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Religion / Re: Why Do Pentecostals Believe That Catholic Church Is Not A Bible Believing Church by ladman(m): 10:31am On Oct 23, 2017
freshboi88:


Jesus was baptized in a river, why not say it must be a river too

Some churches insist it must be a flowing river. I am only amazed that I have not heard anyone insist it must be river jordan. That would be epic.

Chaplain in war zones sometimes don't get water to baptize soldiers about to die!

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Religion / Re: Why Do Pentecostals Believe That Catholic Church Is Not A Bible Believing Church by ladman(m): 10:19am On Oct 23, 2017
The words 'Bible believing' takes so much importance in Christianity that we often forget it is not the first thing needed to be a Christian. Nowadays, the bible and the pastors/priests that interpret them have become more important than God.

Secondly, the catholic church is not sola scriptura (by scripture alone), she teaches that the sacred scripture work hand in hand with traditions which is also part of the revelation about Jesus passed down from the time of the Apostles.

Hence some of what catholics do is part of tradition because she does not derive the certainty of all revealed truths from the holy scriptures alone.

Can we stop bashing ourselves on the contents of the Bible?

Does it not baffle you all that the bible is open to different interpretations?

It is because it contains within itself many disagreements about particular issues and it should be expected since it was written by [/b]different people[b], translated by [/b]different people[b] and compiled by [/b]different people.[b]

However, the core points, despite contradictions, remain the greatness of YAHWEH, the teachings of Jesus and the goal of saving mankind.

Please note that the catholic church uses the Bible everyday, they do not worship Mary or any idol. The images play no role in their worship, though it works the same way we put pictures in our home and erect statues, to reverence, and honour.

However, some Catholics overdo things, and the church frown at mariolatry and bibliolatry. The catholic church continues to evolve but not as some would want on different issues.

In conclusion, a proper research on Protestant Christianity will reveal that ironically, some protestant churches stay away from the claim of 'bible believing' because some churches have elevated the bible above God.
Literature / Re: The Secret Life Of A Housegirl by ladman(m): 9:51pm On Aug 02, 2016
cultureclub1983:



Hahaha i laugh in Jehova witness tone………

A contemporary novel begs a heated moment.

Heated moments are great. Real life has such too but it shouldn't become sex scenes made out in words and seen in every chapter.

And... how do jehova witnesses laugh? wink

Solaceseeker, we are waiting
Literature / Re: The Secret Life Of A Housegirl by ladman(m): 10:34am On Aug 02, 2016
This is a good story. Your descriptions are fantastic. Dialogues are okay but self description of the girl come short. We know what the main character feels but what does she look like?

This is a nice story. Please don't spoilt it with erotic fiction that is common read here. It is a Nigerian story we know too well but are never tired of reading or telling.
Literature / Re: Literature Bloggers and writers Get In Here! (join in creating a collection!) by ladman(m): 9:50am On Aug 02, 2016
Chimeluv:
sadI won't call myself a serious writer, mine is www.readmystoryblog., i pray i update it soon cos too many distractions wan stop me from writinhg...

Create a routine. Study your daily activities and sacrifice a particular thing you do on a daily basis for your writing. It is worth it.
Romance / Re: How To Have A Good Relationship With An Unromantic Man by ladman(m): 2:34pm On Sep 03, 2015
INTERMAN:
GET HIM A JOB AT SHELL

as their gateman?

what will happen? there are rich men who are unromantic.
Romance / Re: How To Have A Good Relationship With An Unromantic Man by ladman(m): 12:48pm On Sep 03, 2015
Osirimononaye:
Am A Gay Afterall








I mean Guy.

That is 14 years





i mean okay

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Romance / Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by ladman(m): 12:30pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Don't mind them.....you know talk is cheap and advice is easy

But if u dont take the easy advice you will just wallow in misery.
Romance / How To Have A Good Relationship With An Unromantic Man by ladman(m): 11:59am On Sep 03, 2015
A friend once complained that her boyfriend did not call too often. He called once in two days.

I told her that the boyfriend was a good guy because I was calling mine, once in three or four days.To make it worse, I didn’t see it as a big deal and wouldn’t apologise for it.

