For a change. I am a married man in love with a coworker. we are both in our 50th I love my wife as we have gone through many things in life. She is not the person that gets emotionally involved. She has some health issues; but life with her is good. Since I was a kid, I felt that I was missing somebody. I married my wife while in college, and had no sexual engaments with any other person. It is still been like that.

On the other side, I have known my coworker for close to eight years. We have had good chemistry since we met. When I am with her, it is explosive. I have not engaged in sex with her, not because we are not mutually attracted; but by being together, sex seems not necessary.

I am in love with my wife and I let her know that. I have also indicated to my wife that I am deeply in love with this coworker. Many of you are ignorant in what love means. You place love on just a legal paper that does not reflect what is right or wrong. Life changes so will people. You are saying that I should kick my wife out of my life because I do not love her as much as my coworker. Should stop to care for my wife by getting a divorce, or should I just isolate myself as my coworker is the love not for a life time but for eternity. I have always been in love with those two women, not three, four or what your ignorance believe will be a string of women because I am in love with two women. Place that hand on the bible and complain to God the Love is a marriage contract not a feeling of the heart. Raise your hand and through that first rock, if you believe that you are the righteous one and above God's work.