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Stargurl20:
Guys, do not lose a good woman just because she unintentionally had a fling with a guy or something. Learn to forgive, forget and move on with her

That unintentional fling you mentioned............ .... ..... Don't you still reminisce about it?


Lemme stop here for now

RaisedByWolves:


What is it with Southwest and propaganda!? They have a tendency to over hype, exaggerate and lie to push a particular narrative. This I have noticed. All their newspapers, radio and television stations do this too.

They can sit in Lagos and tell you why Edo state is dirty, drug filled and not good for foreign investment. They can sit in Lagos and tell you why Kano and Kaduna are the head quarters of ISWAP. They can sit in Lagos and tell you who Onitsha is not good for business.

They tell you only Southwest is good for airports , embassy, Water ports. They lie that only Lagos has access to Atlantic Ocean meanwhile I Akwa Ibom, port Harcourt, Calabar, even Abia state all have access to the Atlantic Ocean .. they tell you MY sisters in Edo only do prostitution meanwhile should we count the number of Yoruba girls into it?

I have come to take anything coming from the southwest with a pinch of salt henceforth.

Look at how they are hyping this young AIG as if he is the next Jack Bauer...

Edo no be Lagos ...

Ma Nigga them don use you for money ritual and I'm sure you are not aware of that.......

Iyaebe:
You all don't understand and it makes me feel bad,she's acting so cheap and she's not comporting herself just because she saw an attractive man.She's too forward and it's irritating

You felt bad because you want to feel bad my sister........ To me I think there's more to this thing you're telling us, cuz if not you won't keep emphasizing on breaking that bond. If she's your friend as you claim and she's clean I'm pretty sure you guys would have joked about it...... You know why your friend fails to tell you about her it? It's so simple ( she knows you to be like that).

RandyX:

The cousin is a guy nau. She won’t worry if it’s a distant friend cos she won’t be seeing them everyday. She doesn’t want her to come to family reunion meeting with her oversea cousin tomorrow and start showing off, while she and her husband go dey help them arrange chair. You see in this life woman no be your mate until she marry. That her friend go begin display levels for her once dem marry her enter the family. Lol.

Right now I don't know what to say to you my brother.

WoundedLamb:


Did she say this somewhere else? I didn't see that in the post. Then it would seem she's afraid her cousin would win her friend over to his side. That's a whole new perspective. Thanks for pointing that out.

She didn't.
But come to think of it. what's her anger about? And she never said anything about talking to her cousin..... So to me there's more.... Don't forget she never denied her friend being nice and good person �. Sooooooo?

majorbravo:

I think the problem here is that her cousin is richer and probably better in so many other areas than her own boyfriend. Probably even lives abroad. Truth is, Most women don’t want their friends to meet a man that’s better than theirs and even if so it should certainly not be through them.

If what you say is true, then not to her cousin she has good relationship with.

WoundedLamb:


The show of shame is being interested in someone or making attempts to get closer to them? Do you think your brother would be falling for some kind of deception if he eventually starts seeing a girl who perfectly orchestrated a means to get him? I'm asking cause that's a common way of viewing things when it's the girl making the moves. But the truth is, your brother is a man who knows what he wants, so if he decides to go with her, it's because he wants to and not because he was deceived. Someone always makes the first move and the other party either accepts or turns down the advancement. And that someone is not to be considered deceitful or cheap regardless of gender.

That said, is there any particular reason you don't want your cousin and your 'nice' friend to end up together? What do you have to lose? Do you think she's not good enough for your cousin? Do you think she is a gold digger? Don't get me wrong, if she's got some skeletons you know about, you'd be fully right to want to protect your cousin. I'd also understand if you're not okay with how often she comes to your place, it's not every time we want to be with friends (but this will stop once they exchange numbers or when he leaves, so it's just temporary).

However, if the only reason you're upset is that... OK, I honestly don't even know why you're upset. You said she's selling herself so cheap, but I believe that's just what you tell yourself to justify your anger. Or would you be as upset if she was doing that with a stranger and not your cousin? I think you have the natural tendency to want to keep your family members away from your friends you've seen at their lowest. Many people don't want thier friends near their sisters/brothers, but we can't always be sure the next person they'd meet would be better. So it's a good idea to acknowledge this human weakness of ours and consciously make the decision to move beyond it and make logical decisions.

Why is there no communication going on between you guys? How does your cousin feel about her? You said she is your friend and the guy is your cousin. I assume you can discuss this kind of thing with them. You are, therefore, in the best position to know if there's possibility of relationship between them. You're not to shield your cousin, he's not a baby. Why not discuss it with him instead and find out how he feels about your friend? If he likes her and you end up keeping her away, would you say you've done well? Instead of coming here to ask us for ways to keep two consenting adults apart for no clear reason, why not take your time to figure out if they really like each other?

Just an opinion.

Wounded...... Is like you like to wright epistles.... You should know she is never close to her cousin or should I (say she is yet to forgive her cousin for whatever occur in the their family decades ago), cuz if she is they would have talked about it.... So my brother/sister, Think about cuz only she knows the truth.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

I understand where you are coming from my dear...... It shows you don't like that your cousin and his siblings at all, like you guys have dent relationship from childhood........ Slawormor over to you.

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

BAbe the thing is whoever is really the black fetish one won't make you observe.... I must tell you he is fighting a spiritual battle you don't know about, you just have to talk to him about it. I'm pretty sure if you visit a scientist lab you won't be comfortable with the mix of things.


Mind you most of the of Pentecostal pastors have been to a white garment churches before.

Let's be guided

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Daaaaaaammmm Nigeeerrrrrr @slowarmir, isitalrait?

Optional09:


Those who are fighting back you called them irritant lock them up and shave their head with broken bottles. Even the slave masters didn’t do more than that.

That's because the number is few...... Do you remember a song they sing back then (how many people soldiers go kill o)? if we all come out in numbers can they throw bombs at us For protesting?

onoja12:
Arnt we all

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Bro to me....... More you are sounding like a racist

We are! on a different level

Optional09:


i am angry with Nigerian leaders for bringing Nigerians to the ground with incompetence

Are we also helping the matter as a citizen?
Don't we have the right to fight back as a voter?

We accept all they do to us and dance to thier tunes........so what do you expect?

onoja12:
Insurance hahahahah,in nigeria we make real cash not money held in trust for white companies to make more money.car in nigeria bought 100% ,house paid for 100%,cloths,phone ,furnitire,you name it we pay for it cash,not make believe money.




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You don’t know that cashiers at costco have life insurance, how many bank manager in nigeria have a car insurance lol Nigeria ko Nigga area ni dark brains niggas

Bro to me....... More you are sounding like a racist

ogododo:
Olalekan Adetayo, Abuja


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DanHaske:
He is the biggest victim, like it or not. Age, position, influence. He tops in all.
Buhari sent him to Germany, he caught the disease and died from it.
Why was he the one who had to to Germany?

I feel for my President, he lost his right hand man. It is also a big loss to all those who had the man as their godfather. Buratai is now forming agility in sambisa forest. He knows the man keeping him there is no more, anything can happen now.


And please don't wish Buhari death, he might outlive you if you do.

Now Thisday just confirmed that we no longer have a president in the country