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Agriculture / Re: Just Your Interest, Not About Ur Money,join Our Agriculture Team Now! by kelvinstan96: 4:40pm On May 24, 2017
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NYSC / Re: Sokoto State Come In by kelvinstan96: 8:53am On Nov 21, 2016
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Romance / How To Get Rid Of Nagging In A Relationship by kelvinstan96: 10:37pm On Sep 13, 2016
Are you experiencing consistent nagging in your relationship and it and it’s giving you so much concern that you are losing patience? I understand how it feels, but the good news is that you can deal with it if only you desire and determine to. The tried and trusted tips on how to get rid of nagging in a relationship are simple, so you can actually apply them and save your relationship. One bad thing about nagging is that the both partners lose because being a nag is as unpleasant as being nagged.

You can agree with me that peace and attraction are primal and basic force in any form of relationship but with the presence of nagging, you can never achieve these two essential ingredients of a peaceful relationship. So it is very important that you keep your girlfriend constantly interested in you in order to achieve and maintain peace and attraction in your relationship. It is these peace and attraction that makes your lady to overlook your faults and infirmities, thus the saying “love is blind”. You need to act fast and get rid of nagging before it destroys that relationship that you’ve laboured for years to build.

Read through this piece and apply these solid tips on how to get rid of nagging in a relationship carefully if you are ready and willing to get rid of this ugly experience called “nagging”, and save your relationship in addition to enjoying the rewards that comes with a peaceful relationship.

Understand That You Can't Always Win It All: It is in nature that every guy will always want to dominate any niche he finds himself, but this is one of the commonest cause of nagging. To deal with and get rid of nagging, you’ve got to learn how to settle for partial victory and not winning it all every time. For example, maybe you want your girlfriend to join you in hanging out with some of your friends but she declined due to some personal reasons, and she is not used to turning you down on this before; you have to try and understand the rationale behind her decision and possibly put things in order. Stop insisting that a task be always done on your schedule.

If You Must Assign Tasks, It Must Be Done Based On Personal Interest: It is an established fact that you can stress yourself out of your comfort zone, yet perform excellently good but it is relatively difficult to perform exceedingly well when you are handed a task that doesn’t interest you. If you hate cooking more than your partner, but your partner hate cleaning and mobbing of the house more than you do. The both of you can directly swap the tasks and do them with fun and happiness. This fun and happiness will spur you into performing very well in the course of carrying out the task. This is one of the commonest causes of nagging but if you are ready and willing to get rid of this ugly habit, you must learn to assign tasks based on personal priorities.

Learn How To Appreciate Each Other: Appreciation motivates the recipient to do more for you. So in the process of carrying out a task by your girlfriend/partner, always try to appreciate her even when she didn’t do it perfectly well rather than criticize her. If your partner got the kids dressed for school, don’t criticize the outfits. If you want something in your own way, do it yourself. By so doing, both of you will be relatively happy.

Respect Each Other’s Opinion: Irrespective of how naughty you might perceive your partner to be; she is entitled to her own opinion whether good or bad. Even as the man of the house, she still have her own important values to add to the home and the right not be forced to do things against her wish. Respecting her opinion will endear into your relationship that desired peace that every man crave for. When she is not in the mood of taking a walk with you, don’t try pushing her to do so.

Don’t Promise What You Can’t Fulfil: When your lady is nagging you, it might be so tempting to just promise her heaven on earth in a bid to make her stop nagging. But making promises to her will not solve the problem if you cannot fulfil them; rather it will worsen the whole issue. It is more advisable to listen to her very well In order to understand what she wants. Then, you can either agree to her terms or reach comprise.

Think Of Letting Your Money Do Some Good Job: Considering the current economy of the nation, money is very tight, but getting rid of conflict in your relationship is a high happiness priority, so this is a place to spend money if you can and if it can work. Hire some persons to help do some chores in your home especially those you find difficult doing and your partner doesn’t like doing them either. This will play a very important role in saving your relationship from crashing.

Give Her Maximum Attention: If your partner is nagging because she is not getting the attention she needs from you, then you have to consider listening and giving her that attention she wants. Note that at the middle of nagging, all you just have to do is to keep quiet and wait patiently for her to finish because even the best constructed, well-mannered and psychologically good reply to her at that moment is useless. When she might have stopped the nagging, sit down together and talk out the issues with the intention of proffering solutions to her plights.

