See the price in jumia, am sure that's even the old price, most of them when you order they will never deliver because they don't update bew prices. If its true place an order.

Patapata you price her fan down to the price you can afford not insulting her.

You all insulting are mannerless.

The 89k own is even the wall fan.

Bringing up prices of items less than the size of what the poster posted is ridiculous.

FertilityH:



Lmao
Exactly what I wanted to do before changing my mind.

New ox fan is less than 85k

Did you go to school at all?

Ask for size before generalising. Just saying new ox fan is less than 85k without dimensions shows your level of reasoning.

All of you trying to spoil market for poster, you all talk with no facts.

Normal binatone fan, small one oo, is over 40k, the photo of fan am seeing is the big ox fan, and she said its 26 inches.

What size is sold for 85k for new?

Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.

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rawfact:
Kindheartedd, this is going to be very long and deep so don't just scan through. My guess is that you are married to a Yoruba man. I can't tell the tribe you are from. But whether you are also Yoruba or not, you need to know who a Yoruba husband is, whether he is in church or not. Because church or whatever will never take his culture away from him. "Husband" according to Yoruba Culture is know as Ade Ori (Crown) of the Woman, and not just Head as declared in the bible. You can't afford to raise your voice back at him or those other nonsense I read from your previous post. He must have tolerated all that while waiting for you to outgrow them. Because such is for Boyfriend/Girlfriend Stuff - never a Yoruba Marriage. You will have to learn on how to humbly follow his lead. After all, you trusted his leadership before saying yes to his marriage proposal.

With that said as an introduction, you will permit me to abuse you where necessary despite the fact that you seem to hate such. Meanwhile, learn that abuse from a loved one that is above one (parents, elders, husband, uncle and co) is for one's good and never an evil nor intended as such. This is Africa for goodness sake and not some white man's land, where the wife throws out the husband out of his house while his kids calls him by his first name or even shuts him up. Even some good friends can abuse someone to stop one from making a wrong decision. No wonder your bible recorded that the sting of a friend is better than the kiss of an enemy. Anyway, I took out time to read many comments on your thread and I really commend the likes of Newguyhere, Triniti, TheRedpillguy, PrinceMajestic, tunjilana and a few others who were not timid to serve you raw facts. The rest commenters literally boosted your pride.

If you are Yoruba, certainly you will understand those that are mocked as "Iyawo Asiko" (modern wife). I am going to give you an excerpt of your words and remark each, not for you because I dare say that you will resent each remark but it is particularly for the single ladies you could dare advise.

My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.

You bear "Kindheartedd" as moniker but this plan of yours alone reveals the opposite. Firstly, you want to abscond from a husband (not a boyfriend). Meaning of that culturally is running or deserting the one that paid dowry over your head and received you into his lineage (not just family), not as a girlfriend or baby mama but as the glorified (wife). Aunty, I hail you! Secondly, you used the expression "my kids". Very laughable. Culturally, those children (particularly the male) belongs to your husband's lineage which you are now part of if you are genuinely in it. Therefore, those kids belong wholly to your husband first, before your very self who happened to carry his sperm (child) for 9 months before delivery. You claim to be a christian but you certainly have no idea of the spirituality of marriage nor acknowledge fatherhood or headship of your husband over your household. Who will fix that rot in your mind? Certainly not God, aunty but your very self if you would. Finally on that, you plan to have the best not minding if it will destroy lives (your husband and the kids), changing phone number and living a new life. Some commenters that chose to be honest with you labelled the act selfish. I particularly recommend you get natural therapy for mental health.

I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.

Listen, followers command the leadership they get. Whether family, company, state, or nation. Mere humility from you will change this same statement of yours to "He is loving, caring, wonderful though difficult to understand at times". Also, know that many Nigerian husbands really get cocky when denied sex by their wives. Too much testosterone in the body as some puts it. Some manage it well while some really get cocky and wouldn't tell the woman. But give your man good sex regularly and stay humble and watch that statement change. Never forget this: Yoruba husbands get very cocky on arrogant wives.


