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TV/Movies / Re: Dstv Wahala (Photo) by Ladfem(m): 2:15pm On Dec 11, 2023
occfx:


Your lnb is not properly aligned with the dish... Get a signal tracker and track your dish or call a service man. I just fixed something like that recently
Might not be LNB, cos I ihad similar issue ,I call service man who took the decoder for upgrading, it works perfectly when he tested it after service on his side but the problem still persisted when he bring it for me so he brought another decoder for me to test if something is wrong with the cable or LNB and lol the new decoder work effectively as a matter of fact I'm still using the decoder he brought. And he took my own for further checks. Thou I'm still waiting for the outcome
Basketmouth2019:
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Agriculture / Re: Gardening On My Balcony - Tomatoes, Pepper, Groundnut, Ugu, Snail and Catfish by Ladfem(m): 6:34pm On Aug 29, 2022
Well done please I need more info on ur mobile fish pond thanks u can reach me on 0806 355 6997 WhatsApp thanks

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Religion / Re: That Is Blasphemy - Rev. Yinka Yusuf Faults Buhari For Saying Jesus Is A Prophet by Ladfem(m): 2:14pm On May 17, 2022
When quoting bible be sure to have read all that was written it there well.
Matthew 11:27,spoke about His ( Jesus ) relationship with God
"All things are delivered unto me of my Father: and no man knoweth the Son, but the Father; neither knoweth any man the Father, save the Son, and he to whomsoever the Son will reveal him."
Also, John 5:17
"But Jesus answered them, My Father worketh hitherto, and I work."

muzeze77:
Read the bible, he was sent ,he is a messenger of God

Matthew 10:40

“He who receives you receives Me, and he who receives Me receives Him who sent Me.

John 5:24
“Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.

John 5:30
I can do nothing on My own initiative. As I hear, I judge; and My judgment is just, because I do not seek My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me.

John 7:33
Therefore Jesus said, “For a little while longer I am with you, then I go to Him who sent Me.

The man has made it clear he was sent (Said this 21 times) , why are you stubborn to think he is God

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: A Job Of N50k Plus Transport Or N108k Without Transport? by Ladfem(m): 5:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
Do ur calculations bro ur are to work minimum of 14 days in a month, that's 28k extras plus 50k that 78k minimum per month excluding transportation, And with this u can plan and have savings than that of 108k once a month that u will have to be thinking of transportation every day.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Suggest A Good Business That #300k Can Start. by Ladfem(m): 8:09am On Oct 18, 2021
chatinent:


Side hustle... I import first grade ok shoes and sell here. Very profitable.

But you may want to augment it to 400k for a start.

Good day Sir/ma is there any genuine links for this ,thanks in anticipation for ur reply or u can DM me on 0806 355 6997
Jobs/Vacancies / Nigeria Customs Service by Ladfem(m): 9:38am On Jul 24, 2021
Good morning Please Urgent answer is needed ,has anyone received any messages or email from custom for examination and screening test,and are we to pay for printing of exam slip.kindly treated as Urgent. Thanks
Crime / Re: Police Might Deploy A Lie Detector As Chidinma Ojukwu Denies Killing Super TV CE by Ladfem(m): 10:02am On Jul 14, 2021
Why is all the comments I read on this topic is just like crying foul, the big question we are supposed to be asking the Police is what is the results of the Auptosy ,what evidence did they gather at the scene of the incident to incriminate her . Or they are just relying on the media interrogation which was not carried out by their own special unit that deals with such cases. The issue of lie detector should not have surface if they (Police) did there Job well in the first place.
Health / Re: Please Help: My Wife Has Asthma by Ladfem(m): 6:13pm On Jul 04, 2020
Megaflex:
I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.

I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.

Mod please help me move this to front-page
DM me for chat on 08063556997
Family / Re: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by Ladfem(m): 9:34pm On May 27, 2020
All you need is Jesus Her plan for u is that u will not amount to anything compared to her children even in her grave she is still bitter that u have some how make it in life reason for seen her badmouthing you in your dream ,Give your life to Jesus and commit ur ways into the hand of God in prayer ,believe me u will stop seen Her. Also find place in heart to forgive ur mother ,God will be with u.
charlesELIKIBA:
HELLP NAIRALANDERS

I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.

My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.

Aready they had 4 children, all boys.

The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.

Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).

It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.

I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.

In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.

Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.

I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.

Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.

I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.

PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.

Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.


YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.

I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.

Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.


YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer
please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.

So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).

Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.

NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.

WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?

After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.

It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.

i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow)
january this year i bought my 3rd car.
i travel round the world effortlessly.
YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.

I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.


So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.

Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.

