You're not alone bro... Everyone is going through one challenge or another... Me sef dey depressed as I dey like this but I can't complain because nobody is ready to help so no need to complain than just to accept fate and keep trying and hoping for a better life... I don tire to dey motivate myself... Am just living like a walking dead but suicide is never an option.... It's well with you bro... Take heart and be strong.... Such is life

Hmmm.. It's okay for you to feel that way because you ladies are emotional beings but at this stage... You have to think about yourself first... Your future and unborn kids and sit down and analyze it yourself... And decide what you really want for yourself... Sometimes it's better to keep emotions aside and FACE THE REALITY OF LIFE... Life is as real as it gets and every decision you make now will definitely have rewards and definitely consequences so I feel like it's better for you to put your emotions and face reality... Apparently your ex radiates negative energy which will end badly for you in the long run... Be wise even though nobody is perfect... Remember at the end of the day you have only yourself... Nobody really cares and will blame you or praise you when it eventually happens... Be wise

I really feel yuur pain bro.. The same thing happened to me exactly.. I masturbated for good 16 years and went through hell bro but I thank God that am fighting and still fighting it till now.. I haven't masturbated in over 5 weeks and I feel better and great overall... It's all in your mindset bro... If you need someone to talk to... We can always talk 07012682986... Mine was kinda spiritual so I had to do some things to able to have enough confidence to say no to the habit... I keep reminding myself of the disadvantages and I keep saying no to the thoughts and got a gf when it became so bad and I strongly believe that you can overcome it bro... You really have to develop a very strong resistive mindset... It worked for me... If you want us to talk chat me up... You can do it bro... Trust me... You can overcome this.. No matter how long you might have been in the Bondage..

Where's the picture biko

Hmm � � � deep

Red pill all the way...

Hmm to those guys who are looking for girlfriend up and Dan.... If you know you love yourself.. If you know you value your peace of mind, finances and future.... Avoid this so called women..... 99.9% of them have nothing good to offer you apart from sex and draining you emotionally and financially... I never believed it before but I later regretted and paid dearly for it... Remember love is dead... Women don't love.... I repeat women don't love... Remember this "male love is a caring and giving love but female love is a taking and receiving only love. Because women are greedy and extremely selfish in nature... Swallow the red pill guys... It's a bitter pill but these days.. We live in a harsh world... Cold as Bleep... Just bleep and move on.... Probably if you find a good woman.. Don't ever lose guard.. Women will always be women........ Because when a man says I love you then he means ' I want to dedicate myself to you but when a woman says I love you then she means' you are stimulating my emotions in the right way NOW '... Stay woke guys.....

Martinez39:
The guys that are bitter are pumped on emotions. The lesson guys can learn here is to stop financially investing in a relationship that is not certain to end in marriage or else they are playing a losing game. Girls too can learn here. To me, it's not about who ubunja supports, it's about the truthfulness of his posts. His posts are truthful and ubunja is not stopping anyone from having sense.

Exactly boss.. It seems like you are the only one that understands what ubunja wrote here... It goes in both ways so it's left to each individuals and genders to apply wisdom along with it... Simple

Lionpikin:
I so much love this, I would rather my daughter/sister be a gold digger than fooling herself in the name of love.... LOVE IS A LOOSING GAME FOR EVERYONE, MALE OR FEMALE..words on a marble..... although, I didn't understand it like this, but I've always seen people in love as loosers, if you refuse to fall in love, you can seldom be used.....Ubunja, you are da bomb

Ah swear

Hmm.. Guys are just blaming ubunja for this write up but It's filled with deep wisdom but most guys are just viewing it from one perspective and that is why you're all complaining ... You guys need to read to understand and having a deep understanding of what ubunja just wrote... It's a miseducation so it's left to both genders to understand how this things work and apply it to your own best interests.... Kudos to ubunja...

ubunja:
For the guys struggling to make sense of this writeup: STOP.
Let this Miseducation go. Forget you even read it. It's not for you.

