Ojemalad:
That's great! I think the problem that is common to every freelancer that always complains is laziness. You must always be online and also try not to miss a chat for instance on Fiverr and you reduce sleeping all night. Creat heart-blowing gigs. Moreover, don't forget God in your equation. Remember you are not the only one on the platform. #Be prayerful and offer excellent jobs whenever the opportunity comes.

What services do you offer?

Hightser:
Hello guys, there has been a lot of fuss about freelance work, I finally learnt ui/ux after a long period of reluctance. I have good laptop, good phone et al but the zeal hasn’t been that strong, I am augmenting the ux with graphics design so I can perfect it.

Each time I visit upwork as a freelancer, tones of jobs keep popping up on the graphics and ui/ux design section, haven’t even visited fiverr sef, so I want to know how viable it is getting jobs there, as a Nigerian, as a black, just want to know the hurdles you all working there face cause I am not learning this to work for Nigerians as the pay is very bad.

Please help a brother, if e no go give me better money make I kuku park face, thanks as you share your experience ��

How long did it take you to learn UI/UX ?

TheUndercover:
"When someone asks you "What do you do for a living?" Mostly, it is to calculate the level of respect they need to give you."

So, what's the best way to respond to this question?

I wanted to comment when you guys were accusing all those saying the girl might be innocent. You guys got riled up and quickly branded those who said anything close to that as simps.

The story didn't add up to me. It is indeed possible that girl was just used as a bait and as someone to take the fall. And this is coming from my own logical standpoint. It has nothing to do with whether she's a girl or whether she is pretty or ugly. There's no way that girl would have been able to kill the man like she said.

Sometimes, it's good to wait and allow events unfold well before rushing into conclusions.

For me, I thought it's either of two things:
--She killed him while he was asleep (her story is false) or
--She was used as bait and made to take the fall for some reason I am not sure of.

Now, evidence that points towards the latter has come up:

https://www.nairaland.com/6624114/how-usifo-ataga-killed-family#103157596

Zabiboy:
Yo guys...
I'll drop some self-improvement words about "The power of the Mind"
It's actually a broad stuff and really really complicated but it helps alot physically ( during workouts), mentally ( how you react/act ), sexually (controlling your sexual urge) and otherwise..
As always, it'll be as short and simple as possible

Very necessary. I'm tired of reading long epistles with too much unnecessary vocab.

TheUndercover:

This is because authoritarian parents or guardians who are too strict tend to raise better liers. Their kids develop cunning or strategic ways to avoid their parent's wrath and get things done.

Secondly, kids who are raised by tyrannical parents are mostly subjected to cruel torture or punishment. This affects the way the see the world. They grow up to show no emotions or feelings. This is why parents who fight physically in front of their kids tend to damage them mentally and might grow up to exhibit the same behaviour.

These are some signs of psychopathy according to a source:

Ranked Most Subtle To Most Brazen:

- Cold Eyes
- Stilted Speech
- Zero Fear/Stress Response
- Ruthless Indifference.
- Zero Compassion.
- Zero Guilt.
- Sadistic Tendencies

Although exhibiting some psychopathic tendencies is okay especially if you want to succeed in the line of power. Vladimir Putin is a good example of a psychopath president.

Wow. Thanks for the insight.

TheUndercover:
Tyrannical or authoritarian parents are more likely to raise their children as psychopaths or Machiavellians

How so? Kindly throw more light

TheUndercover:
Tyrannical or authoritarian parents are more likely to raise their children as psychopaths or Machiavellians

Is the latter a good thing?

BarrSly:
Just allow her to recoup all your money you spent on dowry from the nigga then dump her ass cause trust me he’s already digging her guts out till she bbuuuhhhhh

Lol. You watch stephIsCold on YouTube?

Elistho:
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Good afternoon Nairalanders.

I believe I'm speaking to learned and sophisticated people.

I'm 18, done with high school, I wrote JAMB once last year and applied for Law in one of our universities. I studied very well for it, albeit, I scored 249 and I've not been given admission. To me, my score was a not so pleasing score as I studied thoroughly and vigorously for the exams and I didn't deserve the score.

In my bid to enter school as a law student or nothing, as I've much passion for law, I decided to register for a Diploma-in-Law program in another university, admission is sure with a good O'level.

Howbeit, few days pass by, I had a rethink, I'll say I'm from an average family and with the way the economy is, I'm not financially ready for school.

You might ask why I didn't register for JAMB again this year, I'm working in a POS point, and work 12hours a day for a meagre pay as low as 10k, no time for studies, as such, I couldn't register for JAMB, coupled with my plans for Diploma-in-Law, after that direct entry to degree or write JAMB next year while I'm in school, ditch the program for Degree without completing it.

