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Family / Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 8:03pm On May 19, 2018
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Family / Re: One Night From Twelve Years Ago Is Tearing My Marriage Apart by Kumar4india: 7:59pm On May 19, 2018
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Romance / Re: Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 7:52pm On May 19, 2018
Romance / Re: My Parent Would Not Approve Of My Marriage! !! by Kumar4india: 7:51pm On May 19, 2018
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Romance / Re: I Married The Monster In My Dreams,is The Nightmare Over Or Not? by Kumar4india: 7:51pm On May 19, 2018
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Family / Re: Help!!! I Married The Monster In My Dreams. .woman Cried Out!! by Kumar4india: 7:50pm On May 19, 2018
Romance / Re: Help!!! Who Is Under A Spell (juju):her Fiance Or The Woman's Husband? by Kumar4india: 7:49pm On May 19, 2018
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Religion / Re: Help!!! Who Is Under A Spell (juju):her Fiance Or The Woman's Husband? by Kumar4india: 7:48pm On May 19, 2018
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Religion / Help!!! Who Is Under A Spell (juju):her Fiance Or The Woman's Husband? by Kumar4india: 6:00pm On May 18, 2018
Hello Jzhane,

First of all,I want to say well done for having such a wonderful platform. I want to encourage to keep doing more because you are really blessing many lives and I am one of such people. God bless your hustle dear.

Ok,my best friend needs your help/advice. She is in serious relationship mess at the moment. She dated this guy in her office for almost one and a half years before things went south. A year and a half ago,this man was with his wife but things were not working fine. He had been married for four years and no children. According to rumors,he was the problem,the reason why they couldn't have children. Something like low sperm count. That caused a lot of strain on their marriage until the fourth year.

The man began to confide in my friend about the issues he was having with his wife. She used to be like his confidant till they became quite close. But she refused to date him when he made advances at her cos he was still married. After a while,the woman moved out of the man's house. That was when my friend agreed to start dating him. He had said that he had filed for a divorce from his wife and was awaiting the finalization. This kept on going for almost 18 months. Every time my friend brought up the issue of divorce,the man would say he is on it.

My friend has introduced this man to her parents,her friends. Every body knows them as they are engaged. They have .....

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Romance / Help!!! Who Is Under A Spell (juju):her Fiance Or The Woman's Husband? by Kumar4india: 5:52pm On May 18, 2018
Hello Jzhane,

First of all,I want to say well done for having such a wonderful platform. I want to encourage to keep doing more because you are really blessing many lives and I am one of such people. God bless your hustle dear.

Ok,my best friend needs your help/advice. She is in serious relationship mess at the moment. She dated this guy in her office for almost one and a half years before things went south. A year and a half ago,this man was with his wife but things were not working fine. He had been married for four years and no children. According to rumors,he was the problem,the reason why they couldn't have children. Something like low sperm count. That caused a lot of strain on their marriage until the fourth year.

The man began to confide in my friend about the issues he was having with his wife. She used to be like his confidant till they became quite close. But she refused to date him when he made advances at her cos he was still married. After a while,the woman moved out of the man's house. That was when my friend agreed to start dating him. He had said that he had filed for a divorce from his wife and was awaiting the finalization. This kept on going for almost 18 months. Every time my friend brought up the issue of divorce,the man would say he is on it.

My friend has introduced this man to her parents,her friends. Every body knows them as they are engaged. They have .....

....read and comment on full story on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/who-is-under-a-spell-juju-her-fiance-or-the-other-womans-husband/
Romance / Re: Help,my Husband Is Mentally Challenged!…how Do I Get Out? by Kumar4india: 8:14pm On May 17, 2018
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Romance / Re: Help,my Husband Is Mentally Challenged!…how Do I Get Out? by Kumar4india: 7:41pm On May 17, 2018
for your mind !!!

KrystosCJ:
If you are a blogger plagiarizing another's work, seven shames on you.

If you are truly the woman who's husband has gone nuts, you should really carry your cross. I don't know the recommended time frame for couples to engage in courtship before getting married but I think there has to be ample time defined by the willing individuals to understand each other before saying I Do.

You pledged to love till death do you part. Love him and be faithful. If he was sane, would your love for him grow?
Family / Help!!! I Married The Monster In My Dreams. .woman Cried Out!! by Kumar4india: 10:51am On May 17, 2018
Hello Jzhane,

Am just going to go straight to the point. My aunty showed me a story you put up on your facebook page last week. I read the immense support that people have given to the person who wrote the post. That is why I am writing you to post mine too.

I have moved out of my home as I write this. I have not been speaking with my husband for a week now and I have been praying to God to grant me the wisdom to handle this matter and let His perfect will be done in my life. I am married with a little girl who will be one in August this year. However,my three year marriage with my husband may just have come to an end except God performs a miracle.

