits them

That is the height of it people.

Rip to dead but I must say that's no excuse to take deaths job into his hands.

Bhamson:
The same way many men in her position take advantage of ladies

No be lie my guy. Well I won't call this payback, I'll just say she's having fun and wants to get to a landmark of 500 in one year

I'll wait till the end of everything before I react. For now, everything still seems like a movie

State001:
The Presidential Election Petitions Tribunal is currently sitting in Abuja, to decide the fate of PDP/Atiku and APC/Buhari over the February 23, 2019 presidential election, Igbere TV reports.

Igbere TV recalls that INEC had declared Buhari and the APC as winner of the election, having polled a total of 15,191,847 votes to defeat his closest rival, Atiku, who it said polled a total of 11,262,978 votes.

The five-man panel of justices of the Presidential Election Petitions Tribunal, is headed by Justice Mohammed Garba, as Chairman.

Here are summary of the rulings so far, and key points to note, as brought to you by Igbere TV...

Key rulings to note

- Tribunal unanimously dismissed INEC’s motion asking Vice President Osinbajo to be joined in the petition. It ruled that a vice presidential candidate is not a necessary party in an election petition but an appendage of the presidential candidate who nominated him.

- Tribunal dismissed INEC's motion arguing that Atiku's lead counsel, Livy Uzoukwu, is not a legal practitioner called to the Nigerian Bar.

- Tribunal refused INEC's request to dismiss Atiku's prayer seeking Buhari's disqualification on the ground that he was not qualified to contest the election.

- Ruling on the allegations of police and military interference, harassment and intimidation and ballot stuffing among others, filed by Atiku, the tribunal strike out the application for non-joinder of the parties who have been accused.

- Tribunal dismissed Buhari's application that Atiku was not qualified to file the petition challenging his election, ruling that Atiku is qualified to filed the petition.

- Tribunal dismissed Atiku's application accusing Vice President Yemi Osinbajo of inducing voters with the TraderMoni scheme, ruling that it does not have jurisdiction over the matter.

- Tribunal strike out APC's argument that Atiku was not qualified to contest the presidential election because he is allegedly not a Nigerian by birth.
* It ruled that its power does not include determining the qualification of a petitioner in an election dispute, but to determine whether a person elected to the office of the president was validly elected and not to query the qualification of the petitioners to have contested the election, whose outcome was being queried.

Summary of the rulings so far

INEC filed three motions against Atiku's petition; one of the motions was dismissed while two partially succeeded leading to the striking out of some paragraphs in the petitioners’ petition and their response to INEC’s reply to the petition.

- President Buhari filed two motions against Atiku's petition; two of the motions partially succeeded leading to the striking out of some paragraphs in the petitioner's response to the president’s reply to the petition.

- The last two motions were filed by APC.

http://igberetvnews.com/977003/atiku-buhari-summary-key-rulings-as-tribunal-goes-on-break/

I'll wait till the end of everything before I react. For now, everything still seems like a movie

Gidoka:
That last picture of Tacha, reminds of bob risky

Are they not related?

Sweet heart I feel you should go back to your drawing board and re -establish yourself before putting yourself out again and plus I believe when you make plans to better yourself,the right man will come.*STAY FOCUSED*[b][/b]

Can anybody confirm that the supposed SEPTRIN took is actually septrin and not some other drug


May God grant her eternal rest...

Muhammed Ali...the greatest of all boxers

Get well soon

"I float like a butterfly, I sting like a bee"

Muhammad Ali was boxing personified, he made boxing so entertaining.[/quote]


I just hope he gets well soon

CATHOLIC CHURCH

[b][/b]CATHOLIC CHURCH[color=#770077][/color]

[b][/b]Charge the man for rape

That guy should be shot in the head right away.....[b][/b]

VGBG...Very good bad guy

Lai and amina[color=#550000][/color]

[quote author=Beremx post=38938862]Rochas finally pushed his in-law to be a minister? Nawao!

Congratulations Prof Anthony Gozie Anwuka. I am only congratulating you because you were my former VC of IMSU and not an in-law to Rochas.

Eh, what of Festus Odimegwu? Was he still nominated? [/quote
You mean bianca's late hubby?

genearts:
Kikikikikikiki

Snake in the monkey SHADOW WAILERSS OF NIGERiA

No be small o

Chai I felt or I was thinking the picture I'll see will that of aba/ph road..........Anyways we're getting there.......Nigeria go better