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Romance / Re: Has Her Fiance' Developed Cold Feet And If Yes, What Can She Do About It? by LadyTC: 11:41am On Nov 30, 2012 |
hustla242: What is it with Nigerian babes and marriage, what's the rush? Shior so desperate. One tribe in particular its like that's what they are bred for marriage. I won't mention I don't want war. |
Romance / Re: She Turned Down My Request But Gets Jealous Anytime She Sees Me With Any Girl by LadyTC: 6:29am On Nov 30, 2012 |
Love_Decay: She wants to put ur dic+k in cookie jar. People like you lose out and good quality women, by playing childish game carry on don't tell a girl you like her. I pity you. |
Romance / Re: She Turned Down My Request But Gets Jealous Anytime She Sees Me With Any Girl by LadyTC: 6:25am On Nov 30, 2012 |
Nairalandi: I love this girl so much that I decided to tell her how much I did felt for her.though she told me that she is not ready to go into any serious relationship but we can just be ordinary friends.but I seriously need someone to call my girlfriend.I have tried time without number to convince her but all to no avail.The problem now is each time she sees me with any girl her mood will change,she will not talk to me through out that day when I ask her what's the problem she will tell me nothing.pls house what's the matter with this girl? Slow down, you NEED someone to call your girlfriend. This is the first to to people getting into relationships for the wrong reasons. Please you are not ready. Besides making assumptions that she gets upset is a no no if you feel she is acting funny express to her what you just told us if she insists she is fine carryon with your life and ignore. |
Family / Re: What Is The Worst Thing Your Partner Could Do Before You Call It Quit? by LadyTC: 8:13pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Joan Johnson: What is the worst thing that your partner could do in a relationship before you call it quit? Cheat or hit me or both. |
Romance / Re: Devastating Story! U Ve To Read And Help Pls!! by LadyTC: 7:32am On Nov 28, 2012 |
Tedpgrass: I have to even wonder 3years no child. Maybe GOD is trying to protect her two times pregnancy scare. If you force what is not meant to be. You are being stubborn and waiting for misery of lifetime. I doubt he is her husband that GOD chose for her. |
Family / Re: Devastating Story! You Have To Read And Help. PLS!!!!! by LadyTC: 5:19am On Nov 28, 2012 |
k2039: She will only be daft to refuse his divorce.Thank you sir you just hit the nail on the head. Smh at some people. |
Romance / Re: Devastating Story! U Ve To Read And Help Pls!! by LadyTC: 4:21am On Nov 28, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: Ladies we watch this stories on tv,read about them,our mother's history is as the same as this one but still we want to try them on our own? Am telling you, you are so right. Truth is she might have used guilt of him being her first to get him to marry her when he was not ready and then out of pity and he felt was the right thing he went ahead now it has dawned on him he is not ready for this life.maybe wen she thought she was pregnant too that added to it. All the same I don't blame her or him. They should go their seprate ways she has no child for him. You cannot force someone to be with you. If he is your he will come back GOD might be telling her there is someone out there better for her. Its not by force or fire abeg! |
Romance / Re: Devastating Story! U Ve To Read And Help Pls!! by LadyTC: 4:10am On Nov 28, 2012 |
lolzie: I would really appreciate if matured advice could be given. God bless. There are some lies here, why would a man say you are trying to trap me with pregnancy if you are already married by court. Look she should move on and pray to GOD he is nt her husband. I believe she was already having sex before the marriage. He might hasbe disvirgined her, but that does not mean its a do or die affair to stay with him. If she ends up forcing the situation she will be in a miserable marriage. Tell her to pick up herself pray move on and meet new people. If he is her husband he will come crawling back. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by LadyTC: 9:35am On Nov 27, 2012 |
Teemah Fashion: I have never cheated and wldn't either. I'd rather walk out of a relationship full of distrust and unfaithfulness rather than cheat on him even if he does. Longtime teemah. How did ur situation go with ur man? |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner? If So Why? by LadyTC: 9:33am On Nov 27, 2012 |
goodjack: You should talk to your wife haba!! What is this getting second wife abeg sir, talk to ur wife naa |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 1:41pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