When I was in the university. Precisely, Uniport, I was raped when I was in 200 level. I went to a party organized by a class mate. It was an all night party. I was in the company of my girlfriends. Very late at night,when most people were drunk and messing up,a friend of mine,Dorathy asked me to join the VIP section at the party. I was foolish and young. I just enjoyed the idea of being among the happening girls at the time. We joined a group of people partying at the VIP section of the party. We had some more drinks. Before long,a guy was trying to feel me out. I refused. I dont know why I expected him to know better but he and a few other guys ended having their way with me that night. That night was a horrible night for me. More than six guys took turns with me. I never talk about that night. I almost died. I was rushed to the hospital the next day and was in admission for a month or so. I gave my life to God after I survived that incident. I moved to Rivers state university after the tragic event. I started afresh after I stayed at home for one year.

I never speak of that incident. I was ashamed. I felt a victim for so long. Eventually,I pushed all that behind me. That was 12 years ago. I did my MsC in UK. That's where I met my husband, Pere. Pere schooled in Uniport. He graduated from the engineering department. I met him at a church service in the UK. We dated and courted for two years before our wedding. Pere is nice,loving and hardworking man. I love him. Last week,we attended a wedding ceremony of one of Pere's cousins here in the UK. I ran into my.....

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Webmasters / Re: Need A Website? See What You Get Here by Kumar4india: 8:39am On May 17, 2018
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Romance / I Married The Monster In My Dreams,is The Nightmare Over Or Not? by Kumar4india: 5:18pm On May 16, 2018
Hello Jzhane,

Am just going to go straight to the point. My aunty showed me a story you put up on your facebook page last week. I read the immense support that people have given to the person who wrote the post. That is why I am writing you to post mine too.

I have moved out of my home as I write this. I have not been speaking with my husband for a week now and I have been praying to God to grant me the wisdom to handle this matter and let His perfect will be done in my life. I am married with a little girl who will be one in August this year. However,my three year marriage with my husband may just have come to an end except God performs a miracle.

When I was in the university. Precisely, Uniport, I was raped when I was in 200 level. I went to a party organized by a class mate. It was an all night party. I was in the company of my girlfriends. Very late at night,when most people were drunk and messing up,a friend of mine,Dorathy asked me to join the VIP section at the party. I was foolish and young. I just enjoyed the idea of being among the happening girls at the time. We joined a group of people partying at the VIP section of the party. We had some more drinks. Before long,a guy was trying to feel me out. I refused. I dont know why I expected him to know better but he and a few other guys ended having their way with me that night. That night was a horrible night for me. More than six guys took turns with me. I never talk about that night. I almost died. I was rushed to the hospital the next day and was in admission for a month or so. I gave my life to God after I survived that incident. I moved to Rivers state university after the tragic event. I started afresh after I stayed at home for one year.

I never speak of that incident. I was ashamed. I felt a victim for so long. Eventually,I pushed all that behind me. That was 12 years ago. I did my MsC in UK. That's where I met my husband, Pere. Pere schooled in Uniport. He graduated from the engineering department. I met him at a church service in the UK. We dated and courted for two years before our wedding. Pere is nice,loving and hardworking man. I love him. Last week,we attended a wedding ceremony of one of Pere's cousins here in the UK. I ran into my.....

...read and comment on full story on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-married-the-monster-in-my-dreamsis-the-night-mare-over-or-not/
Romance / My Parent Would Not Approve Of My Marriage! !! by Kumar4india: 3:14pm On May 16, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

I am a member of your facebook group and I have been tremendously blessed following you and reading your blog posts.

Please help me. My parents have refused to give their consent to my marriage simply because they think I am too young and my four older sisters are not yet married. I come from a family of six. Five girls and one boy. The girls are not yet married. But I met someone and we have been dating for two years. I met him in my 300 level,now I am doing my NYSC. The guy is my soul mate. He is 29 and loves me so much.

When I told my parents about him,they said that I cannot marry before my elder sisters. They also say that 23 is too young. I think they are being selfish and I want to go ahead and get married without their consent. Myself and my fiance want to go for court wedding next month if my parents still refuse. But I am unhappy about this,I would really love for my parents to agree and be a part of my next big step in life.

The sad thing is that none of my four sisters are......Complete story from


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Romance / Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 1:40pm On May 16, 2018
Good day LS,

I was introduced to your blog three months ago and I must confess,it has been a huge blessing to my life. I love to read the stories and how you and one of your commenters:Uche always advice on the issues. I am a believer and I thank God for people like you who are fighting for godly marriages. I have been married for twelve years and it has not been easy but I thank God for His grace.

I am constantly being eaten up by the guilt of what I did about a year ago. It was a horrible mistake and I cannot forgive myself. You see,years ago,when my marriage was about eight years,my husband cheated on me. When I found out,I was broken.I mean.we are Christians. I never dreamed that one day,we would find ourselves in such a mess as s*xual sin. I know no one is perfect but I never ever expected it. My husband was a righteous man. He feared God. He loved God. He would frown at adultery in marriage in  a heartbeat. When it happened,my husband apologized and begged me. I was so devastated. I was depressed for months.I couldn't bring myself to see him as the man that I loved and married. It was such a big betrayal to me.

