All the post in here are interesting with one point or the other.

Well! I will believe everyone should know the calibre of men or lady they'll deal with in order to rule of the beating issue.

If you will believe with me, it is while courting you would have known whether the partner you are with will one day slap you or not. During your conversation or while playing an occurence like that will one day occur. When it occurs, it is your right to state at that time for the guy, factically, with a question "do you want to slap/beat me" take proper note of his response and reactions then.

Beating up a lady did not just start, it all starts a day, it may be play.

Consider this too, do not marry a person whose beliefs differs from yours.

For instance, a school cert holder who longs after a commercial bus driver might end up being a punching bar.

The environment, the nature, the calibre, beliefs or fate of your partner will considerable conclude or depicts in such fellow will become a punching bar or not.

For those that beats their wives i don't blame them, the woman wants it. i guess

look out for more post,

@buckeye,
initially do you know that your best friend wants to date your sister? If yes, what was the condition or agreement of both of you?

If there's nothing of such then you have a work to do.

The first assignment on your side if you don't want your sister to be cheated is, you call your friend tell him how dear your sister is, to you and how both of you will break your friendship as a result of is attitude towards your sister.

Secondly, of a truth, your sister might said, you don't want her to date your friend but let her realise that the guy is cheating on her if possible with physical relevants.

Thirdly. report her to your parents to caution her and that if anything happened, it's her own cup of tea.

Fourthly, report your so called best friend to your mother whenever you see them in any loop and corner of the town.

And finally, tell your sister's best friend to of the ugly scenario you are visioning before your sister. She's also in the best position to help her.

Do not forget to tell your sister that your friend can confused her with his sugar coated mouth both you know your friend better and guys gimicks to trap down a lady

@desodgi

you are wrong

Getting to know who is dating who on nairaland is not the problem but how long can both go.

Well! my advice to everyone is that for d guy, don't be a player and for the gurls don't be a useless tolotolo. Play boy/gurl are all around here o o o, lol

10q

The thing is that love and money are two parallel lines that can't me but works together in all eras.

You can love a person without considering is financial status because you are not loving his money but him- the physical being.

At times, when you love for money or beauty, it will get to a time it will depreciate. when the money is no money there, the love dies because you love for money. But if it is real love from the inner heart it doesn't have to do with he has money or not. You both fight the challenges together, helping one another to cope with the situation.

Take this, a lady may be a kind of stepping stone for the guy which i can say it is vice versa. When you have money don't turn down the guy because he doesn't have.

ThoniaSlim
but that is there own culture. You will have no choice if you happen to be dropped there, lol you would have married a long time ago

oreofemi

things you do with your partner is not what you can just conclude as a paraphrase. What you do with your partner varies. At times you talk on the next project you have at hand and some other times he may call up for a dinner. It depends on the mood, circumstances or situation you found yourselves but the fact still lies no one knows when romance can take place. believe it?

ThoniaSlim
you are right but believe this or not, it is a natural phenomenon that this happen at times. There are some situations when some lady take what is left and not what they desire due to some problems which could be physical or spiritual.

Remember in the northern part, the hausas do give out their daughter @ 14 to a man of 30 who is able to pay for their birthright and who is ready to sustain bitterness of the cane night.

There is no problem to hook with a single guy who is 10 years older. I believe it all lies with the understanding of both of them. And since the girl has agreed, he has no problem. It lies in the potentiality in him which will give the girl a second thought that her life will be meaningful with the guy.

Understanding should be the order of the relationship. he will be more tolerant 'cos he might not get the 100% respect he may deserves from her.

I think, to some ladies, they prefer that for capability.

ThoniaSlim, how about if the girl of 20 decided to go out with a man of 60 as sugar daddy

think of that!

be straight forward. What's improper? explain

hi,
There is no problem to fall in love but u have to know what u r falling for either 'love' or 'loss'
for love, it is something that you show at a proportion before you give the real percentage to the girl or guy you are dating. You have to know what the girl is like- do some home work to know what she is upto, her kind and gestures probably what thrills her much. Some of us girls go after 'loss' we fail to consider if we can go along mile with a dates or short smile. For instance, when you get a girl, you must do the home work very well to see if you can satisfy her or not. Belive it or not, when you're low to her satisfying measure, she will surely look out. You must know how to do some certain things to this ladies you are looking before you can win them finally. Remove spirituality from this. There is no girl that will not need your affection. - affection + love = wandering. So, u have to check some certain things which you have to consider before you choose another, Be wise don't let anyone take you for granted.

Of a truth, the girl might love you but need somethings from you which you could not give and the other guy can give it to her , i guess

hmm, it sounds right but wrong. It's quite unsual for a guy to knee down while proposing to a girl. There are some circumstances that do warrants it for some guys to do that and not on proposing issue. It could be when to win back her heart after an offence is committed or when he wants to deceive the girl in order to chance her, u know what i mean?

Due to the discussion and point you are talking about. with the little idea i have this is a piece of my contribution.

A poor man can love since richness is not in the heart, labour of human effort.

Love is a feeling which grows from the heart but poorness or richness could be determined spiritually.

You can not feel to be rich tomorrow and get richer the next day but you can feel love and fall in love with a lady.

So, there is nothing bad for a poor man to fall in love he only needs to seek for the girl who will take him for what he is and notthe girl who is ready to test is trials.

In conclusion, his love mate will determine is next point of richness if he can maginalize.

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