nobosaba:
Haha" in Shy Ronnie's voice.

Bro forget about pride or say she fall your hand say you dey spend and she nor gree give you make you nac the punany.

Move on, according to your words "you been played"

She smoke weed and drinks, your friends confirms she looks like a runs girl.

Guy Run

Runs girls pretends to be holy marry when the see a potential husband

Guy Run

So

Melahou:
what goes around comes around...

stay focus on your girl friend

We broke up a couple of months ago

Ephemmm:


You have made a great mistake by being pushy when it comes to sex. Next time, let a lady doubt your potency and sexual competence. I tell you, she will design a way of testing you by herself.

Ladies don't like being begged when it comes to sex: develop a good relationship first, build her trust in you and you will be amazed the way she will willingly allow you to bleep her one day when kongi 'imprison' her.

So

peeparty:
iffa most hear this...

what does this mean?

ladyF:
U better run! This one na bad market.

lol....

Cutehector:
its well.... Go and sin no more.. A thousand babes at ur left and ten thousand babes at ur right..

I

Cutehector:
Even my foolishness is wiser

I

deadZONE:

nothing to say

I

Typical Unilag babe, she will end up with a guy who will treat her like trash and comeback to be your side chick.

uche92:
Dude you are going to need to get over your lady friend very quickly. Been there, it doesnt end well for you

How did it end for you? lol

akins56:
ybros you are on an advance friend zone.

advance friend zone?? despite all the making out? I fingered her as well

MsBliss:
I have watched exactly this film before.

Really??

BANGERLEE1:
This ur film sweet die.....

















Even though ur brain na Push and Work..

push and work ke?

HDee:
yea.. He gets it.

lol

kj

Truckpusher:
That's what happens but sometimes we prefer to shy away from the truth to protect our unimportant ego and pride.


When a woman is crazy about you - You don't need a soothsayer to reveal it to you.

First mistake is making a woman to believe and understand that you love her to a fault .
Always learn how to mask your feeling with a water tight plan but always say it to her that you love her but she shouldn't take you for granted.

Women listens to a man with the will power to trash his most beautiful desire for nothing.

So i have being told. Sent you an email. will be good to talk

Truckpusher:
The painful part of this whole scenario is that one particular guy would be brushing this same thing you're hustling for carelessly with no decorum for the puccy.

If a woman plays hard to get, forget about her and watch her submit herself to you on a platter of gold when you least expected her to .

I am hoping not but i know thats a possibility and it kills me

mrkay101:
Lol.. I've been in ur shoes OP and trust me when I say its so messed up to have someone not fully reciprocate ur feelings.

Here's my tot on ur issue.

Your not scared to let her know how u feel about her as in u fancy no other girl but her. Alll u do is think about her which in turn gives her full control.

I can probably tell u three ways its going to go

1.its either she's scared and is still trying to make up her mind. In whic case give her time.

2.she's jst a tease and has already made up her mind and is jst string u along.

3. She loves the attention ur giving her and might not have any intention in dating you. A girl ones told me that girls like attention so much.

So my brother..

How can i tell which one is it though. I have thought of all those options myself.... The thing though is that i cannot seem to know which one it is myself. Cos i have made so many mistakes with her which should genuinely make her hesitate but i don't know sha. What will be your advice though? Here are a reasons for taking her time

(i) I know her family (sister and cousin) (ii) I came on too strong when she came over to the states and she thinks i am in it for just sex (iii) I have insulted her and hurt her feelings a lot (iv) We fight a lot and i go months without talking. When she was in the states before we got into serious fights all the indicators were that she was set. Also she dropped that she had a ONS with a random guy during nysc when we weren't talking. I find this ridiculous cos she says i came on too strong.

Advice needed on how to turn it on her and also what u think on the post

Abbey2sam:


This one you're trying so hard to defend your US citizenship, it makes you look like a liar and a desperado


don't quote me again, unless you want thunder to scatter your useless and empty brainless head

LOL u look like the desperate guy who is just jealous and sad. This is my thread u can Bleep off u can't handle it. Ps I live in the US does not mean i have a citizenship. Just educating you as well

Abbey2sam:



truth us bitter

LOL bitter . I dont care about where i stay just put in there for people because it is relevant to the post. U coming on here to state the obvious and not make any sensible contribution makes you look silly. Just my opinion but it is a free world

Abbey2sam:




No one cares whether you live in London or a Iran

as far as nairaland is concerned, I myself could be living in Paris

faceless forum

Thanks for the irrelevant post. Now go find something better to do instead of acting like an ass

Adaeze003:
You want to be official but LDRs aint your thing. You guys are just playing each other. Well... good luck and do update us after the visit.

