I actually feel sorry for him, he's bl00dy 21, she's 24 but way way smart a well known sl@pper. She went on big brother then tried to sell her "virginity" for 1million euros (later denied it when offers were not forthcoming), then sh@gged Ronaldo but she said they were in a relationship (he never even acknowledged her). Mario was hooking up with other girls cheating on her numerous times and when she realized he was slipping through her fingers GBAM pregnancy and now he's trapped for life. If the child is his she is set for life and nothing he can do about it. She is lying through her teeth as she trapped him, remember the big argument they had and police had to be called? that's when she told him the lovely news... Why won't men learn?
and if you think she's pretty, girls like her are 10 a penny for young footballers with money

Ehrm ,  TV01 remember the phrase: "Never argue with an 1diot , they drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"

AHAHAHAHAHAH  AHA AH YOU LIVE IN FREAKING PECKHAM?!!!!!   ,  , OMG OMG I'm gonna cry of laughter, I fu<king peed in my pants OMG

You want to sign a prenup for what? so that you can keep your council house or the bus pass for route 436?"

I am not marrying cretinous goats like Kutey who would say she is used to a lifestyle and I must fund it while her lazy arse contributes nothing."
We wouldn't even cross paths my dear as we definitely don't move in the same circles. And as for your contributions I can confidently say I probably earn 5 times more than you do and am way younger, you sound old and bitter.

chiozor: Married men live longer than SINGLE men. Male species die earlier than female, that is across the board in the animal kingdom.
When a man is dying of terminal illness or dementia and has treated his wife and family decently, who does he think will stay at his bedsite taking care of him, clearing and wiping him till death with genuine love? girlfriends or nurses in hospices? or the kids you met after 18yrs?
If you think women will cause you an early death start shagg1ng dogs, they are a mans best friend

OMG  are you guys for fu<king real!! you have been on the forum posting bul1shit all day Don't you have jobs and lives to live? Lol

I have answered all your questions. Whether you are satisfied with the answers or not does not concern me.
She has been used to a certain standard of life and she shall continue to. Why not? She probably married for genuine reasons and that is reflected in the years spent together and children born.

Men NEED marriage way more than women do. Married men are healthier, live longer and are generally more happy. A woman (and a lot do) can decide to have children and actually enjoy them without someone telling her when and how to see them and have a guy on the side. They find that double the amount of women regret who they married than men.

Look at this idiots thinking they are doing a woman a favor by marrying them? Getting into it for all the wrong reason because they already think they are superior because the have a pen1s.
Nigeria is such a backward society, if it wasn't why are you here? go back to your father land.
They make women believe they have to marry marry marry and that's what makes it easy to make the wrong choice. Societies are very very different. In Nigeria its all about ticking boxes,young tick, tall, tick rich, tick, educated tick. Of course you should have standards but marriage is way more than that. Yes you can argue in the west they have higher divorce rates but in Nigeria most women live in ABSOLUTE misery but society has made them believe they need to be Mrs so desperately that they have to stay no matter what.

Who need marriage most? what are the benefits of marriage for a woman apart from religion and society acceptance in some countries?
She has to cook 3 meals a day unless she is a bad wife. She has to go through the trauma of childbirth and make sure (because she is God) she produces male children, if female its her fault. She has to have s3x as much as possible because if he cheats its her fault. She has to be ready to give up her career and be home carer or she is not submissive, who does she expect to bring up her children? On top of that she has to be ready to lose all if her husband is no more satisfied or has found a replacement. Then she can go empty handed back to her parent house where she starts from square one only that this time no one wants her because she is a burden and has baggage. This is what Nigerian men wish for their daughters and sisters.

A man comes home to 3 meals, a tidy home, available sex and children. Has nothing to lose. So look at your fool1sh question again and answer for yourself.

IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE COUNTRY GO BACK TO YOUR VILLAGE, CAPISC? Everything that has been earnt during the matrimony will and shall be divided equally  simples.

