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Politics / Re: Fubara To Wike: I Know Why You Are Frustrated, Rivers Is Nobody's Enterprise by jtobiora(m): 6:32am On Sep 30
Does it reduce the price of rice in the market?
Health / Re: This Skin Infection Is Killing My Joy Everyday by jtobiora(m): 5:06am On Jun 11
Visit a dermatologist. Trial and error won't get that stuff off your body. Thought cost of seeking the services of a trained dermatologist can be prohibitive, I am pretty sure you will find your solution there. The earlier the better.

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Family / Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by jtobiora(m): 3:34am On Oct 25, 2022
From your story, you appear selfish and bossy. Marriage is for matured people and both of you are not. Go and settle your issues because nairaland did not join you both in marriage. Learn to let go if you want long life!


Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

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Romance / Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by jtobiora(m): 5:15pm On Aug 21, 2022
How much do you bring home? He brings 100k or less.


Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Eloswag Wins Head Of House Game - Week 4 by jtobiora(m): 6:57pm On Aug 15, 2022
Very USELESS show!
Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by jtobiora(m): 5:28pm On May 26, 2022
Go and meet a marriage counsellor. Putting your matter out here on the internet seeking for help will most likely mislead your judgement.

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Travel / Re: Age Issue On Marriage Certificate by jtobiora(m): 2:32pm On Apr 26, 2022
I don't think any embassy recognizes church marriage certificate. Go to the registry and get one. This should suffice.
Family / Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jtobiora(m): 3:49am On Dec 10, 2021
Always remember that sentence "I am sorry!". If offered sincerely, a lot can be healed in that marriage. By the way, I guess social media would have been on fire now if say na the man hit you!
Family / Re: 2 Men Lay Claims To A Baby Boy In Edo (Pictures, Video) by jtobiora(m): 10:36am On Dec 08, 2021
Problem no dey finish sef??
Celebrities / Re: I Shouldn't Have Watched Your Sex Tape - Tiwa Savage's Fan Cries & Apologizes by jtobiora(m): 9:36am On Oct 20, 2021
Shebi problem no wan finish for this kantri
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye In Worship Mood (Photo, Video) by jtobiora(m): 2:50pm On Sep 20, 2021
May Jesus save your soul!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Dinno my niggar

Dramatic man worshipping one low budget ass son of a carpenter whose mother was a prostitute.....through him the world have been deceived that there is one imaginary being up there in the sky that oversees the affair of the universe

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Health / Re: Help! Addiction Has Taken Everything... by jtobiora(m): 2:29pm On Sep 13, 2021
Jesus is the solution! Don't seek further answers.

AlmonDeLemon:
Straight to the point,

I'm a chronic addict of alcohol and cigarettes. I use them heavily and that has caused me a lot of health issues. I'm struggling but couldn't quit.

I smoke and drink at the detriment of my health which has seen me access the hospital on many occasions than normal.

I've applied all techs thru people's testimony of how they quitted but none worked with me.


I swear every night that I've quitted but on first light the next day the craving increases.

I'm battling multiple health issues and I need help.

Please, anyone with a way out help please. If I don't quit now, I'd kiss mother Earth sooner.

I need SOLUTIONS...

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is This N25,000 For A 6.30am To 10pm Cleaner Job Worth It? by jtobiora(m): 2:08pm On May 26, 2021
That's modern day slavery bro. Get skilled today!

Joysticks:
I saw this cleaner job vacancy at old English bakery at GRA,Ikeja,Lagos after months of job hunting.Due to unavailability of one's preferred kind of job,I like hotel jobs a lot,I decided to submit my CV to one of the bakery security man.

It is hard to get a hotel job at GRA Ikeja despite the big and many hotels located there though.Man know man things.

I was called to come for an interview at their head office in omole phase 1.

I attended the interview.But the salary is manageable being that I am a single man without even a girlfriend.Early 30's.But the resumption time was shocking.I would resume by 6.30am and closes by 10pm for #25k!

Which kind cleaning work be that?And the bakery is own by a Nigerian.No break or free lunch.

