MufasaLion:


So sad. Well, getting formal education might not if interest to him. Sit him down and ask him what are the things he would like to go into. The world is evolving and not many people are interested in education as before since skill acquisition is getting more important. Let him acquire skills of his choice and try to help him financially while learning.

ive made my mind ... so as to have a peaceful mind and not lose focus .. for now won’t raise any dust on the issue ... I will strike when it’s time ... but I want to do that with a clear mind state... for now I’ll make peace

MufasaLion:


It seems your brother has always been disrespecting you from way back.

way back brother ... the frustration came due to the admission taking time ... I was so into it been successful then . But I took a u turn when at a time I was trying to advise him taking a certain course and reading up for the post utme ... he was trying to get into the school i finished from ... his statement was “don’t i think he has head to think of the right thing to do” ... since then I comot hands from any thing about him ... I never even asked him this year why he never took Jamb form, three year after

MufasaLion:
Your story is not that clear to me. Why would your brother curse you with your wife? There are some things you left out in your story.

i attempted dealing with him yesterday .. wife stood in my way and slapped me telling me I dare not touch him ... I must say I returned the slap this morning (cause I woke up with swollen eye)

MadamVanessa:
For your brother to always take side with your wife two things are involved.

1. Is either you're a terrible husband to your wife and a terrible brother to your so called brother.

2. Or when you're not around you wife and your brother make out together, they Bleep themselves to stupor, even when she's pregnant they can still be doing it.

hmmn ... but will I stop working so I can watch over my wife ?

vibre:
Another fake story for nairalnders to waste their brain matter on

SMH ... this is my dilemma ... God is my witness

TundeWX:


Bro...lay down canon law...ur the man of the house,if anyone do anyhow show them anyhow,especially ur bro..he might need some slaps...don't touch ur wife physically tho.
Cheers,you'll be fine

thanks brother ... at times a grown man just needs a shoulder to cry on you know when you are the one in the middle ... but I’m getting better now ...

Babaken:
Pray for God to give you more wisdom in this kind matter is wisdom you need.

im in desperate need of this ... im not perfect but I never imagine I’ll be in this situation

TundeWX:
You can't allow ur junior brother to insult you anymore in ur wife's presence...more so as he's living under ur roof

its what I’m going through ... the problem is my mum owns the building ... I would have rented apartment which I suggested ... wife and mother advised not to ... to make the matter worse ... I just built a factory in same compound ... how do I leave such investment ... im just stuck

Righteousness2:
If your Wife 's younger brother is Insulting you in your House, then you need to Peacefully send him back to his Parents.

Not wife’s younger brother ... he Is my younger brother

I can’t find else where to turn to as I’m loosing my mind currently
I live in a flat apartment with my wife (conceived) and brother( younger) ... but of recent it’s been one fight or the other in my so called union .. the matter is always escalating due to my younger sibling (guy) interferences, I am quite busy and wife due to her condition has stopped working so she is always at home with my brother ( he’s yet to gain admission)
Guess this made me the stranger .. yesterday a misunderstanding broke out (between wife and I) and while trying to solve it ... the younger brother came in again and matter worse started cursing me with my wife support ... Now I am just confused as every one has been advising I let her deliver before I take any action ... can I even wait till then
Has anyone been in my issue and how is this best handled

With the way wifey pampers our pregnancy, I’ve been praying it should be a girl ... that lady is making me jealous already :-

TUANKU:
Drop your WhatsApp number. I have good contact (s) in Abuja behind Area 1 shopping complex, you can ask anyone who lives in Abuja that's where you can get the best kilishi.

09035992934

I’m in Ibadan and into foo business. Would appreciate if anyone could help with contact from northern state where I can healthy Kilishi, you can drop your contacts I’ll contact you

Peaceyw:
I’ve just come out of a relationship with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder. It has been, by far, the most chaotic relationship I have ever had. I would like to share what I’ve learned about them so that other men can spot the signs of these abusive, controlling, bitches and AVOID! AVOID! AVOID! For the love of God, Stay the hell away from these types of woman. They are incredibly dangerous.

