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Politics / Re: APC Leading By Over 200k Votes As INEC Adjourns Collation Of Remaining 3 Kogi LG by kumbalo(m): 4:27pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
slivertongue: Feel free to help yourself in Kogi now. Once those yeasterners supports you, just know you have lost. Dino go back to Abuja where yo live. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Opposes Live Broadcast Of Tribunal Proceedings by kumbalo(m): 8:58pm On May 17, 2023 |
Naira20: Important than previous presidential tribunal. Una body go calm down later |
Politics / Re: Court Adjourns Obi’s Petition Against Tinubu To Friday by kumbalo(m): 8:54pm On May 17, 2023 |
OBI 's lawyers may just be taking advise from Obi. His modus operandi is "propaganda, bully, lie-till-it sticks and deflection. Unfortunately for him, the Court of Law is a court of record and not of propaganda and subterfuge. |
Politics / Re: VP-Elect Shettima Promises To End Bike Crushing In FCT by kumbalo(m): 1:28pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
apache4: Amen. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Where Is Tinubu? Reno Omokri Is Asking Nigerians by kumbalo(m): 2:56pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
I will be here to celebrate his swearing in insha Allah with you. Massiveglory: |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by kumbalo(m): 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Obinna53: She will do it again until she brings a bastard home. Run while you still can. |
Politics / Re: INEC Is A Fraud – Pastor Paul Adefarasin by kumbalo(m): 7:33am On Jul 15, 2021 |
Kriely: They are citizens and have right to their opinion. My concern is using the pulpit 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Chidinma Ojukwu: I Don’t Want To Die Over Usifo Ataga's Case by kumbalo(m): 9:19am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Curious345: Is this foolishness or what 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why I Personally Avoid Girls On Low Cut by kumbalo(m): 9:50pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
I personally wouldn't date one. It's a turn off for me. I feel some masculinity in that shit. The truth is most men don't dig them. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Today Is NIN-SIM Linking jDeadline; Have You Done Yours? by kumbalo(m): 8:07am On Jan 19, 2021 |
Candycrushy: Me too. I want them to do their worse 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: 'My Body Is Dedicated To Wizkid' - Curvy Lady Offers Sex To Wizkid (Video, Pix) by kumbalo(m): 5:01am On Dec 02, 2020 |
Who are the family members of these kids? |
Politics / Re: Adesina: PDP Wanted To Take Advantage Of EndSARS To Return To Power In 2023 by kumbalo(m): 7:36am On Oct 23, 2020 |
They already did. You just ain't seeing it |
Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Came To My Compound Last Night In Benin City by kumbalo(m): 9:37am On Oct 22, 2020 |
fotupon: Because they are human and "peaceful protesters" will kill them when they see them |
Sports / Re: Blessing Okagbare Files For Divorce From Igho Otegheri by kumbalo(m): 8:39am On Apr 14, 2020 |
GreatResearcher1: It is what it is -Scam 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by kumbalo(m): 8:26am On Apr 13, 2020 |
I am tired of the marriage and my use my travelling abroad as an escape route. 12 Likes |
Health / Re: Nigerian Student Volunteers To Help Fight Coronavirus In Nanjing, China (Photo) by kumbalo(m): 7:07pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
If that guy were too be my brother, we would have called family meeting on his head now 1 Like |
Education / Re: EKSU May Lose Over 50 Courses Accreditation by kumbalo(m): 8:21am On Dec 14, 2019 |
The school had already started recruitment |
Family / Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kumbalo(m): 8:29am On Nov 10, 2019 |
You lack wisdom. Your hubby Is threatening you with divorce because you don't pray and yet you don't see the need to PRAY that God should touch his heart. You are busy weighing your marketability when you divorce. I won't judge you but I know your kind. Let me tell you...whe you leave he will remarry and live happily ever after. You..I can guarantee.you will get bleeped by different men in your desperate bit to settle down and shame your enemies and will need PRAYERS to get a married man to marry you. That prayer you refused to do...you will do it then. My only concerns are the kids you want to put in a polygamous home because of your arrogance. |
Religion / Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by kumbalo(m): 1:13pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
