I have to tell this ..In nigerian society men tell you they are polygamous /they think that god forgive them and them they give esxcuses )and women they accept it in Nigeria..why they acccept cheat and lies ?if they dont accept and start divorced and do something..they stop do it ..in Europe and America we was same last centuries too ...if women will be still accept this -men never change they will be lie and cheat ..but they dont know that God never forgive so much cheating ..they see if they will be end in hell..

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Hallo women ..I dont know why you speak about Europe or American women forexampel about white so bad...All women or white cor black whether we are women, we only have a different mentality because we were born in other countries ... I do not think that all of Niger men of the white women treat well .. how many white women are released, helping African man financial , learned to cook food for them in African way completely changed life and do all for these men ,love these men , then they have made woman child and finally them man leave these women...these woman lose money,self confidence and all and them cry and lose all and these man dont feel responsible and have not emotions for these women....or one woman help man with documents ,do for him all ,she have 2 works and still help him mother and sister with money and if this white woman start be sick -this man completely change because she stop work -He start be arogant ,dont speak with her etc...I tell you one think African men have so big ego and is so much proud and we are women we are more calm...some Europe woman are not calm and they stop do all for man because you know between two people must be balance ..African women do for men so much ,and much European or white women too and them they men do not respect such women as it did not have to expend any effort to get everything from the women deserved ..Men are hunters like to hunt, when they are at home submissive wife has done for them all, they start to get bored, and then cheated and hungry for other women , so it is up to us women that we stop for a man to do everything when you're not respected from husband ,he do not deserve to his wife cooks every day, do not deserve to him and cleaned and doing a complete service . we white women or black and whether we must have respest our feelings too not only cares of man ...and I explain typical European family:I we love our families, our cousins, but when I get married, so we devote my family husband and the children ... Also we visit their parents, parents visiting us, and also respect each other, our European parents do not mix us into our marriage and do not manipulate with us ..they respect us and dont bother us with every problem ... when male among us is married (his mother does not control man life) is a grown man who can decide and he know what is good and having its him opinion ... parents lead us to be independent , that the if parents son is an adult He know wake up on his feets ..good White men do not have high ego, they work hard, be wise, evidence shall take care of the wife in every respect-never forget Valentine's Day, will never forget her birthday, He can control him hormones when ,if the wife is ill they He dont disturb her with cleaned and cooked. .When a woman has a problem man hear her, and when a man has a problem that woman hear him - man and woman they find a common solution, Man taking wife on trips, walks into nature walk together, helping her with children and does not have a problem with that ..here partners work half and half there we call equality..Women have deep lovely,romatic feelings for man here ..and good white man too he have deep lovely feeling for woman if she is black or white ...in relationship is not important culture and cook and bed,,..the relationship between two people is Important , love, help, speak about problems, be faitfull woman to man and man to woman--- especialy if they are Christians, wisdom, education, knowlage, not what you cook, or what to do in bed(forexampel here works good if man is christian he is reallly faitfull and woman too) ..White woman know be romantic and deep in love and I think black woman too but you cant do for bad man all ,because you destroy your life,,...cook and clean and do all servises for Man what not deserve all these things...in marriage have be man and woman calm....but African men want be top and still use ego but this dont work ...they must start be calm especialy if they believe in god...calm man dont mean he is weak not ..Strong man is calm,he know control himself(because he is strong)he know cares of family and child he help woman with chidls he is not lazy cook or help woman with clean ...Strong man to handle all...if man ran from their families and think with ego and pride they are not strong men their are adult Boys - children ..and if man is christian he have not use ego ...ego dont exist if man believe in god but not believe only with tongue --he must believe with all heart ..is on us on woman that we teach son love their future wifes...in ýour country mother so much cares for son do everithing for him and put him on pedestal and if a son is an adult he grows he is one spoiled kid who thinks through the ego and dont respect women...Here in my country , raise children strictly daughter and son are equal ..son is not to or more like girl this dont exist here and for this we have not these problem with Men in our countries...