wonyi:
Some day, I promise to give back to this thread. I guess the time is here. Waited for 9 years before holding my bundle of joy. Did everything humanly possible. Today, I have 3 kids. To the glory of God.

Diagnosis
Male factor
Female Factor-pcos, rhesus incompatibility and incompetent cervix



Things I did
3 IVF
2 surrogate trials
4 IUI
3 hsg
Countless tvs
Countless hormonal profile
1 hysteroscopy

And for some I can't remember. The journey isn't for the soft hearted. Early Diagnosis is the key and being spiritually strong.

First baby was after the second Ivf
Second baby was after eating okra soup and okra leaf (for ovulation), vitamin e and folic acid
Third baby was after taking cloves and booni(less than 300 naira).

All in all, I give God all the glory. Mind you, my womb was completely written off. Nothing stayed, not even water. Pregnancies dropped after 3/4 months. When God stepped in, everything changed.


The enemy is giving up. Consistent trial. Always cheerful. Avoid anxiety. Then again, EARLY DETECTION.

PRAYERFULLY pick a doctor and medical facility that will walk with u all through. Try everything. Even local herbs.


I never knew I had pcos. Until after seven years. We were busy treating male factor.


I Hope this helps and gives someone hope.

All in All, I had 3 miscarriages. Knowing what I know now, the journey would have been a walk in the park.

Congratulations

Blendy77:


Cry me a river my Dear Wailing Wailers. Why should she ignore? As a freedom fighter, she for add them back na if e sure for una as if i run my Foundation by ur rules. Try and get a life cos you can never be Blendy but only my shadow following me everywhere I go as if i send you and ur plenty different moniker praising u by ursef message. Open ur own group abi Foundation and run it the way you want so you can rest cos as it, e be like u never kno say High BP na the fastest killer and not minding ur damn biz nai dey lead to BP and depression fast.
Honestly all i feel for u is pity to be candid cos you seem troubled, I pray for fast healing soon from whatever is troubling u cos am not sure the name Blendy alone is what is giving u this much nightmare for the over 4 years you have been stalking me with different monikkers. U be ghost? Or are u this jobless following a fellow woman like u everywhere she goes? Hiannnnn try find somethg meaningful do with ur life!!!
By the way you havent told me congratulations on my 3rd son's arrival. Abi u no see that one screenshot? Or you dey forbid good news? My candid advise is to stop looking for validation on nairaland cos Blendy no send you, the sooner you understand that the better for u and your CREW!

God bless you Mummy4life1 for fighting for those that can't speak up. @Mummy4life, Ignore her please

Mummy4life1:
Don't mind them sis.

Naija people will always be naija. Must you force everyone to contribute and if they failed to contribute you removed them. Why making contributions compulsory. Hands are not equal.

We love you Mummy4life1. Thank you for speaking up.

See just ignore them. @Mummy4life1: We love you and Please ignore them.

Richwifey:

Madam REST with your different fake accounts!!!
REST!!!!
Stop derailing this thread for God’s sake!!!

That's the problem with you guys. So you're thinking she is one right.

Is the information shared now real. Stop making contributions compulsory.

Thank you Mummy4life1 for speaking initially.

Hands are not equal.

Because people failed to contribute, you are removing them from the group you said you created to help the waiting mothers.

Despite the understanding of what is going on in the country. The good lady Mummy4life1 mentioned it but you guys are still forcing people to pay towards contributions and because they didn't pay then, you start removing them from the group.

Fingers are not equal so, you guys should stop forcing people to contribute. Help and stop forcing waiting mothers for contributions

Mummy4life1:
I encourage you to enjoy your waiting time because you're starting your vigil with babies soon, take advantage of the free time you currently have and just enjoy it. Work on minimising your stress level. Eat a well-balanced diet, drink enough water and sleep well. God of Infinite Goodness, watch over expectant mothers as they await the birth of their child. Congratulations in advance to all the sisters.

Thank you sis..

You're such a beautiful person with good heart

Bighgggg:
Not only one person bearing the same name in Nigeria.

Why are you guys insulting Mummy4life1 because she said, the lady should not make contributions compulsory. Hands are not equal. A lot of people are going through difficulties at the moment.

Thank you Mummy4life1 for speaking out. You will remain bless. We love you

Thank you Mummy4life1 for speaking up. If you want to do good, do it. You can't say because of good rendering to people will make you tell them that contributions are compulsory. Alot are going through a lot in naija at the moment. Fingers are not equal.

God will continue to bless Mummy4life1. We love you

Blueybabe:




If you truly care about the people you pretend to be advocating for, you wouldn't paste their names and numbers out there openly for all to see, especially as you know how sensitive TTC issue is. You are just using them to settle your score with Blendy. Shame.

Go and delete those names Madam Human Right advocate.

fingers are not equal. Making contributions compulsory is not necessary. So, Mummy4life1, didn't say something bad okay