On this bro, I don't agree. You mother of 2 is tighter down there than 100s of today's girls. So your years of experience on the field of bedmatism don't determine you be able to know a lady that had given birth. If you thinking of breast... Some girls with any s*x experience breast are soft and saggy than that of after 4

DropsMic:
Lol


I still don't understand how a guy would have intercourse with a woman that has given birth and him no go know.. Y'all are fvcjed

Now I see the course of your problem. Destiny destroyer passing you to themselves as a ball; from sugar mummy to after 3. This is never a marriage she deceived you from onset and still plays on your foolishness by telling you about her fake dream when she knows you'll find out her secret last last.
How sure are you that the pregnancy is even yours? There no doubt that she is older than you by far that why she can't take a shit from you.
Note this: If truly you want her no more: AVOID HER IN ALL WAYS (s*x, food etc) SEND HER PACKING OR PRETEND YOU ARE TRAVELLING AND TELL HER TO STAY WITH HER PEOPLE OR COOK UP A STORY THEN CHANGE YOUR KEYS.
If you don't avoid her now that you still have a little sense to think and even throw this here for help, when she goes for the final round of her voodoo my brother, even if she brings a man home you will be the one to fetch water and clean up the bed after they are done and even ask the man their next meeting

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

ogoloray:
The way you spelt "criteria" is the reason you were not shortlisted!

I see. Thanks Mr teacher

This selection funny me self. What is the cathera of been selected because I know of a sister that was shortlisted without writing exam. Though, she is a nurse sah

Yeah! Got mine Thanks

I sent you mail twice but no reply. Here is my email again. Thanks

nevertolatetech@gmail.com

I sent you a mail on this request, kindly check. Thank you

Yeah! I will surely counter the post. How sure are you that those that perpetrated the fraud was a POS agent? I wonder why you guys jump into conclusion that any ATM fraud is carried out by POS agent.
If you will be sincere to my question I'll appreciate it.
Do you have an Opay account probably, you're using it to take their bike then or any online account you fund using your ATM? If yes then, you might have been scammed by one of these site it may not be a POS agent as you think. Most of this agent are not IT inclined as you think and not all are fraudulent.

Tenshades:


When I said such thing happens, they begin to spark but in reality, it happens.

Bishop1monte
kbright2
honesty4Nigeria
miniziter
horgarzer
jimmyubah2
emimore
highness25

Ya'll should counter the post above

You've no point. Any POS agent that still receives direct transfer is toying with snake head. When he/she falls victim of a bad customer that transfer fund from someone else account then you will know what "Akoba" trouble really is.
OP wife is the one at fault for entrusting her PIN to someone. Your PIN is "Personal Identification Number" not "Everyone"
Her card was used on merchant terminal to purchased goods. If she knows the shop, she may request for their CCTV footage for that day and note the transaction time through her bank.
No one is innocent except the owner of the ATM. Who knows whether is OP himself that used his wife ATM and pretends he cares by posting this here. I had worked in a bank for more than 8yrs, so have seen a lot when it comes to ATM fraud.
I have seen a case where the husband is the one that used his wife ATM when she traveled and almost bit up a colleague when fighting for his wife but never knew the ATM captured him that evening when he withdrew then money. When we later got the footage they were begging us not to arrest him. So not all POS agents are fraudulent as you're claiming. I use POS as well and no one has ever defrauded me,the agents are even friendly.
quote author=Tenshades post=97864118]Using ATM Card at POS terminals puts you at risks.
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Try as much as possible to make USSD transfer to the POS agent account when you need to transact.

You need to run away from any POS agent who refuses to receive transfer from you.

No let dem run you street.

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Korllami007:


You want to send Op to grave.

Bro, OP has sent himself already to grave. I wonder how... Just let me caution myself to avoid using abusive words here. Why on earth would you go back to a confirmed prostitute in the name of valuing your kids. If care is not taking, your kids may leave the worst life you can't imaging if you can't distance that prostitute you called a wife before she infected you with incurable disease that may lead to death. Let me tell you, she will dump them (your kids) for a useless man without thinking twice after your enemy has passed on; so tell me who will now take care of the kids you value and wants to die for.
Even Christianity allows you to divorce your wife on formication level. I have seen pastors remarrying on the bases of fornication so who are you not to?
If truly you love your kids as you claim than yourself, for their sake leave that prostitute and move on.
If guys here get your wife no, in lease than 3 days they will flood your DM with her nudes. So MOVE ON

Korllami007:


You want to send Op to grave.

