Dating a 31 year old man till he was 36 years and you don't believe he isn't married and not ready to settle down. Nawa o.

It seems you are a DJ. To me I prefer musician/live band as it makes the party interesting and lively. People would readily want to dance to a musician than a DJ.

JARUSHUB:




However, very few people have understood that the fact that we need to look to Marvel Comics and Hollywood to produce a positive portrayal of African society being technologically advanced is actually a huge part of what is wrong with Africa.

Nollywood, the continent’s biggest film industry from Nigeria could not conceive and successfully deliver it, neither did any other African filmmaking outlet.

All these just for a science fiction movie. If you know what science fiction means you won't type all these stories.
Name other film industries that produced really good science fiction movies aside Hollywood.

Business is booming

bjhaid:
Waiting for the movie to be available on pirate bay

That one go tey small. Probably in like 3-4 weeks.

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For your Togo mind abi.

DonteMec:

Also note that prior to this I could go for 3 to 5 rounds in a single night, with each round lasting for 45 minutes or there about.

So if you go 5 rounds for 45 minutes each you will have spent 225 minutes (3hrs 45 minutes) on sex. Your thing sef don dey fear you.

Pictures or I don't blivit

How's that my business?

There are books on these areas. I once saw a book in my parents library. It was written by a Doctor and a Pastor (Female). It talks about every area of sex even up to STDs and STI. I can't remember the name.

Na working class you wan use now. Okay.

HenryCavill:
Lol...I totally agree with the last statements you made about interference and things not being perfect.

How do we know there was no hunger...I'm still waiting for an interpretation of "luxury food item"

PS: the bolded part above is a joke

Alright Bro. I'm also waiting for that luxury food item answer.

HenryCavill:
Please tell us what you learnt. I'll be happy to read it.
Now my responses to your comments;

1. In my opinion He didn't handle the situation well. All the time this was going on he kept it bottled up and even now his solution to it is to boast of his financial standing. What happens if his finances dwindle tomorrow? A repeat of the same my in-law this my in-law that.

2. They didn't take decisions behind his back. According to his story the wife was the one that did. The in-laws told her to look for a better school, she could have discussed it with her husband first and the matter for die there.

3. It's not his ability to refrain himself that matters but the reason for that refrain. "The state govt"..this simply means if they lived in a place where issues of domestic violence is not on the govt's agenda he for don kill d woman.

The issue of him sending gifts us just a kiss ass way of him saying "look bitcheees I made it". The in-laws are well to do they don't need your recharge card "no matter how small..as he claimed".

In-laws interfere sometimes financially when they have to. You'll be someone's in-law tomorrow. If I they I want a to I use hunger to a kill your daughter, don't send her money you hear. Dey dere make pant dey wear you.

And please tell us what you learned

You say he didn't handle the situation well but his marriage and relationship with his in-laws is still intact. Truth is there is nothing perfect. Relationships can't be perfect. He stated that he knew situations like this would arise and did his best to counter it knowing fully well it was a phase ( You felt his calmness and not raging as bottling it up). Of course, he was annoyed but it wasn't hate.
2. In-laws told her to look for a better school and were not interested in if her husband was aware or not (Legal marriage). Most in-laws would even tell her to discuss with her husband, because it is a sensitive issue.
3. That " The state govt.." statement was purely a joke
You read too much meaning to the sending of gifts. I bet if he didn't send gifts, you would've said he doesn't care about them and wanted to snub them
I'm not saying they should not interfere. But they should do so wisely ( Make sure she carries her husband along). There's nothing wrong with communicating with the husband directly. They should also learn to respect her husband's decision. This case was never a case of hunger, I hope you do know that.

HenryCavill:
Interesting post although it reeks of pride.
1. Your in-laws rarely visited you and you found a problem with it.
2. When things took a downward turn they became more involved you had a problem with it
3. I find it shocking that what stopped you from "slapping your wife to remove her make-up" was the fear of the state govt interfering.

Having put your business out there, I'm sure you don't mind if I make it my business also and contribute my 2 cents.

Had your relatively well to do in-laws not meddled when things took a downward turn with you I'm pretty sure someone would have called them wicked for not bothering.
Your story about them being relatively wealthier I believe was told from a place of spite and jealousy.

You didn't come from a broke background too, I mean how many people can afford to buy themselves a car talk more of give their child one after graduation.