claremont: I would use a female age as a determining factor. If a single black woman (Nigerian or not) reaches the age of 28 years, she becomes either desperate for a man, or she becomes a feminist (lesbian/bisexual). Since being a feminist is not really popular in the African culture, we can safely conclude that single black African women who attain 28 years and above become desperate to 'settle'. This hypothesis is yet to be proven wrong. People like you that reason from their anus is why nigeria will never move forward. Your intelligence level is below par. Please do us a favour only contribute where children are its an insult to the rest of us adults here. |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 7:06am On Nov 26, 2012 |
Tamar1: Yes I agreed with you. Am saying in light of that the OP should watchout for controlling behaviour too. Partners should help each other drop bad habits. |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 6:48am On Nov 26, 2012 |
Tamar1: True but some womean arec controlling instead of trying to help you with the problem as adults they will fight with you and watch your every move. This can lead to violence. Imagine you want to leave her and she says you are not going anywhere and she kills you as a result of anger. A bit of topic but I just thought I add that.bt my point is true love is also freedom. No manipulation, no guilt no possesiveness, possesive is desperate.u get my point. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: ---- by LadyTC: 5:42am On Nov 26, 2012 |
nice4life: So many men like virgin girls because they believe that the woman will be attached to them only.Is this true in reality? Please let the ladies help the guys out so we can correct this belief. Think about your question does that make any sense to you? Because a person got disvirgined by someone does that now mean they r glued to that person only and can never be attached to someone else? |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 5:08am On Nov 26, 2012 |
RudySmith:I agree also because a lot of girls are desperate for marriage.as all their friends are getting married. Then they end up complaining and disrespecting their husbands. Also watch out for controlling behaviour and possesiveness. |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 11:30pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
nice4life: I can't tell if it true love, don't know your story. If you love her why not go ahead.bt you should pray and fast also. You will get clarity if she is your wife. |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 5:59pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
nice4life: please we need more response.I am in a tight situation now. Why r u in a tight situation? Are you being forced to get married by your girlfriend? |
Romance / Re: ----- by LadyTC: 5:55pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
A woman in love will take care of her man's every need. She doesn't try to change his shortcomings but will understand his weakness and help him if he is willing to change.she wwould never force him to be with her by manipulation or guilt that is desperation.if she has to convince you that you should marry her that is desperation. You should both be on the same page with regards to marriage.true love is help, she is willing to help you in anyway she possibly can. So much to say. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Are You Commanding Your Mornings? by LadyTC: 7:56pm On Nov 21, 2012 |
Please don't mislead people. That passage in job talks about the wonders of what GOD does and not asking job to command anything. And there is a book commander of the morning by MFM. It is not right beware people. |
Romance / Re: Things A Woman Shouldn't Do While Dating A Guy by LadyTC: 12:35am On Nov 19, 2012 |
Rooneyboy: We give too much as women when we give. I think closing legs and doing laundry and cooking once in a while during courtship is okay but it should never be routine. Women/ladies need to learn. There are too many glorified girlfriends claiming to be wives and there is no real commitment yet.cohabitating excetra. |
Romance / Re: Things A Woman Shouldn't Do While Dating A Guy by LadyTC: 12:25am On Nov 19, 2012 |
eagle,eye: The big deal is that like sex you give too much open up to much and you just become a glorified girlfriend. So the OP point is you still remain a girlfriend if he likes the cooking, cleaning and crazy sex then he should have put a ring on it longtime a go. That you can be the best. Hence lady in the street freak in the sheets, the most domesticated girlfriend. It doesn't matter if he hasn't put a ring on it. Guys get comfortable and might even feel no need for marriage. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women So Angry When Outsmarted by LadyTC: 11:10am On Nov 18, 2012 |