He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
Your "Ade Ori" is owing you money? As in your husband? Who owns you and your money? Or are you building another family outside the one he is heading? Sister, you are not ready for Yoruba marriage yet o. Listen, if your husband that is carrying the weight of the house as the head, whether you are supporting or not, borrows money from you, particularly for that household, in your mind, settle it that you contributed and not that you borrowed him. Even if he ended up using the money on himself. Lots of girlfriends looking forward to a guy having serious relationship with them or even marrying them do lots for the guy without feeling owed nor trumpeting it around. Abeg, give yourself peace in your head because it's obvious you carried lots of garbage from Telemundo, feminist and other "fake lives" into your marriage (reality).


I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
Your Husband (Ade Ori) o. Not even just a lesson but a hard lesson. Aunty, you need serious mental checkup. Your brain is filled with explosive pride. At this point, I think your husband should just release you back to your people through divorce so that the court can oversee the issue of child custody because it's obvious your brain cannot be humbled. Your stubbornness and arrogance is something else. Even the verbal abuse (though not the best) your husband use regularly to check/reduce the depth of those bad-luck characters is also taken wrongly. For you trying to even change your number from friends and family that could change your heart also confirms that your husband can never succeed over you. This is why fathers shouldn't spoil their daughters before giving them out in marriage. They become a pain in the head of the gullible men that marries them. Daughter wey dey shout back at hin papa, go do more for hin husband. Some wives will be competing with their husbands rather than complementing his leadership, causing unnecessary problems, particularly for the kids. See, you practically want to lead yourself, and your financial capability is also strengthening you in your rebellion. This is why a humble woman that has no money cannot really be termed humble. In fact, you entered into that marriage mistakenly, maybe for the wedding dress, ring or kids - never for the mission marriage requires, that is, if your husband ever communicated that to you. And if he did, I dare say your type will gladly rebel.

I don't want to quote others again because I know it is worthless for you and several of your supporters. But I know one graceful lady out there whether churchy or not will pick wisdom from my remarks when it is time for her to build her own home. Your bible records that a foolish woman destroys her home while the wise one builds it. Not a foolish man o. Go and search for where it is in your bible. If you hurt or destroy your home as a woman, you will be the chief beneficiary. Same way, if you avoid satan building a castle in your mind and heart through stubbornness and arrogance, you will certainly be the most beneficiary of a happy and joyous home whether u dey go church or not.

It disgust me to quote you, to quote rubbish.

Your mum is late righr? Because she suffered loneliness, pains and resentment from your father and his generation.

You paint Yoruba marriage so bad, your type van never live with one woman. You will claim women are bad and fail to see yourself in the mirror. You are full of pride and rotteness, any woman who marry you will suffer pain.

I read this your response about 3 days back but waa so busy to response to it.

I bet you know nothing about the yoruba culture.

Your pride will ruin you soon.

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Go get a job esle I see it only getting worst. You were not adding financial value, plus he is a liar and sorry tou may not have known him really for that 7 years.

How did he get a job in the UK with a 6 months visiting visa? You don't sound intelligent, so you believed him?

My advise, look for a job fast, get busy and stop chasing shadows, you even wanted to study in Canada on him? But you said his business wasn't booming. Hmmm, girls/women easily get scammed when they fail to build themselves but wait for made men to feed and meet their needs.

If you don't get a value, this man will never value you .

Op na liar.

In his other posts, he said he begs his wife for sex, here, his wife begs him for it. In the other post he's been married for 9 years, here he's been married for 7 years.

Here he has 3 boys, in his other posts, he has 2 girls and one boy.

What do you want now? If she keep to herself you'd open a new thread say she no allow you. Sex after disagreement is part of make up. No crying over spilt milk. She has forgotten the past and ready to move on, ride kn her and enjoy. You both have no issues. Thank God for your kind of woman.

I don't know what point you're trying to make, that she doesn't do much aside taking care of the kids n cooking, haaaaaa? I hate it when I hear men say this. Do you know the stress involve in those chores? And I don't know why you mention the amount you give her as monthly upkeep. 130k and so what? If she doesn't aplogize then you do. You both are wrong keeping straight faces after a fight.

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Madam don't be worried.

My kids don't talk early.

