@Ikamefa
you are really coming out. You mean you do party and foursome often
I should introduce you to my wild gf, she does lesbo too!

you mean a case of a lunatic callin another mad
But truly speaking, though we pretend a lot in Niger, their is a limit to what we actually do and twosome or party is not one of them.

@Ikamefa
You think it odd, don't u? No matter how liberated we have become, I dont think we have gone bunkers like the western world.

Question for Nairalanders
I met her at a beach party sometime ago. It got somewhat serious and we catch our gig often . Suddenly I was transferred outa town for a six months contract and we remained in touch on phone. On getting back she requested that we have a twosome with a pal of hers. I thought it was odd and refused. A while later she wanted both me and my close pal to do it with her at once. One from behind and one in front at the same time. once again I refused. She called me yesterday morning and said it must be a party this week end with an extra for her mouth. Can u imagine that. Been a player for a while but I consider this odd
what should I do?

@crazy kid
But if you feel you want a chat section like the Yahoo type, then table your request to Seun, he’s in charge and who knows, he just might grant you your request.

I've done that already and that is why we are discussing this topic,
Have a nice day

@Reloaded
for married men it means the type they illicitly engage in behind there wives. Sex and sex only, no commitment, no engagement(except the one at the groin area ), no responsibility(there is a bigger liability at home )

@Czarskit
people like you can't complain since from time immemorial you've been cheating on yr girlfriend,and when you got married on your wife. You even cheat on the girl you have a casual relationship while married.
too bad

@crazy kid
whats d original purpose of nairaland if not to have noble minded Nigerians meet, exchange views and chat on a variety of issues same as yahoo chat or even better.
@czarskit
such a child
@lance_vader
you can't really say for sure. Seun has a mind of his own.

@Czarkit
u need one more than I do

Oluwaseun Osewa, great idea boy, this nairaland site and its compatriot nairalist .U are really doing great. More chicks to your harem . I've been wondering however whether you can take the lead again by establishin a fora where nigerians and many others can do real time person to person chat. Something like yahoo chat or somethin. Such a fora will enable nairalanders online to do real time chat with each other as if they are chatting on yahoo.
PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE make it possible.

What say u fellow nairalanders

@Reloaded
There are even two or more of them
check them out here ;
http://www.nairalist.com/lagos/dating/1095
http://www.nairalist.com/abuja/dating/142

Open the dating section of any State on Nairalist and take an average statistics of the ratio of guys to girls searching for romance. The ratio is of guys to babes is like 9.9/0.1 . In this era of smart playboys where guys(even those who are married) play around from one girl to another, one is surprised to still see tons and tons of guys looking for girls whose heart they will break. There was even one who quite 'opendentially' expressed a remorseless desire to get a girl irrespective of the fact that he is married. Quite a shame. . What is really the problem with guys? Most of the guys on nairalist romance have girlfriendssssssss. Yet they will not let innocent girls be. Why add more pains to the injury left by some other playboys like you? . Give it up boys. Get a life and let the sleeping dog lie. .
Fellow Nairalanders what say you?

@Iron Butt
you really look quite cute
you mind if we get to know each other
mind not that,
don't ever let him bring you down. People with low self esteem are sometimes also sadistic as it appears to be in the case of your ex-BF. He is down the pit of hell and wants someone to be with. you happen to be the unfortunate but available person to drag down with himself. Be grateful the relationship finally hit the rock. I bet he feels bitter in the heart except that he will never admit it
any way how do we really get to know each other better, a pretty gurl like u deserve a nice and caring guy like me. In any case, that sadist does not deserve you