*dancing on thread*

Despite my tendency to lean in favor of the male sex, happiness logicaly remains a relative term. In it's own light, a mad man is happy. We act, like we think. Since people think differently, then acts to induce happiness is bound to vary for different individuals.

However, if a poll were to be taken on "How many women have ever wished they were male" and vice-versa, it would be expected that more women than men would have (at some point) wished to be an opposite sex.

Men want YOU. The un-inhibited, untainted, unafraid, real, kind-but-stern, no-bullshit, honest you. Women nowadays are fakers. They fake everything _{even orgasms!?--anyways the point is:} When you're the stereotypical woman, men become stereotypical in their approach toward you.

If you walk, talk, dress, sound, look like beyonce, he'll treat you like he treated the previous 100 of you. And it happens automatically.

Design YOU. A real man is a sucker for autheticity in a woman. If you want a real man, become a real woman, and fake men will have to step up and act right: "This lady is the sh*t-- I gotta be real with this one--"

LOVE IS BULLSH!T.

you okay now?

love is nothing meaningful.

we define love, we give it meaning.

The question is: DO YOU HAVE THE FAINTEST IDEA WHAT YOU (not they) CALL LOVE?

Yo lil red,

Just leave him alone. Try to forget about him. If he's really playin' "hard2get" he'll seek you. But don't expect him to. You might be setting yourself up for some huge disappointment if you expect him to come back drooling.

Hey, do you know what I first said when I saw your pic? I was like  you are damn cute, I mean drop dead. I aint kidding. Not being smart, just me. No matter how cute that dude is, you're better. With your beauty (and intellect), a better guy that knows how to treat a woman will find you, and stick to you. You're not even in your prime yet-- wait till you hit 23, with all the extraz ooouuuu *hugs himself*

Take this from a playa. You'll be aight.

hot-angel:

What don't y'all understand?

His girlfriend's brother hates him. And he always act badly to his sister when he(her boyfriend) is arround. What advice can y'all give him?


My advice: Sit that boy (her brother) down, and talk to him, tell him you like (love) his siter and he really needs to accept that fact. He's actually her younger brother, so that's major. Younger ones, don't like to see their elder ones dating, esp. when the guy/girl dating their elder one is a stingy ass mofo head. So what am i saying?? Be nice to poor boy. And talk to him, tell him u like his siter, just do it the manly way.

if you follow the above advice, and "j." doesn't spear your head into the wall, call me idiot.

I was once like. Over-protective as a chimpanzee. The best thing to do is give him pocket money, he'll love you like never. The boy doesn't even want to hear you say you love his sister-- oh god you're a dead man if you try that.

At certain stages of relationships, certain amounts of stress actually encourage its growth. But certain kinds of stress reek havoc at certain stages of relationships. For some cases, "forgive and forget" rule of thumb applies, to other cases it doesn't fit. Interest develops, or diminishes over time. Certain actions cause increase in interest, others cause interest levels in a relationship to plumett.

I'm sorry your friend had to go thru that; But she should try to work things out with her EX,-- get back with him, I mean. It seems what caused their break-up was flimsy, most likely a distance barrier. Her case might repeat itself even if she finds another guy.

American guys actually talk. The reason a guy would kiss-- or want to kiss that often is simple: He's new to it. Americans can kiss anywhere, I mean anywhere, they have the whole day, and weeks to do it. So if the girl wants to talk, yeah they will talk, easy-- and continue with the kissing spree.

The naija guy might have kissed a girl before, but he probably never had a naija girl that obliged very often. You know naija girls.

Besides the guy might not even be disturbing that much, just being a guy. And the girl is just being a naija girl. not trying to say naija girls don't like kissing alot, but she might be shy and not know it.

Actually that sounds more like a black guy-- Naija guy. Na dem way.

ah well, we both know that choices of pre-occupation vary for different peoples. Constant canoodling don't hurt nothing. besides there might be nothing worth talking about (to him), or you're bad at conversations, and he's afraid to tell you. Or he's not just into you for the sound of your voice.

Besides, canoodling doesn't always have to be hot. Or doesn't talking-while-kissing work? I seen peeps do it.

we need more info on your guy.

What is there to talk about if the relationship is going ok? Or are you unnecessarily talkative?

my grl comes first, anytime anywhere. It's different for different ppl. My mom's goin to be close,but not as close as my girl. nuh uh--nope.