At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station.
I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence.
Politics / Re: Sowore: AGF Malami Orders DSS To Hands-Off Trial, Takes Over Case-file by Ladfem(m): 10:17am On Dec 13, 2019
Those that are saying the heat is on did u guys have the second thought that this might be a conspiracy theories, where the AGF determines which judge is assigned to the case for speedy conviction of Sowore as charged, no prolonging of the hearing nor granting of bail, Hmmmmmm just my opinion

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Business / Re: Bolaji Oluwadunsin: Nairalander Wins 2019 Tony Elumelu Foundation Grant Of $5000 by Ladfem(m): 10:49am On Mar 28, 2019
Congrats
Politics / True Story Of Abuja APC /PDP Fracal by Ladfem(m): 10:55pm On Feb 09, 2019
FCT Minister Narrowly Escapes Death As APC, PDP Supporters Clash In Abuja | Sahara Reporters
Trouble was said to have started when the convoy of the Minister of Federal Capital Territory, Mallam Mohammed Musa Bello, ran into a PDP...@AsoRock READ MORE: https:///yRtGLTTT7k https:///C2ei2MZDId
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Escapes Death As APC And PDP Clash In Abuja Today (Photos) by Ladfem(m): 10:46pm On Feb 09, 2019
It can never be well with all liers see the situation report of the incident as reported by Sahara reporter
FCT Minister Narrowly Escapes Death As APC, PDP Supporters Clash In Abuja | Sahara Reporters
Trouble was said to have started when the convoy of the Minister of Federal Capital Territory, Mallam Mohammed Musa Bello, ran into a PDP...@AsoRock READ MORE: https:///yRtGLTTT7k https:///C2ei2MZDId
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How I Got A Job In An Oil Firm Through Nairaland! by Ladfem(m): 6:02pm On Jan 10, 2019
Can we pchat on 08063556997 I need some clarification,on some issue mentioned in ur post, thanks
Politics / Re: Ambode: Tinubu Consults Governor’s Advisory Council Today by Ladfem(m): 2:30pm On Sep 19, 2018
Drabeey:
What is the beauty of democracy?

well, some will say it's the power given to the masses to be able to vote for their choice. well that's correct, but the beauty can also be the deceptions and gimmicks employed by the political jurgarnuts to pull the masses to their side. Now, that is the beauty of Democracy!


A case study of Lagos state. The internet and infact the ears of Nigerians home and abroad has been full of the rancours between Tinubu(Jagaban) and his godson Ambode (governor of Lagos state).

It is no more news that Ambode has been rejected by the bigwigs of Lagos political sphere and adopted the idea of Jide Sanwo-olu as the next governor of Lagos state!

Well don't be deceived, I think Tinubu is only playing politics here!


Ambode is coming back as the Governor till 2023

To me, this is very easy to decipher!

Tinubu has a rift with Ambode, yet he was allowed to finish his tenure as the Governor!
I stand corrected, Tinubu has more than 2/3(if not all) of the state house of rep law makers. He could have easily ousted the 'erring son' out of the government house with or without the consent of the masses! some allegations levied against the governor are the fact that he is destroying the legacies of the former governor and leader of Apc Party.


Tinubu would shot himself at the leg if he decides to do away with Ambode come 2019. Many people are already clamouring for change, some truly believes the change they expected from Buhari ain't forth coming, hence they need to test another shift of power!
Tinubu who has held the power mantle of Nigeria south west is not only well lettered about this fact, he knows for sure that if he should force Sanwo-olu down the throat of Lagosians, it would just be his DOOM! Have you ever heard about 'pity votes' yes, that exactly is what other Political parties would get from the masses!

Ambode is the man of the masses, no doubt! He has done so well with the developmental steering of Lagos state!

I am a man of the street and yes, I have my ears to the ground always when it comes to politics(lagos,oyo).
While some governors are busy saving Paris club Refunds for personal gains/ paying salaries... Ambode was busy using the money beautifying lagos!

You can't take it away from Lagosians, the love the have for this chubby governor can't just be wiped out yet, Asiwaju knows this too well too!


The Politics been played

See the plan:

Use Sanwo-olu as a distraction, get the governor on his toes, get enough pity from the masses (for the governor) and then show how internal democracy abounds within the party (indirect primaries). Then vote in the Incumbent(Ambode). Don't ask me, you and I know that is a sure win for the party during the General election!


Well, this is only a speculation by myself, it doesn't represent the heart of the Jugarnuts. My prayers are not too much! I pray Asiwaju doesn't shoot himself at the leg by removing Ambode, if he does..... He should just forget about Epe division of Lagos and it's environs! no matter how they score the performance of the governor, he has done so well to his hometown, Epe....

Caveat: Sanwo-olu shouldn't rejoice yet, even if he gets the mandate to bear the flag of the party, he should know the same thing would befall him... Lagos is known to set the pace, and if the pace of one tenure has been set, he also won't be spared come 2023!



