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Mimzyy: He said he met her September and then it was just an online relationship but they physically met December when he went home for Christmas last year. I did not force myself on him, yes I was just stupidly in love. He will get drunk come to my place when I go out with another man, I never tried to make him jealous. I was just having other friends. I did not move in with him to keep tabs on him, he was broke and could not afford his rent. So we planned to use my own rent to renew his. He asked for an abortion because he was flat broke and had no money for the wedding (so he said) but we he got an option if taking a loan he agreed to it.. He is about to take the loan. The OND case is that he said he still has a long way to go. I believe he decided to date me because I was the convenient option. 9 Likes 1 Share |
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Onegai: He pays for his bills and provides money for his feeding... We share the expenses 50/50 |
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ifyalways: I always request for it. Okay, fine... Thanks |
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Onegai: Thank you. I asked HR and they told me that |
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ifyalways: Thank you Ma. He can't move out because he has no where to go and he is broke. It's a two bedroom apartment and we have separate rooms. Should I stop cooking? For both of us 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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We still live together and we just paid the rent. I don't have any money to move out and I don't want to ask my parents for any money. I still want to stay here till my rent expires. Is it a good idea? I'm just going to focus on me and my work. I don't want to tell my parents anything for now. I paid half of the rent and I don't want to say anything to my parents if not he will say he wants to marry but I'm the one that cancelled it. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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Dyt:no, we earn the same salary.. He was broke then. 1 Like |
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sisisioge:I heard they do not give maternity leave to women that are not married where I work. |
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MizMyColi: I also heard there is no maternity leave for women that are not married where I work. 1 Like 1 Share |
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olagbemi118: I did not ask him out and I did not try to make him jealous, I decided to make other friends so I will not be attached to him so much. We moved in together because he did not have money for his rent. 20 Likes 1 Share |
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Dyt: I'm at uyo. Thank you so much 15 Likes |
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Thank you lexajen and jazzy jazz... GOD bless you so much for your words. |
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Thank you everybody for your sincere opinion. I believe I will move on with my child alone. Please how do I overcome the shame at work because I can't quit now, I need the money. 37 Likes |
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Ishilove: Thank you because this is indeed the hard truth. 104 Likes 8 Shares |
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I will try my best not be biased about our story and if you have any questions to ask please do and don't fail to tell me where I went wrong. I met him last year December precisely and we both work in the same office, we became best of friends but he was in a relationship (distant) and I was single. We were really close because we both were new in town with no family around and then I fell in love with him and opened up about my feelings to him but he said he was in a relationship. I was hurt but I held my head up and moved on. I started mingling with other male colleagues and then he became jealous and so I confronted him about it (still loved him) and u also told him to choose between us and he said he wants me. His decision was based on the fact that the other lady was far away, he thought she was promiscuous and she is an OND holder etc (I got to find out about this later). We moved in together because of financial stress and talked about getting married next year... Late June this year I found out he had not broken up with the other lady, confronted him about it and he settled the issue. I got pregnant July and he asked for an abortion, I insisted on keeping the baby with or without marriage.. He finally accepted to marry me and proceeded to tell my parents(he later said I forced him to that). He accused me of so many things and called me different names. He traveled to his hometown and informed his parents about it all and met with the lady. On his return, he said the lady gives him peace and if I lose this pregnancy he will go back with her and that he loves her but he is just getting married to me because he respects my family and do not want to bring shame to me at work. I cried, prayed and endured it all. Two weeks ago his family came for the introduction and the wedding has been fixed for December but I'm not happy. I'm a shadow of myself, he feels disgusted by my presence and I can't say anything without him getting angry. I used to nag and quarrel a lot but I've stopped, even when I'm angry I just walk away. He does not care about me and this pregnancy and if I tell him I'm sick or tired or anything, he will just say that I'm not the first to get pregnant and that it's when I push the baby he will take responsibility. I have tried my best and I'm confused, last night I called him peacefully to ask him what I'm doing wrong but he said I'm disturbing him. I used to call his parents and my parents to intervene but he said I should stop that and I have stopped. Please what can I do to save our relationship, it's not easy for me . this is not the man I fell in love with help me and please I need your advice because I am ready to do anything. I want my child to have a normal family. |
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Pleaaaaassseee I need your advice, I thought the storm is over but it is not. |
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I will try my best not be biased about our story and if you have any questions to ask please do. I met him last year December precisely and we both work in the same office, we became best of friends but he was in a relationship (distant) and I was single. We were really close because we both were new in town with no family around and then I fell in love with him and opened up about my feelings to him but he said he was in a relationship. I was hurt but I held my head up and moved on. I started mingling with other male colleagues and then he became jealous and so I confronted him about it (still loved him) and u also told him to choose between us and he said he wants me. His decision was based on the fact that the other lady was far away, he thought she was promiscuous and she is an OND holder etc (I got to find out about this later). We moved in together because of financial stress and talked about getting married next year... Late June this year I found out he had not broken up with the other lady, confronted him about it and he settled the issue. I got pregnant July and he asked for an abortion, I insisted on keeping the baby with or without marriage.. He finally accepted to marry me and proceeded to tell my parents(he later said I forced him to that). He accused me of so many things and called me different names. He traveled to his hometown and informed his parents about it all and met with the lady. On his return, he said the lady gives him peace and if I lose this pregnancy he will go back with her and that he loves her but he is just getting married to me because he respects my family and do not want to bring shame to me at work. I cried, prayed and endured it all. Two weeks ago his family came for the introduction and the wedding has been fixed for December but I'm not happy. I'm a shadow of myself, he feels disgusted by my presence and I can't say anything without him getting angry. I used to nag and quarrel a lot but I've stopped, even when I'm angry I just walk away. He does not care about me and this pregnancy and if I tell him I'm sick or tired or anything, he will just say that I'm not the first to get pregnant and that it's when I push the baby he will take responsibility. I have tried my best and I'm confused, last night I called him peacefully to ask him what I'm doing wrong but he said I'm disturbing him. I used to call his parents and my parents to intervene but he said I should stop that and I have stopped. Please what can I do to save our relationship, it's not easy for me . this is not the man I fell in love with help me and please I need your advice because I am ready to do anything. I want my child to have a normal family. 22 Likes 13 Shares |
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I just knew it has to be wuse general hospital...I served there and trust me, it is the norm ooooo... |
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@liftedhands I'm not married but although I'm about to...I faced a situation worse than yours...I cried my soul out and prayed my heart out... I was about to be abandoned with my pregnancy but just when I thought God travelled, He showed up... I finally had my introduction on friday and my wedding is coming up this december... My future hubby returned back to me lovingly.. I definitely know my battles are not over and I'm willing to stand... If your life is not threatened, please don't give up... No one can help save your marriage but God...hold on to him... 12 Likes |
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Getting married very soon, definitely feel like running away but i can't because I'm pregnant... I fell in love with a heartless monster....God help me |
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Hello mothers ermmmmmmmm....After Six tests and several missed mp...I'm definitely preggy... 10weeks and counting...EDD is May 3rd... Its been stress free so far but i suddenly became restless and weak yesterday, i feel worse today... I've got a rash outbreak on my face abiii pimple sefff....I'm experiencing constipation.... I'm also spitting crazy and my nose is so sensitive... 28 Likes |
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