Do Task Yourself: You must not always wait for your partner to do all the house chores while you are there lying on the bed watching movie or playing video games. It is necessary that you have to do some tasks on your own, bearing in mind that none of you is enslaved to each other. If you’re too busy to do task yourself, then consider applying number 6.

Get rid of nagging in your relationship today and save that relationship you have laboured for years to build from crashing. If you desire to reap the rewards of more peaceful and loving relationship, apply these simple but effective tips. Thanks for stopping by to read through this piece. We will love to listen to your suggestions and contributions via the comment box.

Source: http://www.guymancode.com/how-to-get-rid-of-nagging-in-a-relationship/
Romance / Revealed! 9 Amazing Phrases That Melts The Heart Of A Woman by kelvinstan96: 11:44am On Aug 26, 2016
What is the nature of your relationship as regards to romance? Is it constantly going down? If yes, these words can rekindle the fire and save your relationship.

The good news is that apart from the routinely “I love you and I miss you”, there’s a lot more fun and touching ways to express your affection for her and tell her how much she mean to you.

I will be sharing with you some words you can use to express your affection for your darling sweetheart other than the usual “I love you or I miss you”. Here are 9 phrases that can melt her heart and turn you into her prince charming.

Am Very Lucky To Have You As…….

You can imagine how romantic it will feel to hear this from the person you so much cherish and adore. This is an excellent way of appreciating the one you love and showing her how much she means to you.

Am Addicted To You

Telling your lady that you are “addicted to her” with a warm, romantic voice and looking straight into her eyes, could be the best compliment she could ever get. This is best when you can be able to state the reasons why you are addicted to her, the reasons would get her even more excited.

Go ahead and use this phrase. Most especially each time she does something nice for you.

I Can’t Stop Loving You

This is a powerful way of expressing your affection, this assurance sinks well in to her brain and give her the confidence that she is secured and has nothing to worry about in terms of your feelings and affection for her. You won’t need to say this more than once in your conversation.

Come On Swidy, Stop Being Too Cute

This is a playful way of spontaneously adding affection to your normal conversation with your lady. This phrase does two things at a time, which are teasing her and at the same time complimenting her.

Oh My God! You Are Just The Best!

For special events, you can make big exclamation like “oh my God! You are just the best. Tell her the great impact she has made in your life since you met her. This will give her the mind-set that she has really been instrumental to who you have become, but don’t over use this phrase.

You Deserve The World

The “world” in this contest does imply that she deserves a lot compared to what you have been doing for her. Tell her she deserves the world which she knows you can’t afford but that you will strive to give her the very best you can afford.. This will give her that impression that she is truly valued and appreciated.

Your Presence Makes Me Happier Than Ever

With this phrase you’re putting her above every other person in your life when it comes to your happiness. And the truth is that women are naturally competitive and you telling her that she is the best lady you have ever dated will sink well into her brain.

I Will Give Anything For You

Though this might sound fictitious, but when you use this phrase with sincerity, it will give her the impression that she is worth more than anything. It will also give her that security that ladies crave for in a relationship. Say this to her in a romantic tone so that it will sink well.

I Cherish You For Who You Are

Doesn’t this sound cool when you hear it from that special person? I think it does. So don’t be shy to use it and use it when appropriate. Make her feel like a princess. This passes a message across that even in the midst of nothing you will still love her. This will increase her trust and love for you.

In You, I Found True Love

This phrase compares her with your previous dates and it places her above the rest thereby making her feel secured and special. This will best bring results when you are able to vividly give her some of the reasons she is different from others you have dated.

Now that you have the 9 amazing phrases that can melt your adorable darling’s heart, read again and commit them to memory. Tell her those words she has been craving to hear for so long at the appropriate time to make her feel special and she will love you for it.

But you mustn’t overdo it to avoid her taking it for granted. Mind you that affection is like food: If you over feed her, the stomach will start hurting. So to be on a safe side, do it less instead of more.

Source: http://guymancode.com/revealed-9-amazing-phrases-that-melts-the-heart-of-a-woman/

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