ENTRAPMENT
Borderlines have an uncanny ability to mirror the qualities and outlook of their victims. Meeting a borderline woman is a magical feeling. It is like living in a country where you can’t speak the language and then suddenly meeting the only other English speaker in existence. Your values, your experiences, your morals – as they come up you will find that she embodies them all, and this builds a trust that that will open you up and make you want to expose your deepest hopes and fears. She will of course mirror these too and this will only make you fall in love all the faster. The love that you will feel for this person will make any past love feel shallow. This person, or at least who they pretend to be, will feel like your soulmate. People with their own mental health concerns are the borderline’s favourite prey. This is in part because the victim’s are more receptive due to a lack of female attention or feelings of alienation, but also because the borderline’s self-loathing won’t allow them to measure themselves against someone who is healthy.

MANIPULATION
Pity is the weapon of the Borderline. They are riddled with pain and suffering. Their lives are chaotic and in shambles. Because you will see so much of yourself in their projected persona, you will want to help them. And because they are pretending to share your own outlook, you would expect them to have the same regard for you. But they will not. You will bend over backwards to meet the borderline’s demands, but it will never be remembered or appreciated. And if you expect consideration or support in return, they will let you down every time. They will sidestep any issues you may have, invent reasons to be upset that you would bring it up, and then blame you for their lack of compassion or the behaviour you have a problem with. Over time this will condition you. You won’t want to hurt this person, and their reaction to any criticism is so extreme, to the point of self harm or suicide attempts, that you are constantly treading on eggshells around them. It becomes impossible to set boundaries without been met with abuse and rage. But unlike a traditional abusive partner who uses physical or emotional violence to condition their victim, the borderline abuses themselves to cause guilt.

Another tactic the borderline will use against you is to provoke a reaction, then use that reaction to blackmail you in the future. If you are ever anything less than 100% understanding and compassionate regarding their hurtful behaviour, they will hold a grudge against you and use it to excuse their future actions, or bizarrely, the very thing that you are angry about in the first place. The initial reason for your anger will be forgotten, and if brought up it will be dismissed or outright or denied to have happened at all. In the mind of the borderline, they can do no wrong, because admitting they have would mean confronting their self-loathing and guilt. This behaviour is tolerated by the victim because despite how disgusting the borderline is acting, you have seen a better side of them and are waiting for to it re-emerge. That person who you fell so deeply in love with must be in there still, right? They have an illness and will be better once this long, dark, episode passes. If you could only be more understanding or helpful they will return to the state they were when you first met. But it’s a fools errand. That person was never real in the first place. The ugliness is what is real and that can be very hard to accept in someone you love.

WHY DO THEY DO IT?
Who gives a f~~~. They should be put on a list for the safety of the public. No matter their motives, they are predatory creatures who prey on vulnerability and destroy men for their own gratification. They are emotional vampires who only love to be loved, without a shred of empathy, honesty, fidelity or trust.

RED FLAGS
She tells you that she is borderline. (she’s telling you so she can excuse her behaviour later).
Her past doesn’t match up with the persona she is presenting to you.
She will have multiple children from different fathers.
She might have a cuckold ex who still lives with her.
She will tell you that she has been in multiple abusive relationships as the victim.
She may be under close scrutiny by the law or social services.
She will be very generous in the bedroom and sex is all about pleasing you.
She has no or few friends other than online contacts.
She has scars from self-harm or suicide attempts.


RED FLAGS
She tells you that she is borderline. Manslation: S~~~ test. Every woman qualifies as a “borderline.”
Her past doesn’t match up with the persona she is presenting to you. Manslation: This is EVERY woman. AWALT
She will have multiple children from different fathers. Manslation: Welcome to 2018. The Everest of female accomplishment — spreading her legs.
She might have a cuckold ex who still lives with her. Manslation: They all have 4-6 orbiters willing to give cash/prizes for access to magic vagina.
She will tell you that she has been in multiple abusive relationships as the victim. Manslation: It’s a woman’s highest aspiration to be seen as a victim.
She may be under close scrutiny by the law or social services. Manslation: See above — multiple children/fathers.
She will be very generous in the bedroom and sex is all about pleasing you. Manslation: This is temporary.
She has no or few friends other than online contacts. Manslation: They already KNOW she’s a c~~~ and avoid her.
She has scars from self-harm or suicide attempts. Manslation: These are attention getters — nothing more.