COZA: WAS THERE ACTUALLY A RAPE? Predictably, ever since Busola Dakolo "confessed" to having been raped by Pastor Biodun of COZA, the narrative has unabashedly flowed in her favour. Truth is, I can't hold an opinion just because it's popular. When a story is told, I simply put on my thinking cap, play it in my mind and take a personal stand based on the logicality or otherwise of the story . That's why we have individual brains which can neither be borrowed nor shared. So, the mob can't blackmail me into suspending my intellect. That's the truth. Please, let me remind us that the accusation against the Pastor is rape not adultery.Anyone that reads Busola's version or watches her video without bias will definitely ask questions, especially if he or she is an adult like myself. You may not agree with me but Busola's account seems choreographed. It's very likely a script written to achieve a predetermined purpose. It was important she disclosed that she was just 16 when it happened. This means she was molested as a minor. If absence of consent doesn't fly, minority would definitely nail the alleged predator. But who's going to argue on the veracity of this claim on age? Certainly not Pastor Biodun who has denied Busola's allegation. You see, it's not as straight forward as you think. There's no doubt about the attempt to play the victim to elicit public sympathy. Of course, it's normal and natural for humans to tell contentious stories from their perspective with the intent to look good, or at least appear better than the other person. That's where unbiased investigation comes handy. Rape is a serious crime. Biodun cannot be prosecuted and convicted solely on the basis of Busola's own account. He must defend himself and Busola's testimony must be subjected to serious scrutiny. On what basis do you accept her version as an absolute truth and Pastor Biodun's as false? This article is by no means intended to either justify rape, immorality or defend Pastor Biodun. It's objective is to plead for a little fairness, broad mindedness and objectivity. Most of us have at different times been blackmailed or misrepresented. Surprisingly, victims are always too willing to become culprits in the infamous Department of Gossip. I will never understand how a man enjoys sexual intercourse which is devoid of mutuality. That's how despicable rapists are. Consent is fundamental to sex. I hold both rapists and gays with the same amount of contempt. I'm aware that celebrities, especially men of God are susceptible to blackmail. Some of the allegations may be true, no doubt. Some are definitely fabricated. The problem is that it's difficult for people in this class to defend themselves. Again, Busola said she was raped. I sincerely have my doubt. Rape is rape basically owing to the absence of consent. Consensual sex can't be termed rape. Look at the story again. Your mother traveled and left you with one of your sisters in the house- a duplex. The Pastor sneaked in surprisingly early in the morning and it turned out that his target was the one who opened the door for him. He must be very "lucky" to enjoy such precision of fate. As you opened the door for him, he pushed you to one of the chairs, removed his belt and had carnal knowledge of your virgin "womanhood". Satisfied, he made for his car and brought you krest to drink, ostensibly as a contraceptive and you obliged. Wow! What a storyline!!. This movie is only good for the oft intellectually non stimulating and predictable Nollywood. I doubt if this heart rending story can pass the test of either legal or logical scrutiny in the face of an allegation of rape. It can ground consensual sex(adultery) or child abuse if the minority status of the victim at the time of the incidence is ascertained. Definitely not rape. If you read or listen well, you will agree that if sex occurred at all, it was consensual. Only an insane man would go to a strange environment and take such a risky action without a detailed ascertainment and assurance of safety anchored on absolute privacy. Who assured the Pastor that the environment was safe enough for him to "eat" uninhibited? I'm sure without such assurance, even lesser mortals won't venture, let alone a celebrity Pastor. It's noteworthy that most genuine victims of rape suffer in the hands of trusted people who share apartment or proximity with them. For the other cases, there's always an ignored or accepted red flag. No man in the Pastor's position would just wake up and attempt a rape without first testing the waters. Generally, he must be reasonably sure of the victim's cooperation based on past and present interactions. Busola's account wants us to believe that within split seconds, the man ascended and descended from the mountain unrestricted, went outside to his car, brought a drink, hands same to his prey, she