Playing each other? why do u say that?

discoprophet:


U dont seem to undastand me sha. D tin be say u started giving her 'top hand' ryt from d onset. Bugging her wit calls all d tym, and oda stuffs. In dis 21st century? Infact, dis matter don dey turn my head. Me wey dey talk sef, my single status na hardcore(girls don smile, lol). Everybody needs help

Abeg u fi explain your point well lol. I dey lost

discoprophet:
As d matter lie ontop mattress now, im head no dey for pillow. Wetin i mean be say, for dis matter, na pidgin abi na broken i go take talk am.

1st be say d gal don too enta ur head; Dat one na normal. Na one of those things. For u to start claiming say u no like am much more, my man, e go dey like joke nau. Even u sef, go dey call urself mumu 4 ur mind. No go ridicule urself o.

Call am 4 round table, make una two reason 2geda again. At d end of d day, if una no arrive @ a reasonable conclusion, make una begin un-like unaself shaparly.

Understanding matters a lot here. Goodluck bro

For u to start claiming say u no like am much more?? did not say that nau. Also you seem to think that it is allowed for me to be this crazy about the babe. Na wetin dey make me lose control be that nau. She seems to have it better under control

Tallesty1:
It is ok like that. She needs to know how much you like her and what she means to but don't give her the impression that life is impossible without her. If she gives you reason to believe you bug her then she probably isn't interested in the relationship or maybe she isn't that into you yet. Keep working on it wisely This conclusion of mine may seem premature but that's what I can draw from this very line that I am quoting; thing is, she's got another guy back home and she's not really sure of you so she's taking her time to know who's better to avoid touching stories You can't ignore her because you love but you can learn to pretend.

Don't be available all the time and learn to over-look her little mistakes.

Good luck

OK let me be very clear about the it seems i am bugging her bit. We actually talk often and she calls me to let me know how her day is going. When i got to naija she came to see me the next day. We went out, made out e.t.c. She always picks my calls

The persistent bit comes from the relationship thing. She says she wants one and she likes me but does not want to make mistakes seeing that I have hurt her a lot before and its LDR, so we should see how it goes. But i can get that. Every babe i have been with are never this logical. Once they like you they always seem to take chances. She is very cautious. It would be surprising if she has a guy cos we have spent enough time talking. She is coming to see me tomorrow till sunday and she is considering coming to the states in a couple of months.

Not trying to change your mind just want you to get the entire picture.

IamLEGEND1:


then MOVE ON

#NoTime

We have both done that over the years but we always seem to comeback. I like her and also won't mind a relationship. She wants the same but wants to take her time

Abbey2sam:



he said "state" it could be akure or ibadun nah

I only put the information there to let you all know it is a LDR not for anything else. I am in Naij at the moment leaving in 3 weeks. Time......

pTomz:
Good thing u said "u believe", I bet u, after yanshing her as said u wished, cus u think u'll b cheated if u backoff without a price, u'll b seeing her as a fellow man.... I repeat, THATS NOT LOVE(my opinion)

I never said i loved her though. I like her a lot and i am very attracted to her. You are not the first person to have made this statement though but i think the obsessive nature to get something back is just ego and not feeling like a loser. I actually think i would like her more after but will just have more psychological control

IamLEGEND1:


PAYING FOR STUFf?

yes.

but not going over the top

all in the name of trying to make an impression.

bt the best idea i can come up with ryt now is...

since you've known each other for a while now, just look her straight in the eyes and ask her why she doesnt wanna have sex with you.

trust me,it will save you a lot of energy (& time)

I have done that over the phone. She feels we are too close. I know her sister and cousins and she is scared.

pTomz:
I doubt u love her bro

I think u r Inlust with her

Really?? why would you say that? Although i believe love starts from lust though

MasterRahl:
Bro, your english doesn't sound like that of someone who resides "in the states"

ok....its probably your level of understanding though