eagle,eye: Okay now I understand you better that is good I appauld the reaction to the situation as u have just explained. Its good to be sceptical, and also good you are giving the new girl a chance.in being sceptical don't put it at the back of your mind she will be the same, it might mess things up. Its good to know you are grounded in christ.keep being you, you will attract your own kind. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women So Angry When Outsmarted by LadyTC: 2:55am On Nov 18, 2012 |
eagle,eye: I feel sorry for you OP you are a broken human being who needs fixing. So you change for the worse because of what your girlfriend did to you.or some girls? Instead of you to take a step back be patient and wait until you meet the right girl (what you want in a partner). |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women So Angry When Outsmarted by LadyTC: 2:43am On Nov 18, 2012 |
eagle,eye: Please am not insulting you but do you have low self-esteem? Or you don't think you can get a better girl too? In my opinion its childish there is no need for retaliating, you are saying she can push you to do things you won't normally do. Do you think that is normal? If she felt she could get better why not allow her go, since you are taken as a fool. Let me tell you now that girl doesn't appreciate you.people use love in vain abeg....patience is key in finding the right partner. If you like turmoil I guess you are both meant for each other. Don't be surprised if one day you can't give her whatever her love language is and she meets another guy who does and she either cheats or leaves you for him. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women So Angry When Outsmarted by LadyTC: 2:34am On Nov 18, 2012 |
Its interesting how a lot of people end up in the wrong relationships and get married to the wrong people. You see red flags and you still say am so inlove. To be in a relationship you have to be whole yourself and fulfilled. How can you be with somebody and they say or feel they can do better. Let me tell you now when the going gets tough and that person sees better they will leave you. Truth is too many people settle in the name of my friends are all getting married or we have been together for 10years we can't throw it away. Don't you think you should have been married in a year or two. This is how people start hating each other as man and wife.and spouses cheat on each other. The person you are with is supposed to be your haven from the troubles of the world. Not a person who you go home to and nags and argues with you. I tell you, you will look older than you should or even die young because there will never be peace in your house. |
Romance / Re: If You Were A Guy, Can You Marry The Female Version Of You(and Vice Versa)?? by LadyTC: 6:14am On Oct 27, 2012 |
benbrains: Well, the question is quite clear... Can U̶̲̥̅̊ marry the opposite-sex-version of you, possessing all your characters, looks not necessarily considered? You asked the question. So would you marry the female version if yourself? |
Romance / Re: If You Were A Guy, Can You Marry The Female Version Of You(and Vice Versa)?? by LadyTC: 6:12am On Oct 27, 2012 |
DonTonero: All ma life I v prayed To see a female me and wen I do I wnt let go cos pple wil emulate us.am nT perfect bt y reject who I am in opposit sex? Its D femal me or nTin Me toooo I like!! Why would I let him go if I find him. |
Romance / Re: Knowing 'God's Will' In Choosing A Partner? by LadyTC: 9:01am On Oct 23, 2012 |
jookunlaja: God bless you,I can assure you that the determination to know God's perfect will in marrage is one of the best decisions any Christian can ever make in life. You are blessed I agree. |
Romance / Re: The Greatest Lie You Have Ever Heard From A Partner? by LadyTC: 8:48am On Oct 23, 2012 |
sandradavis2: Teemah Fashion: I think u ladies should look at the post by gse- integrity the topic is knowing God's will in choosing a partner. I couldn't have put it better myself. Humbledbygrace has shed light on some key things. |
Romance / Re: The Greatest Lie You Have Ever Heard From A Partner? by LadyTC: 8:47am On Oct 23, 2012 |
sandradavis2: Teemah Fashion: I think ladies should look at the post by gse- integrity the topic is knowing God's will in choosing a partner. I couldn't have out it better myself. |
Romance / Re: To Those That Are/About To Be Married Or Couples, Did You Ever Encounter........ by LadyTC: 12:15am On Oct 22, 2012 |
First of all if parents don't agree with the union its sometimes best to listen they are usually right. This would later bring problems in the future at first it will be " me and you against the world". Sometimes the parents are wrong the answer is take it to God in prayer and also make an effort with the parents and siblings as you pray fervently. |
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