Bro, OP has sent himself already to grave. I wonder how... Just let me caution myself to avoid using abusive words here. Why on earth would you go back to a confirmed prostitute in the name of valuing your kids. If care is not taking, your kids will leave the worth life you can't imaging if you can't distance that prostitute you called a wife before she infected you with incurable disease that may leads to death. Let me tell you, she will dump them (your kids) for a useless man without thinking twice after your enemy has passed on; so tell me who will now take care of the kids you value and wants to die for.
Even Christianity allows you to divorce your wife on formication level. I have seen pastors remarrying on the bases of fornication so who are you not to?
If truly you love your kids as you claim than yourself, for their sake leave that prostitute and move on.
If guys here get your wife no, in lease than 3 days they will flood your DM with her nudes. So MOVE ON

Psoul:


For security reasons, I will not go into details on how u can buy online without OTP. Some dirty minds are here and may use it wrongly.

For example, if you are in Nigeria and wish to buy from United States, there is no way their payment gateway can link with that of Nigeria. So they will not request for OTP when you want to make payment.
But you have to avoid sites like Aliexpress, Alibaba, Amazon, Jumia etc cos they are connected to almost all countries.

Buy Gift Cards and sell to vendors here in Nigeria. Most of them do not request for OTP.

What about buying Domain and Hosting and resell for money? This does not require OTP.

These sites and many others do not require OTP to make payment.

1 Big Basaket
2 Nearbuy
3 Grofers
4 Clovia
5 MakeMyTrip
6 Lenskart
7 Pepperfry
8 Dominos
9 My Gift Card Supply
11 Card Delivery

So please stop arguing that no online transaction can be completed without OTP.
Learn to believe that what you don't know exist.

So u mean they won't ask for pin too

gentlesinna:
. My brother knowledge is power..there are softwares that bypass OTP and your atm PIN
Fraudsters this days don't need ur pin or otp.
The only information they need is ur card details especially that 3 digit number at d back of ur card which is more important in there fraudulent act.

This is a capital No... I can volunteer my card for you to try this. No one I repeat can removed a kobo without your PIN. Those that fall victims are the ones that use their date of birth as their pin

Theoryx:
Heard her brother came back from abroad and sarz killed him.

The picture tells a thousand stories, no wonder the flag is folded

The story goes thus:
The strongest in the family they all lay on has been made useless (a status of no pride) The folded flag means a nation with no hope, dead leaders and no peace.
This pictures made me cry. There is emotional string attached.

virtuouswoman77:
Pls how do I handle this problem of hubby that does not have self control when it comes to alcohol?

He drinks too much and sometimes messes the bed up with urine.

I have talked to him still no change pls I need practice solutions that will make him stop because he is the type that doesn't take things serious unless it gets to him and this his behavior is making me regret my marriage to him.

This might work for you too, a story I read that stopped a long time alcoholic addict of a lady hubby. It goes thus:
She just planned it with a mortuary attendant, took her hubby there after he had passed out after excessive intake of alcohol as usual. He slept there over night n after he woke up amidst the dead, he was beaten up by the attendant stating is a dead that woke up that he must return to his death world.
The next day, his wife was called to come pretending they never met that he was mistakenly brought there as a dead person. He stopped alcohol ever since then.
Prayer is the best to end this sister

One of the trend this year that skyrocketed my thinking as a man n husband.

A big kudos to the real mother in the house will encouraging reply. God bless you n yours richly. Ami NLA kan, AMI...

Haahaa! You are a wicked being, very wicked one. You're lucky your wife isn't a witch... You deserve a death penalty wahlah! You think that your girlfriend is a fool after seeing all you did to your wife?
The juju she used on you has no second version.
I wonder how men are being carried away by useless girl in the name of sex... U don't deserve that woman trust me bcoz you'll do same thing if you see another useless girl as you again. Just let her be.
No advise for you. You've damaged that woman beyond repair.

sammyj:
This man lacks deep thinking or does this implies that all Oyo state residents are already infected or sick Because from a professional point of views and recommendations from WHO and CDC only medical personnel and sick people should be wearing face masks!!

