I will advise Tontolet , to forget all these stories and move on and remain a model she was before now. I feel that both can still reconcile if pride is expunged. I believe that both still love themselves.

Please, I advice you to seek the face of God by visiting SCOAN.

Please, leave the man alone. He is training the child the right way. The development of the child starts immediately the child is born. I bet you that this child can develop on these in the areas of mathematics, physics , chemistry etc. Give him ten yrs and you will be surprised to discover that this child will be a guru in maths etc.

Most Often, I get angry when people come to talk trash on the topic they are ignorant of . How will a woman who is married to a man she loves do something and keep it secret to her husband? This is betrayal of trust. If the marriage is blessed with children , then why conceal a secret to a man you love . I advice that the documents should bear both names as in mr and mrs xxxx and that will cause no problem. Those suggesting that she should not change it to bear both names are misleading the woman and such advice could be catastrophic.

MR TWO_ONE: Most times it is more prestigious not to accept something in return when we do good. You shouldn't have expected , nor accepted something in return. It is more honorable to hold our ego in high esteem.

There is nothing wrong with what he is doing at the moment. The good job will surely come. Please, kindly go for some HSE certification and it will present you with more opportunities of working in a big firm as HSE officer .

There is urgent need to discuss heart to heart with your wife. She is the selfish type. She has observed that you are well to do and has decided to pursue them away on time so that she can have you and all the goodies for herself and family. Do not be surprised that she is getting this stupid advise from her friends. A stitch in time, saves nine they say. pls, act fast.

It is important to note that it is not all early marriages that has a challenge. I'm 39 now and married my wife when she was 20yr. Now she is 30yrs and I'm 39yrs. We have lived in peace till date. I trained her in the University and she concluded her nysc three yrs ago. We have five children. Four boys and a girl. The truth is, it is important to marry a man that loves you more. Ladies should before they go into marriage try to know the extent of affection the man has for them. My wife is my jewel. She stood by me during my NYSC days when we were dating and still standing by me till date. It's all a function of how much love you have on the woman. My wife also has NCE.

If we can realize how void life is, then more than half of the world's problems will be solved. Life is empty, only our actions are remembered. Now, tell me why we should kill when we know that the killer will surely die one day. The only difference is the time. Strife, animosity etc are all because of man's lack of understanding of life's emptiness.

Please, do not follow this line of stupidity. It will surely destroy your career. You are supposed to remain silent as most youths see you as their role model. Please, Daniel, let us assume that this kind of post is not coming from you.

I recently observed that ONELGA in Rivers State is returning to its peaceful state. This is a very welcome development and i hope it endures. I'm however wondering the reason for it. Could it be because of the BAKASSI Boys? Or our brothers are finally realizing that cultism and violence does not pay?
In any case, ONELGA residents deserved to live in peace. Let us all give peace a chance because peace has numerous benefits like youth employment, scholarships, business developments, positive image to investors, more revenues to the local councils etc.

My dear people let us give peace a chance. Inviting all Rivers men/women and lovers of peace to drop comments.

You see, my problem here is she denied him sex each time he asked for it but she gave it to some persons even up to 4yrs and then another for pregnancy. Please, let us call a spade its name.

Quitting is hard but it can be achieved. i had it for fifteen years and later bid the habit bye-bye. First you have to envisage all the bad things it has caused you in the past. poor quality sex life, penis shrinkage , cancer , weaknesses , inferiority complexes, lack of courage, looking ten yrs older than your real age and lastly early death etc. the thought of these things will help you say NO to the fucking habit.

HungerBAD:
Happy Birthday Bros.

So many men of God in Nigeria, all looking expensive and yet their prayers still have not changed anything. Who do these men of God even pray to?

yes, you re very correct but the likes of Pastor Sam Adeyemi has at least enriched lives with his teachings. My concern is on those so called men of God who can not even teach the word yet they extort their members with fake prophesies.

I will like knowledgeable Nairalanders to help with suggestions to the following questions

1. Procedures to owning a petrol/gas station
2. How much you think initial capital needs to be

3. What kind of business can someone start with N10M?

Pls i need input from experienced people in the house

Thanks

ndcide:
A Trump presidency is an act of God. It's the best thing to happen to USA.

For those who keep killing or supporting those murderers or claiming helplessness about it, they should be afraid of the consequences of their actions.

I've always believed Trump and I stand by Trump. No pretence.

I like Trump too. I do not think he's an extremist but with statements credited to him, one would assume he is a white extremist and perception is very important in politics and governance.

So how does he go about correcting this notion or do you think he shouldn't care?

This is inviting nairalanders knowledgeable in global politics to come educate us on the possible effects of Trump's presidency on global peace.

For me his presidency looks exciting and at the same time scary based on various comments about the man in the media.

So gurus in the house, come and educate us.

Pierocash:
peace wil return to rivers whn Thugnor wike decides to be civil,and consolidate on d legacy of d past governor.peace wil return whn Thugnor wike and co stop arming thugs to win elections.if nt,Aluta Continua

But don't you think peace is more important irrespective of party affairs? It's the citizens that are suffering, not the politicians. Few years ago rivers state with port Harcourt was know as the garden city. the peace, the absence of kidnapping/political thuggery were part of the reasons why it was known as the garden city. i think business/pleasure/others cannot thrive in an atmosphere of partial peace.

I also think that it'll be better if the politicians from both sides can work to make peace so as to ease the sufferings of the average rivers man and make absolute peace possible.

As a rivers man, i wish we can get back the peace we had before the political era scattered everything. Those times when our women were safe. when we could go to the farm and not fear that we will be beheaded. when we could sleep and not fear that our houses will be burnt down. when our parents could go to the farms and even return late without any fear of attack. in short when guyman could walk round the streets enjoying himself as he likes without fear of molestation.

what will bring back total peace in rivers state?

Sayelabola:
A visit to Lagos will do, because it is a common sight along some major roads.

Hope you're within Lagos?

Thanks for your reply.

I don't stay in Lagos but would like to know where i might get the best deals.

Thanks

Hello house, i need information on how to get good granite tiles at fair rates for a construction in Port Harcourt.

I trust Lagos will be cheap but anyone with information on cheap outlets in PH should let me know too.

Thanks in anticipation.

Na so