gladly or grudgingly received and gulped as expected. Is it that easy and straight forward? What could have given him such audacity and reassurance in someone else's house? Unbelievable! After such experience, the very next Sunday, the prey was in Church, albeit in low spirits. The fellowship continued into the future. The second episode sounds even more weird. He drove you into an isolated part of the town, dragged you out of the passengers' side to the bonnet and successfully "ate the food" to satisfaction. No shout, no struggles! The length of time it took for this story to be told publicly is in itself a source of suspicion. As a Lawyer, I know crimes can't be statute barred. But it's curious that a molestation she suffered in her teens was successfully managed through school until she married and became a mother of three before letting the monstrous cat out of the bag. Sister Busola has already presented herself as having been a serious Christian from youth, in fact before she was allegedly defiled. I think there's something unchristian about her confession after many years had elapsed. Time should have healed her. If time couldn't, she could have sought counsel aimed at healing and forgiveness. Thankfully, the molestation didn't prevent her from loving her husband and giving him three beautiful kids. If forgiveness was impossible (as unchristian as it is), she should have sought the prosecution of her assailant. I can't fathom what the resort to media trial is intended to achieve. Is it healing, forgiveness or vengeance? Friends, let's stop unnecessary pontification. There's definitely something about this scandal hiding very safely from us. If you are a Christian, pray for Pastor Biodun, Sister Busola, her husband and children. It's as serious as that. Omen Bassey© 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by kumbalo(m): 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Most people arguing for and against don't know that Church at all. That church is the meeting point of those who want to die and the person who wants to kill them 1 Like 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Nigerians Have Been Wishing Me Death Since I Spoke Against Fraud - Eldee by kumbalo(m): 4:37pm On May 12, 2019 |
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Celebrities / Re: Why We Arrested Naira Marley – EFCC by kumbalo(m): 1:40pm On May 10, 2019 |
PreciousJuice: Yahoo boy spotted 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by kumbalo(m): 8:53pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Focus on better things. The problem is that the dick don over sweet you. Develop yourself woman 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Ibadan Mogajis Query Tinubu’s Interest In Oyo Guber Race by kumbalo(m): 7:16am On Mar 07, 2019 |
kolafolabi: Una don start again abi? |
Politics / Re: APC Women And Youth Presidential Campaign In PH Stadium Rivers State. Video by kumbalo(m): 6:29pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Benjamenthomas: Just stay at home. You will be dissapointed from the moment your polling unit is announced |
Politics / Re: Onnoghen Saga: :falana Blows Hot, Says Ex CJN Shot Himself In The Leg by kumbalo(m): 6:42am On Jan 28, 2019 |
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Celebrities / Re: Alaafin Of Oyo Installs Lizzy Anjorin As Borokini Of Nigeria by kumbalo(m): 8:43pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
snowxandria: Foolishness at its greatest highs 26 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Tinubu At The Swearing In Of Hakeem Muri-Okuno As Lagos Head Of Service (Photos) by kumbalo(m): 10:20pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: When the HoS was serving Lagos, your father was busy chasing under age girls. Now you want to vent your frustration on him and our Asiwaju. Get a life, don't do this in 2019 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Sign Electoral Act Amendment Now, Atiku Urges Buhari by kumbalo(m): 8:58am On Nov 30, 2018 |
djoped3: All these "likes" and Share bambiala sef 1 Like |
Health / Re: My 2-Month-Baby Did Not Poop For Three Days, Is This Normal? by kumbalo(m): 8:17pm On Nov 29, 2018 |
felixmuyiwa: Go hospital abeg |
Celebrities / Re: Dabota Lawson: 'I Regret Marrying Sunny Aku In 2014' by kumbalo(m): 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
lielbree: It's better not to cry. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Jimi Agbaje And Yemisi Busari Meet With Party Leader, Chief Olabode George by kumbalo(m): 8:14pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
surgical: Lagos is not a country but a state. So, edit that rubbish you type there before I start giving you a dose of your pills |
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