I was an unromantic son of a…woman. But I loved her (and I still do).

So how can you have a good relationship with unromantic guys like me

CALL MORE EVEN IF HE DOES NOT

If your man does not call, the best thing that you can do is to call. He is already your man not some guy looking for a second date. It does not make you desperate (except if you call once every hour) or stupid, as your friends might say.

It is just being the good side to his bad game.

TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT AND HOW YOU WANT IT

Just before you think otherwise, I’m not talking about sex positions.

Tell your man what you would like him to do in the romantic section. Most women assume men know what to do, which is not always true.

Most of us are not relationship smart and those who seem ‘smart’ spent a good part of their time learning new ways to hook up girls on the internet, or bad/ good ideas from their friends.

Do yourself a favour. Tell him what you want.

BE PATIENT AND WISE

Men are aggressive, some are even bullies and most of us put common sense above passions.

Understand that you are the beauty and he is the beast. If you must get the romantic part of him, you need to tame him with patience and wisdom.

Tell him what you want but don’t expect to get it immediately. Remind him about things in a jovial manner and no matter what you do, don’t play the nasty lady card. It only gets the man angry and puts the relationship at risk.

Some men can be rough like an uncut diamond but they turn out wonderfully romantic when their partners get them to open up.

What do you think?

culled from: http://www.bobomeetsbae.com/how-to-have-a-good-relationship-with-an-unromantic-man/
Romance / Re: Signs That Show A Girl Is Secretly In Love With You by ladman(m): 8:53am On Aug 27, 2015
feyilag:
I av more male frnds dan female frnds& my best friend is a guy,we av bin frnds for years,i do more dan 50%of d above& I can boldly tell u I dnt luv him romantically,d only tym I even gave it a tot was wen frnds started teasing us.i know abt his relationships& e knows mine.my boo knws him&I knw his own boo too.

if you ever gave it a thought...well there could be something there.... cool
Romance / Re: Signs That Show A Girl Is Secretly In Love With You by ladman(m): 8:50am On Aug 27, 2015
Are there really factual signs? sometimes you get all this signals only to realize that the girl just likes you ...nothing else.
Religion / Re: Why Didnt You Go To Church Today? by ladman(m): 11:00am On Aug 23, 2015
It rained lions and tigers.

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Literature / Re: Water Boy (fiction) by ladman(m): 2:52pm On Apr 29, 2013
Its a good start, the use of plural for mother and home got me frowning but reading it to the end softened me. I love the story, carry on
Family / Re: I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 4:16pm On Apr 17, 2013
I'm happy here. I feel good and I do not care abt wat people say, Naija is the best place for me.
Family / Re: I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 5:14pm On Apr 16, 2013
biolabee:

Then as they say KNOW THYSELF AND BE TRUE

If it is your desire to study abroad and get some certifications abroad go for it

You can still come home after studying

A friend of mine is going for an MBA and he intends to come back
Others stay and do online masters

Just make your decisions and accept to live by the consequences


Thanks.
Family / Re: I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2013
biolabee:

Going to further is a good thing which if it's inline with your aspiration you can do for and still come back to naija
It's your call
Hope you are not staying back on some desire to prove a point


on the contrary, am nt trying to prove any point, I av never really felt the urge to 'travel go yankee' and everyone tend to think it is weird. I just believe I will make it here
Family / Re: I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 3:07pm On Apr 16, 2013
fuckluv: U r 100% sane. What's more undecided

many Nigerians seem to have this american dream, to grab a green card, and automatically, start living fine
Family / Re: I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 3:04pm On Apr 16, 2013
U knw, the normal thing, get further education, start your life and have a secured future. He thinks there is no way forward in Nigeria because the government is clueless about the future.
Family / I Refused My Dad's Proposal To Send Me Abroad. by ladman(m): 12:15pm On Apr 16, 2013
Am I ok? I just said 'no Dad, I don't want to travel abroad.' do you think I did well. Yes, some of my friends think I just lost a good opportunity but I think otherwise. I love Naija and believe I will succeed in my country. What do you think?
Literature / Re: My Short Drama Script- Paranoia by ladman(m): 12:04pm On Apr 16, 2013
sholay2011:
And do you know how a play looks like? I doubt it. And did you see in the heading that it is a play? Stop acting dumb.
It is a script for a short film. You already commented on the TV/movies section by ur egoistic self and I have served you properly with words that will sooth your nerves.
You seem to know much but understand little.