This is the point. Remember you're in a country of over 200m population and has a testing kit that can't even serve a local government not to talk of the whole population.
Prevention is better than cure is what they say, so wearing mask by all will go a long way to prevent this virus. When people don't to have access to food and the government are not supportive, they will beat all protocol when they can't avoid to eat to source for food thereby putting them to more chance of getting infected.
Kudos to the governor!

Hustlersguide:
Good thing is, the elites are most infected with the virus and there is likely a 10% chance of survival.

Don't be scared if you're not a member of the elites, nothing will happen to u...God gat ur back.

Here's a Prophesy, many politicians will die, Nigeria will start a progressive change not with the likes of Sowore but with new individuals not known in the corridor of power.

A young man from Delta State will rise to be more popular and a strong influencer on the political system of the country though he will not sit in Aso rock.

Trump will loose the next election

Nigeria will eventually be dissolved but not before the progressive change takes place.

Nnamdi Kanu is not the Messiah the Igbos have been expecting

Niger Delta will not be part of biafra

In addition to your prophecy, There may be a change in power in Aso rock sooner than we expect except there is a divine intervention through prayer.

Nigeria will rise again after this pandemic because people voice we be heard. The "five pillar" strong political dictator will be things of past.

Another pandemic will surface after this has gone.

Surprisingly, African (Nigerian) will lead the world to the cure of this coronavirus this just to show to the world the benefit of hoping on God as we all know we do a lot in Africa. This post will be a point of reference in time to come.

Where did you learn this skill? I really have interest in software stuff. Can you please recommend a place or how to achieve this? Thank you

oluwaseyi000:

Why we were fired?
I joined this company last year, few days after finishing my NYSC, they have the highest number of software developers in Africa and I was loving life, the salary is great with breakfast and lunch

They keep on employing so many software engineer with time the engineer become more than the available job, I saw it coming but I don't know what the board was thinking

2. How did the firing process happen?
We have a global (online) meeting which people are asked not to miss, I was not even listening very well to what they are saying, the president said there are more developer than engagement to they have to let some people go, a mail was sent to all impacted people and I discovered what has just happened

Almost 400 people has been fired across Africa

3. Aftermath of being fired… how did you feel, have you recovered, did you get something better?

The company is actually a great one, they brought in pychologist to speak with us, bring in different recruiter, and other stuff, most importantly the payoff was reasonable that I can afford a Mac laptop of almost half-a-million

Luckily for me I got another reasonable job in less than 3 weeks of been retrenched


I always laugh when people complain there is no job in Nigeria, less than 5 month after leaving my previous company I have turned down almost 4 other offers some even paying than my current one


I so much saw the retrenchment coming that I once created a similar thread as this https://www.nairaland.com/5352267/why-how-loose-last-job

While the family of the soldiers that were killed in the battle field were not being take care of also the good citizens that have better innovations that can even add up to the economic were not given necessary financial assistnace. It is well with our soul

Esseite:
Imagine the killers a senator took out time and energy to draft a bill requesting for rehabilitation.

Increase your warm water intake and exercise a lot. When next you wana do it, let her be on top for now

@ Op, you must come and tell us all the end of this story that is: the measurements you take after the all scenario, for us to learn from the script.

If it's real u are indeed a cheat before now, this one is just happening right in your house, is something you do before now.

The truth is: all men tend to cheat, the only reason why u won't is the respect you've for your wife and that is directly proportional to how good she is to you and your family. If truly she is as nice as you claimed she was, then I see no reason you will fall for the trap. Best friend of my girl back then in school as tried something similar, but I don't fall... Imaging sleeping together with a girl with just a pant and bra on same bed and nothing happened. Is cos of the respect I had for my girl that why I don't touch her. I told her after they both separated from school she was so surprised and later told me what her friend said that how she wish I was her boyfriend and my girlfriend his her own boyfriend girl, so it was deliberate, her decision of having an affairs with me. After refusing her offer, she herself stays kilometers from me but I know she will still be surprised that my girl didn't changed to her after the incident and is because I didn't tell her.