And SAGAMITE you are still and will certainly remain a knobhead

Because everyone here wants to bash women and wives, as if the she should carry herself and the 4 kids and leave n4ked because she wasn't working while her millionaire husband keeps the lot.
Whats about me? I have replied about me when that d1ckhead said i need someone to fund my lifestyle. I don't.

You have nearly 9 pages of people calling wives biatches, golddiggers and saying the most awful things and you come and focus on the one person that says marriage is a partnership and when dissolved whatever has been earned during will be equally shared. That's what UK courts believe and I agree. If you are not happy with the laws of the land then leave, simples. I know a typical African man will be happy to live in a society were women have no rights or value at all, unfortunately for u guys it does not work like that elsewhere. Deal with it.

You are still a dickhead and an as5hole but the statement:
"My proper marriage aspiration is: she would marry me for me, we share when we are married and we stop sharing if it does not work out and live with what we contributed." make me believe there is hope as i agree a 100%. She contributed and brought to life your children. If you don't like it move back to your village.

I have answered all your points but its probably not want you wanted to hear. Me no care.

"I am not marrying cretinous goats like Kutey who would say she is used to a lifestyle and I must fund it while her lazy arse contributes nothing."
Ehrm, I'm not going to boast but I am very hardworking and I earn way way more than is necessary to fund my lifestyle. I am very comfortable indeed  and the last thing I would want to be is a housewife (due respect to those who chose to)
By all means, when you have daughters have them live in fear that they have to take everything that her husband will throw at her including emotional and physical abuse, cheating, HIV, violence. Tell her even if she has children with him she will leave with nothing as she has no value and she is just there to breed his kids.
Some shocking stories on this forum (like my husband comes home and smashes my head everyday, I had 7 miscarriages because of his beatings and a constant blue eye. He has women sleeping in our bed and he has told me he hates me, should I stay with him? and invariably the response is "oh, please my dear pray and be nice to him while he breaks your teeth. Cook him his best meals everyday and submit to him. give him sex 3 times a day and speak to pastor. What God has put together no man shall put asunder."

As for that 1diot that has made rappers his role models and has bitches for babymamas may it be unto you as you have wished.

You are a d1ckhead. You can go fu<k yourself.

He married her and had a family. He paid for the house, she enabled him to have a family. End of story.

21 mill seems absolutely reasonable to me and i'm sure the courts will agree. It genuinely reflects time spent together and offspring. She might have given up career and who knows what to have 4 pregnancies and take care of the children. I would probably have gone for a higher figure especially if he is worth what they are quoting.

Anyway actually got stuff to do, so keep your foolish arguments coming. I will reply as soon as I can. Arrow

For every cretin you call me you are three times an imbec1le, personal insults don't bother me the least cause you don't know me.

"so tell me how it is civilized to throw a man out of his own house and tell him to pay for it."

Its not HIS house, its the family house so the bulk of the family stays there and he should pay because he was the main/sole breadwinner prior to the breakdown of the relationship while she was the main home carer capisc?

Which one of your idiotic statements do you want explained d1ckhead

The one where you say you will happily abandon your child till 18, then what? lavish them with money and that will make it all ok. Do you think stuff before you type?

Or where your fellow monkeys joined you in quoting jigga (ignorant idiots use rappers as references) rather than people that actually have successful relationships and families. Thats why the babymamas continue to breed things that are more close to animals than humans prone to violence because they have no fathers or good examples in their life.

Are you saying she and her/his children should have left the house for him? I'm pretty sure he can afford another one and since she has sacrificed years looking after the kids surely she should continue to do so. Let the courts decide. If he didn't like the way things work in the UK he should never have come in the first place.

ahahah aha ah ah you are actually hilarious I beg, don't go and get hypertension cause of me.

You obviously have issues and need to speak to someone and get the help required

Sagamite shut the f*uck up

"Always have it on your mind which sex is more into marriage. Which sex needs marriage more. Which sex will struggle to get marriage when they need it.

