Clearly, there isn't any statistics on this subject so every response is pure opinion and speculation including mine. I believe cheating is less rampant in the diaspora compared to Naija because of the consequences. Anybody that is determined to cheat will find a way to cheat no matter where they are but i do think that people are more likely to be disciplined when they stand to lose everything. Another reason is that cheating is less acceptable in the U.S. than Naija. Yes, everyone believes cheating is wrong, but in practice, more Nigerians living in Nigeria have accepted that as the norm compared to those abroad. When you're abroad, you more likely not sit and accept such behavior from your spouse.

My advise would be no, don't go to the wedding. Even though I understand that the bride may be busy with preparations and such, but i feel like if she really wanted you or was looking forward to seeing you at the wedding, she would have made time to send the invitation, or get in touch with you somehow. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that she dislikes you, but you're probably not a priority to her, which is okay.

Also, buying asoebi is not automatically an invite or big deal anymore, some people are now selling asoebi as strictly a business venture. On the bright side, you have a lovely new material that you can use to sew something hawt  

And when he kicks his wife out, him and his mother shall live happily ever after.

Can't believe some insensitive IDIOT will say to kick the wife out. You don't their history; maybe the wife and mother have had disagreements in the past, and the wife doesn't want to stir up the situation. I would advise the couple to talk about the situation to find a way to help the mother-in-law without causing disturbance in the home.

A GREAT mother raises her children to be independent of her and to have their own lives and loved ones, and not just to be emotional blackmail in the future. I love my mother very much, and she loves me as well. But even in her dying times, my mother would never want to be burden to me or my future family.

And seriously, whoever that mutter is, really needs some spiritual help to cast out some demons, because I've read some her responses and advice on this forum, and they're just plain PITIFUL! I actually feel bad for her, because it seems like classic Battered Woman Syndrome.

Oh ok, but that can't possibly be the end of the story. Is she gonna kill him or what? Ahhh, oga please finish the story abeg o. Nice though!

So what's the update on the story? Has he sent the remaining part to anybody yet? Or has been unbaned? It's a very interesting piece, i hope we get the rest of the story soon.

Wow, what a wicked sister, and I pray you shall overcome this situation.

Here's my advice: Try your best to forgive her, because forgiveness is not for the other person, it is for you! It is for you to heal and grow to be a better person. Forgive her, and make peace with the situation. However, this does not mean you have to become best friends and close sisters again, because I, personally, can never trust such a wicked person in my life ever again; I'm just saying you should make peace with the situation. If it were me, I would have a conversation with her, telling her that I forgive her for what she did, but we can never have the same relationship. It's definitly gonna be hard, but you deserve to have GOOD people around you, who have your best interests at heart, and I'm sorry but your sister has proved otherwise. Pray for healing and direction, remove all hate from your heart, and live your life the best you can with no regrets. I definitly don't regret cutting some people off, I just don't need negativity in my life.

Hello dear, first, Pray to God and try your best; but if you've tried your best and find that you can no longer continue in this relationship, then a divorce might be the best thing. And please, there's no such thing as staying in a bad marriage because of children. Yes it will be hard and have some influences on the child, but it is much worse for the child to be in a hostile, loveless environment. If you do go ahead with a divorce, then I'll advise you to be as friendly and civil as possible, and pray that your husband is as well. But please, take precautions such as keeping your son's passport, alerting the airports and embassies to keep a lookout for your son's passport and identity, and contact your local authorities to seek further actions. Because if he is able to take your child to Nigeria, I highly doubt if you'll ever see you child again. Goodluck in your endeavors!

I'm a Christian and I believe in miracles, but this is ridiculous! There have definitly been examples of older women giving birth all over the world, so it definitly can happen; but the difference is these older women have normal pregnancies, the belly is visible, the child is visible on the ultrsound, the women brestfeed the babies, etc. This is clearly a case of child kidnapping or child sale, and it is WRONG!!

I'm actually taking slight offense to all these people claiming God in this situation when everything concerning this case is ungodly. Please people, educate yourself on the reproductive system, and simple science.