Two years we still dey use sign language. Hehehe. But brilliant, they start writing 1, 2, 3 at age 2 and count and asign numbers to ojects. I have a stupid friend who tried to make me feel bad but that I never bordered.

My kids start talking well at 3. Academically sound and will name almost all the animals, write 1 to 20 without asistance and count from 1 to almost 100. Whereas her own who talk from the womb can't do half of what my kids do. Omo, let your son be.

Let him grow at his pace, don't compare kids.

Ding!

RedDistrict:
Ike to Mercy: you wanna play him, tell me to go and beat him up so they can evict all of us


How this 2 ppl meet each other na. .

You take him serious?

toseen7:


Hahaha, nonsense talk....

So she is expecting Gedoni to receive a punishment for provoking..

She even said they will both receive strike. Imagine her?

So if she was given a gun, Would she had gunned herself down?

Mercy has this nasty attitude and I don't like it

Ike is gering it

Vyolet:
Sir dee 2:51

I was still hearing the clock when he had finished

Cheating

Sir dee

Lovely house mates, counting the push ups for Esther.

Brownsun:
biggie just disqualified him


Thank God.

Thanking God for someone's downfall?

Hian

Omalichabby:

I'm not a fan, I just cheer him cuz he's repping PH but I doubt he'll be the one leaving on Sunday.
I strongly doubt

Matured response! I thought you'd deal with my troll

Lets see, Sunday is soon.

Omalichabby:


Kia it would pain him alot if Biggie brings it up and gives consequences o.
Chia

Biggie will talk after the break

Disqualified!

Omalichabby:
Nelson, once again thank you for making PH people proud in yet another Friday night game.
Very competitive dude. Well done

He's going on sunday

tenderheart:
Diane in her life wt d expo..

They are not seated together now

Nelson!

She tried

Mercy!!!!!

Mercy will disappoint all of you today

omamush:
Eyah the thing pain the guy o

E pain me for am

Diane is cutely smart!

nazablossom:
"Make I no lie" in Omashola's voice ,Omashola will be buzzed out

Yeah

Why 3 bedroom flat? Business has it's ups and downs. Am sure you guys don't have kids yet, you both should have remained in your self contain even after marriage until you have a better job to pull resources together.

Two people coming together should have better plans for themselves and their unborn kids.

She is carrying too much load, am sure the financial load on her wont allow her have good savings so any further low in her business may mean you both leaving that 3 bedroom flat to a one room apartment.


Your woman is stressed.

Richpon:
Pls Gurus in d house, Oga Emma, Turks etc, I came to my farm this morning and saw one of my birds like this....pls wat kina sickness could b this?? Thy hv been on ginger, garlic and papper mixed in thr vitamin (Vitamix) fr 2days now b4 this. I occasionally give them moringa and bitter leaf grounded and mixed in thr water

I started noticing this same thing with my birds, one went blind, and others started having swollen eyes with green or brown poo, first started with black charcoal like poo. This started immediately i started letting them out of their cage.

I had stopped the ginger, garlic mixture before this time. When i saw that the eyes issue and green poo continued, i gave them ampilox in their water, i dropped little of the powder in the mouth of the blind one, and by evening i was amazed at the result. Open eyes and was eating and flying. Other others with teary eyes too a good.

This is the first time am buying DOC, and mennn, i don't think i will go for them again. Have only lost those two i mentioned in my earlier posts don't eat plus one that stick feel on. I never knew I can raise DOC with low mortality, i thought i loose like 60% cos that has been my mentality. But all thanks to this thread founder and all contributors. Who knows, tomorrow one might want to go commercial.


They will be 5 weeks tomorrow. Brought out my scale and about 70% are weighing 1kg plus. From tomorrow I'll start giving them ugu mixed with vit c in their water to serve as multivitamin. I dont know of a good vet store around me to buy good multivitamins for them i would have done that, when they had leg issue i wasted money on one calcium from a feed seller, i was using it and their condition was worsening until i bought Dr Meyer calcium for them. So i had better buy ugu for them than waste money on less capacity drugd from feed sellers.

Just that, if you don't pay attention to them they easily fall ill and if you dont get the right drugs on time, they die. Just too fragile.