If you want it, it is on my fcking terms." Total misogynist.

This comment alone shows what a m0ron you are. You are one of those people that will get married to a girl playing nicey nicey and then show you true colors after. You think a woman needs you and you are doing her a favor so you will marry for all the wrong reasons. Your own fcking terms? Why don't you take a pole and stick it up your ar5e.

Here in the UK in a CIVILIZED country things don't work that way. You can't throw a woman out on the streets with kids with nothing or little. I hope she gets him for all he worth and more. Married with 4 kids If he thinks he can get away with village Naija mentality like you have displayed here stayed tuned to the story. As5h0le.

And the fact that you shout louder and try to prove your point more forcefully doesn't make you right so take a chill pill.

MRbrownJAY

I couldn't have said it any better.Totally, completely, 100% agree

^^^which part?

7 women to 1 man?
Typical nigerians with thier bu1lsh1t statistics that they invent in their head, there are more males than females born in every country. Yes, boys and men do tend to be more vulnerable to child death, disease, wars etc. but in adulthood its about 9 women to 10 men. Infact nigeria is even higher with 12 men to 10 women. Google it.

As for Isiah 4:1 here is the correct interpretation:
Q. Re: Isaiah 4:I.  In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”

A. Beginning with Isaiah 2:6 and continuing through all of chapter 3 is a prophecy of the judgment that will befall Israel at the end of the age.  It will be a time of great devastation and many men will die leaving widows and orphans behind.  Beginning in Isaiah 3:16 the Lord had Isaiah speak against the vanity of Israel’s women.  Their wealth and their pride will be taken away to the point where multiple women will be willing to join together and agree to pay their own expenses  to come under the legal protection of one man through marriage.

Then in Isaiah 4:2-6 there’s a beautiful picture of the Messiah’s return to wash away all their impurities. In verse 5 the word translated defense (KJV) or canopy (NIV)  is chuppah, the wedding canopy, symbolizing that the Messiah will fulfill the prophecy of verse 1 and “marry” all of them by bringing them under His protection.  And in verse 6 the word translated tabernacle (KJV) or shelter (NIV) is sukkah, the shelter that Jews build on the Feast of Tabernacles, symbolizing that the Lord will dwell with them again.

This is specific to Isreal and the Jews so stop taking the bible out of context to use as a scare tactic to boost your ego.

But I do agree its more difficult to find a GOOD man than a good woman.

Ehrm, she is supposed to spend her son's money. She is his wife and the mother of his children.

I won't even reply the post as its the usual bs but how has immigration in this country gone so out of hand?
I can understand typing mistakes but 'desent' instead of decent?
'no ofience' instead of no offence?ordersity instead of audacity, spagatti instead of spaghetti?
I mean really? Is this the best nigerian education can offer? I'm willing to bet this guy is typing from an internet cafe somewhere in lagos. Assh0le

oh, and wait someone is "proofing his point" ahahahah ah ah ah. Unbelievable

wow, just read this story and previous topics and really feel sad for you. As you are I would be terrified of going back to such a situation but I'm careful as you have a kid and its best for him/her to have dad around. Only you can know if its worth it. Its hard to believe in love after a really bad experience and i feel your pain. I'm very wary of people "changing" too and no one should be condemned to hell on earth for the sake of being married

Mmm, so lets say he's 40, meaning he has read about 3 books, everyday, from the day he was born. Now THAT's a miracle. The way people allow themselves to be fooled is astonishing.

I'm not even focus on the post but for someone so judgemental look at mistakes:

dependable means someone you can depend on and thats a compliment, i think the word you were looking for is dependant
'lacks morals' not lack moral and its believe not beleive.

Another nigerian "graduate" i guess? M0ron :/

And mr cork you are an arsehole. With all the white women you claim you get im still surprised you find time to reply to every single post on this forum

As usual african man reading bible out of context.

