Although I'm not here to advertise any product, something wonderful happened today. I was able to last more than 30 minutes with Samsu oil, with the lady begging me to stop while confessing that I'm much stronger and better than her boyfriend.

Being able to last more than 30 minutes, with the lady begging me to stop because she is tired, is something I haven't been able to do in a very long time.

Although I'm not here to advertise any product, something wonderful happened today. I was able to last more than 30 minutes with Samsu oil, with the lady begging me to stop while confessing that I'm much stronger and better than her boyfriend.

Being able to last more than 30 minutes, with the lady begging me to stop because she is tired, is something I haven't been able to do in a very long time.

Naijanascam:
Your problems are not ending soon because the up coming boobs are massive in nature... More elbow to your grease in your ministry

Maybe I am enchanted by ladies bosom. Can't get my eyes off ladies boobs especially the ones a massive front. Sucked countless b***bs and it seems I am just getting started. It's the first thing I explore at the slightest opportunity and sucked a massive one as recently as yesterday with the gurl moaning in approval. Am I enchanted or cursed by it? A lady's b***bs is my weakest point. How can I save my self the embarrassment going forward

She is coming to my crib tomorrow and she is also asking for a loan to start a business. Made up my mind to lash the hell out of her without giving in to her loan request as she hasn't kept to her promise to pay the former loan I gave her. What do you think?

Ha ha ha

Slynation:
Its a simple question why is it so...?? and you took it personal, try dey calm down...!!

The majority of Nigerian ladies have multiple relationships with different guyz for different reasons and purposes.
My most recent observation shows that it is common for a Nigerian lady to in addition to having a serious boyfriend/fiance (they intend to settle down with), to also having multiple sex partners for some kind of benefits unknown to their main boyfriend or fiance. Why is this so ladies

Merry Christmas celebration ���� house. I approach this lady like that with a massive front for a serious relationship but she said she is already into a serious relationship but that she is open to close friendship. Sex therapists and experts in the house, what does mean by close friendship. What message is she is trying to passing to me

An urgent answer is needed badly. THANKS.

What examination invigilators go through

A friend confess that allowing his enstrange wife[b] to leave out of her own volition [/b]after more than 9years of marriage was the best thing to have happened to him.

His only regret is his three kids who are not with him presently. The kids are with their mother for now while he sought out some issues.

Notwistanding, he has been providing more than enough money to carter for his kids. He calls his kids almost everyday and visit once in a while.

The woman in question has being a problem for him over the past 9years+ and since she left more than 18months ago, this friend of mine has continue to experience financial, spiritual and emotional breakthrough life. No more suicide thoughts which is borne out of depression caused largely by the estrange wife. In fact, the guy is looking fresher and seems to be adding weight to the glory of God .

Peace of mind that words can not explain and a renew focus in life and rejuvenation of his career path has since began.

With all these, I am beginning to believe that that line "for good and for worse" is contestable. Marriage isn't by force. If it isn't working, the proper thing for both parties is to walk away with their shoulders high.

Infact, marriage is overated as it favor ladies more in the ratio of 9:1 (90% vs 10%) 90% for women and 10% for men

Do you agree

From experience, you would most probably have just only one moment of glory to shine when alone with her provided she gives her consent. After which, she might be forming holier that thou attitude with.
Speaking from experience.
If you do not take your chances with her, just forget it. You might be so surprised that even ladies that you have done everything with and has also done everything for you from blo***job, do***gy and s*****x might start forming holier than thou later on.
One recently told me making heaven is top priority and wouldn't allow me to continue from where we stopped last time.
Thank God I didn't dull myself when presented with the opportunity to shine. Might have been covered in regrets RightNow.
Having sucked the living day light from the other one boobi****es may God forgive me, she is now giving me attitudes. Thank God, I didn't dull myself when presented with the opportunity.

The wife has regain sanity

NwaAmaikpe:





You expect me to tell you to endure and continue loving a mad woman.
What further advice do you want from me?