Eventually,after like two years,I began to put the whole thing behind me. Or so I thought. As I say this, I am crying cos I dont know how this happened. But I became a gym fan after my husband's affair. I thought he didnt like my body. I felt insecure about my looks so I began to gym and I was really good at it. But the problem started when

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Family / Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me! by Kumar4india: 9:28am On May 16, 2018
Good day LS,

I was introduced to your blog three months ago and I must confess,it has been a huge blessing to my life. I love to read the stories and how you and one of your commenters:Uche always advice on the issues. I am a believer and I thank God for people like you who are fighting for godly marriages. I have been married for twelve years and it has not been easy but I thank God for His grace.

I am constantly being eaten up by the guilt of what I did about a year ago. It was a horrible mistake and I cannot forgive myself. You see,years ago,when my marriage was about eight years,my husband cheated on me. When I found out,I was broken.I mean.we are Christians. I never dreamed that one day,we would find ourselves in such a mess as s*xual sin. I know no one is perfect but I never ever expected it. My husband was a righteous man. He feared God. He loved God. He would frown at adultery in marriage in  a heartbeat. When it happened,my husband apologized and begged me. I was so devastated. I was depressed for months.I couldn't bring myself to see him as the man that I loved and married. It was such a big betrayal to me.

Eventually,after like two years,I began to put the whole thing behind me. Or so I thought. As I say this, I am crying cos I dont know how this happened. But I became a gym fan after my husband's affair. I thought he didnt like my body. I felt insecure about my looks so I began to gym and I was really good at it. But the problem started when

...read and comment on full story on the blog :


https://livelystones.com.ng/help-i-am-trying-to-build-my-marriage-but-this-guilt-is-killing-me/
Romance / Help!!! Am Trying To Build My Marriage But Guilt Is Killing Me by Kumar4india: 10:34am On May 15, 2018
Good day LS,

I was introduced to your blog three months ago and I must confess,it has been a huge blessing to my life. I love to read the stories and how you and one of your commenters:Uche always advice on the issues. I am a believer and I thank God for people like you who are fighting for godly marriages. I have been married for twelve years and it has not been easy but I thank God for His grace.

I am constantly being eaten up by the guilt of what I did about a year ago. It was a horrible mistake and I cannot forgive myself. You see,years ago,when my marriage was about eight years,my husband cheated on me. When I found out,I was broken.I mean.we are Christians. I never dreamed that one day,we would find ourselves in such a mess as s*xual sin. I know no one is perfect but I never ever expected it. My husband was a righteous man. He feared God. He loved God. He would frown at adultery in marriage in  a heartbeat. When it happened,my husband apologized and begged me. I was so devastated. I was depressed for months.I couldn't bring myself to see him as the man that I loved and married. It was such a big betrayal to me.

Eventually,after like two years,I began to put the whole thing behind me. Or so I thought. As I say this, I am crying cos I dont know how this happened. But I became a gym fan after my husband's affair. I thought he didnt like my body. I felt insecure about my looks so I began to gym and I was really good at it. But the problem started when

...read and comment on full story on the blog :


https://livelystones.com.ng/help-i-am-trying-to-build-my-marriage-but-this-guilt-is-killing-me/
Romance / Re: My Husband Wont Talk But I Find It Hard To Believe Nothing Happened! by Kumar4india: 10:34pm On May 14, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Friend Is Cheating On A Guy I Like,should I Kill Her? by Kumar4india: 10:32pm On May 14, 2018
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Family / Re: My Friend Is Cheating On A Guy I Like,should I Kill Her? by Kumar4india: 10:30pm On May 14, 2018
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Family / My Friend Is Cheating On A Guy I Like,should I Kill Her? by Kumar4india: 11:05am On May 14, 2018
Some people can be very deceitful. All that glitters is truly not gold and people are actually selfish. No matter how much they have,they always seem to want more.

Tracy and I have been friends since University. She got married last year and I thought she was really happy until two weeks ago. I used to think Tracy's life was perfect. I mean,she and her husband Lanre are just the example of a perfect couple. They seem so close and in love. I was truly happy for her. I was eve asking God to send me my own man,one that looks like Lanre. It was Tracy's birthday two weeks ago and she had a birthday party at a very nice five star hotel in VI. I arrived at the party and it was really a great one.It was also great cos I met a guy at the party. He was quite a handsome man. When I introduced myself ....

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Romance / My Friend Is Cheating On A Guy I Like,should I Kill Her? by Kumar4india: 10:47am On May 14, 2018
Some people can be very deceitful. All that glitters is truly not gold and people are actually selfish. No matter how much they have,they always seem to want more.

Tracy and I have been friends since University. She got married last year and I thought she was really happy until two weeks ago. I used to think Tracy's life was perfect. I mean,she and her husband Lanre are just the example of a perfect couple. They seem so close and in love. I was truly happy for her. I was eve asking God to send me my own man,one that looks like Lanre. It was Tracy's birthday two weeks ago and she had a birthday party at a very nice five star hotel in VI. I arrived at the party and it was really a great one.It was also great cos I met a guy at the party. He was quite a handsome man. When I introduced myself ....

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Romance / Re: Marriage And Temptation: Who Is Really To Be Blamed? by Kumar4india: 11:13pm On May 12, 2018
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