A woman has to submit to her HUSBAND, go and read the verse so until you don't put a ring on it she doesn't have to do jack.
Continuation of the verse is for husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church and layed down his life for for it. Meaning the same way you expect your wife to submit to your authority you should be ready to die for her.

Go and dwell on those thoughts.

Ooh, now its gone from "black women don't date out cause no one wants them" to "black women date out because they are bitter"

Continue deceiving yourself there, i think a few black men overestimate their own self importance. You think we sit down there feeling bitter? lol we have stuff to do like actually getting an education, getting a good job and improving ourselves.

All the black girls I know who married other races is because of preference not bitterness. The guy is either on the same level or doing much better (like my sis)

Black women that date out and marry white men do it quietly and  they have a very high rate of success (all the people I have listed apart from halle berry ) have been together for more than 5 years. I ignored every one that was less than that.
They do not feel the need to bring their entire race down just because the found love somewhere else.
There is no prouder person than a black woman when there black men like:
Trevor mcdonald, Ussain Bolt, Tinie Tempah, Colin Powell, Kofi Annan, tidjane thiam making a difference and succeeding.
I for one shed tears when Mr President won for I didn't believe for one second they would allow it.

@ Repubocrat
As usual with black woman anything worth doing is worth doing well

Yes classy types,

like Robert De Niro, David Bowie, Mats Carlston (This President of Nixon Peabody LLP, has a firm recognized as a Global 100 law firm), Robin Thicke, Congressman William Cohen, George Lucas (director ofstar wars), Justin Chambers (greys anatomy), Mr Big from sex and the city (can't remember his real name), Olivier Martinez, billionaire Russian  Vladimir Doronin, Celebrity chef Wolfgang Puck,

Should I continue. . .

I like Heidi klum as I will always respect business acumen. She is great and has a beautiful family and made a success of herself. Making mistakes has absolutely nothing to do with class (a child is never a mistake). I never mentioned class, you guys did. There are loads of people with loads of money but no class.

You guys are a joke, you were the first to mention celebrities (refer to first page of the topic) angelina jolie, djimon housou, Paris Hilton pictures,  Do you really think I would be using Paris as an example?

ahahahahahahahaha      Lol I am the total opposite of ghetto, I swear a lot as I work with guys and we have banter and jokes and now i'm used to it. Its no big deal (sorry mum) if you don't like it you can fuc k off the site. Cheers.

And im sure angelina jolie lies in her bed crying while in the arms of BRAD PITT that some random black guy thinks shes old cargo

Mr cork please when you move out of peckham you can talk, for now shut the fu ck up

I like heidi klum and will not call her classless but she was pregnant of a man over twice her age when she started dating seal. How any men of any race would date a woman pregnant with another mans child?

I like heidi klum and will not call her classless but she was pregnant of a man over twice her age when she started dating seal. How any men of any race would date a woman pregnant with another mans child?

I like heidi klum and will not call her classless but she was pregnant of a man over twice her age when she started dating seal. How any men of any race would date a woman pregnant with another mans child?

I like heidi klum and will not call her classless but she was pregnant of a man over twice her age when she started dating seal. How any men of any race would date a woman pregnant with another mans child?

I like heidi klum and will not call her classless but she was pregnant with the child of a billionare over twice her age when she started dating seal. How any men of any race would date a woman pregnant with another mans child?

You ae telling me you do not know the definition of successful?

So the answer is there is no list. I am very flexible and you can give me any industry sports, media, business, science. . .

Its the black man that becomes successfull and starts chasing white girls it doesn't work the other way round. If they love you so much why don't they?
They make sure money is kept in the caucasian community and u guys still there licking thier asses.

And yes being educated in oxbridge is a big deal. Which school of thought do you think all the leaders and ceo's at least in the uk are from?
And undeucated 16 yr old white girls in the investment banks in the city? Where the fu ck do you get your freakn info from? That is a huge lie. Working as what? Cleaners?