Today, while discussing with mum, she tried coaxing me to wait and write JAMB again next year, and ditch the Diploma program as it's baseless and they've no money for it this year, that I'll go to school without any financial stress if I wait and write again next year.

With the aforementioned, I decided I'll buy a laptop and start blogging and freelancing as I'm a writer, this thing is a God given talent and I didn't learn from anybody, when I pen down articles, people ask where I learnt the skill from and that I'm close to perfect.

I decided to get a UK used laptop for 30k and develop myself while also making money via my writing career.

I've taken a good decision ditching school and trying to get a skill?

How can I also make money from my writes, I've heard of amazon, the only reliable and most popular, what can you recommend also?

How about a blog?

First off, your writing needs work. I don't know who told you have the "talent". Nonetheless, you can always hone the skill and get very good at it -- anyone can.

Now, to the main matter.

Your story reminds me a lot of myself. I also had a lot of passion for the course I chose to study. But, you see, passion did not sustain me in the long run. Passion is good, but it won't sustain you in the long run. If you rush into school now without being financially fit enough to go all the way to the end, you will get frustrated. The biggest mistake you'll make is rely on your parents or anyone to keep sending you money. The money they will send you occasionally will hardly be enough to cater for yourself in school. They will not understand when you keep billing them. They most likely won't be able to fund all your expenses fully. This will have a very negative effect on your academic performance. Because you're passionate about that course, you will be frustrated knowing that you ought to be doing well, but you're not, due to financial constraints. You will eventually get broken and not give a fvck again.

Here's my advice:

If you're really passionate about this course, make sure that you, at first, have enough "resources" that will sustain you through to the end.
So, for now, focus on grinding. These days, you don't need a school degree to make good money. Find something that can pay you the most within a not-too-long time possible. Do a good estimate of how much in total you'll be needing to run the school degree all the way to the end (go to the school and get info from those studying it).
Once you have a good estimate of how much you need, good, continue grinding and accumulating funds. In no time, you should have enough. However, wait, before rushing to start the course, make sure you also have enough extra cash that you can fall back on after graduation should you not be able to grind during the years you're running the degree (some courses are very demanding and require one's total commitment if one is to excel in studying them. Law might be one of them). I'll advice the extra cash should be at least half the amount you're going to use to run the school degree.

Note: when you're making the estimate, you're calculating everything from school fees, to feeding, to accomodation, to self maintenance, etc., taking inflation into consideration.

Good luck.

DaniWhizbang:


A male feminist (my friend) called me woman hater, wicked and uncaring because I said I won't serve my wife breakfast in bed if she suddenly falls sick

What led to the outburst.. My guy recently came back from camp (nysc) and shared a disturbing story with us.

He said two newly married female Corp member were caught having sex in camp. And upon catching them, the authorities alerted there husband whom they both listed as brothers in the form they filled.

Now, this male feminist friend of mine was telling us that the authorities shouldn't have informed there husbands.

The guy was depending it with all sorts of gibberish about how the marriage will be ruined and that they should've put themselves in those girl's shoe. He even said he wouldn't want to be informed if he was the husband.

He was drawing a lot emotional conclusion in order to sound reasonable but all he ended saying were nonsense rooted in emotion and fantasies.

Me and my guy had our laugh while also putting him in his place with logical reasons and cantered all the other arguments he brought in defence. He finally lost it along the line calling us names and saying we are heartless. I so much enjoyed it that yesterday

Your friend is the typical "nice guy". However, there's nothing wrong with serving your wife food in bed when she's genuinely sick.

BLOODYSPERM:
Anytime you negotiate desire for sex from any lady,you become her bitch, a fvcking cuckold, never and I repeat ever pursue any woman that makes you wait for sex or makes you negotiate for sex


After encounter with such women, move on fast and delete any memory or thing that would remind you of her, purge any feelings or even sexual lust you have for her from your mind


She should be dead to you immediately

Men dey vex for here o

Ritzybeauty:
I really don't understand this marriage thing, it brings out the beast in men sometimes, all of a sudden the attraction just goes away.. Lord have mercy.

If it brings out the beast in men, what does it bring out in women?

One thing I've learnt to do is avoid unnecessary back-and-forth. Once I make my point known, I move on. Because I'm not here to win arguments. I'm here to learn.

I encourage us to always have that in mind.

Waakanda:
Interesting...

What police can't do, those women did with jara on top. The man died violently in 200 ways.

#Karma

Warning: don't break your phone o
.

You're creepy, you know that?

EKONGKING:
you sleep around and still expect your ex husband to pay your bills ,prostitute.
one of my friend slept with this bitch ,her asking rate is 200,000 naira per night

Lalasticlala, this should make for a great FP topic

ubunja:
help me by posting a picture of what represents "inexperienced and naive".

