was just about to say that. there is something missing about your story. fill us up please. and you hubby does he live in Nigeria? You said he wanted to leave you for a white girl. Is he still with her?

We often doubt what we do not understand & what we have not experienced. I have actually ad what people call "falling under the anointing"experience, Twas not as much a falling but a lifting. Like everything else in life, we have people who have turned this into a business and used it to decieve people.Herein lies the mentality people now have about the whole spiritual experienc being a hoax.

Now it won't do to lay the blame only at the feet of the con artists.I also blame the so called christians who gallivant about looking for the next spiritual experience. They visit all the Holy spirit this , Holy Spirit that ( which isn't wrong) looking for that which is not lost. They strain their necks during said service, all with the hope that the man of God will suddenly have an epiphany and touch them thereby detonating the Holy ghost landmine called "falling under the anointing". Those are the people i get angry with. We need to understand that God may or may not requir a human to touch you b4 He does. Also not every one "falls". The experience is not often anything to do with goosebups. It's mor elike having your mind understanding the meaning of life.

Anyone has the right to think up ideas to hoodwink, con or dupe whosoever but they would not have so much business if intelligent people don't patronize them.

So lets not pass final judgement and call "falling under the anointing" a hoax.

Okay. Twas a nice and enlightening but did you have to do an exposé on guys? Men can be so vain and egotistical when it comes to their sexual prowess. If you have a man, and its ounds lik u do. Grab him, take him home and let him know how much you love him behind closed doors.

Nagging husband? Hmmm.Sori if wat i'm abt saying sounds preachy. Love they say conquers all. Love expresses itself thru patience, tolerance and LONG SUFFERING! U'v probably been patient but after trying everything else, like discusing it with him, praying and other means of getting him to understand he's hurting you.All you can do is continue(suffer-long). Remb, why you married him.
Your marriage vow are underlaid with this silent line, "I will love him, no matter what"
S this is me saying, Be Strong!