Think solo sex is unhealthy? Think again. Here are 7 reasons it can be good for you.

Masturbation myths
Masturbation is healthy — whether you're in a relationship or not.Thinkstock
Masturbation is a normal physical function. "It's as natural as going to the bathroom or breathing air," says Susan Kellogg-Spadt, PhD, the director of female sexual medicine at the Center for Pelvic Medicine in Rosemont, Pennsylvania.

And yet for some people, there's still a stigma around masturbation that has led to misinformation and numerous masturbation myths. Read on to learn what's fact and what's fiction when it comes to solo sex.

Myth 1: People in Relationships Don't Masturbate

Reality: "People masturbate whether they are in a relationship or single," says Justine Marie Shuey, PhD, a board-certified sexologist in Philadelphia. "Some get jealous when their partners masturbate because they feel it's cheating, or that their partner is masturbating because they aren't good enough [in bed]. But it's important to understand that people have different levels of sexual desire — all are totally healthy and normal, and some involve masturbation."


Myth 2: Excessive Masturbation Can Lead to Erectile Dysfunction

Reality: "Erectile dysfunction does not result from masturbation," Dr. Spadt says. "What can happen with either men or women is you masturbate frequently and become used to a certain touch, whether it's vibration or your own hand." Because of this, she says, "You may become habituated to that sensation and find it more difficult to have an orgasm with your partner."

Myth 3: Masturbation Is Not a Normal Part of Sexual Development

Reality: A study published in JAMA Pediatrics that involved more than 800 teenagers ages 14 to 17 found that 74 percent of boys, and more than 48 percent of girls, masturbate — and that's a good thing, according to Dr. Shuey. “It's totally healthy for people of all ages to masturbate,” she says.

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Myth 4: There Are No Health Benefits of Masturbation

Reality: "Masturbation has a number of health benefits," Shuey says. "They include better sleep, reduced stress and tension, fewer headaches, improved concentration, increased self-esteem, a more youthful appearance, and better fitness." There are also a number of specific sexual health benefits for women — particularly older women — including less vaginal dryness and pain during sex.

Myth 5: You Can Masturbate Too Much

Reality: Masturbation only becomes excessive if it serves as an escape from problems in your relationship, if it begins to affect your health, or if it turns into a substitute for real-life experiences. Additionally, if masturbation causes physical soreness, emotional issues (you can't think about anything else), problems with your relationship, or habituation issues (when only the type of stimulation you engage in during masturbation will lead to an orgasm), it may be a signal to cut back, Spadt says. But very few people ever get to this point, she notes.

Myth 6: People Only Masturbate When They're Alone

Reality: "Some people masturbate together, and they incorporate masturbation into their sexual repertoires," says Spadt. Some couples enjoy watching each other masturbate, and some like to masturbate themselves to orgasm after other forms of sexual contact. Mutual masturbation is also a great way to have safe sex and prevent unwanted pregnancy.

Myth 7: Masturbation Will Make You Go Blind

Reality: "Many myths about masturbation, such as this one, come from back when people believed sex was only meant for procreation," says Shuey. Because masturbation isn't for procreation, it was considered problematic. "People also believed masturbation could lead to insanity, tuberculosis, hairy palms, and death," she says. "Obviously, none of these things are true."

Source: https://www.everydayhealth.com/erectile-dysfunction/the-truth-about-masturbation-myths.aspx

As a matter of fact, I have been masturbating since only God knows when and it didn't stop me from bagging a First Class Degree and doing great till date. Neither has it affected me in anyway whether physically or spiritually.

Instead, masturbation has helped me in easing the tension associated with increased libido and thus avoid the several temptation that comes my way given the nature of my job.

It has also helped me in building self_confidence as well as accept the rejection that's comes with tossing any damsel of my choice with zero hard feelings.

I am persuaded to give these clarifications given the several misconceptions of the subject matter like this dude: https://www.nairaland.com/6737946/me-please-masturbation-changing-life

She was rude to him during one of her exams in 300level. He was later listed as her project supervisor in final year.
She needs advice on how to manoeuvre the impending storm ahead.