My mind told me there were other tasks I would be doing apart from cleaning because no cleaner would work till that time.

So has anyone who have worked there before knows the job description in old english bakery?

Politics / Re: Chris Ngige: Igbos Held Sensitive Positions But Didn't Use It For Igbo Welfare by jtobiora(m): 9:20am On Feb 24, 2021
He spoke the fact! Igbos are their own worst enemies.

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Celebrities / Re: I Am Still Looking For Husband – Linda Ikeji (Photo) by jtobiora(m): 12:33pm On Dec 02, 2020
Looks like this man has nothing doing than to comment on almost every post he sees. The Jesus you seem to preach wouldn't do that much. You cannot outdo the master you claim to follow.

Righteousness89:
Congratulations on Living the life of your Dream Linda..

Do not Forget what is Most Needful!
Eternal life in Heaven is the Most Needful!
The Salvation of your Soul through JESUS is what Really Matters..

Don't let these things overwhelm and overtake what is Needful!
We came here Empty ! And we will return Empty!!

Genuie Salvation through JESUS Christ over All

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Crime / Re: Man Released From Ikoyi Prison After 7 Years For A Crime He Knew Nothing About by jtobiora(m): 9:54am On Sep 25, 2020
Very sad.
Religion / Re: Pastor Leke Adeboye Gifts Corn Seller N10k (Video) by jtobiora(m): 6:50pm On Sep 17, 2020
Must you show to the world that you have given to the poor? That's hypocritical in my opinion.

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Romance / Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by jtobiora(m): 12:29pm On Sep 16, 2020
Your solution starts with deleting all the porn sites, images and videos on ur phone. Keep them far from u! When you have done this and resolved not to visit them anymore, then we move to step two.

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Politics / Re: El-Rufai And Wife, Hadiza, Celebrate 35th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by jtobiora(m): 7:16pm On Aug 17, 2020
Righteousness89:
Congrats your Excellency! Happy Anniversary!

But you need to Hands up anything that concerns The Persecution of people of God, Directly or Indirectly..

It is Hard for you to kick against Pricks..
Must you "religiously" comment on almost all the thread u see? Use your time wisely man.

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Health / Re: Man Commits Suicide By Drinking Bleach In Surulere by jtobiora(m): 9:50am On Jul 20, 2020
Depression is real but suicide is not a solution. Nevertheless, never be in a hurry to judge someone when u have not been through their pains yet.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 1 Million To Make 5k Daily? by jtobiora(m): 10:23am On May 03, 2020
STDisReal:
Hello guys, Please i need a business that I can start with 1 million naira and it will be fetching me between 5 - 10k daily.
I will like if it meets the following specifications
Type of business: Offline
Less supervision: I have a stressful 9 - 5 work
Easy accountability
Location - Abuja


Buy bitcoins.

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Health / Re: Lagos Confirms 3 Coronavirus Deaths by jtobiora(m): 2:39pm On Apr 18, 2020
May God help us.
Politics / Re: Abba Kyari Is Dead! by jtobiora(m): 7:41am On Apr 18, 2020
Respect the dead; fight for the living. We are born alone, we die alone and are judged alone! Death is a common denominator for all mankind!
Politics / Re: Abba Kyari Is Dead! by jtobiora(m): 7:37am On Apr 18, 2020
Melezenawii:
Chief of Staff to the President, Mallam Abba Kyari, passes on

https://mobile.twitter.com/FemAdesina/status/1251295558112870400

Death is a common leveler.
NYSC / "Abia Youth Corpses..... " by jtobiora(m): 8:03am On Sep 11, 2018
Which way Nigeria?

Travel / Re: Photos Of The 52 Cows Killed By Train In Kaduna by jtobiora(m): 2:27pm On Sep 10, 2018
I hereby declare 3 days of National Mourning. The naija flag should also be flown at half mast...
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Blasts Chris Ngige Over 'Clap For Buhari' Comment by jtobiora(m): 1:31pm On Sep 10, 2018
Standing ovation 4 sure pass...

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