it is gud to read a drama on nairaland. Criticism is part of the art, take it easy. I like ur story and felt it suited film rather than a stage play but u didnt properly specify that it was a film script. And the dialogues are not really dramatic. Good attempt though.
Politics / Re: Proposed US-Immigration Bill Will Eliminate DV-Lottery by ladman(m): 11:43am On Apr 16, 2013
eggheaders:


foolglobe you wanna join the fray shey.who the fucck are you to monitor who I choose to fratnize with on this forum.hey dumbskull craw back to the cave where you come from.bring up the e-fight.am gonna whip y'all nitwit like Barcelona playing super falcons.I will recommend a nice therapy for y'all nitwits get your dirty a55 to third mainland bridge and go practice back flips.sh.itty head dingbats.in your dreams is where you are royal.maybe paramount ruler of bononos sha.
KILODE!
Politics / Re: Proposed US-Immigration Bill Will Eliminate DV-Lottery by ladman(m): 11:34am On Apr 16, 2013
Eko Atlantic: Gonna be an interesting thread, son bring my kulikuli from the dining table.
hope there is garri and an extra spoon o.

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Celebrities / Re: My Relationship With Beyonce And Her Father Martin - Seyi-Shay by ladman(m): 5:05pm On Apr 15, 2013
ItsModella:
hateration is not good, it can kill you before your time.

See finishing,hahahaha, kilode!

and yeah, I believe this is the picture you want to see, mumu. A little googling would have erased your ignorance.

[
grin
Celebrities / Re: Top 30 World's Most-Beautiful Women In 2013 by ladman(m): 2:45pm On Apr 15, 2013
omenka: Before Number 1, here is Number 0! My homegurl!

which film was she in again o, erm remind me the popular song, she sang? I'm sure I have seen her on TV, come on its hollywood poll, such a crazy poll, but my lady, you are beautiful!
Celebrities / Re: Top 30 World's Most-Beautiful Women In 2013 by ladman(m): 1:47pm On Apr 15, 2013
miqos02: this list is not complete without my wife

of cos, she is no three afta my mother, and my girlfriend
Celebrities / Re: Top 30 World's Most-Beautiful Women In 2013 by ladman(m): 12:29pm On Apr 15, 2013
Ok, hollywood poll abi, and they deem it fit to call it THE WORLD's most beau....make I no vex, where are my pweety ladies, rollcall, my mother, my girlfriend, nairaland babes, and the akanchawa babies. Oya now lets go.! cool
Politics / Re: Transparency International Disowns Transparency In Nigerian Organisation by ladman(m): 10:12am On Apr 15, 2013
So naija transparency no even dey transparent, what is actually transparent in this country? shocked
Foreign Affairs / Re: Condom Ad Controversy In Kenya by ladman(m): 10:37am On Mar 24, 2013
It is a secular society, and i think, the ad should not have been put down. However some might still cite that the ad was anti cultural. I imagine it could be worse if such ad was made for Nigeria
Foreign Affairs / Re: Condom Ad Controversy In Kenya by ladman(m): 5:18pm On Mar 23, 2013
However, there is a reality that many Kenyan women engage in extramarital affair and the ad was attempting to encourage safe sex among these women.
Foreign Affairs / Condom Ad Controversy In Kenya by ladman(m): 10:06pm On Mar 21, 2013
An ad about the use of condom has been put down by Kenya authorities because religious organizations complained that it encouraged infidelity among women.

The ad is about a woman discussing about her irresponsible husband and her extramarital affair with another woman. The other woman advised her to always use condom with her lover.

This did not go well with many Kenyans even though there is a research stating that 30% of married kenyan women are into extramarital affair.

I feel the ad was actually passing a necessary message.
Career / Re: University Courses That Are Waste Of Time by ladman(m): 10:56pm On Jan 12, 2013
This is so backward in terms of thinking, education is primarily about human dignity, about higher development and productivity,job is secondary. Reissue your thoughts, please.

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