Classic Naija mentality question: owo versus bobo-nkiti

Women have always had this problem. "He's uneducatedly rich," she says to her girlfriend.

"But at least you get to shop in France!" Dorothy replies.

Personally, I find more comon sense in things less English (western). I think Spanish women are hot!!!! By spanish I mean women from spain. And English is not their first language by any chance.

Fat women need love too. Sometimes its just that the sex is good. It's a win-win, let em be... sheesh...

I cry. I'm also very violent- ha!

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Hey was just kidding.


And for the record, I dont bite. I nibble.

Good Girl:

A God-fearing man is one that tries to achive righteousness in his ways

Does it matter to you if he actually attains it? Or just that he tries? or rather as long as he makes you believe he tries? Do you see how flimsy that is?

There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man that will not cheat on her,

Absolutely

A God-fearing man will probably not, and even when he does, he will handle the whole situation better than one who isn't

this idea is based on a belief. I have met some men supposed to have the "fear" of "God" that have zero self control. The problem is not that they are not "trying" enough, but that one can liken religion to a mask.

Remorse and guilt are attributes which he may probably possess. He has a sense of what is right and what is wrong and he knows that he is accountable to God for his actions. Which woman wouldn't want a man that fears God?

The idea of God exists strong in Africa

One that also has issues with herself.

cool

oh dear shegirl is clueless!

I'm sure women will jump at being heads (thats if they are not already).

The world created and run by manliness will implode.

*muscle-bound women snarl: "arrrrgh!! HAIL FEMINISM!!"

Baba JJ clocks fine laydee on z street. He swooshes his hat sideways almost throwing his own head off. Avioding bumping into the couple walking toward him, he regains his balance and steps.

Eyes blazing, wind trying to stop him, the sun stares harder at him as he wipes the sweat off his brow with a handkerchief. Just in time, the right alignment in the stars, he could almost hear a croud of friends cheering his name

"Jay-Jay!"
"Jay-Jay!"

If only his enemies were here to witness this.

And with one clean blow he straightens his beard and breathes: "Bebi I lurf you. . ."

The question "can humans express love in its truest meaning" could be answered if you acquired every possible difinition of love, and summarized it in one sentence; (more like 'more like finding the average' in maths). The purest form of love does not exist.

Love travels from one point to another: the giver to the reciever and back to the giver, as the cycle continues. The problem is that each time, each person gives back his own version of the love whch inately taints it. Love is unfortunately abstract unlike oxygen or matter, otherwise one might just find pure love somewhere, a love-mine or love-well or love-stream. But Love is inexistent without its mediums (us humans). To say simply: we give love its meaning, the love is as pure as we are, or much rather, are not.

ladies only! Drag queens nko? _{*angrily enters "sidon dey look" mode}

We'll have to start popping estrogen pills. Start sitting to pee. Spend more time dressing and making up, smell better, develop alter egos of sorts. Our wahala go plenty pass. Suicide rate for men will go up.

We'll have to start popping estrogen pills. Start sitting to pee. Spend more time dressing and making up, smell better, develop alter egos of sorts. Our wahala go plenty pass. Suicide rate for men will go up.

Cold chills man. Those briefest moments I forget I cannot fly, and never could.

The name 'Beyonce' is a high class commodity. You don't just change it like that .

I remember someone said that to jimi.

I can do many other tricks with it. Wish to see?

I appologise if I'm about to hijack the thread, it's purposefully unintentional.

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10k a track? not bad at all. do you have a website I can check your stuff ?

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NaJa HaJe:

you seem to only be able to observe the XY chromosomes so easily!!!!!

I have read as much male problems as women's so what is your point?

ego-detour ko, ego-deform ni

So please go back and re-read the threads you read and surmise with care. Of course a fair amount of men are dogs . . . . . . . . is that news to you?

Probably the reason you think its more women is because we are more precise with what the problematic situation is rather than the guys that parambulate this forums with things they won't be repeating to their mothers.

hmm. . .
someone doesn't quite get the disclaimer. K well I'll play along. "Of course a fair amount of men are dogs " may I?: OUCH!

A fair amount you mean 30% or 20? Or do you perhaps mean percentile beyond 70?

For the record, I was not about to allow this thread escalate to abject name calling like some threads have, more reason I had to put up a disclaimer. It doesn't mean theres no truth in what I have said. It just might not be as blatant.

isn't it time someone found out I had to be joking? I dont even believe myself.

However, this comes as a mild protest against every thread about how pathetic men are. Not that it really boils my eggs (does somewhat), I just have to stop you before you start believing yourselves. And then even the "cute" ones (vis a vis moi) will go on mandatory celibacy. . . And then una go suffer.

Busta:

second that!

did I miss something?

almondjoy:

Hell hath no fury than a man scorned. . . . . . .

lol

I just had to stop and ponder the weight of my blasphemy before I started typing.

So ladies do spare men the ego-detour. Your bfs and your husbands just put up with you. I've read so much "men are dogs" threads its not even funny anymore.

@ poster.

At a certain point you abandoned the thread; seemed like you weren't getting the responses you wanted.

A virgin at 26 smells closed-minded. You're not loose when you fall in love. But you're frigid when you wont give yourself up.

Let me phrophesy at you: you'll meet a man. He'll be willing to wait till the end of the world. But you wont respect him-- you'll call him weak. He'll jump when you say so, he'll be at your feet. But he still will not have earned your respect.

since you are at the point of actually hating men , you certainly display it in some form, subtly or however. Phrophesy ii. You'll scare away even the one that's willing to wait.

It's not really always about what african men want per se.

Its different on the internet, the ways people express themselves. Its alot more straight forward than in real life. Ladies play "mind games" (they actually call it that). Their actions change everything the man might have wanted in the first place. After the whole cat & mouse experience, a man thinks (GIRL you better be worth it!) Funny thing is, there's hardly any difference between every "beauty with brains" kind'a girl out there. When we see one we've seen them all. Our actions toward you will be stereotypical; simply because there's almost no difference between you and your girlfriends.

What I'm saying is, when a girl puts a guy in a certain category (because of the car he drives or doesnt thereof, for example) she is predictable, her actions can be fore-told, even with ones eyes closed. This way to you, guys are never different: If he's rich he's an ass, if he's broke he's a retard; if he's sexy he's a player, if he's ugly he's a virgin. . . .

This really doesn't mean guys are all the same even of a given set, it just means you treat them the same when they belong to a set. I treat you stereotypically because you don't treat me any different. see?

NaJa HaJe:

@macalurs

what part is ridiculous? the man or the possessiveness?

The man. A posessive man is an insecure puppy, quite laughable. All posessive men should be brought out in the open and laughed at by "secure" men.