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I choose my happiness and my baby. I thank you all for your kind words. I want to focus now on my work, baby and myself. Gods will be done, I'm done stressing myself or fussing about. Thank you all for your words. 3 Likes |
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jazzyjazz: Lolsssssss... I'm calm ooooo Thank God for life |
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rejoice02: Okay...thanks They said I have malaria, is arthemeter injection good for pregnant women? 1 Like |
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Pleaaaaassseee my scan revealed my end to be 26th April while my lmp says may 3. Which should I take? I'm 14WKS according to the scan but no bump at all and no vomiting... Cc everybody |
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Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody. I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried. Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss.. I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs. Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping. Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild. I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished. Thank you all for your support and love. I love you all. 8 Likes |
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Thank you so oooooooooo much mama's. I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried. Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss.. I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs. Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. ![]() ![]() I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping. Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild. I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished. 18 Likes |
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Please pardon me, I'll respond to your mails when I'm better. I appreciate your sincerity and love 1 Like |
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Thank you for your words. I really do appreciate and I thank God for everything. I told him about this post on nairaland and I believe he will also come here to read and learn and also post his version of the story. I feel sick right now, so I can't type much. Thank you so much. |
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KingRex1: Please don't misjudged me. I told him that I had feelings for him and he said he has too but he has a girlfriend. I decided not to be so close to him then because he was my only friend in a new town with no family. I made other friends at work, I went out for occasions with my other colleagues because I believed my love for him will die if we were not so close. He became jealous and will badmouth other male colleagues that had interest in me. Some days he will tell me I know I'm making a big mistake if I don't marry you, you're everything I want in a wife. He will come to my house and be all loving and caring but sometimes he will still call the girl. I got tired of his games and told him to choose between us because I'm not in the mood for games, I never forced or cajoled him to date me. Even when I found out he had not fully broken up with him, I told him I'm moving out (we were living together) and moving on, he apologized and I let it go (although he told me he did that because he had no rent then). 1 Like |
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I'm so happy. Before I created this post, I was considering killing myself (I'm just too emotional) but I feel so much relieved now. A problem shared is a problem half solved truly. You all saved a soul, I'll be strong. Come may 2017, I'll Grace this page with cute pictures. I truly love and appreciate you all. 7 Likes |
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I'm so grateful for all your words to me, it is not easy to type or give an advice. GOD bless you all. I love my baby so much and I want the best for her/him, I am ready to do what is best for him or her. My priority is this baby and I pray God gives me the strength to do what's best. I need to work on myself and be happy. Thank you once more. Please, lalasticlala take the post off the front page. 1 Like |
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accountbalance: Thank you so much. You are actually right, I worry a lot. GOD help me. It's not easy 1 Like |
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accountbalance: I also think my mother is biased because of the backlash she'll get from my Dad and also because she endured a bad marriage. I always prayed for a better home than what my mother went through. |
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I have decided to have one final discussion with him. I know some of you want me to hold on but I believe my sanity is my priority. If he decides to keep the home I'll stay but if he truly does not want to marry me, I'll move on with my life and my baby. I'll raise money and get a new apartment but I won't quit my job. Thank you all for your words. 1 Like |
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euromilion: I'm working but I'll be okay. |
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I fell in love with someone and I don't regret it. If you've ever been in love, you will do extra miles to please them. I was in love with the wrong person. We discussed marriage before I got pregnant, we talked about 2017 and that was one of the reason that made me decide to keep this baby. It was after discussing with his parents, family and friends that he said I should go for an abortion. They thought I was from a poor home and I was trying to trap their son but when they came for the introduction they saw their assumptions were wrong and they gave their blessings. Yes, I used to nag and complain a lot because he was very lazy and spends his money anyhow but I've stopped that. |
