Tunneller:
@OP, Prison visitations are normal and occur regularly. However, it's good you asking these questions so you know what you are doing.

I have visited the prison both as a corper and as a normal citizen visiting a friend/relative. Every prison has their rules and regulations. Written and unwritten.

Some tips I could add:

- I won't advise you to go alone. Go with someone already familiar with that particular prison. It would save you a lot of unnecessary hurdles.

- If possible, go with one of his family member also.

- Go with money. Raw cash. Change an amount into the regular denominations. Enough N200 and N100. Back then, every visitor paid a certain amount to cross the gate...even if we were visiting same person. Some times, they have certain numbers they can allow at a time.

- The one I visited, they had like a prison money keeper, so the money we wan give the person we visited, it would be deposited with this person and recorded. In some prisons, you can give your friend your cash gift directly.

- Foodstuffs and provisions: highly valuable. The one that can last.

- Back then, the cooked food we brought, one of us had to taste every of it (As a check against food poisoning)

- We were given a small tag. Keep very safe. If u loose am, you can't go out o (Coz it would be assumed you have given it to someone inside to use and come out)

- They would ask you a few questions... basically to ascertain your relationship with who you are visiting and reason for visiting.

- We dropped our phones at the gate.

- Note that some of the persons u would be dealing it are actually prisoners-on-duty 😉 (You may not know initially). Even some persons outside the prison could be prisoners. Those ones no dey run again. He could just be washing one of the ogas car or in charge of opening gate. Also, some warders could be on mufti too. So face wetin carry you come. They all would be observing you too and may want to know how buoyant your visit has made the guy. All of them dey hustle too, you know. Some would be begging you too when you are leaving for tips.

- Check yourself very well...make u no go carry exhibit o...both entering and leaving. Most likely sha, u won't get beyond the visiting room. Tho, the visit I did as a corper, we toured round all the wards. People started crying. Some prisoners were begging the girls...dash me anything...even earring dash me...just anything. It was really touching. And a warder got furious when one of us attempted to dash one of them something through the cage. Some were begging to call a certain number that nobody knows he is there etc. Anyways, don't think you would be getting to these areas ... But my point is, focus on who you are visiting.

- Avoid unnecessary handshakes or trying to carry out favours.

- Anything, you ain't sure of while there, better to ask first.

- You won't be given the whole day. Don't get carried away by emotions, otherwise before you know it, them go say time up. So be alert and do your discussion quick so u make best use of your time. Other visitors are waiting. And nobody send anybody there.

- Have a great experience!

xangerar:


You are so correct. You will be tempted to want to return on visits after the first. It feels in a way that is helpful for a humane understanding of life.

Darlingme:
This has nothing to do with entitlement mentality.

No one is an island and we all need each other to live peacefully.
So, a man died in my neighborhood and his children has forbidden their rich and wealthy uncles from contributing to the burial. Accordingly to the children, their poor father died of starvation, which they have been appealing to relatives, also his only brother who works in an oil company in PH for assistant and he has always promised to help, but never did. This uncle happens to be the first person to send an ambulance to convey the corpse to the village, and the children rejected his offer.
I don't understand. Why do we have rich family members, friends, yet we suffer poverty?
Why is it always easy for people who can save their fellow humans from death, starvation, depression always ignore them, but once he/she dies, it's easy to raise money for burial.


Have you ever experience any of this? Can you share such experience?
What's your general opinion about this?

freshkpomo:



Bill TV posted today, he locked comments and that's the right way to go. Posting videos is not the problem but their job is a very fragile one so things need to be put in place. Imagine seeing a video of a Benin man been killed by a Fulani herdman, I may not get angry and just call on the government to fish out the killers. But imagine same happened and under the comments section I see Fulanis mocking us, what will you think will happen? I will no longer show that comment to the government but rather to my Benin people who will easily get incited by the derogatory speech and start their own revenge.
Their comment sections were war zones and cultists hijacked it. Look at NV, his comment section on telegram is locked and that's the way to go and I think it's nice if he does same on YouTube. I don't know about other people but to me every life saved is worth it.