We men are not same I repeat, if you have self respect you won't fall for such trap I repeat...

Spontaneous007:
For three consecutive years I wrote waec and failed, neco failed, gce failed, nabteb failed...

I kan tire for life.
My dad told me my case wasnt normal that I should go for deliverance.
I went for deliverance, pastor told me that I should go and learn work. I learnt barbing but anytime I Barb customer hair my face use to swell up immediately due to the beating I'd receive after barbing the hair.

I stopped barbing and went to do normal hustle.
It was nothing to write home about. The betshop I worked was a dungeon for me. If I no short 5k today, I go break television or make me and customer fight. I was later sent off at the end of the month with 2500 after debt upon debt.

I was determined to go back to school so I registered for Waec again and jamb too.
Waec wrecked me, likewise did jamb jamb me.

After like two years Sha.. I thank God for life that i am now in unilag selling popcorn for students...

Congratulations bro, last last you made it to Unilag, anyway na way. Just form a popcorn Union so you can be PUG president in stead of SUG all na dream come through

Op, is so painful what happened, just take it cos you can't undo it. The mistake you made was not seeking advice before it got to this. When u sex a lady 5 to 6 times, just believe the 7th one is beckoning unwanted pregnancy cos you won't care to taste it row.
The mistake you did was sending her the money and not following her to the hospital when you knew the amount she demanded for initially was to high, you should know she wants to take the money to take care of herself not for the purpose you sent it for.
My advice: never hide this for your girl (the truth might make or mare you) and NEVER try consider marrying Lola, she will CHEAT again and again. Prepare you mind for break up cos girls like urs never cheat and feel robbed when you do same.
I learnt this from an uncle: Blessed are those who do not expect, because they will never be disappointed. Your girl MIGHT forgive you (some may give her reasons to forgive you, for telling her the truth), but it will take years and patient to build the trust you just destroyed.
Finally, thank God this happened now, cos you would've done this in your marriage and that might cost you your home. Learn from your mistake bro... The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom, this won't have happened if you fear Him.

teejoyz:
I was once a contract staff in fbn for 5yrs and I understand their policy.the problem with our people is that once they get the job,they will feel relaxed Thinking they ve arrived and started living fake life and hoping for a miraculous conversion.well during my first yr I started writing ICAN exams,though it was not easy to be reading and coping with the job pressure,even it got to a stage that my manager threatened to sack me due to his envy,even some of my co contract staff were fighting me due to their bad belle stuff too ,but with God on my side I remain focused.At last I became a chartered accountant and I got a better offer and left the bank this year

Just thank God yours workout. I know of people that were laid off in same bank who started with OND upgraded themselves to master level, graduated with good grade but were later affected cos a better offer wasn't coming forth before this happened.
Have this in mind, in respective of how nice your new offer may look, you're still a slave in as much you're under someone's payroll. So don't blame others when things seems good for u, they may be doing better than you. They're free now remember is Never to Late for those that were affected. In the school of life, they are ahead of you because they're facing reality now

bkool7:


How are you sure the man even alerted her?

Trust me, he did. For the three other's wife to accelerate to thin air, it was a well planned deal. If it were police officers, they would have done it more perfectly, cos they've been a well developed scammer from Eden.

GloShare:


They didn't.
This woman did not leave on time as instructed. The other men's wives left immediately.

Bro, u get brain. She is the indecision type, probably she may want to consult her spiritual Father before following a simple instruction. I only pity the kids.

Nigeria my country!

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

Don't allow some kids here destroyed the home you've built for years, some are just tools of home destruction. You case is order way round for me, my wife is the one that ask more than I do these days though, I work in same city with her. Sex is all about mode and I don't have any side chick. Beside, you may be the one satisfying yourself by not allowing her to come whenever you guy have it. The are books that will teach you how to ignite your romance life.
Mind you, initially my wife don't like it before I bought books online to mode her, now me don't fancy it now. Sex drive is directly proportional to your challenges, take your time to find out her present challenges.
Don't try to go against your will, it hurts and destroys beyond repair if date those devils chicks out there.

Good day guys,

How can one know the date of birth DOB used as a direct entry DE student because is not showing on the admission letter like that if Jambite, mean those that stated from 100 level.

Thank you.