Married men and women in the house, a friend once complained about how his wife forcefully removed his pants, mounted him, grab his dick and inserted it inside her without his consent. This was done without his consent and at the middle of the night when he was fast asleep and too weak to mount a strong resistance. According to him, inspite being polite with her that he wasn't in the mood the wife would hear none of it.
My question is what exactly will we call this

I just told her I haven't had sex in 2 years.
What about you?

JourneytoEL:
are you sure you read your bible? abraham had only one wife, sarah, Hagar was a temporary concubine. He married Keturah after Sarah died. Isaac had only one wife Rebecca while Moses had only one wife Zipporah. There are other polygamists but certainly not the ones you mentioned. However, all these people are dear to God but they were not Christians. The christian disposition is to follow the initial rules before Adam fell, one of which include one male one female.

What do you mean by Abraham had temporal a concubine That concubine like you called her borne Father Abraham is first child and son Whether moses had one wife or not, my understanding is that there is no where in the scripture were it was clearly stated that we shouldn't marry more than one wife.
Since you claimed that they were not christians, please show me in the new testament were it was categorically stated that christians should not marry more than one wife.
I stand to be corrected. What the bible stated was that we shouldn't covet our neighbors wife. Please, correct me if I am wrong.

MaxInDHouse:
At death the marriage bond between a man and a woman is broken that's the meaning of the phrase "till death do us part" during the resurrection all these people will return to youths (not old men) {Job 33:25} so in Paradise they will surely remarry, by then they may choose to marry their old mates (if these ones still wish to continue with them) but then it will be one Adam (man) and one Eve (woman) just as God arranged it IN THE BEGINNING!

Thanks. Are you saying that it doesn't matter the number of women you marry here on earth

MaxInDHouse:
Are you a Christian?
Do you want to live forever in PARADISE?
If YES is your answer then it's unscriptural to marry more than one wife!
Note that regarding God's standard what Noah knew was lesser than that of Moses, what Peter knew was far more than that of Moses, that means (scripturally) each next generation knows better than the previous whoever wants to continue dwelling on what the past did due to their ignorance is surely derailing from the path to everlasting life! Matthew 5:43-45

May you have PEACE!

In all honesty, you have still not answered my question.

Dtruthspeaker:


The Law is "He made them male and female" not male and females!

Based on the Law then the answer is No.

If in actual truth he made them male and female, then why did Abraham, Isaac, moses and their likes married more than one wife

MaxInDHouse:
You don't understand that all those who lived before John the baptist aren't Christians and they are not yet fit for everlasting life! Matthew 11:11-12

None of them worth to live forever until they are resurrected to comply with the standard God set in the beginning: ONE Adam and ONE Eve! Matthew 19:4

Unless Eve is equally allowed to take more than one man if not then all those who want to live in PARADISE where PEACE will reign undisturbed must comply with the standard ONE Adam and ONE Eve!

Just remind yourself of any who lived with more than one woman without serious marital issues {Romans 15:4 compared to 1Corinthians 10:11}
God promised us PEACE in PARADISE and God will not turn us to robots but for PEACE to reign we must comply FULLY with the standard he set IN THE BEGINNING!

You are chatting with a Christian not a Churchgoer!

My question still remains. Is it scriptural to marry more than one wife or not I will prefer a yes or no answer. Thanks in advance.

MaxInDHouse:
There is no specific verse that says a man must not marry more than one wife it's the Christian principles that abhor polygamy!

All those who lived before Jesus Christ can't be judged base on this principle because they never heard the counseling that leads to everlasting life {Isaiah 9:6 compare to John 3:16} so they will be resurrected, God declared them righteous due to their fine works {James 2:22} but before they are ushered into everlasting life they must revert back to the standard God set IN THE BEGINNING which is one Adam one Eve! Matthew 19:4
May you have PEACE!

Assuming you are correct, tell me what then becomes the faith of King David, King Solomon, Isaac, Joseph and even Father Abraham of the bible. I asked because these characters have more than one wife.