I don't think you like your in-laws very much and frankly you don't love your wife either. You're bent on becoming more successful than them not solely for your own good but to rub it in their nose.

I don't know the relationship you have with them but I can bet it's a toxic one. Who gets angry at a father sending his daughter money married or not. This silly African mentality of men owning their wives is what's driving this narrative. What do you even mean by "luxury food item"

You cannot bar your wife from having a relationship with her family before you they were there and the day you will slap her (which I believe is not very far) they'll be there to take her away from you.

I sincerely hope you find the courage to tell yourself the truth, see beyond your pride and understand the kind of relationship you want to have with your in-laws.

So you think
1.The Op was proud enough to handle the situation so well.
2. They became involved in his family's business, they decided to do take decisions behind his back or you don't feel he should be involved.
3. His ability to refrain himself (self-control) is still a problem to you.
He managed his family well. He stated where he decided to put his kids in a school where he could afford. Then when things got better he sent gifts and maintained physical presence. Do you want him to go and live with his in-laws to build a better relationship with them?
People have learnt from this but the only thing you can see is his PRIDE and TOXIC relationship with his in-laws. I'm amazed at how you think.

Mogbe. Na Sìgìdì (statue) you go marry last last.

With that ugly face. If iSlap you

No Story. I can't make such mistake.

Onisokuso1:
Olobe Lawon mejeji


Wow

Sugbon Omu omo Dj cuppy yii tobi GIMBA o, bi Kin fi straw si ni shaaa, walahi Kin ma mu lo .

Mo le fi se ounje ale gan

O le se tap sibe naa. Onimukumu!

79 year old king still doing the business with 28 year old beautiful wife. I hereby add 'Gbadegesin' to Alaafin's name.

Mine

When you don't have a Val and don't also have money to watch Champions League.

When you don't have a Val and don't also have money to watch Champions League.

Lovely. Na to get money sure pass.

sekxyqueen:
benefits of being a virgin till marriage and then you end up with a guy that will infect you with HIV..

So if all ladies take this advice, will they still end up with HIV? Sex doesn't involve only a male you know.

UC Browser. On PC/Laptop I use UC Browser too and IDM

I don't relate to anything here at all. Infact I'm amazed that guys do some of these stupid things.

I don't want to remember. Brings back pain and regrets.

Neatboy:
I asked a lady out in church. As at that time I knew that like three other guys were asking her out. Instead of she to tell me say she no want, simple! But she chose to use the wrong words, "You are not in the picture." I cried inside ooo. In fact, I cried out then. And I loved her then like life itself. I knew that those guys didn't love her cause they all had serious dates. I was just begging for one. Now, all the guys had gotten married, not to her, except one that had left the church. Nevertheless I still kept her as a friend. Now we are so closer than five and six and she is dying that I talk to her again. She don show me green light tire. For where! I no gree. You know why? Because she had pushed me out, and I have gone wild in terms of my choice of woman. She even get scared with the kind of babes that come my way. My dear, indeed, The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born. Chill! I am getting marries this year to one of the damsels. No kill yourself because of a woman!!!

Na this kain story I dey like hear.

JayIlych:
This is another reason i rarely approach girls again directly. Bunch of rude, self-centered bítches.

That was how i was with a fine gal at an atm, the machine wasnt paying, 2geda we walked to another bank to withdraw. On the way, we got talking. Found out we were from the same local govt, she laughed at my jokes and all.
Oya after she finished withdrawing, she waited for me. Then i asked for her number, she just smiled and told me she was scared i'll ask her that, then politely declined.

I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number".

AFTER ALL THE GREEN LIGHT?

Confused humans!.

I still don't see myself being abusive or threatening a gal when jilted/rejected.

Personally, i've always known that the secret of making a girl give u her mumu button is NEVER to ask/collect number on the first meeting.

Same here. I've decided not to collect any girl's number on first meetings. Even on second meeting, it depends on the situation. If she like make she turn green lantern. I'm always happy doing that because I know it'll definitely get them thinking.

Don't just get married for the sake of marrying especially not to someone you don't know. The fact that you have those fears is not a good omen and please forget prophets or whatsoever. Prayer us communication with God, build your relationship with God and pray about this issue. People can pray for you too concerning the issue, God can use any vessel to relay messages but most times on issues like this, God deals with the person involved. I pray God bless you with a good husband.