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MJBOLT:

That's not abundance mindset,he cheated on his wife and got burnt.If you are a married man,please respect your union and stay faithful or simply be like my nigga,Ned Nwoko.

What does it mean to have abundance mindset?

Weather he has multiple wives or he has one wife but decides to be fvcking multiple hoes, it is still abundance mindset.

He wouldn't be fvcking around if he didn't have that.

It is, however, possible to have this abundance mindset and still be faithful in marriage to one woman ( i.e, decide not to act on the mindset).

I don't know why we always forget that the redpill is amoral.

ichidodo:
No matter how you look at it the prognosis doesn't still look good...Was it the manner of his death? (it was just f**ked up) or How he was caught pants down??( At least if you want to be a money bag, don't play the role like a sex starved dumb f**k) The nigger went against the very grain of what y"all preach "Never Trust a Hoe" Bloodysperm...."Have Abundance mindset" Caveadullam...blah blah blah...But because it plays into our narrative of how NOT to use your money or resources or whatever to buy pussy y'all be cruising and hoping the story blows away like some foul smelling fart...

Actually, he acted quite in line with what has been preached here--it is because he had an abundance mindset that he was cheating on his wife. Having an abundance mindset doesn't make him a simp, does it?

And, how do you know he trusted the hoe?

On the other hand, how do you even know he didn't use his resources to buy the pvssy?

There is no evidence showing that the man was a simp or not.

He let his guard down. That's the only certain thing here.

NB: I'm not a fan of marriage infidelity.

ubunja:
What men really want - youth, freshness, fertility, inexperience and naivete.

You are right.

However, the chic in that photo does not portray the bolded. She's obviously lacking those two. Most men want her type just for fvcks, not for marriage.

mattfeuter:


Ighalo is smart.

Man has no property in Europe, that’s why he disregarded the court order.

Shishi, she no go get.

Let her continue ranting on Instagram. Na there everything end.

If indeed he's got nothing in Europe, then she's got nothing on him. Na just rants. She no fit do anything for Naija. Nice.

It is all still ultimately to impress men.

Why are they trying to look better than other women? It is so that men can pick or like them over or more than other women.

ubunja:
one man's trash is another man's treasure lol.
This side the age group that's doing the most whoring are the 2000s (those girls born around year 2000 who are between 17 and 21). They're the biggest hoes and the biggest risk takers. Then those women over 40. Those mothers are whoring like there's no tomorrow. They're screwing anything that moves.

This thread has been invaded by F elements and incurable simps. Their mission is to gaslight us. Don't fall for it.
Before you engage anyone, check carefully to know who they are.

Born2winKingOG:


Am someone you don't get meet often.... but when you see me.. girls... they be like who the hell is this guy.... where is he from...for those that haven't met me yet in the neighborhood I currently live in mahn....nor be every knows me.... except few...I try as much as possible to hide myself....but when I step out bro...am hot like the sun rays!.....


I don't do compound or area parole bro from day one....I play away games!.


But I tell you...I got girls who their pucsy gets wet at the sight of me...in the area I live in.....one always comes to charge phone in my house... everytime my gen is on.... to see who the fûck am with



Gee..

To be a hardcore redpiller... you need resources..to improve yourselves... your lifestyle.. your mentality.


You say your broke... you need to be on your A games for this shitx.
You need to package yourself bro.... that needs resources.... time n money...go get that shitx bro.

Clown. I remember you saying you do not identify as a redpiller.

ubunja:
you probably didn't understand my last text. If spending is your style ride on because the money is your own. The red pill is meant to teach you how not to spend. Since the bluest simp spends at the twinkle of an eye. Those who don't wish to spend will learn how not to. That's the whole point of all these pointers we're sharing. It seems Nigerian men are intent to spend, even though Nigerian women are open to men not spending. Bro, do you.

She is clearly being sarcastic

ubunja:

Me: okay then, when you meet a woman for sex who pays for the snacks and refreshments??

Who pays?

That post is funny. But I don't know for sure which side you're on.

BLOODYSPERM:
Chase Assets instead of Ass

Most would not listen

What if the ass is an asset?

Riener:


A hoe with a good character and a virgin with a bad character, which are you picking?

A hoe.

TheUndercover:
If someone feels you have wronged them, then apologize and make the apology seem genuine. Whether or not you are actually sorry is irrelevant. Don’t apologize because you are sorry. Apologize to increase the probability of them forgiving you.

Forgiveness can often be bought with nothing more than mere words. Don’t let your ego get in the way of buying forgiveness free of charge.

Interesting. What if I did nothing wrong but they insult me and say I wronged them? Should I still apologize?

More ink to your pen, ubunja. Thanks for being a blessing to NL.

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