Drabeey wrote this.....
I love this ur write up ,some people don't understand the political game plan of Mr jagaban of boruland, Sonwolu was just push into the fray to informed the lagosian to behold their governor come 2023 and amass public plea to return ambode come 2019.

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Car Talk / Toyota Corrolla 2006 by Ladfem(m): 6:14am On Sep 29, 2016
please what can cause my toyota corolla 2006 model to be shorting engine oil
Politics / Re: "We Were Saying Rubbish During The Campaign" - President Buhari. by Ladfem(m): 10:21am On May 31, 2016
I wonder if some of you guys read upside down or lack comprehensive mind, cos if u do u ll know how to interpret one's statement. the President said most of d permanent secs only know how to do things as they ve been doing it before so whatever their campaign promise(APC) is,it is rubbish to this permsecs,and that's why they've to fire some of them
Politics / Re: "We Were Saying Rubbish During The Campaign" - President Buhari. by Ladfem(m): 10:17am On May 31, 2016
Jirate:

And that is Why You are now Doing Rubbish…….. cool cool cool
Car Talk / Re: Brake Oil by Ladfem(m): 3:27pm On Mar 22, 2016
@sultaan thankz,@guzzuzz thank very much pls where is d master cylinder located
Car Talk / Brake Oil by Ladfem(m): 3:55am On Mar 22, 2016
Good am house, pls how often is it good for one to top brake oil of the car? I noticed dat my brake light is always showing anytime its goes down on d dashboard, but once I top it, it goes off. the car is Honda baby boy.
Car Talk / Re: Need Help On Honda Baby Boy by Ladfem(m): 9:20am On Nov 09, 2015
@meimoks thanks a lot
Car Talk / Re: Need Help On Honda Baby Boy by Ladfem(m): 2:35pm On Nov 08, 2015
pls how much is d fuel pump of honda baby boy
Car Talk / Help Needed by Ladfem(m): 2:32pm On Nov 08, 2015
pls I ll like to know what can cause my honda baby boy not to start, d battery is ok, and when u turn on d ignition d fan belt roll very well but d engine is not starting. I notice dat yestaday wen returning from work it off by itself but start again wen I start it, only for not to start dis morning wen I start it
Car Talk / Need Help On Honda Baby Boy by Ladfem(m): 2:03pm On Nov 08, 2015
pls pple in d house what can cause honda baby boy not to start NB: d battery is okay, wen u turn on d ignition the fan belt roll very well but it's not starting. thanks in advance 4 ur ans
Politics / Re: FG Approves Immediate Payment Of 413 Billion Naira To Oil Marketers by Ladfem(m): 8:33am On Nov 05, 2015
Sometimes I wonder how some youth reason as per the situation we found ourselves in dis country b4 dey comment on any national issues and yet they want to be leaders. we have problem of settling the backlog of subsidy payments and current government fashion a way out by first dealing with d cause which is taking away d middle men syndrome and after critically looking @ d situation on ground left with no other option than to pay d debt left behind by d past government if he wants to alleviate the suffering of his people. We need to engage the govnt positively to be able to get d best 4rm d govnt.
Politics / Re: Huge Challenge For APC As Lai Mohammed Exits by Ladfem(m): 10:26am On Oct 15, 2015
Joe igbowke of Lagos state will be a better replacement for d party

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Politics / Ministerial List Reveal by Ladfem(m): 7:54pm On Oct 01, 2015
Sahara Reporters can authoritatively reveal the 21-member President Muhammadu Buhari’s ministerial nominees submitted to the National Assembly yesterday as follows: Ministers nominated by President Muhammadu Buhari 1.Dr. Chris Ngige (Anambra) 2. Kayode Fayemi (Ekiti) 3. Rotimi Amaechi (Rivers) 4. Babatunde Fashola (Lagos) 5. Abdurrahman Dambazau (rtd) (Kano) 6. Aisha AlHassan (Taraba) 7. Ogbonaya Onu (Abia) 8. Kemi Adeosun (Ogun) 9. Abubakar Malami SAN (Kebbi) 10. Senator Sirika Hadi (Katsina) 11. Barrister Adebayo Shittu (Oyo) 12. Sulaiman Adamu (Jigawa) 13. Solomon Dalong (Plateau) 14.Ibe Kachikwu (Delta) 15. Osagie Ehanire (Edo 17. Udoma Udo-Udoma (Akwa Ibom) 18. Ahmed Isa Ibeto (Niger) 19. Ibrahim Jibril 20. Audu Ogbeh (Benue) 21. Amina Mohammed (Kaduna) saharareporters.com/2015/10/01/buhari’s-ministerial-nominees
Autos / Re: Honda E0D 2003 model For Sale 650k Not Negotiable by Ladfem(m): 8:53pm On Aug 19, 2015
#500 serious buyer
Car Talk / Re: Toyota Or Honda by Ladfem(m): 2:33pm On Jul 27, 2015
tanx dude more opinon pls

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