Being a mother takes God's grace. Motherhood takes away sanity from a woman. Everything about the woman is on hold or adjusted because she has to take care of the children, husband, home.
It's baffling when men think since they provide the cash the woman should be comfortable.
It does not work that way sir.
At this point in time, your timetable will not work.
Your wife is not lazy. The only thing here is, she needs a help.

She could be going through depression.
Motherhood is one factor that leads women to depression and mental illness.
The children call the shot for now.

She wakes up at 10 or 11am

Have you asked her if she slept at night?
Children wake up at odd hours 5times or more before 7am to ask for food or wee and guess what? It's mummy that wakes up.
Have you asked her when was the last time she slept 5hrs at a stretch at night?

Please give her some break.

As for food, you can once in a while tell her not to worry about food. Get food from a good restaurant for everyone to eat.

Please don't add to her stress.

Being a stay home mum is more stressful that even working in an office.

My dear, I believe you are a Christian.
Abortion is a grievous sin and God will not take it lightly with you.
The deed is done..... Just stay with consequence of your action.

The bible says we should keep the bed undifiled
Also, our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

The bible also discourages a man starting anything with a woman when he is not ready.


If you loved the girl in question, you would have gone to pay her bride price or abstain from sex until you both are ready.

Please do not abort that child because both of you won't be able to live with the aftermath of shedding blood.

Go meet her parents and pay her bride price.
With that both of you will have peace and plan your future.

Marriage no be BEANS

God bless you

This is a hilarious question ooooo

My 1st salary was 8k

Year 2003

What is your job description?
What job role did you apply for?

If cooking and doing domestic chores are not in your job description pls quit the job.

Office work and home chores are two parallel lines.

You can't be at the office then he gives you his house keys to go cook for him. There is more to it that you are not saying.

Draw the lines btw the 2 roles.

And be careful with him. No man can be trusted

I am wondering why I should pay 7k for NIN change of name.
I did my NIN over 8 years ago; when nobody even knew about it and it was free.

Just yesterday, I strolled to an NIN office to enquire what it takes to change from my father's name to my husband's name.
The personnel in charge responded "Madam, all you need to do is bring 7k for change of name"
I looked at him with a thin smile and asked; only for change of name?
He replied yes.
Then he went on, madam if it is change of date of birth; it is only 20k.

I nodded and said wonderful.

Abeg who has such experience.
Really can't imagine me counting 7k for only change of name.

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Oh friend!
Marriage is a long journey with no destination.
If she can't be patient for you now, don't know how patient she will be when both of you are married.
Count your teeth with your tongue.

No need impregnating her and dumping her. That will be foolishness on your part cos CAMA will come for you somewhere along the line.

Forgive her and if you can't continue with her, lay the cards on the table, so she will know why u backed out.

My darling what you feel is understandable.
Please pray about it. It is never too late. Let the Holy Spirit guide cos His work is to guide us into all truth.
The bible says, do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever.
Everyone is a Christain but not everyone is saved.
If you were not able to get him saved while courting, trust me, you will never be able to get him saved after marriage.

Marriage is a life long contract.

His foundation will affect the generation you both will produce.

Pray that the Holy Spirit leads you.

God bless you.

Nne please the red flags are obvious. Just take a walk cos if u don't you will end up enduring in the marriage eventually. Life is too short to endure what will generate heart pain over time.

Good day Sir.
How is your 3 year old doing?
Please don't be hard on your child
He is only 3 years.
Please don't get it twisted
Some children can read 2 or 3 phonetics comfortably.
If your child can't, then it might be the method of teaching or the child has not been given much attention.
Please appreciate his strength and work on his weakness.
If you are hard on him, trust me his strength might turn to his weakness and he will withdraw.
You will not like that at all.

Playing videos for him when he is yet to understand the basics of reading will lead to rot learning.

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