Black ass killed Desmond in uniben and some idiots went ahead to NV and Bill TV to taunt maphite calling them weak and that alone may make them want to prove a point. now from the the baby soldiers killed two people and later came to same chanel to taunt black ass, now you see that whatever is Said there, people take it to heart.

kingthreat:
Cultism bloggers. Term sounds so unusual but it is true. Over 3 Youtube channels are dedicated to this. With them, hidden execution videos exclusive to private whatsapp groups are now leaked out for the world to see.
The only good thing about it is that a layman like me won't have known how broad and dangerous cultism is without them.
@Freshkpomo, I understand your complaint but it really isn't their fault you know. Even on the saynotocultism thread, lowlife cultists have used it to threaten themselves,
I have resorted that the only solution to cultism is police starts investigating into every cultism death and arresting at least 5 cultists for each crime, then these useless youths will calm down. And eventually Anticultism will use his Social media handles for something else.
Untill then, it is left for youths to say no to cultism so they don't get fame after their death on a cultist bloggers page.

kingthreat:


Gee is a regular voice against cultism on Nairaland.

GhostRider1991:


Oga i never said the murderers should be excluded. If these bloggers are arrested those sending him the videos and pictures which I also believe are the perpetrators will be arrested.

freshkpomo:

Hello nairalander, there have been a recent trend I noticed about some cult bloggers which is very disturbing. It's painful that Nigerian youths are stupid and dumb because these bloggers make these reports to scare people from joining cult but cultists have hijacked the platform and now a place where they plan killings, threaten each other and even create cult wars like in the case of what's going on in Benin right now. I have written to these guys to lock their comment section but they refuse so I have decide to keep reporting them till they loose their channels and start from the scratch.


As for the youths who can't take sense from their posts but take it as fun, your stupidity is beyond redemption.

GhostRider1991:


You're so correct. That guy called N*g*r*a* v*e* started this rubbish, he his always happy whenever there is a cult clash, he pretends like he his fighting against it but in real sense he is instigating these cult killings.

If actually he his against this cult clashes and killings, he ought to know by now that the comment section is supposed to be closed. The comment section is always like a war zone, every cult wants to be superior.

If you noticed, this cult clashes got even worse when him and others started making reports and videos.

In a sane country, security operatives should have picked him and others bloggers, because they have so much explanation to give, but welcome to Nigeria.

onadana:



No..Nope ..what planet are you from?Maybe the award was given to her in your planet,not this one that we are in.

onadana:



Need I remind you,the record is not confirmed.When it is kudos to her.But we can also see the "other type of chef"she is and what she is selling.

sprints1:
men can do without women na woman no fit do without man.dem too like prick weneeva a woman is outside without he pals or man she is always insecured

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Na so...Body don dey gum

Normal na...na wetin we men come do for life
1) to smoke enough weed
2) to drink enough alcohol
3) to seek for knowledge
4) to make enough money
5) to bang enough pussy
...so if as a man your body dey rise even when woman never off pant then na thing of joy
Wait make I shock you ...na women even happy pass once them know say we men dey fit off women pant..
That is why 99 percent if not all self of our sisters and mothers dey always get joy whenever them know say their brothers and son is capable of banging alot of girls....the only time they frown at it and become disgusting and painful to them na if their husband dey womanize....apart from that they love it

Caleb15:

Na the tongue

wheezyfukinbaby:
Honestly speaking, it is disheartening to see or hear youth killing each other in the name of cultism.

What happened in uniben according to my source was a revenge of the axemen against the mafias. That keggite chief was a MF and the Uniben we know is ruled by axemen. The two chiefs killed in that school were rival to the ruler of the school.

My source has it that the axemen stated that all chiefo of Uniben must be an axeman. This will know exist in some campuses.

R.i.p to the dead while the living live rightfully.
#SayNoToCultism

ahnie:
What are the benefits of being a cultist?


Because I nor just understand why these yoots join confraternity only to end up in body bags.


Harmless question...pls which cult group adorns blue Barret?
E get why I dey ask...someone very close to me always update the Barret and pistol on his WhatsApp dp

ahnie:
Duhhhhh
So I decided to hang out with kids today after several promise and fail....my kids don dey even tag me Yahoo mummy.

Dartilo:
Abeg Perkins com continue ur story…

I pray our conscience helps us live a just life

YahooG:

Na just advise I give am,i am waiting for him to continue too,perkins no vex,continue your story!

YahooG:

Brotherman,open a new thread,to create better awareness!

Realmi:
do Buccaneers carry hits too

okrikaboi:

Bunch of fools who believe they come from fire. Like any other cult group they are dangerous but insignificant in the frat world. Op go sha know more,

ThreeEyedRaven:


Yeah I know. Some times, we can only wish

ThreeEyedRaven:
Garri of all things