He must have paid a huge bribe to be able to succeed with such a scam, pretending to be mad when he is perfectly fine. The victims should brace themselves and get good lawyers and a medical team, otherwise they will not be able to get justice.

That is why writing a "will" is important. You must stand your ground. Tell your mom that you want your father's property to be shared. Meet with your trusted relatives, elders or a lawyer so that your father's properties can be shared, one of it should be given to your mom, You can't expect to take everything. When your mom is given her share, then she can do whatever she wishes with it. Tell your mom that she has no right to bring in a man, until she is given her space.

Whatever you do, don't let him keep the kids, the children are young and even the court will grant you custody. You need a second source of income to be able to foot the bills.

You have two options:

1. Continue to live with him, and ignore him as much as you can. If you chose this, you can also be traveling to visit your people from time to time, to avoid him more and reduce the stress at home.

2. Separation.

Prettycute90:



Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

I never knew that a 14yrs old boy would engage in kidnapping at such a young age. He is an only child so he cannot say that his mother was not providing his needs. Let him spend at least 30 more years before he is freed.

This is very bad. In life I trust no one. It's wrong to let the church know ones income, because you don't even know the church members who have access to the tithe records. Everyone has a right to some privacy for God's sake.

Jewessgratitud3:

They have the tithe record with everyones name written on it and ticked when you pay.

Even if you do a transfer you'll still need to indicate it there which will later be recorded.

Pray pray and pray, but if you are the type who doesn't believe in the supernatural, then when the consequences manifests, you will see it as a natural occurrence.

Sickening and disgusting. People who abuse children do not deserve pity or second chances. Unfortunately the Nigerian government don't seem to care, that's why they don't give severe punishment to offenders.

As long as you pay your tithe and don't keep it for personal use, then it's okay. If you are in any gathering of the brethren, you can pay your tithe. God gave us freewill and the Bible portion says "bring ye the tithes into my house"......, (the church). Personally, I sometimes pay my tithe to any pastor when I see they have a need, especially the genuine upcoming ones who need help. I sometimes connect to Christian groups online, and atimes pay part of my tithe to them.

Only joker's will believe the man's false narration. A good husband can never force his wife to become a full time house wife. Yes, I can beat my chest to say that she was forced to stay at home because if he was that rich and wished her well, he would have set up a business for her. He wanted her to be homebound so that he can manipulate and control her life as he wished .

All the bull$hit tales of How he was a caring/loving husband are well concocted lies so that he can get a lighter jail term. Have you ever seen a Nigerian woman married to a naija soldier in a happy marriage? Happily married my foot.

He thought after relocating he would still be able to manipulate her, but she broke Free and he finally killed someone's precious daughter. Men abandon their wives all the time, so what abomination did she commit?

A long epistle worth reading. RIP to the dead, too bad that he didn't have a second chance.

I don't think it would be safe to marry anyone who has the mind to commit suicide. Most people who have the mind to commit suicide can also commit murder. The lady definitely had good reasons for having dumped him.

He hasn't told us what he did to his wife, matcheww. Would a woman leave a good husband just like that? Besides, Nigerian men have been jilting their wives for a side chick, so....we move.

Only a fooool would claim to be ignorant that faithfulness is compulsory in marriage. If you can't stick to a woman, stay single. I wonder what makes you think women don't get tired of eating rice alone, we get tired, but we learn to respect marital vows.

kayperry:



E be like sumthing dey worry you how many times do we have to say it men are polygamous in nature

you think it is realistic to be eating rice everyday

Yes

qtguru:


He cheated ??

The stick serves as protection how? I don't understand. This is so scary

As a man, when you marry and yet you continue to live as a single guy, doing what you used to do, chasing women, then don't pretend to be surprised when your marriage crashes . Non$ense!

What is the guarantee that marrying a Nigerian man would be better? Have you not seen many Niger!ans with failed marr!ages?

The man dated you for over 6months before proposing, which is perfectly fine. Or you would have preferred a man who will waste years with you without moving forward?

Take a look at the things you mentioned about this man, what else are you looking for? A good bird in hand is better than having hopes of catching a better bird in future.

Take time and make findings on how adoption works in that country, so that you know if you should accept the offer or not. It is not compulsory that he adopts your child after marrying you.

Oruebube2024:


1. He is good looking,
well to do,
2. takes care of me ,and infact I am begining to feel that the talk of western men not spending on women is a myth.
3. He proposed august and I was excited but worried about how fast things moved. I am yet to get used to this new environment .
4. He plans to adopt my daughter and I bring her over.

Mental health issues

Are their farms safe for people to go in and farm? With uncountable past news of herdsmen/bokoharam clashing with farmers, then the youths can never have interest in farming. The government needs to fight insecurity and put a complete stop to herdsmen.

MadamExcellency:
Why are Nigerian Youths not interested in farming.

Every of our AI and technology are all about money collection and transfers. Why are there no developments in farming and food technology? Nothing in medical sciences and Electricity generation.

We should concentrate less on singing and dancing to solving our existential problems.

So you think their farms are safe for them to work? Have you not been hearing of herdsmen/bokoharam entering farms to kill and maim helpless farmers? Some abduct the farmers and place huge amounts before they can be released. It is the wic*ked government that actually failed their people.