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Thank you all for your words. They make me stronger and happy. I brought this online because I wanted an unbiased opinion from people. My main worry comes from the fact that he is not happy and he does not love me. I also don't want a man to marry out of pity. People actually see it in a different way from. My mum sees it as a hurdle that can be overcome, although she thinks we can put the wedding for a while My dad is just so particular about the family name and believes it will work that finance is our major issue. My sisters actually want me to put everything off until he shows me care, she does not mind being a single mother. I confided in a married colleague at work and he thinks I should still go ahead. A single male friend said I should go for an abortion. I am really confused. I never intentionally got pregnant for him and I did not break up any relationship and I did not force myself on him. The sin I committed is fornication. |
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I have decided not to call it off myself but focus on me and my baby. If by the end of this rent we've not sorted ourselves out, I'll move out and close this chapter forever. And also work on my finances. Thank you so much, chatting with you all made me stronger... I'll definitely post pictures of my cute princess by may 2017.(i hope it's a girl) 4 Likes |
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I just talked to him about waiting till I give birth but he said it's now or never. That he has made up his mind about the marriage whether there's love or not. The love is not very strong now but it will grow. He said the loan is making him think too... |
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Thank you for your words. I have decided to focus on me and my baby for now and get my finances in order. Thank you so much. |
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He said he loves me somehow and that I'm a wife material but I'm demanding so much attention. He said I talk a lot and he does not like talking (gisting) that he likes being alone. He said he does not care about the pregnancy because he does not know anything about it and he feels since women do it almost everyday, it's not so difficult. He said I cry a lot and crying irritates him. I still don't understand all these and I feel so sad and unhappy. 1 Like |
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Thank you all for your words. I don't want to call off the engagement because he says I don't understand his personality, he is not romantic and I want a fairy-tale romance and he can't do that. My mother says my pregnancy hormone is making me overreact. My dad says out state of finance is affecting us. His parents say I should tolerate him. I still do love him and I can't explain why, He is not a bad person but I feel he does not love me. I do not want to anyone to get married to me out of pity and that's why I was asking for a solution. He assist with the chores at home and bills. He does not keep late nights and he is always at home with me but he just wants to be alone always and I feel like he is irritated by me. He says I demand too much attention from him. I actually want to plan the wedding together but he is like he does not care and I should do the planning while he will look for the money... He is 32years and I'm 23years. 2 Likes |
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ElsonMorali: I was not desperate for marriage... I'm 23yrs and he is 32yrs |
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Onegai: Okay MA. I'll tell him about the ante-natal but I don't to call off the wedding if not he will use it against me to my parents and his parents. I want to focus on me and my baby and let him decide for himself what he wants. 6 Likes |
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Mimzyy: The loan is not for my wedding ceremony, it is to provide my bride price list things, pay his mother the money he took from her two years ago and renovate his family house. We did not plan on having a wedding ceremony with that loan. 1 Like |
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Thank you mama's.. I've decide to quit for now and focus on me and my baby. If he decides to come for me later on, no problem. 11 Likes |
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Onegai: I earn 80,000naira monthly but my firm pays us 50,000naira this year and I did a contribution of 30,000naira earlier this year, so right now I get 20k a month and I use that for my upkeep... My contribution ends this month so by November salary I'll get it 50k and I'll register for my ante-natal then. I'll be four months plus then. I have no savings for now... I'll get my baby things from January next year because my EDD is may 2017.. 9 Likes |
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Thank you for your words. Yes, it's about me and my baby right now. 6 Likes |
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5minsmadness: Thank you |
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Yes, it's totally my fault. I decided to stay because I was just stupidly in love. I won't make this same mistakes again, I just thought there was a way I could make it work but I guess there is no way . I have decided to keep my head high and ride through the storm. My baby and I is my priority. Thank you for your harsh but loving words. GOD bless you all... 67 Likes 4 Shares |
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ifyalways: No I'm not. Our company pays us half of our salary now (that's why he is always broke) but I have the support of my parents. They help me out when I need. But my dad threatened to cut me off if I have a child out of wedlock. 1 Like |
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SisiNini: I made to leave then when I found out but he begged me to stay. Although he said he did that because he could not afford his rent back then. |
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