One of these must happen if you date him, either the relationship ends in marriage if he truly loves you or he use you to console himself and later leave when he is fine. It's your decision to make but your friend will feel betrayed. Personally I can't date my friend's ex

Aya, I understand, as painful as it is, I suggest you go lock yourself, grief, dust yourself and move. I've been there, but I took my time to cry it out and shut every picture, message and pretended like the guy never existed. Time heals all wounds.

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Nigerians are hypocrites especially Christians. Road block is rampant everywhere in Nigeria irrespective of the faith involved. I'm damn sure, a mosque is around that place where those guys prayed and that prayer wouldn't last for couple of minutes.

Don't Christians disturb the peace of people on the road while inviting you to their churches? You could recieve different sets of flyers, handbills, et al for church invitations. Why haven't Muslims complained about this?

Don't Christians knock on people's doors to preach espcially Jehovah witnesses?

Don't Christians preach in public transports?

Don't Christians disturb people everywhere with their speakers ?

Why haven't Muslims attacked them based on these. But you can call them names simply cos of 5 minutes Jumat prayer.

Get what I'm saying, churches started blocking roads as a result of security threat, and is usually one lane or you leave alternative road. But mosque having been blocking road long before now even federal road
I thought Christians were tolerant, well that just lives on the tong

Churches don't block Federal Roads, they only block the ones that leads to their, leaving alternative routes. And the blocking of roads by churches started after several attacks by bombers.

Well the girl is new, and usually when you are employed you are expected to do other responsibilities that may be added to you but from the look of things here she doesn't know that. Another thing she may be acting based on past experience so I will suggest you talk with her and also help her trust you. She is young so try on your part to help her as 'an older brother '

Just imagining the map, it's true we share the values with the igbos, it's also true that we want to be separated from the core North, but I don't believe the middle belt will want to be joined with biafrans, so I'm sure that is his opinion not the middle belt. I know because I'm from that region.

You want to prove a point but you don't even know how to do it. You visited your president and didn't feature him in your picture, then what have you achieved.

Seyi is doing a good job by ignoring her

I understand woman, you needed change because you are tired of the man, but must you kill him? Just look for one silly excuse, then pack your things and move on to freedom. Now you don cos trouble for your head, no freedom to knack the new guy and no husband.

She cares but cannot advice Seyi privately, and goes ahead to attribute all kind of diagnosis on the baby, does Kemi love that baby more than the girl's parents? Haba, this couple went through a lot to have that baby and you think they will not do everything possible within their power to care for her. Seyi has confirmed the baby has good doctors and even mentioned the hospital. You just see a baby's pictures online and conclude her health status.

I can't believe somebody as old as Kemi will behave like this. She is only bringing curse upon herself by insulting an innocent child.

Now this is way below the belt. Seyi should just ignore this woman. Her mental state needs to be checked, a sane African woman should never be caught saying such things.

Just because a child looks chubby does not mean the child is obese, which doctor confirm that. It was a challenge having that baby which is Seyi is always gushing over the baby on social media but I think it's time he exercise caution for the sake of the baby's future.

Create the enabling environment and people will be encouraged to showcase the country to the world.

I had a friend with a similar situation and it can be very frustrating. At a point he was wondering whether he was caused. You just have to develop a tough skin or else you end destroying your future.

Nice write up, 2016 till now has been difficult but I believe there is light at end of the tunnel