I decided to go ahead and keep it real with her by letting her know it just wouldn't work. I just caught a break from also allowing my sis n brother to stay with me for like a year. It brought me and my hubby to a lot of arguing. I am so relieved right now to be able to have our relationship back. I just have to understand that I can't save everyone. I believe I made the best decision, it's time for me & my family to live now!

I am in a situation where me and hubby(not yet married but planning) have been together going on 3 years. The entire time we have never really had any alone time with one another. The reason for that is because I was a caregiver for my grandmother which he understood and was there for us. We have 2 daughters and one bundle on the way. My grandmother just deceased last month July 22. Now 2 weeks later I have a female cousin whom is 21 yrs old with a son who needs to get away but has a home where she's at. She tells me that she needs to get away for just a week, but when I talk to her she's talking about getting a job and all while she's here. That sounds like she planning on moving in for a while. I cannot deal with this, I have a gut feeling that this is gonna turn out bad. I don't want my kindness blown up in my face. How do I explain to her that this lil arrangement isn't gonna work without really hurting her feelings ya know, cuz she's like a sister to me?