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Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 11:50am On Feb 11, 2009 |
Thanks Vonny , all well said , I am crying reading what u have written up for me , Vonny: |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by ogb5(m): 11:52am On Feb 11, 2009 |
What did your husband do to you |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 11:54am On Feb 11, 2009 |
nues aweso: he did, I have a lot of unopened letters with my Dad at home , cos that was the last address of mine he has, u know I moved and I think this mistake came on the part of my parents, they never sent those letters to me where I was and never informed me when i got home those days |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by Rendani(m): 11:55am On Feb 11, 2009 |
@ poster you are one of the most stupid married women i have ever come across. listen to yourself defending your ex, yeke yeke yeke, go on n get on with ur ex n ruin your marriage, |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by chihums(m): 11:58am On Feb 11, 2009 |
i wonder o, where has he been all these while. Now he has come to shatter another's family, He didn't contact your Dad then . now he has been travelling 40,000 mile to catch an old fish. Let this not happen to me o. Amen |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by popegirl(f): 11:58am On Feb 11, 2009 |
@ poster, you are married to someone you dont love, right, and the love of your life is begging to come back, look, i've been hurt and i dont think i ever want to love again, but i still believe you should go after the man you love cos , since you are not happy with your marriage and you feel the only man that can make you happy is still single and willing to marry you, marriage is a lifetime thing and i won't advice you to spend the rest of ur life with a man you dont love, if you can tolerate him fine, butif you can't, pls follow your heart and go after the man that makes you happy |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by flightgirl: 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Girl you gotta be kidding me. Don't ever ever ever compromise your marriage like that. This guy is going to play you. And you will certainly suffer , I had been down that road, and I can tell you. Forget about him and move on. You have already done wrong by agreeing to meet this guy again. You think its love but its lust. Anyway, good luck. |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by nuesaweso(f): 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
U dey fool urself and dey waste ppl time. Go thru the thread again and see what you have typed. U don make up ur mind already before coming on NL, Abeg make i go better thread. Not this rubbish |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by chihums(m): 12:06pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Hey Popegirl, you suck. If she gets into trouble you will be nowhere to be found. you want her to end in despair like you. That's not fair. popegirl: |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by funkybaby(f): 12:06pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
chihums:> And me too oh. Amen! Reason why I am going to change all my mobile numbers and quit membership of any social networking site once I get married. I won't allow any foolish ex-boyfriend, old flame, friend or whatever adjective he might call himself, after calling it quits only to come back begging years after and start sowing seeds of doubts/strife/temptation in my marriage. ![]() |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by ogb5(m): 12:08pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Pope is that really you. can you move up a little from the water, a better view will help ![]() |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by chihums(m): 12:15pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Please House read pope's posts She is full of shit. Are you sure she is not frustrated. how can a frustreeeeeeeeeeee give advice to a confused punk? |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by chihums(m): 12:17pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
In fac, I'm leaving. |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by ogb5(m): 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
chihums: She is entitled to her opinion, don't you think? Afterall no one can say with all certainty what the right decision is |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by JJYOU: 12:19pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Rendani:bros na our brother wey become ugly rumour for house make this woman dey see greener grass. popegirl:when temptation comes, may God give you grace to say no. your advice is seriously wrong there are 2 sets of family involved here. dont you see the effects of broken relationshipsall around you?. foolishness is not fun nues aweso:talking about this how did you discover NL by the way? yesterday it was Omosegose and her husband thinking of walking out on their relationship today this. NL getting better publicity or what? |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 12:24pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
May God gives me the grace to really say no, I may be foolish , but right now a decision will fall into place today , I am discussing it with my hubby, I think its better for me to able to know his mind, after he was about leaving me for a white girl , even before this came up. |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by popegirl(f): 12:25pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
@chihums u are such a fool, and i dont think NL is for assholes like you, leave your own comment and Bleep off, ![]() eranko |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by JJYOU: 12:27pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
rominiyi:where are you guys based? what does your mum think about this? |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by Bricklace(f): 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