A friend is just a little bit inquisitive and will want pastors and bible scholars in the house to pin point exactly were it was written in the bible that men shouldn't marry more than one wife.
He is contemplating marrying an additional wife because his present wife has develop a toxic behaviour and he wouldn't want to divorce her for now because of the children.
According to this friend of mine they have not had sex for more 2 years and the channel of communication has completely broken down because of her bad attitudes.
Please and please nobody should quote the passage that talks about a man and wom leaving their parents and becoming one as this passage of the bible did not address the issue at hand. Thank you in advance.

My eyes have seen so many things, read some many things. It is never a thing of joy when couples that just got married end up fighting, and in some instance killing each other.
I still cannot fathom why a woman would end up giving her child or children to another to train without the man knowledge.
There is this news making the round the other of how a man caught his wife in an hotel with another man on valentine day.
What do women want exactly You marry them, cloth them, provide for the home even when she isn’t contributing anything to assist you in this difficult times and yet she insults you, cheat on you and in some instance kill you.
With roughly 10 ( ten) years marriage experience, I can confidently beat my chest and say I have seen it all. And as such, I believe I am competent enough to speak on this thing called marriage.
Ladies, please don’t take things personal or offence in what I about to outline. It’s my own personal observation from a masculine perspective.
1. Money is everything in today's marriage especially when it involves Nigerian girls. e get why.
2. Don't let anybody fool you with the notion that money is not that important when it comes to marriage and settling down with the woman of your dream.
3. Same bible that says that "money is the root of all evil" also says that "money answereth all things"
4. The country is bad right now to the extent that people are looking for safe havens to cool off and the female folks are no exception.
5. Don't let anybody deceive you that the arrival of a child or children would attract financial blessing to your home when you know for sure that you are dead broke.
6. Yes, children are blessings from God. That's doesn't mean that they should be as a basis for your financial breakthrough in life. Just let the children be.
7. Gone are the days when our mothers were given out in marriage based on recommendations. Guy man, you need to shine your eyes very well before taking in any woman as your wife in this 21st century.
8. Believe it or not, your wife have the potential to make or mar you without u knowing. Your progress in life is a function of your home and satisfaction of your wife with you.
9. Your wife is the first thing you see in the morning and last thing before bed time.
10. She cooks your food. Probably wash your clothes and knows the in and out of you.
11. She is the only one that is allowed to see your unclothedness without qualms.
12. With the aforementioned, you shouldn’t underestimate her powers and what she can do to you.
13. Do not ever let any lady tie you down with pregnancy. It will end in tears for you.
14. You should only married her out of love not out pity due to the pregnancy.
15. If you're not fully convince, please and please you should not married her. Such marriage arrangement always end in premium tears.
16. Instead focus your priority in taking care of her and the child long after the baby has been delivered. This entails that she automatically becomes a “Baby Mama” to your kid or kids
17. Remember always that your lost is her gain
18. You gain the trust, love and respect of your spouse more when there is enough money to take care of her everything needs in the home.
19. Don’t get me wrong while money doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage it is an essential ingredient in any successful home.
20. Instead of pursuing woman, why not pursue money first and all other things shall be added unto you. So says the modified version of the Gospel according to me.
21. Avoid broke girls as much as possible when looking for a wife. They are of no use to you in the search for your missing ribs.
22. Always aim for a working class, industrious, respectful, God fearing, ambitious and a humble woman. The bible labelled this kinds of woman to “virtuous”.
23. A broken relationship is way better than a broken home
24. Products of broken home are more predisposed to file for divorce. Remember this always.
25. Remember that lack of financial freedom might serious negative impact in the kind of education and comforts you want to give your kids
26. Money and I mean plenty of it is what keeps the engine of most marriages running.
27. Without money most marriages would struggle to survive.
28. Don't get me wrong, the availability of money doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. However, the absence would speed up the demise of any marriage.
29. I likened the above insulation to Herzberg's two factor theory of "Motivators and hygiene/disatisfiers". Read up what Fredrick Herzberg said about motivation