From MGTOW.COM

Thanks for this ... this is coming at the right time bro .... Just got off from this also ... a mere confrontation of a message on her phone led to me being termed demon maltreating her cus she’s pregnant .. she’s asking for space and all and I’m here feeling bad for the baby on the way ... keep thinking about it even broke my phone’s screen this morning ... I’ve always pictured ahealthy family... Now it’s all falling apart ... and this was an angel I knew some months ago ... I was a hard guy , this girl softened me with love and care ... I don’t want to be a bad dad, waters keep filling my eyes unconsciously... what will she tell the kid , won’t karma fight me for abandoning my kid and chasing good life ... what did I do wrong to have turned my angel into an overnight devil, I almost had accident trying to get her something to at least make her happy yesterday (she requested it) Am I wrong to have confronted her over the message , all these keep pondering my mind... I can’t even discuss this with anyone ... just confused...

luminouz:


What does she want court wedding for?

Traditional wedding already made her your wife na.

Could also be her hormones affecting herm

it’s where the confusion is for me ... she seems to be more concerned about what if anything happens to me ... cus I’m yet to find any tangible reason

Any married men in the building please

Fiancée been acting wierd lately ...the whole issue started after I insisted I’m not going for court marriage... we plan getting married in two months (she’s already conceived) ... I’m ready to perform my traditional requirements on her , no matter what her family demands, not even considering the fact that I’m not prepared for these, the pregnancy seems to be hastening things for me but I don’t mind ... she’s been insisting she really wants the court thing , she cries all days now ... and the whole lovey Dovey thing she use to do already stops ... I’m thinking if this will affect our love ... should I just call off the whole thing and shift to baby mama ... or she will still get use to it, i believe the priority now should be how we’ll be happy as couple ... and not insisting on law to determine my home and subjection ... any advice for a lost youth ... ( I’m 29)

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Here are some sample

zoeA:
Location?

Ibadan .. but I can travel if still within southwest

this type or any one close

Oh okay .. thanks a lot

First I’ll like to know if anyone has experienced this .. was called this Morning by a number , picking it I was told they are calling from access bank (I use the bank ) so I was attentive , was told by the caller he is only calling to verify my date of birth, he gave me my exact date of birth and another wrong one .. was about giving in and telling him it’s one of the option, though I thought to myself date of birth would at least not be the info a scammer should be needing .. but I stopped and told him I’ll prefer to work into my bank branch .. here is the most stunning , he said for me to be sure he is calling from my bank .. he went ahead and gave me the name of my other bank I’m using , my BVN , my full name and the phone number I registered.. The accuracy of those info made me almost obliged.. but I noticed the haste in his voice, like I’m wasting his time and he’s sounding annoyed so I suggested I’ll prefer walking into my bank .. this infuriated him and brother finally shows he’s unreal by by cursing that him and his family will jam dangote truck when going to the bank .. the thing is now I’m scared with such information at someone’s disposal am I safe at all .. please anyone ever experienced this ?

faithugo64:

Who gave you the injection? A qualified health personnel? If yes, then you have nothing to worry about.
Every qualified health personnel ensures no vessel is hit before giving an injection.
Seeing blood after receiving an injection is not something you should panic over.
Some drugs leave you with funny feelings too, that is probably what you feel in the said leg.
So relax and just watch it, the feeling would go away in no time, but if it does not or you start to feel worse, please go to the hospital.
And op, stay away from google, the more you think of it, the more you feel what's not there

alright thanks .. you seem to be here with me .. have been reading all sort on google

Reading up about how hitting the vessels could lead to some form of paralysis makes me more scared

I got injected this morning as I’ve been on treatment for typhoid since yesterday.. to the main issue , after the injection today blood got my cloth stained that I got to wash the cloth in the premise .. but since then have been feeling some stuffs in my right leg , the side where I got injected .. someone was saying she might have hit the wrong vessel or something.. please is there anything to worry about or the feeling is normal ..
Please help

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Found... thanks

What’s your contact .. I need the iyere

Kindly drop your contact or email .. I’ll contact you

Kindly drop your contact or email .. I’ll contact you

Kindly drop your contact or email .. I’ll contact you