@ Rominiyi, the poster, PLS JUST HOLD UP WHATEVER DECISION YOU HAVE COME UP WITH & FOLLOW THE PLAN BELOW, RIGHT NOW U ARE NOT THINKING WITH YOUR HEAD BUT YOUR HEART: Go and watch The movie - "Fireproof" @ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpuRpjPSFpc. But first of all read the story line @ http://www.squidoo.com/fireproof-the-movie. I believe whatever is lost (be it love or attention) in your marriage, can be restored after watching the movie Like i said earlier in my previous post, "Don't start what you can't finish". I believe God is going to use the movie to transform your life and that of your present hobby ( erasing your ex out of the picture). |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 12:29pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
we dont have to abuse each other, we are after all matured! I know your opininon matters a whole lot , to me in this time . but whatever I make up my mind to do is Final, pls stop calling each other names and call me all the names u want, It might or wont bulge me at all. |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by popegirl(f): 12:34pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
@ogb5 thanks jate, dont mind the stupid imbecille and for the other view, will do that for you |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by ogb5(m): 12:35pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
rominiyi: Be careful the way you discuss this with you husband. if you speak to him they way you have been speaking on NL, I guess most guys will give you a beating you will not forget in a hurry. use your head. Ask what he wants, not what you want. If he is going away with a white girl, then he will willingly allow for a divorce. but work to save your marriage |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by dontexe(m): 12:36pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
This is what happens when people get married for the wrong reason. I can't believe a married woman can be talking like this. You are just a confused soul, and I'm not sorry to say that. There's no relationship without challenges, what makes you think that this is still the same guy you've always known. What if he has changed. Why did u allow him into your life when you already know what could happen. It shows you wanted out of your marriage all along. There's no excuse for infidelity, be it in relationship or marriage. Madam, you've got no point. If you think you still love (love my foot!!) your ex, divorce your current husband and go for him, but you must be ready to face the consequence of your actions. Do you think it's easy to build a successful marriage ![]() |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 12:41pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
I have just finished discussing with a man of God , he says biblically , its capital NO. nevertheless the situation is a complex one , its obvious that u are not married to the person whom u actually love. take time to pray about ur decision, and he also said its true that people get married to the wrong person and when they actually sees whom their heart desires, His exact words, |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by ogb5(m): 12:43pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
popegirl: Thanks, todays is my lucky day. I will give an arm & a leg to see the other view. Am booking my flight right away Where do I book the flight to |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by Moyola(f): 12:44pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
Whala!! ![]() |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by JJYOU: 12:48pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
rominiyi:you are a very nice person. pls find it in your heart toforgive and move on. i dont know why things like this happen to nixce kind people like you. if you can pls watch the Fireproof video @ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpuRpjPSFpc. may God save you and your marraige dontexe:my brother this can happen to the wisest of people. she didnt call for it. it nearly happened to me just this last year. it takes just the click of the mouse on face book/ myspace or a chance meeting. i my case an ex show up on a tagged photo taken almost 17yrs ago. you learn to say to NO and avoid tricky situations. she still hasnt given up. my number 1 priority is to protect my mrs. to be tempted is not the sin. it is the yielding. we all have our own temptations this is this ladys own if she overcomes it becomes a testimony and so we counsell and pray for her to overcome this cos it aint worth it. |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 12:51pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
I understand all what u are trying to say , but MAY U NEVER LIVE WITHOUT LOVE, Until you marry love you are not married, |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by dontexe(m): 12:56pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
It is the neglect of timely repair that makes re-building necessary. Shit happens, but you left a lot of things unattended to, search yourself and you'll see where things started to go wrong in your marriage, |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by JJYOU: 1:01pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
rominiyi:well you are 32 you still have loads of time to waste be very careful. naija men/ women can take you on a journey to no where without your knowing it |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by rominiyi(f): 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
JJYOU: thanks JJYOU , U are indeed true, |
Re: In love with my Ex, but I am married by Mage: 1:21pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
was just about to say that. there is something missing about your story. fill us up please. and you hubby does he live in Nigeria? You said he wanted to leave you for a white girl. Is he still with her? |
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