30. Whenever I see love up pics of married couples on Facebook, Whatsapp and twitter celebrating their marriage anniversary all I do is laugh, laugh and just laugh.
31. My brother, make money so that your woman would be proud to show you off to her friends, old course mates in the university and on social media as if you are her trophy or personal collection.
32. Have you ever asked yourself why women would rather engage a side chick in physical combat rather than their cheating partner? My hommies provide the answers yourself.
33. Money is like the water use in watering a plant to harvest.
34. It's the oil in a car engine that keeps most marriages running. The day it dries up, so many so called loved up marriages would pack up.
35. Money helps in advancing career aspiration without stress.
36. Money frees you from all kinds of depression and pressure that comes from in-laws and loved ones.
37. Family in laws would hardly disrespect you when there is money. This is even more so when your in-laws are poor.
Please and please, before you finally pop up the question, “will you marry me”, you and your fiancé needs to sit down in a round table and agree on so many things. Among the issues that needs to be addressed are:
1. You common faith and beliefs, shared responsibilities, and a complete opening up on you people's past.
1. Do not married from a sect like Gray message when you know that your religious beliefs are tied closely to what you were taught in a bible believing church like Deeper Life Bible Church. It would always end in premium tears if you do otherwise.
2. The lady in question needs to come clean on her body counts.
3. She also needs to tell the man if she had at any time taken in or had an abortion or abortions.
4. You need to do a complete background check on her family history before making up your mind on marrying her.
5. There is the need to agree on the number of kids you guys are wants to have and make adequate plans for the kids.
6. She must tell you her true age?
7. This is because findings revealed that ladies that are 30 years and above generally have problem conceiving or complications during childbirth.
8. If the lady is actively involved on social media space that's is a red flag.
9. If she is always fond of putting up Whatsapp status updates every now and then with her dancing seductively or semi nudes clothes that is also a red flag.
10. If a wayward girl all of a sudden becomes religious and start attending to things of God that is also a red flag.
11. You see our so called lady choristers, except for a very few I don't trust. Be very mindful when contemplating settling down with any of them.
12. The lady must tell you nothing but the truth about her sex history. E get why?
13. You needs to also find out on your own if she is a sex addict. E get why?
14. You should as a matter of necessity know her friends especially her best friend. This would give you a glimpse of the type of lady you are dealing with.
15. What's her health status In particular, what's is her genotype? This is so important to avoid stories that touch.
16. Some ladies have underlying health conditions that they would cleverly hide from you. One such health condition is high blood pressure which could have serious complications during pregnancy.
17. You must get to the root of her health status before anything else.
18. You must run a background check of her social media posts and check out her pics and comment's on different social media platform over the past 5 years. This would give you an idea of the type of lady you are dealing with in terms of character.
19. Most importantly, you and your fiancée needs to sit down and discuss projected income and expenses of running the home and where the money that would be use to run the home would come from.
20. In doing this you guys must reach an agreement as to the percentage of your salaries that would be contributed to manage the home, put in savings and fund important projects. This is if she is a working class lady and earning good salary.
21. Do not forget that once married you need to start making plans to build and move into your own home among other things. This would help your finances in the long run when the children start growing.
22. Lest I forget, partners must give access to their phones to their spouse at all time. E get why
23. For my hommies out there, it is important the issues identified in this write-up are fully addressed before thinking about settling.
24. Do not be blinded with love, as love would not pay the bills when the time comes or save you from a satanic woman from the pit of hell.
25. Always remember that when the chips are down, the society would not be interested in your case as they always say “marriage is for better for worse”.
26. They would also say that you should manage the lady since they did not have any input in choosing the wife for you.
27. Your pastor would even admonish you to stay with your wife even when you tell your pastor that she confess to being a witch.
28. It is therefore expedient that you are extremely careful in matters concerning marriage.

It's better to be safe than sorry.
The world like the saying goes is enough for the wise. Good day.
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