For those thinking I have empowered women: Why not? Your sister, daughters and nieces also need the game. Not just you and the males in your family.

But I promise you, any woman who follows what has been outlined here will get the lifestyle she deserves from men.

This is the other side of the coin.

Ubunja I celebrate you and I understand you perfectly well... You are indeed a very wise man and I respect you for that... Don't blame guys criticizing you for this post.. It's obviously been one sided for a long time now and they have gotten pretty used to it... Definitely women are also part of the society and no matter what happens we still need them one way or another.. We must all have female friends.. Nieces.. Sisters and female kids after all we are all born of woman which is our mothers... Thumbs up bro... I really see the wisdom in this post...

Itsjare:


I don't knw if I offended him and he wudnt say... But to my knowledge I don't think I offended him to d length of prioritizing a clothes over my nysc camp

Hmmm... Something is definitely wrong somewhere...if truly he used the money to buy the clothes then you guys need to have some serious talks about each other....relationships should be 50/50 and mutual understanding and interests should be paramount in sustaining it...let him know your mind and thrash it out... But be observant about his reactions and be on guard(your heart)cos in life shit happens while you source for the money elsewhere, don't try bugging him too much .... Just be matured about it...

Hmm.... Waiting for the elders... I rarely comment on posts or anything here on nairaland but for some strange reasons I feel like commenting on your thread But before they come.... Because there are always two sides to a coin.. So from your own perspective... Did you offend him anyway or did you do anything wrong that have made him act like that...?

Hmm....

EmptyCoconutHead:
assuming I met this post earlier I wouldn't have passed thru what I just witnessed recently.
All my money and time and emotions gone all in the name of the scam called relationship.
Gosh when I recover I swear I won't take it anymore easy on this hoes

You are not alone bro... Relationships is just pure scam... I invested all I could and at the end... I gained nothing but pain all through... These hoes are fucking ingrates, unfaithful, cunny, manipulative and at the end of the day they still cheat on you and blame you for everything... Relationships sucks... Love is pure SCAM

My name is Olumide... Here is my number 08167565280

.. Ubunja má nigga... ��.. I think y'all should go MGTOW and forget all this love BULLSHIT

Hmm... It's well o...

Password please,... Olujames1630@gmail.com

Wow... I must say that I am really impressed with Mr ILegend, I have been observing you for some time now and I must say that you are really gifted in certain areas of your life, even despite some negative comments from people, you have kept your cool and acted matured with every one you reply.. That I really admire, but I must really say this although I haven't bought any of your books but what have seen generally here on nairaland has really shown the type of person you would be in real life... Thumbs up to you because I also have learnt some certain things from you and facing the realities of life... Your stories are really realistic and worth pondering over anyway keep up the good work bro, you are a great man in the making, remember what ever we do in life we can never please everyone and that's the reality..more wisdom bro. ���

iLegendd:
Thanks Dawoyo. You're on point.

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Greenbuoy:
I go rather listen to that one wey kabba sing with 2face that year!

.. Kaha you say

Stevengerd:
Whc kabba, shey the wan wey sing igun, & gbodomi?

The guy name is kaha feat 2face heart robber back in 2007

dinewithoyin:
Hello... Am oyin, I urgently need a loan of 100k will pay back in 6month time with 50k interest...
Contact number 08185875208
You can just drop your number
Thanks

Download the paylater app from play store and ask for a loan from there and fill out details and credentials

Hmm....

Mhizyoungroy:
Mine was yesterday when I jumped from the bus right into the gutter(drainage), I was drenched as hell.... So embarrassing

error

TechMax:
Icloud or Network lock?

Both

Locked Iphone 5s for sale for 30k,(negotiable), still neat and in good conditions interested persons should call this number 08167565280.....lagos and ogun state residents ....based in ota

Hmm....