Simeonjoe1:
Lazy ass black people.
Nobody want to do the hard work. Make easy money and import the nice stuffs

What happens to backward integration, what happens to cultivating thousands of hecteres of farmlands all over Nigeria.
Or we are waiting for government to help us plant, or better still Dangote farm?

How can you even date two sisters? The moment you knew the second girl was related to the first one, you should have cut ties from there. $hame on you brolosho, yet e*vil men like you will want to marry decent wives.

So if the man dates Anthonia, Annabel, and Senorita, like you mentioned, do you think he would still be satisfied? His kinds are never satisfied because they do not make attempts to be sexually disciplined. If you think he is cheating because she is not playing all her responsibilities as a wife then you must be a joker. That's why one shouldn't show much pity to a suffering old man, because you don't know the evils* he did to his wife and family when he was young.

Yugoslavia247:


Your marriage is about to see shege.

Do you bother about your husband sexual feeling the same way you bother about him cheating on you.

Most times that's what you all do.

Like you don't know it is the sex he needs.

Focus on understand his sexual appetite.

If Vicky leaves the scene
Antonia
Anabel
Cinderella
Senorita

Are waiting in line.

Now he would become smarter or furious.

She must have worked so hard to satisfy your husband for her to ask such questions.

Who is sweeter between me and your wife?

Imagine the kind eyes she go dey use dey look you.

Anytime you are at peace with your husband she go dey vex.

Better up the game and claim your husband not just from Vicky but others.

Be insightful.
Observe him
Know why.
What if na the gal give am green light.

You don't need to rush.

If you rush you no go fit borrow oven.

Sit your husband down and discuss it.

It might be difficult but try. Don't try and fight the gal. You go embarrass yourself, your husband and the family.

Call his family instead.

If possible make una go out and settle the issue because you na go too shout.

You need to be smart.

Imagine that you know and act like you don't.

Even your husband go fear.

Leave the gal and face your husband.

Na im get problem.

E Kon be neighbors

Kaya mata self fit dey work.

Maybe the gal dey wear braless cloth and pantless.

The thing he want the gal understand

U want use Vicky hook up play.

She go Sabi suck dick

When last u suck him dick.

That alone go make am never leave Vicky hook up.

Too bahd.....not a surprise anyway

How many naija guys can house and feed f0reign w0men? It is the women who assist them t0 find their "feet". It is actually p0*verty that make$ them chase 0ld or y0ung white women, and be willing t0 submit and adapt to the lifestyles over there.

OperationalVehi:


If Nigeria guyz were broke, how would they house and feed the whitey? Abi na water she go dey chop like fish?
Mind you transportation and security too is also among the expenses

Most of you think every young Nigerian folk is poor.

What stats proves otherwise? Is it the stats that has shown that naija males are the most c0rrupt and int0 all manner of *crimes? The c0untries image has been ruined* by them. Most times It is thr0ugh crime* that they have more earning power.

ExudeLoveToAll:



NBS stats proves otherwise, Nigerian guys have more earning power than their female counterparts if not you won't be hearing affirmative action and all of that.

What is wrong dating a foreigner? if it's a Nigerian girl that did that you will be shouting 'fonfor the bag' go and find yours and leave others alone.

Yes cuz Nigerian guyz are cheap*broke and hungry*. They are ready to $lave as houseboys over there, but when they are in Nigeria, they are full 0f pride.

She is lucky she didn't marry him, because it means he is unable to control anger that's why he jumped in that rage. If she had married him, he may have killed' her one day.

You definitely are joking .

barthmew:

Why would you buy a woman living in his husband's house a gift? even though she's your sister. That's a subtle insult to his husband.

You should know this; men guides their territory with pride and jealousy.

'The husband has been a source of blessing to you' more reason you should reconsider your intended actions.

Your suppose good intent has the potence of breaking your sister's marriage, in way you could not imagine.

Imagine you are the husband, and your in-law gifts your wife a car. How would you feel?

Please understand this, whatever you intend giving a woman that's married should be channeled through her husband
and then the husband can decide how best to administer such gift or whatsoever the case.

This is what you should, if you so much desire to appreciate your sister and her husband;

1. Gift the husband the car and secretly let him know you felt your sister could use one to ease her everyday commuting to and from her work. That you couldn't gift it to her directly, cos it'd seem like a subtle disregard and disrespect to him.

2. Gift her the cash equivalent of the car and let her use it whatever way she seem fit.

Now, let me ask you. Who do you think will be fueling and maintaining the car in the long run if you eventually buys it for your sister?

Of course, the husband!
Which he may not or may be grudgingly willing to do.

Your sister on the other hand, may not even be happy with your decision, if she's domesticated and homely.

And that being the case, trust her to hand over the car to her hubby or sell the car off to safe face.

So why put a strain in your sister's marriage?

You had better not gift her that car at all if I were you. Gift her the cash equivalent if you must.

Pls apply wisdom.

He is trying to protect his child, but he should know that she isn't his wife, and May not take his instructions or take his serious.

I don't understand, why is she not the one who keeps her children?

Why should you even think of putting her husband's name on the car document? If he is truly a good man like you say, then a car gift with his wife's name should not bother him. In life no one knows tomorrow, put your sisters name alone.